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I didnt want to know. ButvMy ex's ex..is not his ex..open facebook page
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Myself and J split. He told me about the second divorce. We dated and etc hard. Then I found out not exclusive..I hit ultimatum and walked...
He said he wasn't ready for a long term relationship. Then he got a sub...heavy negotiation from her master...
Plus he was part of a gangbang team for a couple..
His facebook girlfriend, is a regular relationships......whom I didn't know about until I allowed myself to look him up after six months...keeps post lovely couple pics...which he doesn't know I know...
I have left them but??? |
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"Myself and J split. He told me about the second divorce. We dated and etc hard. Then I found out not exclusive..I hit ultimatum and walked...
He said he wasn't ready for a long term relationship. Then he got a sub...heavy negotiation from her master...
Plus he was part of a gangbang team for a couple..
His facebook girlfriend, is a regular relationships......whom I didn't know about until I allowed myself to look him up after six months...keeps post lovely couple pics...which he doesn't know I know...
I have left them but???"
i would step away from either the drink or the forums if i were you.
sounds like a messy break up with lots of un truths being told |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I'm sorry, I have no clue what is going on. Who's with who and doing what? And where does the D/s come into it? And then Facebook?!
This is like me watching those Spanish soap operas armed just with my B in GCSE Spanish from half a lifetime ago. |
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"Myself and J split. He told me about the second divorce. We dated and etc hard. Then I found out not exclusive..I hit ultimatum and walked...
He said he wasn't ready for a long term relationship. Then he got a sub...heavy negotiation from her master...
Plus he was part of a gangbang team for a couple..
His facebook girlfriend, is a regular relationships......whom I didn't know about until I allowed myself to look him up after six months...keeps post lovely couple pics...which he doesn't know I know...
I have left them but???"
I know I've had half a bottle of red but your posts never make sense! |
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By *lla_maiWoman
over a year ago
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I am guessing that, you and him were together and he was still seeing his ex (as he told you) at the same time. They were actually in a relationship and you were on the side so to speak. He told you he wasnt ready for a serious relationship it was just fun.
Now you have found out that him and his "ex" are serious and have been together throughout your relationship with him
Am i on the right tracks? |
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"I am guessing that, you and him were together and he was still seeing his ex (as he told you) at the same time. They were actually in a relationship and you were on the side so to speak. He told you he wasnt ready for a serious relationship it was just fun.
Now you have found out that him and his "ex" are serious and have been together throughout your relationship with him
Am i on the right tracks?"
If you're right you get an honorary degree in gobbledegook  |
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By *lla_maiWoman
over a year ago
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"I am guessing that, you and him were together and he was still seeing his ex (as he told you) at the same time. They were actually in a relationship and you were on the side so to speak. He told you he wasnt ready for a serious relationship it was just fun.
Now you have found out that him and his "ex" are serious and have been together throughout your relationship with him
Am i on the right tracks?
If you're right you get an honorary degree in gobbledegook "
Its what i majored in  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I'm glad I'm smoking summat stupid...
Explains why I can't understand! 
Mind passing that? I think it might make this clearer for me!  "
Hope it's Jamaican Old Holbern because I think I'll pop round, if that's okay, this sort of intrigue is too much for this time of night! |
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By *icketysplitsWoman
over a year ago
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"She is still posting pics of the two of them as happy as almost engaged...half the. Time he was after my knickers. I have kept quiet"
Maybe they are happy together.
Just because he was in your knickers doesn't mean that they don't have happiness (or what passes for it for them) together.
Leave them alone and live your own life.
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By *igeiaWoman
over a year ago
Bristol |
"Have I had too much wine or does anyone else not get it?!  "
She was seeing someone but walked away when he wouldn't be exclusive since he had other things going on like some BDSM and gangbang shenanigans. She has since discovered that he had then and still now has a primary relationship outside of the purely sexual ones. I think. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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i just wouldn't give a shit if i was you.
if he'd contacted you then fair enough you'd have a right to be pissed off but you've looked him up for what reason? |
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By *amissCouple
over a year ago
chelmsford |
"Have I had too much wine or does anyone else not get it?!
