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By *uzy444 OP Woman
over a year ago
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"so genuine question,how many women on fab either single, or, as part of a couple, would really like to have a D/s regular meet relationship with a Domme. Im curious..."
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over a year ago
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"so genuine question,how many women on fab either single, or, as part of a couple, would really like to have a D/s regular meet relationship with a Domme. Im curious...really, no one? "
With a female Domme you mean? I'd like to try it as I haven't to date and it's on my to do list. Until I've tried it, don't know if/how it would work.
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"so genuine question,how many women on fab either single, or, as part of a couple, would really like to have a D/s regular meet relationship with a Domme. Im curious...really, no one? "
I am shocked too |
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By *uzy444 OP Woman
over a year ago
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"so genuine question,how many women on fab either single, or, as part of a couple, would really like to have a D/s regular meet relationship with a Domme. Im curious...really, no one?
With a female Domme you mean? I'd like to try it as I haven't to date and it's on my to do list. Until I've tried it, don't know if/how it would work.
Sarah "
yes with a Domme (me in fact) im feeling into interest, id quite like a kitty/ sub of my own...
so many bi females as part of couples seems to say they cant find a female playmate..i thought id ask as i dont sub for women or couples and ive had male subs before...wondered whether it appeals to some, thats all xx thanks for your response Sarah, maybe youd like to comment on how it would work, for someone like yourself in your particular situation...im interested in feedback x |
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By *uzy444 OP Woman
over a year ago
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"so genuine question,how many women on fab either single, or, as part of a couple, would really like to have a D/s regular meet relationship with a Domme. Im curious...really, no one?
I am shocked too"
there could be numerous reasons xx |
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By *uzy444 OP Woman
over a year ago
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"Having met you Suzy, you are now winning me over. Although it's not something that I have taken seriously in the past, my preconceptions weren't as you expected? "
i dont understand the question and where did you meet me..i dont recognise the name x
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How did I miss this thread? I've always been drawn to the D/s dynamics in a relationship it appeals to my naturally submissive side and as a bi woman I've lately become interested in further exploring my submissive side with a Domme. I can't say for a full relationship but I would like to see how the experience would differ from playing with a Dom so yes it appeals |
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"Having met you Suzy, you are now winning me over. Although it's not something that I have taken seriously in the past, my preconceptions weren't as you expected? i dont understand the question and where did you meet me..i dont recognise the name x"
It's ace.x
Like you I'm not sub with other women so not something I would seek out.x |
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By *uzy444 OP Woman
over a year ago
in the suffolk countryside |
"How did I miss this thread? I've always been drawn to the D/s dynamics in a relationship it appeals to my naturally submissive side and as a bi woman I've lately become interested in further exploring my submissive side with a Domme. I can't say for a full relationship but I would like to see how the experience would differ from playing with a Dom so yes it appeals "
relationships dont have to be 24/7..but they have to have some regularity imo..otherwise aftercare etc, wouldn't be effective and well being of the sub is predominant, of course x
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By *uzy444 OP Woman
over a year ago
in the suffolk countryside |
"Having met you Suzy, you are now winning me over. Although it's not something that I have taken seriously in the past, my preconceptions weren't as you expected? i dont understand the question and where did you meet me..i dont recognise the name x
It's ace.x
Like you I'm not sub with other women so not something I would seek out.x"
hey sweet..yes its an odd thing, i feel its my bisexual orientation, im just more attracted to being the masculine energy, with women, i'm attracted in this way,in the BDSM scene, to highly feminine women..do you find that too? x |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Having met you Suzy, you are now winning me over. Although it's not something that I have taken seriously in the past, my preconceptions weren't as you expected? i dont understand the question and where did you meet me..i dont recognise the name x
It's ace.x
Like you I'm not sub with other women so not something I would seek out.xhey sweet..yes its an odd thing, i feel its my bisexual orientation, im just more attracted to being the masculine energy, with women, i'm attracted in this way,in the BDSM scene, to highly feminine women..do you find that too? x"
Yes, I'd say that about sums it up.x |
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By *uzy444 OP Woman
over a year ago
in the suffolk countryside |
"Having met you Suzy, you are now winning me over. Although it's not something that I have taken seriously in the past, my preconceptions weren't as you expected? i dont understand the question and where did you meet me..i dont recognise the name x
It's ace.x
Like you I'm not sub with other women so not something I would seek out.xhey sweet..yes its an odd thing, i feel its my bisexual orientation, im just more attracted to being the masculine energy, with women, i'm attracted in this way,in the BDSM scene, to highly feminine women..do you find that too? x
Yes, I'd say that about sums it up.x"
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By *uzy444 OP Woman
over a year ago
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"Suzy as you know my history you'd know my answer however as it's you it's something we can explore together x"
that you would trust me that much, is humbling xx Thankyou xx
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By (user no longer on site)
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"so genuine question,how many women on fab either single, or, as part of a couple, would really like to have a D/s regular meet relationship with a Domme. Im curious..."
