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scared to be naked in front of new meets
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Let me just say not us.
Has anyone ever experienced this from anyone they have met??!
We have experienced it when meeting males not so much females males have a tendency to be more apprehensive we have found Wether it be either nervousness or Penis size compared to male half of us (he's average nothing gigantic) even in one case had a male unable to perform he was that nervous
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Let me just say not us.
Has anyone ever experienced this from anyone they have met??!
We have experienced it when meeting males not so much females males have a tendency to be more apprehensive we have found Wether it be either nervousness or Penis size compared to male half of us (he's average nothing gigantic) even in one case had a male unable to perform he was that nervous
Thoughts?"
I'd be inclined to think it's nerves. I had a meet where he couldn't perform as he was so nervous, he couldn't apologise more and was very annoyed with himself but I found it quite endearing that he opened up to me and told me the reason. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Had a guy who had been v good in bed but a hour or so later in the club would it stand to attention, not for quite a while! And he had been to clubs quite a bit so yes nerves do affect even the experienced, its the nature of the beast!! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Meet those with lots of verifications....they tend to be more experienced chilled and relaxed when it comes to getting down to it  "
Yes , this would be the answer .
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Honestly? I'd be nervous meeting anyone new. That's what a social is for isn't it? To both relax.
One night stands or spontaneous sex is different, being horny and 'lustfull want' feels great and produces great sex. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Understandable, especially for the single male meeting a couple, we generally only go for males who are verified as having play meets with couples previously, it may sound harsh and I would be sympathetic if it happened, but our time for meets is rare so we wouldn't bother risking someone inexperienced. |
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By *omliteMan
over a year ago
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Originally , a long time ago, It was a worry but with experience you realise that if you get to the clothes off stage you probably look ok to who you are with, whatever insecuritys you may have about yourself.
If its any consolation I have yet to be in the situation where I get my kit off and either..
A) She laughs hysterically and with tears in her eyes puts her kit back on and says " No..Sorry.. I couldn't"
or B)
Looks at you in horror and runs to the loo to get sick before running out the door.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Getting naked doesnt bother me in the slightest, im a bit of a naturist anyway.
But nervousness has got the better of me in the past. That's life. Lol "
You delicious devil |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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At times, yes. But it's mainly because of my excessive body hair.
But if I know that a person likes a hairy bod, then that gives me the confidence to flaunt it if you know what I mean  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Hate it! I worry my meet will be put off by my belly
this is me too  "
Its the worst isn't it although from your pics i think you have a lovely figure and im sure anyone who meets you will think the same. But its hard to ignore your insecurities xx |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I can sympathise with this. My last meet I was incredibly nervous, eased off once things started moving but I still was pretty nervous. Never been in front of another guy for an mmf so that'll be an interesting one if it happens! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Let me just say not us.
Has anyone ever experienced this from anyone they have met??!
We have experienced it when meeting males not so much females males have a tendency to be more apprehensive we have found Wether it be either nervousness or Penis size compared to male half of us (he's average nothing gigantic) even in one case had a male unable to perform he was that nervous
Thoughts?"
Nope... never had an issue with it, as regards performing again no issues, when it comes to penis size I am also average but even if the other guy is huge (which I've encountered) it makes no difference to me... but I accept that there are guy's who are nervous or uncomfortable... |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Getting naked doesnt bother me in the slightest, im a bit of a naturist anyway.
But nervousness has got the better of me in the past. That's life. Lol
You delicious devil "
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By *ficouldMan
over a year ago
a quandary, could you change my mind? |
I am nervous meeting anyone, that's socials or meet..
Nervousness, the anticipation, excitement all play their own part.
Don't like the term perform as that not why I'm there otherwise I may of just joined the circus. Never had a problem with my appendage working as he should! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Hate it! I worry my meet will be put off by my belly
this is me too
Its the worst isn't it although from your pics i think you have a lovely figure and im sure anyone who meets you will think the same. But its hard to ignore your insecurities xx"
Thank you raspberry...it's something I'm working on.