She was seeing someone but walked away when he wouldn't be exclusive since he had other things going on like some BDSM and gangbang shenanigans. She has since discovered that he had then and still now has a primary relationship outside of the purely sexual ones. I think."
Mmm....maybe  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Have I had too much wine or does anyone else not get it?! "
I don't think it's you who's had too much wine .
After reading more of OPs posts the ''cheesy dick' one is one of my all time faves but the memory of the smell of breast fed baby poo came flooding back .
Good riddance to the dodgy ex OP, onwards and upwards. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"It's like watching eastenders after being on a night out ... Confused lool
Confusing before a night out lol"
You will need the drink now think k might after reading all his |
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"Have I had too much wine or does anyone else not get it?!
She was seeing someone but walked away when he wouldn't be exclusive since he had other things going on like some BDSM and gangbang shenanigans. She has since discovered that he had then and still now has a primary relationship outside of the purely sexual ones. I think."
Brains as well as beauty  |
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By *amissCouple
over a year ago
chelmsford |
"Why is she not joining in the conversation?
Too much rum perhaps?
Ah ha me hearties! Where's me parrot!
Ah ha me hearties! Where's me parrot! Where's me parrot! Squark"
I think he must have left |
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By *icketysplitsWoman
over a year ago
Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound |
"What?
I mean, what? 
This is even worse than the nipples thing
Is it a full moon?
Oh yeah it kind of is  "
It was last night so we still have the pull tonight.
I know people poo poo the full moon/lunacy connection but every month the Fab Lounge confirms it. |
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By *amissCouple
over a year ago
chelmsford |
"What?
I mean, what?
This is even worse than the nipples thing
Is it a full moon?
Oh yeah it kind of is
It was last night so we still have the pull tonight.
I know people poo poo the full moon/lunacy connection but every month the Fab Lounge confirms it. "
Yep, you are so right! |
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so....
1/ woman joins swinging site
2/ woman meets man and starts swinging
3/ woman discovers, shock horror, that man she met on swinging site is swinging and is not exclusive to her
4/ woman posts on forums hoping for moral support for next stage of her plan, whatever that may be.
there *may* be more to the story, there *may* be some interesting comments from his side of the story.
may as well be on facebook ourselves as reading many of these forum posts
swinging, it ain't... |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"so....
1/ woman joins swinging site
2/ woman meets man and starts swinging
3/ woman discovers, shock horror, that man she met on swinging site is swinging and is not exclusive to her
4/ woman posts on forums hoping for moral support for next stage of her plan, whatever that may be.
there *may* be more to the story, there *may* be some interesting comments from his side of the story.
may as well be on facebook ourselves as reading many of these forum posts
swinging, it ain't..."
Jolly confusing is what it is... |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"so....
1/ woman joins swinging site
2/ woman meets man and starts swinging
3/ woman discovers, shock horror, that man she met on swinging site is swinging and is not exclusive to her
4/ woman posts on forums hoping for moral support for next stage of her plan, whatever that may be.
there *may* be more to the story, there *may* be some interesting comments from his side of the story.
may as well be on facebook ourselves as reading many of these forum posts
swinging, it ain't..."
Suggested something similar months ago...you won't believe the vitriolic messages I got. |
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" Is it a full moon?
Oh yeah it kind of is
It was last night so we still have the pull tonight.
I know people poo poo the full moon/lunacy connection but every month the Fab Lounge confirms it. "
You're right |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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" Is it a full moon?
Oh yeah it kind of is
It was last night so we still have the pull tonight.
I know people poo poo the full moon/lunacy connection but every month the Fab Lounge confirms it.
You're right "
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By *rozacMan
over a year ago
london |
" Is it a full moon?
Oh yeah it kind of is
It was last night so we still have the pull tonight.
I know people poo poo the full moon/lunacy connection but every month the Fab Lounge confirms it.
You're right
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LoL. Trufax
If you still have feelings for him stop going on his page. You're only hurting yourself and you're worth more than that.
If u hate him. Tell her. She's getting mugged off.
I had a mate who was with her fella for a year and found out he'd been cheating for the duration. Meals with both families and charming their mums and all sorts.only found out when she cc'd all his friends for a suprise birthday and the other responded.
