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As my dance teacher one wrote in my report
"When she's in the mood to put in the effort her performance is faultless, however when she is not in the mood she simply cannot be bothered and this shows in her deliverance" |
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Wouldn't give myself a rating but I can say almost every single woman I've met has come back.
Most say I'm good with my tounge and fingers some say they've never cum so much, that could all be platitudes though |
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over a year ago
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"As my dance teacher one wrote in my report
"When she's in the mood to put in the effort her performance is faultless, however when she is not in the mood she simply cannot be bothered and this shows in her deliverance""
Oh god!! Most of my reports went along the lines of "Could do better!"    |
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over a year ago
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I used to think I was really bad at sex to the point I gave up having it 
Nowadays, I think I'm okay at it, I know I'm nowhere near as experienced or experimental as others but compared to what I was.....
I think that's one of the reasons I haven't explored the couple route or 3sums in case I really am crap and it's obvious  |
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over a year ago
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"I used to think I was really bad at sex to the point I gave up having it
Nowadays, I think I'm okay at it, I know I'm nowhere near as experienced or experimental as others but compared to what I was.....
I think that's one of the reasons I haven't explored the couple route or 3sums in case I really am crap and it's obvious "
Let's grab a guy and be crap together |
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"Shouldnt you be anawering your owm question first op"
I will. However, there appears to be an unassailable dichotomy betwixt my reality and other peoples' who view my reality as a sad illusion. I think I'm good. |
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By *igeiaWoman
over a year ago
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"I used to think I was really bad at sex to the point I gave up having it
Nowadays, I think I'm okay at it, I know I'm nowhere near as experienced or experimental as others but compared to what I was.....
I think that's one of the reasons I haven't explored the couple route or 3sums in case I really am crap and it's obvious "
I worried the hell about that before my first threesome. Then realised everyone else involved was feeling exactly the same so just dived in. As it were. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I used to think I was really bad at sex to the point I gave up having it
Nowadays, I think I'm okay at it, I know I'm nowhere near as experienced or experimental as others but compared to what I was.....
I think that's one of the reasons I haven't explored the couple route or 3sums in case I really am crap and it's obvious
Let's grab a guy and be crap together "
Can i order two crap women please  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I used to think I was really bad at sex to the point I gave up having it
Nowadays, I think I'm okay at it, I know I'm nowhere near as experienced or experimental as others but compared to what I was.....
I think that's one of the reasons I haven't explored the couple route or 3sums in case I really am crap and it's obvious
Let's grab a guy and be crap together
Can i order two crap women please "
Make it four and we can have a crap night together then compare notes |
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Sometimes I think I've been awesome and she's said 'you're having a fucking bubble, mate, get ya cock working again" and other times I've sort of tried and she's said 'awesome!'. She also said "my my that's a lovely love missile" so I'm not that convinced. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I used to think I was really bad at sex to the point I gave up having it
Nowadays, I think I'm okay at it, I know I'm nowhere near as experienced or experimental as others but compared to what I was.....
I think that's one of the reasons I haven't explored the couple route or 3sums in case I really am crap and it's obvious
Let's grab a guy and be crap together
Can i order two crap women please
Make it four and we can have a crap night together then compare notes"
I'm up for all of this..... Roxi, you helping?  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I'm great.
I just lie there, silent so I don't break their concentration.
I'm considerate like that.
That sounds scary  
Me?
Scary?
And I thought you knew me better than that, I'm an angel  "
You are with boobs and long legs and just the perfect height for my eyeline  |
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"I'm okay just need some more practice "
It takes 10,000 hours (20 hours for 50 weeks a year for ten years = 10,000) of deliberate practice to become an expert in almost anything.
http://www.bbc.co.uk/news/magazine-26384712
What are you waiting for?
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"I'm great.
I just lie there, silent so I don't break their concentration.
I'm considerate like that.
That sounds scary
Me?
Scary?
And I thought you knew me better than that, I'm an angel
You are with boobs and long legs and just the perfect height for my eyeline "
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I used to think I was really bad at sex to the point I gave up having it
Nowadays, I think I'm okay at it, I know I'm nowhere near as experienced or experimental as others but compared to what I was.....
I think that's one of the reasons I haven't explored the couple route or 3sums in case I really am crap and it's obvious
Let's grab a guy and be crap together
Can i order two crap women please
Make it four and we can have a crap night together then compare notes"
I'll bring a camera so we can watch it back just to see exactly how crap we a are.
don't want to miss any disappointed moments! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I'm okay just need some more practice
Damn you! I was just typing along those lines! You snooze you lose  yeah, she said that as well. "
Hey, it was just a lil nap... |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I used to think I was really bad at sex to the point I gave up having it
Nowadays, I think I'm okay at it, I know I'm nowhere near as experienced or experimental as others but compared to what I was.....
