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It's entirely down to your own moral compass, I've refused to play with a 23 and 24 year old this week.
At 40 I really don't want to play with women barely older than my son 
Even though my age minimum is 27, they would have to be a very mature 27. Normally as a rule of thumb I tend to stick to people around my own age, but hey? Each to their own and as long as they're having fun I certainly don't judge or dictate to people their preferences  |
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If you're comfortable with it and they're comfortable with it (as well as the obvious need to fall within the law) all is well surely and not really anyone else's concern. |
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thanks all - have met a much younger woman (yes it's legal and totally consenting - god I would not go there) and we click - get on in and out of the pleasure zone. She's smart fun and dead hot and very sexual. An older head on young shoulders. Definitely a bit of sub dom going on - in tne conventional arrangement though I do like to switch. Anyway looking forward to some fun times while it lasts - Where it goes an the pace of it is completely down to her. |
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"Some people will be ok with an age gap....some will find it borderline peodo....we are all different....for me personally I like people my own age x"
What do you mean borderline peodo? There is no such thing. A peodo is interested in children under 16. Age for these sites is 18, 56 + 18+ does not = paedo. Be careful what you call consenting adults.x |
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"thanks all - have met a much younger woman (yes it's legal and totally consenting - god I would not go there) and we click - get on in and out of the pleasure zone. She's smart fun and dead hot and very sexual. An older head on young shoulders. Definitely a bit of sub dom going on - in tne conventional arrangement though I do like to switch. Anyway looking forward to some fun times while it lasts - Where it goes an the pace of it is completely down to her."
Awesome, enjoy the good times buddy  |
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"Some people will be ok with an age gap....some will find it borderline peodo....we are all different....for me personally I like people my own age x
What do you mean borderline peodo? There is no such thing. A peodo is interested in children under 16. Age for these sites is 18, 56 + 18+ does not = paedo. Be careful what you call consenting adults.x"
I know what a peodo is and I never called anyone one x |
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"Some people will be ok with an age gap....some will find it borderline peodo....we are all different....for me personally I like people my own age x
What do you mean borderline peodo? There is no such thing. A peodo is interested in children under 16. Age for these sites is 18, 56 + 18+ does not = paedo. Be careful what you call consenting adults.x"
They wasn't calling anyone anything, they're referring to a certain way of thinking about age gap differences. For example I wouldn't ever play with someone that's closer to my son's age no matter how much they wanted to, just because my moral compass wouldn't allow it. |
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"Some people will be ok with an age gap....some will find it borderline peodo....we are all different....for me personally I like people my own age x
What do you mean borderline peodo? There is no such thing. A peodo is interested in children under 16. Age for these sites is 18, 56 + 18+ does not = paedo. Be careful what you call consenting adults.x
They wasn't calling anyone anything, they're referring to a certain way of thinking about age gap differences. For example I wouldn't ever play with someone that's closer to my son's age no matter how much they wanted to, just because my moral compass wouldn't allow it. "
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Some people are uncomfortable with big age gaps especially when the younger partner is a woman, they often cite undue influence, coercion or manipulation as the reason. I think coercion etc can occur between two people regardless of age difference or gender though. |
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"thanks all - have met a much younger woman (yes it's legal and totally consenting - god I would not go there) and we click - get on in and out of the pleasure zone. She's smart fun and dead hot and very sexual. An older head on young shoulders. Definitely a bit of sub dom going on - in tne conventional arrangement though I do like to switch. Anyway looking forward to some fun times while it lasts - Where it goes an the pace of it is completely down to her."
She's an adult. It would only be morally wrong if she had the brain of a child and wasn't capable of making decisions. |
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"Some people are uncomfortable with big age gaps especially when the younger partner is a woman, they often cite undue influence, coercion or manipulation as the reason. I think coercion etc can occur between two people regardless of age difference or gender though."
Yes I think your last sentence is spot on.
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My daughters dad is 17 yrs older. His new gf is 2 yrs younger tHan me. some folk judge, most mind their own business. The judgemental idiots like to claim it's daddy issues etc, got feck all to do with that, I just find older men attractive and not so much my own age, never younger.  |
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Theres a gap between me and hubs but it never bothers me, I love him for who he is, could of been living in a tent and skint and would still of fancied him when we met, just living on the breadline  lol 8 years later still going strong  |
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"thanks all - have met a much younger woman (yes it's legal and totally consenting - god I would not go there) and we click - get on in and out of the pleasure zone. She's smart fun and dead hot and very sexual. An older head on young shoulders. Definitely a bit of sub dom going on - in tne conventional arrangement though I do like to switch. Anyway looking forward to some fun times while it lasts - Where it goes an the pace of it is completely down to her."
is this thread more a case of look at me ive pulled a young women. Your already seeing her so what difference does it make what others think
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