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struggling with couples meet
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"i wish i felt the same. or could get my head round it
Stop doing stuff that makes you miserable  "
 This.
I enjoy what we do, but if I didn't I wouldn't do it a second longer. |
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"hes very supportive and always looks after me but now mayb not right for me. "
take a step back, discuss with him what it is that is raising such feelings..
if you can't resolve that element then at least you tried it..
good luck.. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"hes very supportive and always looks after me but now mayb not right for me.
take a step back, discuss with him what it is that is raising such feelings..
if you can't resolve that element then at least you tried it..
good luck.."
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"it was to meet wasnt prepared to end up in a relationship. im not a swinger i just wanted to try for him as he enjoys it"
If the relationship began with the intention of swinging together , it's the relationship that needs fixing .
Not fair to him is it ? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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It's all about the fun and laughter for us?
If it's upsetting you then you need to tell him what you want ? And find comfortable to do ? Boundaries have to be set for yourself and partner ?
You've been to a club so take the parts you enjoy and move on with them ? |
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Then stop doing full swap and stick with soft swap.
You may feel different in the future or you may not. But if you aren't happy with something then don't do it, it could cause problems down the line. |
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