I think that's one of the reasons I haven't explored the couple route or 3sums in case I really am crap and it's obvious
Let's grab a guy and be crap together
Can i order two crap women please
Make it four and we can have a crap night together then compare notes
I'm up for all of this..... Roxi, you helping? "
Sounds like a plan |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I used to think I was really bad at sex to the point I gave up having it
Nowadays, I think I'm okay at it, I know I'm nowhere near as experienced or experimental as others but compared to what I was.....
I think that's one of the reasons I haven't explored the couple route or 3sums in case I really am crap and it's obvious
Let's grab a guy and be crap together
Can i order two crap women please
Make it four and we can have a crap night together then compare notes
I'll bring a camera so we can watch it back just to see exactly how crap we a are.
don't want to miss any disappointed moments! "
Sounds like a plan. |
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By *ady LickWoman
over a year ago
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"I'm okay just need some more practice
It takes 10,000 hours (20 hours for 50 weeks a year for ten years = 10,000) of deliberate practice to become an expert in almost anything.
http://www.bbc.co.uk/news/magazine-26384712
What are you waiting for?
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Blimey I better get my finger out |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I'm okay just need some more practice
It takes 10,000 hours (20 hours for 50 weeks a year for ten years = 10,000) of deliberate practice to become an expert in almost anything.
http://www.bbc.co.uk/news/magazine-26384712
What are you waiting for?
Blimey I better get my finger out "
Or in as the case maybe |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"lol not heard anyone moaning yet.
Really? If I'm moaning (and whimpering and making little gaspy noises) then they're doing whatever they're doing very right."
"Whimpering"..... sweet Jesus   |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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It depends on the partner - if I'm with a submissive I'm going to be the crappest shag in the world. With a 'nilla I'll be alright but could have tried harder to take the initiative. With a Dom, I'm likely to be a decent lay. Or at least an enthusiastic one. |
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"Shouldnt you be anawering your owm question first op
I will. However, there appears to be an unassailable dichotomy betwixt my reality and other peoples' who view my reality as a sad illusion. I think I'm good. "
I thought you were better than good xx |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Fucking amazeballs, that's me!
Did I read something about demure modesty too?
Well, I'm just speaking the truth! "
Nuthin wrong with telling it as it is M'Lady |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I'm a work in progress and getting more adventurous. I love to please and am flipping insatiable...raging hormones.
You are all welcome to visit and give me a rating
I did get told I was fucking awesome once |
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"As my dance teacher one wrote in my report
"When she's in the mood to put in the effort her performance is faultless, however when she is not in the mood she simply cannot be bothered and this shows in her deliverance""
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Fucking amazeballs, that's me!
Did I read something about demure modesty too?
Well, I'm just speaking the truth!
Teach me your amazeball ways, oh alabaster guru."
That would be fun! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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My latest meet said "sexy man, a tongue that just wouldn't stop. Completely filled my needs " that suits me, they always comment on my oral. That's my boast lol |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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They always pester me for more, so I must do something right. I'm not very experimental though and I know what I like.
I don't imitate pornstars but getting in positions from the Kama Sutra, not into spitting on cock or anal. That probably isn't for everyone. |
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over a year ago
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"No idea....no one's ever filled out the scorecard i give them at the end
...now that's just plain rude"
I know, right? I mean what is the point of having a suggestion box and online survey asking people to rate my services? It's just a waste of time and effort! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I'm a work in progress and getting more adventurous. I love to please and am flipping insatiable...raging hormones.
You are all welcome to visit and give me a rating
I did get told I was fucking awesome once "
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"No idea....no one's ever filled out the scorecard i give them at the end
...now that's just plain rude
I know, right? I mean what is the point of having a suggestion box and online survey asking people to rate my services? It's just a waste of time and effort! "
Do you have a 'would you recommend to a friend' box too? |
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"No idea....no one's ever filled out the scorecard i give them at the end
...now that's just plain rude
I know, right? I mean what is the point of having a suggestion box and online survey asking people to rate my services? It's just a waste of time and effort!
Do you have a 'would you recommend to a friend' box too? "
Ah no!.....do you think that's where I'm going wrong? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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You are only as good as the level of physical and mental attraction you both have at that time.