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"so genuine question,how many women on fab either single, or, as part of a couple, would really like to have a D/s regular meet relationship with a Domme. Im curious..."
Sorry I didn't know you meant fem Dom , sighs and walks off |
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"Having met you Suzy, you are now winning me over. Although it's not something that I have taken seriously in the past, my preconceptions weren't as you expected? i dont understand the question and where did you meet me..i dont recognise the name x"
You know who I am now though |
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I'd be interested but it's a challenge to find a woman capable of dominating me.
I'm switch but my more dominant side always come out with women. As a Domme I find it very easy to find sub bi women and have quite a few regular and some less frequent playmates, I seem to attract them! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Dominating woman always fascinated me.. My partner is dominant in our relationship I am very submissive! To find a Dom woman to punish me with my partner is hard ?? |
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By *otForSoftiesWoman
over a year ago
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"Dominating woman always fascinated me.. My partner is dominant in our relationship I am very submissive! To find a Dom woman to punish me with my partner is hard ??"
You look rather delicious 
I get a fair few requests from couples but the problem is often guys want me to dominate their woman by telling what they want me to do, how that'll happen and how/when they'll join in or watch. Stating limits is natural, double domming is good but if someone directs and constrains me then it's not dominating! I've turned down two guys who wanted this in the last month and neither could see what the issue was.
If you're open to my option then message me. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"so genuine question,how many women on fab either single, or, as part of a couple, would really like to have a D/s regular meet relationship with a Domme. Im curious..."
Yes it's something wife and I have discussed, it's something she's wanted to try. |
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By *uzy444 OP Woman
over a year ago
in the suffolk countryside |
thank you for all your imput to this thread
D/s relationships are totally unique to the people and circumstances involved..
i guess its about knowing what you offer and finding a person with the needs of what you can deliver...i shall mull....xxx
it would be interesting to read however the priorities that women put in their needs of a Domme..im wondering if there is any one thing they 'need'..As a Domme i know i require psychological/ emotional access, so i can become empathic. i guess it would be easier if i met someone and felt that immediately..because then i would already know what they need..i feel thats my strength...
