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So many straight guys on my profile, men are fickle.
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Im starting to believe the stories ive heard that most guys are bi in this world but wont or never admit it even on a swinging website!
When i go out now im always wondering what guy might be secretly checking me out but id never know as they dont let their feelings show 
I guess staight guys are judgemental and make it hard for guys to announce their sexual preferences.
Why do so many guys make over the top pronouncmemts against being gay or hating bi/gay people??
Ive worked in offices where people have joked that someone touched a penis etc and the guy has gone red and got angry and made a point of making sure everyone knows it was a lie and that he is very straight.
The world saddens me sometimes.
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Most people project onto others what they're not comfortable with about themselves.
Studies have shown that 'straight' homophobic people have high levels of sexual arousal when watching gay porn, so it's reasonable to assume that many of them are covertly bi or gay. |
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Oh, there are so many.
On occasions when we are looking for a single male, we put up a meeting request and change our filters.
We get inundated with messages. You might be amazed at the frequency of
- I would like to meet you
- But your profile says "straight"
- I am really bi but don't like to put that as it puts women off
- Then how can we trust anything else in your profile?
It is 9 out of 10 responses and gets rather irksome. |
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"Oh, there are so many.
On occasions when we are looking for a single male, we put up a meeting request and change our filters.
We get inundated with messages. You might be amazed at the frequency of
- I would like to meet you
- But your profile says "straight"
- I am really bi but don't like to put that as it puts women off
- Then how can we trust anything else in your profile?
It is 9 out of 10 responses and gets rather irksome."
I just think its a sad day that bi guys have to put straight on profile cos they are hell bent on trying to meet a straight couple.
But each to their own i guess ! |
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"Oh, there are so many.
On occasions when we are looking for a single male, we put up a meeting request and change our filters.
We get inundated with messages. You might be amazed at the frequency of
- I would like to meet you
- But your profile says "straight"
- I am really bi but don't like to put that as it puts women off
- Then how can we trust anything else in your profile?
It is 9 out of 10 responses and gets rather irksome."
This x 1000 |
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"Oh, there are so many.
On occasions when we are looking for a single male, we put up a meeting request and change our filters.
We get inundated with messages. You might be amazed at the frequency of
- I would like to meet you
- But your profile says "straight"
- I am really bi but don't like to put that as it puts women off
- Then how can we trust anything else in your profile?
It is 9 out of 10 responses and gets rather irksome.
I just think its a sad day that bi guys have to put straight on profile cos they are hell bent on trying to meet a straight couple.
But each to their own i guess !"
They don't "have to." They make a conscious decision to do so. |
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I dont think it is as straight!forward as you make out OP..
A lot of people lie to get what they want,whether it's a job,relationship or plain old sex.
Sometimes it's a whopper, other times maybe a little lie like taking 5 years off yr age..
We live in a dishonest world where politicians lie to achieve what they want or to get people to like them.
I don't think it's gonna change regarding sexual preferences.
heard the saying 'Out of the closet,into the fire'?
Life is just a cocktail party,
enjoy it. |
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"Oh, there are so many.
On occasions when we are looking for a single male, we put up a meeting request and change our filters.
We get inundated with messages. You might be amazed at the frequency of
- I would like to meet you
- But your profile says "straight"
- I am really bi but don't like to put that as it puts women off
- Then how can we trust anything else in your profile?
It is 9 out of 10 responses and gets rather irksome.
I just think its a sad day that bi guys have to put straight on profile cos they are hell bent on trying to meet a straight couple.
But each to their own i guess !
They don't "have to." They make a conscious decision to do so."
Ive spoke to numerous guys on here that have said couples have declined a meet just because they are bisexual on profile.
Im not sayi the couple are wrong for it, they have every right to meet a certain type of person of course.
Just seems a little bit judgy to me. .i think more often than not the guy in the couple thinks the bi guy will try to rape him or something
Haha ! And he would probably like it lol j/k
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You just have to be true to yourself, if you are bi, then say you are bi, and if that puts someone off, then you move on to someone out doesn't put off, maybe someone who actively seeks bi men. I'm not bi, I wish I was though, life would be oine big sausage fest, unfortunately I'm just not made that way.
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Do bi guys force themselves on straight husbands when meeting couples?
