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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Seriously have just been asked out for a social, little walk and a chat. He wanted to meet now! After explaining that I couldn't do it today as I am a Single mum and needed notice to get a sitter he told me to bring them with me!!
Lol....really? I feel that would be very irresponsible of me.
He didn't understand this.
This is a new one to me.  |
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"Seriously have just been asked out for a social, little walk and a chat. He wanted to meet now! After explaining that I couldn't do it today as I am a Single mum and needed notice to get a sitter he told me to bring them with me!!
Lol....really? I feel that would be very irresponsible of me.
He didn't understand this.
This is a new one to me. "
He sounds like a right prick.
Hope you have already blocked him! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"We had a last minute social about 9pm one night and the turned up with there 18month daughter x
Surely not? "
Yep....blocked them as soon as they went x |
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By *mmmMaybeCouple
over a year ago
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Just NO!! & block..
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Still not as bad as the see you next Tuesday who asked H to take a photo of her bits while still in the same room as our four year old though..
Shame for the rest of you but because of this & other lesser instances single guys are blocked..
Soz to the decent ones but you do appear to be outnumbered tbh.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"We had a last minute social about 9pm one night and the turned up with there 18month daughter x
Surely not?
Yep....blocked them as soon as they went x"
I can't believe you let them through the door! |
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"Seriously have just been asked out for a social, little walk and a chat. He wanted to meet now! After explaining that I couldn't do it today as I am a Single mum and needed notice to get a sitter he told me to bring them with me!!
Lol....really? I feel that would be very irresponsible of me.
He didn't understand this.
This is a new one to me. "
just tell them their going to meet their uncle Jack  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I've had that before. Also guys that tell me what I should do with my kids just so I could meet them.
Guys even told me to put them to bed so they could come over.
My kids come first! I only meet when I have the time and my kids are happy. Not when I get told to do it!
As for bringing the kids along.....seriously? What is wrong with men??? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Seriously have just been asked out for a social, little walk and a chat. He wanted to meet now! After explaining that I couldn't do it today as I am a Single mum and needed notice to get a sitter he told me to bring them with me!!
Lol....really? I feel that would be very irresponsible of me.
He didn't understand this.
This is a new one to me. "
Fab outraged I am.
Seriously.
He's either a really nice man or a murderous paedophile. |
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"Just NO!! & block..
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Still not as bad as the see you next Tuesday who asked H to take a photo of her bits while still in the same room as our four year old though..
Shame for the rest of you but because of this & other lesser instances single guys are blocked..
Soz to the decent ones but you do appear to be outnumbered tbh.
S"
Can't say as I blame you, even as a blocked single male. Better safe than sorry. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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actually a friend of mine, her father used to bring her to meets with women.
She didn't understand for years why she was left alone in a strange room for ages.
Dawned on her some time later and it took years of therapy to overcome it all. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Seriously have just been asked out for a social, little walk and a chat. He wanted to meet now! After explaining that I couldn't do it today as I am a Single mum and needed notice to get a sitter he told me to bring them with me!!
Lol....really? I feel that would
be very irresponsible of me.
He didn't understand this.
This is a new one to me.
Fab outraged I am.
Seriously.
He's either a really nice man or a murderous paedophile. "
He probably was just being nice, but I have no idea who he is. I've never met him. So I certainly wouldn't be taking my children to meet him. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Seriously have just been asked out for a social, little walk and a chat. He wanted to meet now! After explaining that I couldn't do it today as I am a Single mum and needed notice to get a sitter he told me to bring them with me!!
Lol....really? I feel that would
be very irresponsible of me.
He didn't understand this.
This is a new one to me.
Fab outraged I am.
Seriously.
He's either a really nice man or a murderous paedophile.
He probably was just being nice, but I have no idea who he is. I've never met him. So I certainly wouldn't be taking my children to meet him. "
of course you won't.
they're your priority
their safety and their childhood is to be protected at all times |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Years ago when we were young and naive, we had a social meet early afternoon with a couple. Decided to meet them later on that evening for some fun. We were at there house, chatting. Heard noises upstairs. We asked them what was going on. They said their 6 year old son was in his room and not too worry about it. 
