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over a year ago
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Didn't know how else to put the title..
I'm thinking that this maybe be it for a while..
Think hubby is going off the idea of it all and chops and changes his mind on my meet all the time and it's becoming not fair of either side..
How much I soooo don't want it to stop I think it maybe have to or at least a brake.. not really sure what to do as I really enjoy it on here..
Do I just stay for the chats and talk or just give up    |
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"Didn't know how else to put the title..
I'm thinking that this maybe be it for a while..
Think hubby is going off the idea of it all and chops and changes his mind on my meet all the time and it's becoming not fair of either side..
How much I soooo don't want it to stop I think it maybe have to or at least a brake.. not really sure what to do as I really enjoy it on here..
Do I just stay for the chats and talk or just give up "
Only you can decide whether sex with strangers is worth your husband's unhappiness/damage to your marriage. It would be a no brainer for me, but each to their own! |
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"Didn't know how else to put the title..
I'm thinking that this maybe be it for a while..
Think hubby is going off the idea of it all and chops and changes his mind on my meet all the time and it's becoming not fair of either side..
How much I soooo don't want it to stop I think it maybe have to or at least a brake.. not really sure what to do as I really enjoy it on here..
Do I just stay for the chats and talk or just give up "
You two need to talk to each other...not to us.
Hide your profile, concentrate on your relationship for a bit find out what you both want and take it from there.
I'm not patronising you at all but you're young, you potentially have 60 years together or more, establish good communication now.
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Keep talking to him and hide your profile if you don't want to meet.
Only you two are able to figure ouut a compromise between your needs and desires and his genuine concerns and feelings, wherever on the spectrum that decision falls.
The most important thing is to ensure that you're both honest, as resentment on either side will fester and kill your relationship stone dead.
Good luck x |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Why not have a chat with him and try a change of direction? Couple's profile? Just watching? Kink? Lots of socials?"
We had a couple but it wasn't really about him wanting fun etc.. so we both though would be better just me xx |
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"Keep talking to him and hide your profile if you don't want to meet.
Only you two are able to figure ouut a compromise between your needs and desires and his genuine concerns and feelings, wherever on the spectrum that decision falls.
The most important thing is to ensure that you're both honest, as resentment on either side will fester and kill your relationship stone dead.
Good luck x"
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"Didn't know how else to put the title..
I'm thinking that this maybe be it for a while..
Think hubby is going off the idea of it all and chops and changes his mind on my meet all the time and it's becoming not fair of either side..
How much I soooo don't want it to stop I think it maybe have to or at least a brake.. not really sure what to do as I really enjoy it on here..
Do I just stay for the chats and talk or just give up
Only you can decide whether sex with strangers is worth your husband's unhappiness/damage to your marriage. It would be a no brainer for me, but each to their own! "
Ooooo definitely if it come to that 100% i wouldn't let that happen.. just more where he keeps changing his mind etc.. think a long talk it due but I'm kinda giving up on that as it seams to not go anywhere x |
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sorta depends doesnt it?
some partners are happy to get what they want while telling the other to not do something.
you might like the meets, he might just like the perv..either way...both set ground rules on what they expect from the site/scene. |
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"sorta depends doesnt it?
some partners are happy to get what they want while telling the other to not do something.
you might like the meets, he might just like the perv..either way...both set ground rules on what they expect from the site/scene."
We have and had meets etc befor so know what we both want from it etc.. I don't know.. just fed up of the mix messages xx |
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If your husband isn't happy then I would hide my profile and forget it for a while if I were you, it's not worth the problems it's could create if you keep meeting for now, it is easy to come back once he feels more reassured |
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