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Have you ever fallen in love with someone you shouldn't have fallen in love with?
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Now when you say shouldn't have,how do you mean? Someone else's partner or someone who turned out to be a twat?"
You have answered you own question! The outcome is immaterial but have you ever fallen in love you shouldn't have fallen in love with? |
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By *lla_maiWoman
over a year ago
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Looking back I dont think falling in love with any of my exes was a good thing now. Although at the time it felt right and there was no reason not to. i have no regrets but its taught me alot |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Yes but the whole thing was built on lies. which by the time I found out it was too late and I was in deep! 
Never mind, it's something I have definitely learned from and I don't regret it at all.
In fact I thank him as it has made me stronger  |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Currently in love with someone who not only doesn't love me back, but who is also facing life in prison.
So yes
Oh goodness"
Yes goodness that's an awful predicament |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Currently in love with someone who not only doesn't love me back, but who is also facing life in prison.
So yes
Oh goodness
Yes goodness that's an awful predicament"
He's been accused of a horrible crime. I (obviously) don't believe he did it. But whether he did or not, the jury could send him away for a really long time.
Heartbroken is an understatement. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Currently in love with someone who not only doesn't love me back, but who is also facing life in prison.
So yes
Oh goodness
Yes goodness that's an awful predicament
He's been accused of a horrible crime. I (obviously) don't believe he did it. But whether he did or not, the jury could send him away for a really long time.
Heartbroken is an understatement. "
If he is found guilty will your love diminish? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Oh gawd yes, yes, yes. It can be wretched, glorious, sweet, painful heartache -- and the feels can be overwhelmingly addictive.
I love and hate falling in love with someone I shouldn't.
And in lust too.  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Currently in love with someone who not only doesn't love me back, but who is also facing life in prison.
So yes
Oh goodness
Yes goodness that's an awful predicament
He's been accused of a horrible crime. I (obviously) don't believe he did it. But whether he did or not, the jury could send him away for a really long time.
Heartbroken is an understatement.
If he is found guilty will your love diminish?"
I can't imagine it will. I think the only thing that could change how I feel about him would be if he was actually guilty. Then I'd feel pretty ill. But I really genuinely don't believe he did it. I'd never have gone near him if i did. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Oh gawd yes, yes, yes. It can be wretched, glorious, sweet, painful heartache -- and the feels can be overwhelmingly addictive.
I love and hate falling in love with someone I shouldn't.
And in lust too. "
Lust is easy to get over. I fall in lust 10 times a day............lust and love are easily separated by a broken heart? |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Currently in love with someone who not only doesn't love me back, but who is also facing life in prison.
So yes
Oh goodness
Yes goodness that's an awful predicament
He's been accused of a horrible crime. I (obviously) don't believe he did it. But whether he did or not, the jury could send him away for a really long time.
Heartbroken is an understatement.
If he is found guilty will your love diminish?
I can't imagine it will. I think the only thing that could change how I feel about him would be if he was actually guilty. Then I'd feel pretty ill. But I really genuinely don't believe he did it. I'd never have gone near him if i did. "
I truly hope that it works out for you both. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Oh gawd yes, yes, yes. It can be wretched, glorious, sweet, painful heartache -- and the feels can be overwhelmingly addictive.
I love and hate falling in love with someone I shouldn't.
And in lust too. Lust is easy to get over. I fall in lust 10 times a day............lust and love are easily separated by a broken heart?"
This is true. I do all the falling.
Clumsy bint. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Oh gawd yes, yes, yes. It can be wretched, glorious, sweet, painful heartache -- and the feels can be overwhelmingly addictive.
I love and hate falling in love with someone I shouldn't.
And in lust too. Lust is easy to get over. I fall in lust 10 times a day............lust and love are easily separated by a broken heart?
This is true. I do all the falling.
Clumsy bint. "
I think you are being harsh on yourself!
As the bard puts it in a sonnet
Let me not to the marriage of true minds
Admit impediments. Love is not love
Which alters when it alteration finds,
Or bends with the remover to remove:
O no; it is an ever-fixed mark,
That looks on tempests, and is never shaken;
It is the star to every wandering bark,
Whose worth's unknown, although his height be taken.
Love's not Time's fool, though rosy lips and cheeks
Within his bending sickle's compass come;
Love alters not with his brief hours and weeks,
But bears it out even to the edge of doom.
If this be error and upon me proved, I never writ, nor no (wo)man ever loved. |
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Its weird. Not loved but ive met some twats in my life with the first guy i lived with being king twat.
But if i hadnt met any of them i wouldnt appreciate the guys in my later life and i might also have taken jay for granted and not appreciate wnat ive got.
So im going to hail or twats you helped make me the person i am today |
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By *icketysplitsWoman
over a year ago
Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound |
"I don't think so.
Believe me you would know as only love can tear you apart."
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=zuuObGsB0No
I think you might be happier if you change your playlist, OP.
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"I don't think so.
Believe me you would know as only love can tear you apart.
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=zuuObGsB0No
I think you might be happier if you change your playlist, OP.
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Nooooooooooo Saturday of maudlin mayhem!
Try this
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=UgAFcvIw8J4 |
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By *icketysplitsWoman
over a year ago
Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound |
"I don't think so.
Believe me you would know as only love can tear you apart.
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=zuuObGsB0No
I think you might be happier if you change your playlist, OP.
Nooooooooooo Saturday of maudlin mayhem!
Try this
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=UgAFcvIw8J4"
Noooo! When the violin's start it reminds me of someone. |
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By *icketysplitsWoman
over a year ago
Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound |
"Yes and the fact we speak daily makes it harder but the thought of not speaking to him...... xxx"
It's putting off the inevitable. Trust me, the healing starts when you cut the ties. Then it's safe to return to friendship.
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"I don't think so.
Believe me you would know as only love can tear you apart.
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=zuuObGsB0No
I think you might be happier if you change your playlist, OP.
Nooooooooooo Saturday of maudlin mayhem!
Try this
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=UgAFcvIw8J4
Noooo! When the violin's start it reminds me of someone. "
Maybe this then!
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=mWOTdt9Bovk |
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By *icketysplitsWoman
over a year ago
Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound |
"I don't think so.
Believe me you would know as only love can tear you apart.
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=zuuObGsB0No
I think you might be happier if you change your playlist, OP.
Nooooooooooo Saturday of maudlin mayhem!
Try this
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=UgAFcvIw8J4
Noooo! When the violin's start it reminds me of someone.
Maybe this then!
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=mWOTdt9Bovk"
Choon! |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"I don't think so.
Believe me you would know as only love can tear you apart.
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=zuuObGsB0No
I think you might be happier if you change your playlist, OP.
Nooooooooooo Saturday of maudlin mayhem!
Try this
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=UgAFcvIw8J4
Noooo! When the violin's start it reminds me of someone.
Maybe this then!
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=mWOTdt9Bovk
Choon! "
Of the highest quality! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Yes and the fact we speak daily makes it harder but the thought of not speaking to him...... xxx
It's putting off the inevitable. Trust me, the healing starts when you cut the ties. Then it's safe to return to friendship.
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I'm not ready to yet but I know that time will come. Xxx |
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