Sold the bed and moved out of their house they got together. Astounding. |
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Perks up...ahhhh the joys of bdsm..l do so love tying them up, watching them wriggle as l get the methylated spirit and matches out...
Ummm where was l, ohhh yes..my advice. .walk away from ex's..enjoy what you had, learn from mistakes made and move on.. |
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"Myself and J split. He told me about the second divorce. We dated and etc hard. Then I found out not exclusive..I hit ultimatum and walked...
He said he wasn't ready for a long term relationship. Then he got a sub...heavy negotiation from her master...
Plus he was part of a gangbang team for a couple..
His facebook girlfriend, is a regular relationships......whom I didn't know about until I allowed myself to look him up after six months...keeps post lovely couple pics...which he doesn't know I know...
I have left them but???"
I hate it when that happens. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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Haha this is the most bizarre thread I've ever seen! OP talking in riddles and everyone thinking "is it me or was that complete nonsense"
"So me split he Facebook she sub me now engaged he I don't know cat left his cousin d/s what I should do I dunno Nandos is good" |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"She is still posting pics of the two of them as happy as almost engaged...half the. Time he was after my knickers. I have kept quiet"
your knickers were worth it ovs |
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"Haha this is the most bizarre thread I've ever seen! OP talking in riddles and everyone thinking "is it me or was that complete nonsense"
"So me split he Facebook she sub me now engaged he I don't know cat left his cousin d/s what I should do I dunno Nandos is good" "
I read that with Jar Jar Banks voice
Hmm yousa point is well seen |
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"Myself and J split. He told me about the second divorce. We dated and etc hard. Then I found out not exclusive..I hit ultimatum and walked...
He said he wasn't ready for a long term relationship. Then he got a sub...heavy negotiation from her master...
Plus he was part of a gangbang team for a couple..
His facebook girlfriend, is a regular relationships......whom I didn't know about until I allowed myself to look him up after six months...keeps post lovely couple pics...which he doesn't know I know...
I have left them but???
I hate it when that happens. "
What happened?
My sipher skills weren't up to it?! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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He's your ex....leave that shit behind and move on with your life....I didn't really understand what the fuck your post was about so no idea if it's good advice or not x |
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So no one on where has had a messy break up, from a messy relationship, that has rendered you incapable of rational thought?
When my first marriage ended, I went into melt down, three hours of "all by my self" and half a bottle of JD, and off I went to steal the garden furniture that "I paid for actually" but could only carry one chair (with hindsight, if I had stacked them, I could have got all 4) I feel like a total tit now, and I'm just glad face ache and twater wasn't around then lol
Be nice, everybody hurts  |
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By *icketysplitsWoman
over a year ago
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"So no one on where has had a messy break up, from a messy relationship, that has rendered you incapable of rational thought?
When my first marriage ended, I went into melt down, three hours of "all by my self" and half a bottle of JD, and off I went to steal the garden furniture that "I paid for actually" but could only carry one chair (with hindsight, if I had stacked them, I could have got all 4) I feel like a total tit now, and I'm just glad face ache and twater wasn't around then lol
Be nice, everybody hurts "
I'm really sorry but I am laughing at you only having one garden chair. |
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By *igeiaWoman
over a year ago
Bristol |
"So no one on where has had a messy break up, from a messy relationship, that has rendered you incapable of rational thought?
When my first marriage ended, I went into melt down, three hours of "all by my self" and half a bottle of JD, and off I went to steal the garden furniture that "I paid for actually" but could only carry one chair (with hindsight, if I had stacked them, I could have got all 4) I feel like a total tit now, and I'm just glad face ache and twater wasn't around then lol
Be nice, everybody hurts
I'm really sorry but I am laughing at you only having one garden chair. "
Me too. Sorry. Tragedy + time = comedy? |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"So no one on where has had a messy break up, from a messy relationship, that has rendered you incapable of rational thought?