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By (user no longer on site)
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"How did I miss this thread? I've always been drawn to the D/s dynamics in a relationship it appeals to my naturally submissive side and as a bi woman I've lately become interested in further exploring my submissive side with a Domme. I can't say for a full relationship but I would like to see how the experience would differ from playing with a Dom so yes it appeals relationships dont have to be 24/7..but they have to have some regularity imo..otherwise aftercare etc, wouldn't be effective and well being of the sub is predominant, of course x"
a lady dom who knows her stuff wow very rare on here most who want dom/sub don't understand the dynamics  |
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By *uzy444 OP Woman
over a year ago
in the suffolk countryside |
"How did I miss this thread? I've always been drawn to the D/s dynamics in a relationship it appeals to my naturally submissive side and as a bi woman I've lately become interested in further exploring my submissive side with a Domme. I can't say for a full relationship but I would like to see how the experience would differ from playing with a Dom so yes it appeals relationships dont have to be 24/7..but they have to have some regularity imo..otherwise aftercare etc, wouldn't be effective and well being of the sub is predominant, of course x a lady dom who knows her stuff wow very rare on here most who want dom/sub don't understand the dynamics "
i've had a successful male sub before and i take great joy in leading someone into their own unknown..i think being a sub helps too..i know how it feels..thanks, i do my homework, know my own strengths and weaknesses and apply that knowledge positively x |
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By *uzy444 OP Woman
over a year ago
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"Exactly Suzy, you have to both start on a level playing field and take it from there. I think I told you why I couldn't have a D/s relationship with my ex "
yes..it was odd when i met the male sub i had, because i wasnt looking for one, just in social conversation, i knew i had what it took for his journey...ive never advertised...i guess i can just identify those i can compliment and those i cant..not really stuck on the 'as you start off' premise, though, quite often i have had a lover that has barriers, presenting themselves as something and then shifting to something else..i trust my gut instinct, everyone has defences x |
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"Exactly Suzy, you have to both start on a level playing field and take it from there. I think I told you why I couldn't have a D/s relationship with my ex yes..it was odd when i met the male sub i had, because i wasnt looking for one, just in social conversation, i knew i had what it took for his journey...ive never advertised...i guess i can just identify those i can compliment and those i cant..not really stuck on the 'as you start off' premise, though, quite often i have had a lover that has barriers, presenting themselves as something and then shifting to something else..i trust my gut instinct, everyone has defences x"
it's physical emotional sensual erotic mind body and soul |
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By *uzy444 OP Woman
over a year ago
in the suffolk countryside |
"Exactly Suzy, you have to both start on a level playing field and take it from there. I think I told you why I couldn't have a D/s relationship with my ex yes..it was odd when i met the male sub i had, because i wasnt looking for one, just in social conversation, i knew i had what it took for his journey...ive never advertised...i guess i can just identify those i can compliment and those i cant..not really stuck on the 'as you start off' premise, though, quite often i have had a lover that has barriers, presenting themselves as something and then shifting to something else..i trust my gut instinct, everyone has defences xit's physical emotional sensual erotic mind body and soul "
it is, or it can be more mentoring..depends on the dynamic ..but definitely holistic x |
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been thinking as i paint about this and the op - im certain im a sub more than anything else - and its only something ive touched on a little bit - so far x |
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"been thinking as i paint about this and the op - im certain im a sub more than anything else - and its only something ive touched on a little bit - so far x"
mentoring and exploring the submissiveness is a good thing I'm very much of the mind that a good dom comes form a former sub x |
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This last statement is based on personal experience as a former sub of mine is now a very wealthy and successful dom in the USA and I'm lucky enough to have yearly visits from her when she tours |
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By *uzy444 OP Woman
over a year ago
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"been thinking as i paint about this and the op - im certain im a sub more than anything else - and its only something ive touched on a little bit - so far x"
you are a very feminine woman. you are also a strong woman. i believe you have traits that a beautifully submissive, but it would take time and trust for you to show your deeper vulnerabilities (nout wrong with that) the question is what do you feel you will get out of it, what will you gain from it..that's the pay off for the control you have to let go of..right?xx
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I'm following this thread with great interest, great thread suzzi thank you, your imput would be appreciated if you care to share xx"
I don't think there is a lot that I can add to the thread, not being a woman and all, I've often wondered if I could successfully Dom a guy, without any sexual interaction, because I'm just not built that way, it would be a challenge, and lord knows I like a challenge, but when it comes to having an opinion on all girl bdsm, I would only be guessing |
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By *uzy444 OP Woman
