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over a year ago
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No unless specifically invited to stay the night. Meet someone once stayed the night then her ex turned up nxt morning after nightout with his mates. & yes somehow still had house key lol oh boy |
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"Would you automatically think this means you can stay the night"
No.... It's a totally different level of trust.
Come to mine to play and then leave fine...
Come to mine and I'll fall asleep and let a (possible) stranger have the run of my house, valuables, car keys, etc, and then let themselves out at 4am never to be seen again.... rather different!
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Well i just had a message from someone saying they where intetested in meeting but then went on to apologise that they would have to leave early in the morning so when i asked what he was on about he said id said i accomadate. Never entered my head someone would think that |
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"Well i just had a message from someone saying they where intetested in meeting but then went on to apologise that they would have to leave early in the morning so when i asked what he was on about he said id said i accomadate. Never entered my head someone would think that"
Sounds massively presumptuous of them!!
Even talking about the "accommodation" arrangements before you've definitely said you're up for meeting sounds like someone is either inexperienced or making rather big assumptions!
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Well i just had a message from someone saying they where intetested in meeting but then went on to apologise that they would have to leave early in the morning so when i asked what he was on about he said id said i accomadate. Never entered my head someone would think that"
It's a cheap night out! I wonder if I could go on holiday like that? Reminds me of the film "the swimmer".
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"Well i just had a message from someone saying they where intetested in meeting but then went on to apologise that they would have to leave early in the morning so when i asked what he was on about he said id said i accomadate. Never entered my head someone would think that
It's a cheap night out! I wonder if I could go on holiday like that? Reminds me of the film "the swimmer".
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i might just message guys that live at seaside resorts get myself a holiday(oh i already do that)  |
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By *andsonjohnMan
over a year ago
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"Would you automatically think this means you can stay the night"
No it means you can entertain with out the use of a hotel it doesn't mean someone will be staying over night unless its agreed on before hand . |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Would you automatically think this means you can stay the night
No it means you can entertain with out the use of a hotel it doesn't mean someone will be staying over night unless its agreed on before hand ."
 unless it's already agreed then no. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"No, I'd think he can meet at his house or a hotel."
Does it? I thought it just meant at my house but an hotel?, does everybody know that? If so going to alter profile, ladies please take note   |
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By *ynecplCouple
over a year ago
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Never assume anything, can accommodate could mean home or something else. We wait for the overnight invite but very rarely accept as we are early risers regardless of how late the night was. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Slightly off topic...should woman pay for hotels ? why shouldnt they
Id assume everyone goes halves"
I had a guy who wanted to meet at a hotel. However i dont have enough time for hotel meets. I can only ever spare 2hours at most. So i never really feel its worth it. I dont state accommodation. If he does that mean he pays or should i always offer to go halfs? |
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"Slightly off topic...should woman pay for hotels ? why shouldnt they
Id assume everyone goes halves
I had a guy who wanted to meet at a hotel. However i dont have enough time for hotel meets. I can only ever spare 2hours at most. So i never really feel its worth it. I dont state accommodation. If he does that mean he pays or should i always offer to go halfs? "
i accomadate so i wouldnt be paying half. But if on a whim i wanted to meet in a hotel id pay half |
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By *inzi LTV/TS
over a year ago
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"Would you automatically think this means you can stay the night"
I wouldn't expect it to mean a stopover but depending on distance it maybe a nice gesture, though once play stops, separate rooms for privicy. Unless it's been agreed before hand that the bed is shared. |
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