When my first marriage ended, I went into melt down, three hours of "all by my self" and half a bottle of JD, and off I went to steal the garden furniture that "I paid for actually" but could only carry one chair (with hindsight, if I had stacked them, I could have got all 4) I feel like a total tit now, and I'm just glad face ache and twater wasn't around then lol
Be nice, everybody hurts
I'm really sorry but I am laughing at you only having one garden chair. "
You'll find three similar, if not identical, on Gumtree. Good luck with the search |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I like this thread, it's an education, I've learnt a whole new language.
Goggledegoop.
Is that the same as gobbledegook but a bit different? "
Joking aside, many of us, myself have taken the piss a bit today, but we've probably all experienced a shitty breakup. |
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By *icketysplitsWoman
over a year ago
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"I like this thread, it's an education, I've learnt a whole new language.
Goggledegoop.
Is that the same as gobbledegook but a bit different?
Joking aside, many of us, myself have taken the piss a bit today, but we've probably all experienced a shitty breakup."
Which is probably why we feel ok taking the piss. I did start out with being sensible and kept it up as long as I could.
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By *icketysplitsWoman
over a year ago
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"I did start out with being sensible and kept it up as long as I could.
Yes one can inly keep it up so long "
I do my best but some of them just flag and flogging doesn't work in the long run.
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"Myself and J split. He told me about the second divorce. We dated and etc hard. Then I found out not exclusive..I hit ultimatum and walked...
He said he wasn't ready for a long term relationship. Then he got a sub...heavy negotiation from her master...
Plus he was part of a gangbang team for a couple..
His facebook girlfriend, is a regular relationships......whom I didn't know about until I allowed myself to look him up after six months...keeps post lovely couple pics...which he doesn't know I know...
I have left them but???"
Bunny boiler |
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"I like this thread, it's an education, I've learnt a whole new language.
Goggledegoop.
Is that the same as gobbledegook but a bit different?
Joking aside, many of us, myself have taken the piss a bit today, but we've probably all experienced a shitty breakup.
Which is probably why we feel ok taking the piss. I did start out with being sensible and kept it up as long as I could.
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You did well...... |
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"Joking aside, many of us, myself have taken the piss a bit today, but we've probably all experienced a shitty breakup.
Luckily I haven't, I've always dumped and moved on "
#heartbreaker. |
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"So no one on where has had a messy break up, from a messy relationship, that has rendered you incapable of rational thought?
When my first marriage ended, I went into melt down, three hours of "all by my self" and half a bottle of JD, and off I went to steal the garden furniture that "I paid for actually" but could only carry one chair (with hindsight, if I had stacked them, I could have got all 4) I feel like a total tit now, and I'm just glad face ache and twater wasn't around then lol
Be nice, everybody hurts
I'm really sorry but I am laughing at you only having one garden chair. "
The funny part was, 2 years later, when I came to terms with the split and realised that it was the best thing for both of us, and moved on, I wrapped it in a bow, and gave it back to her for her birthday, it was classic, reuniting the four chairs, and realising because i had kept it in a shed, it hadn't faded like the others, and stuck out like a big green thumb lol |
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"I'm sorry, I have no clue what is going on. Who's with who and doing what? And where does the D/s come into it? And then Facebook?!
This is like me watching those Spanish soap operas armed just with my B in GCSE Spanish from half a lifetime ago."
Hahah bang on!! xx |
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By *icketysplitsWoman
over a year ago
Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound |
"So no one on where has had a messy break up, from a messy relationship, that has rendered you incapable of rational thought?
When my first marriage ended, I went into melt down, three hours of "all by my self" and half a bottle of JD, and off I went to steal the garden furniture that "I paid for actually" but could only carry one chair (with hindsight, if I had stacked them, I could have got all 4) I feel like a total tit now, and I'm just glad face ache and twater wasn't around then lol
Be nice, everybody hurts
I'm really sorry but I am laughing at you only having one garden chair.
The funny part was, 2 years later, when I came to terms with the split and realised that it was the best thing for both of us, and moved on, I wrapped it in a bow, and gave it back to her for her birthday, it was classic, reuniting the four chairs, and realising because i had kept it in a shed, it hadn't faded like the others, and stuck out like a big green thumb lol"
Perfect! What an illustration for moving on.
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