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"been thinking as i paint about this and the op - im certain im a sub more than anything else - and its only something ive touched on a little bit - so far xmentoring and exploring the submissiveness is a good thing I'm very much of the mind that a good dom comes form a former sub x "
i love being sub,my natural inclination i thought was to be more Domme.as i am an alpha in my life, always have been.i realised i had certain veils defending my femininity..i still do...thats the journey for all women i feel, and empowering other women is a passion of mine..if leading them somewhere where they can safely empower thamselves is possible, i want to be able to be the best at offering that x |
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"been thinking as i paint about this and the op - im certain im a sub more than anything else - and its only something ive touched on a little bit - so far xyou are a very feminine woman. you are also a strong woman. i believe you have traits that a beautifully submissive, but it would take time and trust for you to show your deeper vulnerabilities (nout wrong with that) the question is what do you feel you will get out of it, what will you gain from it..that's the pay off for the control you have to let go of..right?xx"
at the moment in my life there is one person only that i would trust totally - but a few good friends that are lingering on the edge - this is for all things nothing sexual - i have been through a lot that has left me - i shall say wary - but damaged is probably more the truth of it - to let go completely to someone i would have to have them know one hell of a lot about me so they understand where my insecurities lay - so there would be a lot of heart searching - that is if my understanding of this is that is has to be deeply personal not just sex - but to be a true submissive to a person it would be very special and so yes i think they would become a huge part of my being/thoughts/????? -- or am i barking up the wrong tree completely |
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"been thinking as i paint about this and the op - im certain im a sub more than anything else - and its only something ive touched on a little bit - so far xmentoring and exploring the submissiveness is a good thing I'm very much of the mind that a good dom comes form a former sub x "
just to add i have met and played with suzy - adore her as a person and we rub along more than well enough - if the sub/dom thing is just sex then i do sometimes want to just take control and do stuff to a person - not sure subs do that - ive looked into this before and its a massive subject |
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By *uzy444 OP Woman
over a year ago
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"been thinking as i paint about this and the op - im certain im a sub more than anything else - and its only something ive touched on a little bit - so far xyou are a very feminine woman. you are also a strong woman. i believe you have traits that a beautifully submissive, but it would take time and trust for you to show your deeper vulnerabilities (nout wrong with that) the question is what do you feel you will get out of it, what will you gain from it..that's the pay off for the control you have to let go of..right?xx
at the moment in my life there is one person only that i would trust totally - but a few good friends that are lingering on the edge - this is for all things nothing sexual - i have been through a lot that has left me - i shall say wary - but damaged is probably more the truth of it - to let go completely to someone i would have to have them know one hell of a lot about me so they understand where my insecurities lay - so there would be a lot of heart searching - that is if my understanding of this is that is has to be deeply personal not just sex - but to be a true submissive to a person it would be very special and so yes i think they would become a huge part of my being/thoughts/????? -- or am i barking up the wrong tree completely "
no you are in the same tree..its not just 'sex'..some D/s dynamics dont even include sexual activities. yes its a deeply trusting dynamic, as well as a journey of self discovery..xxx its intimate on all levels |
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By *uzy444 OP Woman
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"been thinking as i paint about this and the op - im certain im a sub more than anything else - and its only something ive touched on a little bit - so far xmentoring and exploring the submissiveness is a good thing I'm very much of the mind that a good dom comes form a former sub x
just to add i have met and played with suzy - adore her as a person and we rub along more than well enough - if the sub/dom thing is just sex then i do sometimes want to just take control and do stuff to a person - not sure subs do that - ive looked into this before and its a massive subject"
love you too..no they dont or the learn not to'defend' or take control, that's a training and structure thing though where trust is built within limits and then soft limits are gradually extended..all safe, sane and consensual though x |
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It wouldn't be possible to have a Dom/ sub relationship as such with me , as I will always want to be in an exclusive relationship with my husband .
I would be happy to be your sub for a night though .... And if you wanted to really push boundaries it could be a great night . Obviously I would want my husband there too , but I would be willing to do anything you asked ( as long as there isn't too much pain ) .
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By *uzy444 OP Woman
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"It wouldn't be possible to have a Dom/ sub relationship as such with me , as I will always want to be in an exclusive relationship with my husband .
I would be happy to be your sub for a night though .... And if you wanted to really push boundaries it could be a great night . Obviously I would want my husband there too , but I would be willing to do anything you asked ( as long as there isn't too much pain ) .
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wow im honoured . thankyou.im kind of speechless..xxx  |
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