We got the hell out of there. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Years ago when we were young and naive, we had a social meet early afternoon with a couple. Decided to meet them later on that evening for some fun. We were at there house, chatting. Heard noises upstairs. We asked them what was going on. They said their 6 year old son was in his room and not too worry about it.
We got the hell out of there. "
that gives me a horror like feeling in my tummy.
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By *iewMan
over a year ago
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"We had a last minute social about 9pm one night and the turned up with there 18month daughter x
then again, the desperation displayed on here by some on a daily basis, why am I surprised?!! "
 both genders |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Well given the number of people whose posts suggest their children are an inconvenience who get in the way of them getting laid, I'm not hugely surprised. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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he knows what a social means i guess, like there will be no sex involved.
i've taken my kids out with someone i had casual sex with, he also used to buy them takeaways if he wanted to get us one. some people just aren't a threat to your kids, that is all. in fact most people aren't but you won't know who is and that's the problem.
depends how old your kids are but i think they should know there are other options available to them than monogamy. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Right this might be a bit controversial from me and whilst id never actually do that and agree with everyone id probs block for even suggesting it..
but realistically is he not just another man, another stranger you could easily walk past in a park with your children there... do you have male friends?
the difference is you exchanged a few messages via a swingers website and suddenly its perverse to suggest that a man from online is suddenly wrong ..
yet by total fluke you could in fact pass this guy in the street or whilst shopping one day and yet there is no malice or ill inetent there? |
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If I had young children I wouldn't even mention it on here let alone take them to a social or invite someone to my house from here. I know it could be argued that you could meet a man or woman in a bar etc but I would apply the same rules. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Right this might be a bit controversial from me and whilst id never actually do that and agree with everyone id probs block for even suggesting it..
but realistically is he not just another man, another stranger you could easily walk past in a park with your children there... do you have male friends?
the difference is you exchanged a few messages via a swingers website and suddenly its perverse to suggest that a man from online is suddenly wrong ..
yet by total fluke you could in fact pass this guy in the street or whilst shopping one day and yet there is no malice or ill inetent there? "
I never implied that I thought he was a pervert!
Just a man that I don't know suggesting a nice country walk. Maybe I am over protective of my children but I don't tend to introduce them to anyone new until I feel I know them myself. I also don't feel I would want to have to lie about who he is or why we are meeting him.
I would definitely feel uncomfortable meeting with anyone who decided to bring their children along. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Well given the number of people whose posts suggest their children are an inconvenience who get in the way of them getting laid, I'm not hugely surprised. "
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"We had a last minute social about 9pm one night and the turned up with there 18month daughter x
Surely not?
Yep....blocked them as soon as they went x"
you let them in?! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Seriously have just been asked out for a social, little walk and a chat. He wanted to meet now! After explaining that I couldn't do it today as I am a Single mum and needed notice to get a sitter he told me to bring them with me!!
Lol....really? I feel that would be very irresponsible of me.
He didn't understand this.
This is a new one to me. "
I look after a three year old and a guy who wanted to meet me there and then told me to give the little one some calpol and to give an extra spoonful to make sure she fell asleep. Needless to say that was an instant block |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Seriously have just been asked out for a social, little walk and a chat. He wanted to meet now! After explaining that I couldn't do it today as I am a Single mum and needed notice to get a sitter he told me to bring them with me!!
Lol....really? I feel that would be very irresponsible of me.
He didn't understand this.
This is a new one to me. "
eww sounds rather dodgy to me. whos to say he isnt a paedophile.. so wrong to say bring your kids. |
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By *iewMan
over a year ago
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"In my opinion
Anyone who tags there kids along need reporting to children's services and them kids removed from there care
Just saying "
Really.
I don't think it merits that. I would think child services will be already stretched
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"In my opinion
Anyone who tags there kids along need reporting to children's services and them kids removed from there care
Just saying "
because social services have never handed any children over to peadophiles have they?  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"In my opinion
Anyone who tags there kids along need reporting to children's services and them kids removed from there care
Just saying
because social services have never handed any children over to peadophiles have they? "
The news speaks volumes I guess |
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By *kgeminiMan
over a year ago
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I had heard of one twat of a bloke who wanted to meet mother's so he could take his kid for them to play downstairs with her kids while he played with the mum upstairs!
That's not going to mess your kids up to much! |
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apart from pointing out he's a knob to even think you would 