You may be good at sex but if the other person is not on your level of attractiveness, then indeed they will think otherwise....it takes 2 to Tango . |
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By *mmmMaybeCouple
over a year ago
West Wales |
I dunno really, I don't think I do anything "Amazeballs" but H says otherwise. I used to think her multiple O's were just her as she's horny all the time & that she was the same with her previous fellas, but apparently not, just me.
Be nice to have a second opinion really, so if you want to see if the same works for you give us a shout..
I'm not free to play out on my own though.
So is this true or bullshit for the forum??
HmmmMaybe...
S |
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By *oodmessMan
over a year ago
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"You are only as good as the level of physical and mental attraction you both have at that time.
You may be good at sex but if the other person is not on your level of attractiveness, then indeed they will think otherwise....it takes 2 to Tango ."
So in a darkened room, you wouldn't be able to get someone off as your physical or mental abilities wouldn't be able to shine ? I'd take that bet. |
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"No idea....no one's ever filled out the scorecard i give them at the end
...now that's just plain rude
I know, right? I mean what is the point of having a suggestion box and online survey asking people to rate my services? It's just a waste of time and effort!
Do you have a 'would you recommend to a friend' box too?
Ah no!.....do you think that's where I'm going wrong?"
Only one way to find out. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Never had any complaints :D
I consider myself average in every department, size, stamina, skill.
But on the other hand in my entire sex life I've never had a girl who didn't want a repeat performance. And girls tend to be a lot more into me once we've fucked. So I guess I must do something right :D |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Last tuesday I got told by someone I met that I 'could fuck for England'
I think that says it all, non? "
Not if you're anything like our football team |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Last tuesday I got told by someone I met that I 'could fuck for England'
I think that says it all, non?
Not if you're anything like our football team "
Can't get any worse than that lot |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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So to all the people saying they're amazingly amazeballs at sex. Apart from people telling you you are (which lets face it might not be totally true) how do you know, what are you gauging / comparing it against?
Might be blatantly obvious but I'm just curious to here peoples reasons. |
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"Shouldnt you be anawering your owm question first op
I will. However, there appears to be an unassailable dichotomy betwixt my reality and other peoples' who view my reality as a sad illusion. I think I'm good.
I thought you were better than good xx"
Thank you |
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"So to all the people saying they're amazingly amazeballs at sex. Apart from people telling you you are (which lets face it might not be totally true) how do you know, what are you gauging / comparing it against?
Might be blatantly obvious but I'm just curious to here peoples reasons."
I tend to have a chat with the person I'm meeting with about who they've met recently etc, and that normally leads to a discussion of how good/bad they were in bed. So it gives me some sort of a benchmark |
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"You are only as good as the level of physical and mental attraction you both have at that time.
You may be good at sex but if the other person is not on your level of attractiveness, then indeed they will think otherwise....it takes 2 to Tango .
So in a darkened room, you wouldn't be able to get someone off as your physical or mental abilities wouldn't be able to shine ? I'd take that bet. "
I dont gamble...beware of the dark my friend..... you might end up with my mother. |
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"You are only as good as the level of physical and mental attraction you both have at that time.
You may be good at sex but if the other person is not on your level of attractiveness, then indeed they will think otherwise....it takes 2 to Tango .
So in a darkened room, you wouldn't be able to get someone off as your physical or mental abilities wouldn't be able to shine ? I'd take that bet.
I dont gamble...beware of the dark my friend..... you might end up with my mother. "
I've been in a darkroom - you'd be surprised (and possibly horrified) at what you can find in the dark |
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By *mmmMaybeCouple
over a year ago
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"So to all the people saying they're amazingly amazeballs at sex. Apart from people telling you you are (which lets face it might not be totally true) how do you know, what are you gauging / comparing it against?
Might be blatantly obvious but I'm just curious to here peoples reasons."
H here I'm at work and just read S comment and it's all true, multi Os every time we have sex and legs like jelly! Only experienced them with him too
We just fit and I can't wait to get home
H xx |
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"So to all the people saying they're amazingly amazeballs at sex. Apart from people telling you you are (which lets face it might not be totally true) how do you know, what are you gauging / comparing it against?
Might be blatantly obvious but I'm just curious to here peoples reasons.
I tend to have a chat with the person I'm meeting with about who they've met recently etc, and that normally leads to a discussion of how good/bad they were in bed. So it gives me some sort of a benchmark"
bloody hell what happened to discression. |
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By *icketysplitsWoman
over a year ago
Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound |
"I'm okay just need some more practice
It takes 10,000 hours (20 hours for 50 weeks a year for ten years = 10,000) of deliberate practice to become an expert in almost anything.
http://www.bbc.co.uk/news/magazine-26384712
What are you waiting for?