Over the past I've had hurtful comments.
a just now received a hurtful message. .. does hurt a bit
I hope you find confidence in having a tummy...it's one minor part of an entire being. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I find a nervous meet really unsettling. Personally I think a little nerves are normal when meeting someone new but if they're like a rabbit in the headlights I wouldn't go any further. I like a confident guy. A nervous wreck doesn't appeal. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I find a nervous meet really unsettling. Personally I think a little nerves are normal when meeting someone new but if they're like a rabbit in the headlights I wouldn't go any further. I like a confident guy. A nervous wreck doesn't appeal. "
I enter the bar by kicking open the door, walk over to your table shouting the order to the barkeep, "your best champaign over here for this gorgeous woman.'. I sit down and ask ' why were you early, a woman as beautiful as you shouldn't wait for anything!'
this? |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I find a nervous meet really unsettling. Personally I think a little nerves are normal when meeting someone new but if they're like a rabbit in the headlights I wouldn't go any further. I like a confident guy. A nervous wreck doesn't appeal.
I enter the bar by kicking open the door, walk over to your table shouting the order to the barkeep, "your best champaign over here for this gorgeous woman.'. I sit down and ask ' why were you early, a woman as beautiful as you shouldn't wait for anything!'
this?"
*swoon* |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Hate it! I worry my meet will be put off by my belly
this is me too
Its the worst isn't it although from your pics i think you have a lovely figure and im sure anyone who meets you will think the same. But its hard to ignore your insecurities xx
Thank you raspberry...it's something I'm working on.
Over the past I've had hurtful comments.
a just now received a hurtful message. .. does hurt a bit
I hope you find confidence in having a tummy...it's one minor part of an entire being."
Your welcome sweets and people only throw hurtful comments around to cover their own insecurities or because they're jealous. So love yourself for you and ignore the negativity xx |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I used to be very self concious about it, (too skinny), but once i built up the self confidence (or beligerence) to post body shots on my profile I reasoned that people know what I look like naked and still want to meet me... and go with the flow |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I am quite shy...and not keen on some of my wobbly bits, but once I know things are going well and I am naked I tend to become much less so...apparently the bits I don't really like, don't bother anyone else, so naked me tends to be alot more confident...who knew  |
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No issues getting me kit off, if I could get away with it I'd never wear clothes.
1st meet nerves had that happen though luckily the couple I met were awesome and she started to play with her partner while talking dirty to me as I played with her. Didn't take long to get relaxed, get it up and get things going lol |
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By *ndykinkyMan
over a year ago
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I used to be very shy but with experience I am getting over this. I am sure many others are the same.
Get to meet people and keep trying, closing your eyes and pretending no one else is there helps !!! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Hate it! I worry my meet will be put off by my belly
this is me too
Its the worst isn't it although from your pics i think you have a lovely figure and im sure anyone who meets you will think the same. But its hard to ignore your insecurities xx
Thank you raspberry...it's something I'm working on.
Over the past I've had hurtful comments.
a just now received a hurtful message. .. does hurt a bit
I hope you find confidence in having a tummy...it's one minor part of an entire being.
Your welcome sweets and people only throw hurtful comments around to cover their own insecurities or because they're jealous. So love yourself for you and ignore the negativity xx"
You're a star.
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I used to be very shy but with experience I am getting over this. I am sure many others are the same.
Get to meet people and keep trying, closing your eyes and pretending no one else is there helps !!!"
haha can I quote you this when i do my first mmf? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I (Phoebe) very rarely get fully naked infront of our meets ( especially on a first meet, so I can understand guys not being comfortable with it too.
Have also had a fair few guys who couldn't perform, some with verifications a-plenty some we met at clubs so don't know if they do or not. But it usually seems to be had a couple of drinks for courage can't get it up after rather than nerves themselves causing the problem. But I could be wrong, it could be both
We just do other things and if it comes up it does if not then it doesn't matter. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I don't do naked. Lingerie stays on."
I'm actually an uber fan of the lingerie. Keeps the imagination guessing and looks fabulous anyway! Never know why some people rush to get it off lol |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I don't do naked. Lingerie stays on.
I'm actually an uber fan of the lingerie. Keeps the imagination guessing and looks fabulous anyway! Never know why some people rush to get it off lol "
I make such an effort to put everything together nicely too. Harness bra, bra, nice panties to match, stockings or crotchless tights. Getting naked ruins all the fun |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I've never had much of a problem getting naked. If people are happy having this face looking at them, I have no worries about my body!
I think everyone has something they don't like about themselves, but the majority of others don't see it, take no notice as it's simply not an issue for them. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I make such an effort to put everything together nicely too. Harness bra, bra, nice panties to match, stockings or crotchless tights. Getting naked ruins all the fun "
I love you for all that you've just written :P |
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