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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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from the dook and dookchesses post earlier
inspires the debate
what makes it straight?
lots of straight chaps seem to like me wee bum - to me thats not very straight or very honest at the outset is it?
me personally - curious - footy fan so call folks pooooofs for diving etc - not into the gay thing gay porn etc - but have lil hmmms and maaaaaaybes - so honestly listed as curious - but by not actually having played the fiddle yet - am therefore to date - straight
so ladies - are you straight - but you have sucked on a boobie?
men - are you straight? but have rubbed your fella off another fellas fella in a 3 some or moresome type scenario
are you straight n comfortable - dont mind your boobs touching boobs your cocks touching cocks
are you straight to the extreme and touch my cock i will stab you to death you homo communard loving bastard!
if blindfolded and legs akimbo - would you just enjoy the pleasure and not care the sex identity of the giver
just what is straight - there is straight and then there is straight
for the couples - the dp situations - the sucking both at once situations - involve a bit of closeness in the chaps - nothing gaaaay - nothing even really bi - simply comfortable in yourself?
for the ladies - do you like a taste of a lady do you like a booby squeeze - but your choice is a man a partner - etc so your not gaaaay - are you bi - or just naughty now n then ?
guys watching porn - look at that cock being sucked - whats the thing the cock - or the sucking of it - if your ever having a fumble to porn - unless its strictly girl only scenes then the cock is in the scene too - so is that part of the horny voyeurism too - meaning are you liking the cock action as much as the girl action in the scenes
its all quite complex when breaking it into tiny pieces
is straight - no ill never be in the same room as another cock or within 10 feet or 1 foot or an inch
or no i dont mind bumping into one now n then but im no smooching it
and no its deffo not going in me bum
and replace all that with the female equivalent
how straight is straight - how much does it bend a little for some but not for others
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I referred to this in another thread the other day
Where a poster said that if a straight man can suck a cock hes bi
My answer to that was
Just because you like Italian food don't make you Italian Same with sex a bit of what ya fancy does ya good xx  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Living is all about experiencing life....somethings you dont like so dont do it again and somethings you think...hmmmmm thats ok ill have a bit more.
Labels dont make us what we are . lifes experiences do.  |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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and very true peaches
but we are labelled in all walks of life
so far from here i am straighter than the straight folks messaging me but my label perhaps confuses
experiences help tell us what we like - but im pretty sure i dont need the experience of a huge cock up me wee bum to tell me i wont like it
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Well .... phew where do I start.
Me and Chris are essentially a straight couple. We would not have a relationship with the same sex, before swinging we wouldnt contemplate the idea of having sex with the same sex, and even on our journey into swinging land, we did not envisage ever having bisexual experiences.
However both of us dont swing just because of the sex. We are exhibitionists and we enjoy the whole taboo nature of what we are doing. In real life you could look at us and think that we are a pretty boring standard couple. Im probably a bit quirkier than Chris, Ive always had elements of my personality that are slightly unusual, dress sense etc. But when we step through the doors of a club it feels to us like we are entering a different world and its like a whole new element to our personalities, an extra.
We always say that whatever feels right will happen. We have had a dp experience, yes the two guys were very close. I have had bi experiences whilst swinging but I would describe myself as straight. Im not put off by touching women, kissing women or having women perform oral sex on me. I have licked another woman, but I have to honestly say that I was putting on a show, going through the motions and doing it for her, rather than finding it sexually thrilling. Greedy as it seems, I enjoy women going down on me much more than me doing the same to them.
We both have the agreement that whatever we want to do in a swinging experience, we will do. We dont have many rules, but the two biggies are safe sex at all times and never different room swapping. Whatever else happens and it feels good and right at the time we do.
We are both comfortable and confident with our sexuality, we know what we are. Others would disagree, but we see it as if Chris sucked another guy, it doesnt make him gay or bi, if I do it to a woman, it doesnt make me bi. Its just a moment in time. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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well thanks iconic
we all have limits - and part of peasure giving and receiving is indeed not always what turns us on but we are happy to turn another on and indulge them -
but we all have limits - lines in the sand
not easy to define - in terms of straight - bicurious - bi - or gay
as that straight line runs up the middle somewhere bending left and right
its the politics of sex - the left and right leaning - the liberals in between
in terms of todays society we have gay marches - we dont have heterosexual or straight marches - unless you want to call in the bnp and EDL as that straight group
is it because sexuality is so varied its harder to define straight now than any other category
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Karma, step away fae R's pc (it's obviously getting to you) and pick up the phone ya tit xxxx"
lol are you phoning me im no hearing rings - and your bent you know it !