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I'm a hapless novice.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I am really good, everyone I have fucked have left satisfied, the last one I met said, it was the best shag in months
"The earth moved and the angels wept."
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lol good one. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I am really good, everyone I have fucked have left satisfied, the last one I met said, it was the best shag in months
Yeah, she said that to me and Joe afterwards "
lol nice one. |
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By *icketysplitsWoman
over a year ago
Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound |
"No idea....no one's ever filled out the scorecard i give them at the end
...now that's just plain rude
I know, right? I mean what is the point of having a suggestion box and online survey asking people to rate my services? It's just a waste of time and effort!
Do you have a 'would you recommend to a friend' box too?
Ah no!.....do you think that's where I'm going wrong?"
Tell them completion means they enter a prize draw.
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By (user no longer on site)
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"No idea....no one's ever filled out the scorecard i give them at the end
...now that's just plain rude
I know, right? I mean what is the point of having a suggestion box and online survey asking people to rate my services? It's just a waste of time and effort!
Do you have a 'would you recommend to a friend' box too?
Ah no!.....do you think that's where I'm going wrong?
Tell them completion means they enter a prize draw.
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..what's the prize? |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"As my dance teacher one wrote in my report
"When she's in the mood to put in the effort her performance is faultless, however when she is not in the mood she simply cannot be bothered and this shows in her deliverance"
Oh god!! Most of my reports went along the lines of "Could do better!" "
Mine said , she's a lovely girl but needs to stop opening her mouth |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"As my dance teacher one wrote in my report
"When she's in the mood to put in the effort her performance is faultless, however when she is not in the mood she simply cannot be bothered and this shows in her deliverance"
Oh god!! Most of my reports went along the lines of "Could do better!"
Mine said , she's a lovely girl but needs to stop opening her mouth "
My reports always said something along the lines of...
Intelligent but very shy and reserved. Gets easily distracted by others too. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"So to all the people saying they're amazingly amazeballs at sex. Apart from people telling you you are (which lets face it might not be totally true) how do you know, what are you gauging / comparing it against?
Might be blatantly obvious but I'm just curious to here peoples reasons.
H here I'm at work and just read S comment and it's all true, multi Os every time we have sex and legs like jelly! Only experienced them with him too
We just fit and I can't wait to get home
H xx"
Lucky you
Thanks for replying. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I'm great with some people and crap with others
It takes two people to make a good sex session and no matter how good you are if you meet somebody who's not sexually compatible with you it's going to be crap
That makes sense in my head |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I'm great with some people and crap with others
It takes two people to make a good sex session and no matter how good you are if you meet somebody who's not sexually compatible with you it's going to be crap
That makes sense in my head "
Makes sense in my head too |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I'm great with some people and crap with others
It takes two people to make a good sex session and no matter how good you are if you meet somebody who's not sexually compatible with you it's going to be crap
That makes sense in my head "
Agreed - the chemistry has to be there. |
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By *urpurseCouple
over a year ago
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"I'm great with some people and crap with others
It takes two people to make a good sex session and no matter how good you are if you meet somebody who's not sexually compatible with you it's going to be crap
That makes sense in my head
Makes sense in my head too "
Another thumbs up for me on this statement too |
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By *mmmMaybeCouple
over a year ago
West Wales |
"I'm great with some people and crap with others
It takes two people to make a good sex session and no matter how good you are if you meet somebody who's not sexually compatible with you it's going to be crap
That makes sense in my head "
Yep, Sex is much better if you can "Learn" a person over time than if you just "Know" a person..That makes sense on my head too
S |
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"I'm great with some people and crap with others
It takes two people to make a good sex session and no matter how good you are if you meet somebody who's not sexually compatible with you it's going to be crap
That makes sense in my head "
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By (user no longer on site)
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"So to all the people saying they're amazingly amazeballs at sex. Apart from people telling you you are (which lets face it might not be totally true) how do you know, what are you gauging / comparing it against?
Might be blatantly obvious but I'm just curious to here peoples reasons.
I tend to have a chat with the person I'm meeting with about who they've met recently etc, and that normally leads to a discussion of how good/bad they were in bed. So it gives me some sort of a benchmark"
I would never discuss previous meets like that. Rude, disrespectful and total lack of discretion. |
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By *GHertsCouple
over a year ago
North Herts |
I *try* to be 'reasonably good' but as several others have already said I think it boils down to chemistry between the people involved. Personally, I do sometimes wish I found it easier to be completely uninhibited but that's a confidence thing, and again, more likely to happen when the chemistry's there. Guess I'll just have to keep trying ....
Ms G |
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