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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Recently started chatting to a guy who is single and looking for meets. But his fb puts me off.
Every time they meet she leaves a veri that sounds more and more "hands off he is mine".
He has veried her once that I can see and she had veried him 2 or 3 times a week since June.
Now he publishes them but my question is would this put u off meeting someone? I get the feeling that psycho possibly isn't too far under the surface. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Yep, that would put me off big style.
Warning lights would be flashing for sure, had a bad experience with someone fb who caused me no end of grief so I'd certainly be keeping away.
Always go with your gut feeling |
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"It would put me off, not because she's sending those kind of verifications but because he's publishing them. I'd steer clear if them both."
yes thats my thoughts. She might just be getting carried away in postcoital bliss each time
Hes the one chosing to show them |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"It would put me off, not because she's sending those kind of verifications but because he's publishing them. I'd steer clear if them both."
Yes, exactly this. 2 to 3 verifications a week from the same person is a bit weird to my eyes... |
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"It would put me off, not because she's sending those kind of verifications but because he's publishing them. I'd steer clear if them both.
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I dont understand, why does it matter if hes publishing them though. I met someone three times and we both left each other verifications each time, it didnt mean anything. I didnt think he was only going to meet just me.  |
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By *uzy444Woman
over a year ago
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she does it, he allows it.if you are reading his veris, it bugs you..so you have to ask yourself why it bugs you..
right now i guess hes enjoying you both giving him the attention...so ask yourself if its worth it...
several times this type of thing has happened on here..i learnt the lesson that i was just another fuck and the person was (apparently blind)to the goings on of the 'established other' I extricated myself, before drama ensued. they didn't care and so i got my head round that and decided they weren't worth the agro...hugs OP x |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Does she have veries off any other guys? If not then chances are shes quite attached to this guy if they've been meeting 2 or 3 times a week for sex for the last 3 months. She'll either try and make him not want to meet you, or he could meet you but ask you not to verify or I dunno maybe it'll be fine. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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If you want to meet him go ahead. She is not your problem. You don't have to veri him so he can splash you on his profile. Crack on with what you're ok with and have fun. |
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By *XHNHWoman
over a year ago
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It would put me off to be honest, just as I dislike drama.
I have someone I see weekly, I verified him once after a few months just as he hadn't any recent ones and it was very generic, I am very cautious about not appearing to "cock my leg" , however he would display them if I did repeated ones, as I think he just wouldn't think like that |
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2-3 veris a week is a bit OTT, also if the tone of her veris is she is smitten then I would avoid. Hassle guaranteed if she is bunny boiler material.
He may well be flattered by the veris, he may also not be aware how off-putting 2-3 a week from the same woman may be. He may just be thinking the more veris he has the more likely he will get more meets.
(Left field option, he might have set up her profile himself in order to write lots of dodgy veris for himself....far fetched but hey I have had some right loony peeps message me with really crazy stuff so nothing would surprise me any more).
Good luck if you do choose to meet.
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By (user no longer on site)
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"It would put me off, not because she's sending those kind of verifications but because he's publishing them. I'd steer clear if them both.
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I dont understand, why does it matter if hes publishing them though. I met someone three times and we both left each other verifications each time, it didnt mean anything. I didnt think he was only going to meet just me. "
That's different, she said she verifys him a few times a week for a few months, sounds attached! Had a bad experience before so I'd choose to look onto the next profile. Plus I've had FBs from here and only verified them the once, don't see why you'd need to keep verifying? That's just me though.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I wouldn't want to meet a guy that's had his balls emptied 3 times a week. Once I've found a guy that I want to have sex with he has to refrain from wanking at least 3 days before we have sex. I want big full balls please. |
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"I wouldn't want to meet a guy that's had his balls emptied 3 times a week. Once I've found a guy that I want to have sex with he has to refrain from wanking at least 3 days before we have sex. I want big full balls please. "
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Depends on how much I liked him. If I liked him I'd meet him. It does sound dodgy but might be worth it.
I would only leave a vague social veri though.
I don't like drama or indiscreet people. If he was discreet it would be fine. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Mmmm I've decided not to meet him. I dislike drama and her veris are escalating to the point of hands off he is mine. She isn't meaning anyone and her profile states she isn't meeting (but clearing meeting this guy).
When I mentioned it to him he couldn't see why it would put people off and stated that he was only seeing his fb as he hadn't managed to meet anyone else yet but he wanted to broaden his fab experiences.
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Hes saying hes single. He has lots of verifications from the same woman on display so not hiding. Id probably think oh shes left a lot of verifications have a noisy at her profile and carry on it wouldnt play a part in whether i met him or not. Id either meet him or not but whiever else he has sex with is none of my business |
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"Mmmm I've decided not to meet him. I dislike drama and her veris are escalating to the point of hands off he is mine. She isn't meaning anyone and her profile states she isn't meeting (but clearing meeting this guy).
When I mentioned it to him he couldn't see why it would put people off and stated that he was only seeing his fb as he hadn't managed to meet anyone else yet but he wanted to broaden his fab experiences.
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well there you go simple explanation |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Mmmm I've decided not to meet him. I dislike drama and her veris are escalating to the point of hands off he is mine. She isn't meaning anyone and her profile states she isn't meeting (but clearing meeting this guy).
When I mentioned it to him he couldn't see why it would put people off and stated that he was only seeing his fb as he hadn't managed to meet anyone else yet but he wanted to broaden his fab experiences.
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He might have trouble broadening his fab experiences with those kind of veris.
Let's hope he's told her about his plans! |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"He might have trouble broadening his fab experiences with those kind of veris.
Let's hope he's told her about his plans!"
That's my thoughts. It reads that she thinks they are exclusive and he thinks they arent. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Recently started chatting to a guy who is single and looking for meets. But his fb puts me off.
Every time they meet she leaves a veri that sounds more and more "hands off he is mine".
He has veried her once that I can see and she had veried him 2 or 3 times a week since June.
Now he publishes them but my question is would this put u off meeting someone? I get the feeling that psycho possibly isn't too far under the surface."
Yes, it would put me off.
As would territory marking in the forum. |
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"Recently started chatting to a guy who is single and looking for meets. But his fb puts me off.
Every time they meet she leaves a veri that sounds more and more "hands off he is mine".
He has veried her once that I can see and she had veried him 2 or 3 times a week since June.
Now he publishes them but my question is would this put u off meeting someone? I get the feeling that psycho possibly isn't too far under the surface.
Yes, it would put me off.
As would territory marking in the forum. "
This happens? I just love everyone |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Recently started chatting to a guy who is single and looking for meets. But his fb puts me off.
Every time they meet she leaves a veri that sounds more and more "hands off he is mine".
He has veried her once that I can see and she had veried him 2 or 3 times a week since June.
Now he publishes them but my question is would this put u off meeting someone? I get the feeling that psycho possibly isn't too far under the surface.
Yes, it would put me off.
As would territory marking in the forum.
This happens? I just love everyone "
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