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I think its about being open to whatever happens but having ones own boundaries in to how far you will allow things to progress.
Going with the flow and having no agenda but sticking with ones own principles |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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very true peachy i think its hard for everyone to really define the line versus for some who have lots of experiences and they have good lines defined - to others who still have oooooos and mmmmms in fantasy wondering about the reality of them
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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God to read what some have said here you wonder if they have ever put anything Sausage or Fishy like near their mouths in their lives.
I agree with Soapy and that never happens. |
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"I referred to this in another thread the other day
Where a poster said that if a straight man can suck a cock hes bi
My answer to that was
Just because you like Italian food don't make you Italian Same with sex a bit of what ya fancy does ya good xx "
You're kidding right? A bloke sucks a cock but isn't necessarily bi? Which dictionary did you find that in? I would agree however that not all sausage eaters are bi because that's just food and has nothing to do with spaghetti |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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how straight is straight - how much does it bend a little for some but not for others
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Straight is straight. No room for doubt.
Any man who sucks cock AND has sex with women is bi.
Food has nothing to do with it.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I referred to this in another thread the other day
Where a poster said that if a straight man can suck a cock hes bi
My answer to that was
Just because you like Italian food don't make you Italian Same with sex a bit of what ya fancy does ya good xx
You're kidding right? A bloke sucks a cock but isn't necessarily bi? Which dictionary did you find that in? I would agree however that not all sausage eaters are bi because that's just food and has nothing to do with spaghetti
Is that the same in reverse if a guy sucks your cock on a meet does make you bi as well "
If you let him - yes. |
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"I referred to this in another thread the other day
Where a poster said that if a straight man can suck a cock hes bi
My answer to that was
Just because you like Italian food don't make you Italian Same with sex a bit of what ya fancy does ya good xx
You're kidding right? A bloke sucks a cock but isn't necessarily bi? Which dictionary did you find that in? I would agree however that not all sausage eaters are bi because that's just food and has nothing to do with spaghetti
Is that the same in reverse if a guy sucks your cock on a meet does make you bi as well
If you let him - yes."
In some situations i would say yes like a one to one meet with a guy yes but if its a cpl cpl or a cpl whos meeting a single guy |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I referred to this in another thread the other day
Where a poster said that if a straight man can suck a cock hes bi
My answer to that was
Just because you like Italian food don't make you Italian Same with sex a bit of what ya fancy does ya good xx "
Is that from the same school of thought that says if you're born in a barn doesn't make you a horse?!!
As far as I'm concerned as a straight woman I find nothing, and I mean nothing, sexual about another woman. I have no desire to want to see, smell, lick or touch another woman's pussy or have her do it to me.
If I did - then I would be bi curious.
I don't see why people seem so embarrassed and hung up on their sexuality. I could care less if another man wants to suck another man's cock, but be honest with yourself and don't try to bamboozle and fluff it up with make up words like het exible, and biplayful...it's fooling nobody - well not me any way! |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I referred to this in another thread the other day
Where a poster said that if a straight man can suck a cock hes bi
My answer to that was
Just because you like Italian food don't make you Italian Same with sex a bit of what ya fancy does ya good xx
Is that from the same school of thought that says if you're born in a barn doesn't make you a horse?!!
As far as I'm concerned as a straight woman I find nothing, and I mean nothing, sexual about another woman. I have no desire to want to see, smell, lick or touch another woman's pussy or have her do it to me.
If I did - then I would be bi curious.
I don't see why people seem so embarrassed and hung up on their sexuality. I could care less if another man wants to suck another man's cock, but be honest with yourself and don't try to bamboozle and fluff it up with make up words like hetexible, and biplayful...it's fooling nobody - well not me any way!"