I see the won't meet bi guys on profiles and always wondered how often does the bi guy actually try anything that its become a problem...
A few of my bi and gay mates have expressed an interest in trying to get my pants off but none have even attempted to as they know I'm straight. Apparently homosexuality doesn't mean ignorant or stupid. |
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"I'm bi. Quite happy with it. Some straight men are living in cloud cuckoo land if they think I'm gonna touch them. No chance, matey. "
I swear they think youd force yourself on them.
Like get a grip and get over yourself haha ! |
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"I'm bi. Quite happy with it. Some straight men are living in cloud cuckoo land if they think I'm gonna touch them. No chance, matey.
That's only 'cos they're fugly, Steve "
More often than is statistically possible. Mayhap one attracts the rough trade, who knows? As for getting a grip, OP, I would IF YA KNOW WOT I MEAN  |
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"Do bi guys force themselves on straight husbands when meeting couples?
I see the won't meet bi guys on profiles and always wondered how often does the bi guy actually try anything that its become a problem...
A few of my bi and gay mates have expressed an interest in trying to get my pants off but none have even attempted to as they know I'm straight. Apparently homosexuality doesn't mean ignorant or stupid."
I had a meet with a couple quite a while ago and he was straight on his profile. When we met for a social they both said he was straight but never asked my sexuality. When we eventually met for sex, I saw he had a lovely coc about 7" and quite thick. He never made a move to touch mine and I never made a move to touch his. I just admired it. The meet was very good and ended quite amicably. So yes, it is possible for a bi to meet a couple and not court disaster by reaching for the guy's cock or his arse. We both paid attention to his lovely wife and we all finished with smiles on ours faces |
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"I'm bi. Quite happy with it. Some straight men are living in cloud cuckoo land if they think I'm gonna touch them. No chance, matey.
That's only 'cos they're fugly, Steve
More often than is statistically possible. Mayhap one attracts the rough trade, who knows? As for getting a grip, OP, I would IF YA KNOW WOT I MEAN "
Haha
Ply with Haribo and im anyones.
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"I'm bi. Quite happy with it. Some straight men are living in cloud cuckoo land if they think I'm gonna touch them. No chance, matey.
There's no straight men here I'll have you know "
Haha now that would be an awesome website. . Only bi men and women no straights lol
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"I'm bi. Quite happy with it. Some straight men are living in cloud cuckoo land if they think I'm gonna touch them. No chance, matey.
There's no straight men here I'll have you know
Haha now that would be an awesome website. . Only bi men and women no straights lol
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Where's the fun in that?
Where's the corruption or sense of having spun someone around?
Sounds like a ghetto |
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"I'm bi. Quite happy with it. Some straight men are living in cloud cuckoo land if they think I'm gonna touch them. No chance, matey.
There's no straight men here I'll have you know
Haha now that would be an awesome website. . Only bi men and women no straights lol
Where's the fun in that?
Where's the corruption or sense of having spun someone around?
Sounds like a ghetto "
I dont think you have been to he same ghettos i have
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"I'm bi. Quite happy with it. Some straight men are living in cloud cuckoo land if they think I'm gonna touch them. No chance, matey.
There's no straight men here I'll have you know
Haha now that would be an awesome website. . Only bi men and women no straights lol
Where's the fun in that?
Where's the corruption or sense of having spun someone around?
Sounds like a ghetto
I dont think you have been to he same ghettos i have
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You go to many ghettos? |
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In answer to your original question, while 'red-blooded males' might seek to express their sexuality through crude rejection of anything a bit gay, I've had more shit from gay men than straight people tbh.
It's a funny old world. |
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I can see why some men are reluctant to put bi on their profiles..
We recently changed our profile as the Mr has recently become curious, we had someone who we spoke to a long time ago message us out of the blue giving us lots of homophobic abuse and calling us mother fuckers..
Reported to admin but nothing happened and he still posts homophobic status' 
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"I can see why some men are reluctant to put bi on their profiles..
We recently changed our profile as the Mr has recently become curious, we had someone who we spoke to a long time ago message us out of the blue giving us lots of homophobic abuse and calling us mother fuckers..
Reported to admin but nothing happened and he still posts homophobic status'
Mrs xo"
What a jackass
Fab shud ban him no?? |
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