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Deleting messages.

By *averick5114 OP Man over a year ago

COPENHAGEN DENMARK & Congleton

Ok. Let's see if I can stir up another fight. lol.

Some of use have good memories and some not. Not a criticism, just a fact. Having said that. After making contact with someone and subsequent messages back and forth. How is it perceived if you delete messages from that person. Especially if they are a friend...? I only ask because I feel it is like throwing something away even though we have a good repore.

What is the general consensus please.

Thanks.

Mav.

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman over a year ago

little house on the praire

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By *nigmatic1Woman over a year ago

A seaside town near you!

If the rapport is there does it really matter whether you keep the messages or not?

I delete regularly lol

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman over a year ago

little house on the praire

I wouldnt even know if someone had deleted my last messages, its not something i look at

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Its not as if messages are from loved ones being sent to the trenches in WW1. Read enjoy, and move onto the next message u receive.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I block people who delete my messages

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By *he Queen of TartsWoman over a year ago
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My Own Little World

Do you mean replied and deleted?

Fine, I do it but keep the last message so I can read the thread still.

They need deleting as the old ones fall off the bottom of the page and can't be read anyway.

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By *lik and PaulCouple over a year ago

cahoots

I think they auto delete after a while anyway.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I regularly delete as messages go awol so need to find them and sometimes just delete the lot if i have to many to reply to ..apologies if anyones reading this who has messaged me and had no reply

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By *averick5114 OP Man over a year ago

COPENHAGEN DENMARK & Congleton

Mr S2016. Thanks. That's very true. I'll have to try harder to overcome this sensitivity in me. lol. Or maybe not. Mmmmm is that another topic I wonder.

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By *ackDMissMorganCouple over a year ago

Halifax

We delete after reading,as we can read the thread through other messages .

Miss

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman over a year ago

little house on the praire

"I block people who delete my messages"
if its a friend your talking to and they delete your past messages you block them?

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I block people who delete my messagesif its a friend your talking to and they delete your past messages you block them?"

Especially if its a 'friend'

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Everyone is different in how they manage their own mail boxes. Don't see the issue here.

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By *inky-MinxWoman over a year ago

Grantham

I, like most women I suspect, have to delete messages because they run off the page.

If it's a particularly important message then save it.

I also don't look to see if my messages are deleted

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman over a year ago

little house on the praire

"I block people who delete my messagesif its a friend your talking to and they delete your past messages you block them?

Especially if its a 'friend' "
can i ask why? Its not something ive ever thought about

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

If they are a site supporter they can still see the past email trail even if they delete some. It just makes it easier to keep on top of mail.

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By *nigmatic1Woman over a year ago

A seaside town near you!

"I block people who delete my messagesif its a friend your talking to and they delete your past messages you block them?

Especially if its a 'friend' "

Blimey ...that's a bit harsh!

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By *averick5114 OP Man over a year ago

COPENHAGEN DENMARK & Congleton

Thanks guys and Gals.

Given me something to think over. Personally. I don't mind. It just popped on conversation with one of my friends. And I got the impression, she was a little ticked off that I had deleted messages.

I agree mostly with the comments given and disagree with a few. I won't say which. But for now ( well exception to one friend) I'll continue as I have done.

Thanks for the feed back.

I'm sure I'll stir up another hornets nest at some point. But until then.

Happy Fabbing

Mav

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I tend to forget to reply to messages from friends. I think they just get used to it

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