Where did that smiley come from?!! |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"God to read what some have said here you wonder if they have ever put anything Sausage or Fishy like near their mouths in their lives.
I agree with Soapy and that never happens."
Can you tell me what you mean by "anything fishy" please. If you are referring to the taste of women, I personally find that statement really offensive. |
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"I referred to this in another thread the other day
Where a poster said that if a straight man can suck a cock hes bi
My answer to that was
Just because you like Italian food don't make you Italian Same with sex a bit of what ya fancy does ya good xx
You're kidding right? A bloke sucks a cock but isn't necessarily bi? Which dictionary did you find that in? I would agree however that not all sausage eaters are bi because that's just food and has nothing to do with spaghetti
Is that the same in reverse if a guy sucks your cock on a meet does make you bi as well "
Yes |
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By *iewMan
over a year ago
Forum Mod Angus & Findhorn |
I am going straight... fancy a change and if others can change their sexuality at the press of a 'delete' button, me too.
'anyone fancy a good pumping'... in a deep macho voice.
no lads....
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By *iewMan
over a year ago
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"yeah its a complex thing
we all have lines in the sand - and pigeon holes to fit in
so where does everyone fit on that straight line
About here
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By *iewMan
over a year ago
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yeah its a complex thing
we all have lines in the sand - and pigeon holes to fit in
so where does everyone fit on that straight line
About here
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----------------------------x--GAY "
and for that.... I can co-ordinate my own shirt and ties... belt and shoes.
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By *ugby 123Couple
over a year ago
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"I referred to this in another thread the other day
Where a poster said that if a straight man can suck a cock hes bi
My answer to that was
Just because you like Italian food don't make you Italian Same with sex a bit of what ya fancy does ya good xx
Is that from the same school of thought that says if you're born in a barn doesn't make you a horse?!!
As far as I'm concerned as a straight woman I find nothing, and I mean nothing, sexual about another woman. I have no desire to want to see, smell, lick or touch another woman's pussy or have her do it to me.
If I did - then I would be bi curious.
I don't see why people seem so embarrassed and hung up on their sexuality. I could care less if another man wants to suck another man's cock, but be honest with yourself and don't try to bamboozle and fluff it up with make up words like hetexible, and biplayful...it's fooling nobody - well not me any way!
Where did that smiley come from?!! "
haha did you write hetexible? it is the r o f l in the middle |
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By *mumaWoman
over a year ago
Livingston |
"I am going straight... fancy a change and if others can change their sexuality at the press of a 'delete' button, me too.
'anyone fancy a good pumping'... in a deep macho voice.
no lads....
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View, you sound like you've been possessed by a fugy!!!! |
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By *iewMan
over a year ago
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Today I am about here
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me....
str8-----------------------x--gay
me today, just not feeling the str8ness.
think Dolly on Daybreak sprinkled sparkles of camp on me. |
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Today I am about here
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me....
str8-----------------------x--gay
me today, just not feeling the str8ness.
think Dolly on Daybreak sprinkled sparkles of camp on me."
Are you humming 9 to 5 as you plump your scatter cushions? |
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By *iewMan
over a year ago
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Today I am about here
_______X________________________________________
me....
str8-----------------------x--gay
me today, just not feeling the str8ness.
think Dolly on Daybreak sprinkled sparkles of camp on me.
Are you humming 9 to 5 as you plump your scatter cushions?"
yup...... I is. |
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how straight is straight - how much does it bend a little for some but not for others
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well took me ten minutes to delete the first 90% of the quoted bit above.
My point is this shows beautifully just how crap and unsophisticated labels such as 'straight' really are! How many shades of red are there? how long is a piece of string? there are no answers to questions like these. How many decimal places does pi go to?
I am how I am, don't try to label me please! |
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By (user no longer on site)
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This is our understanding of the labels available here
Straight: - Sexual feelings or behavior directed toward a person of the opposite sex
Bi-curious: - Someone with a curiosity about sexual activity with someone of the same sex
Bisexual: - Sexual feelings or behavior directed towards people of both sexes
Gay: - Sexual feelings or behavior directed towards people of the same sex
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By *iewMan
over a year ago
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"This is our understanding of the labels available here
Straight: - Sexual feelings or behavior directed toward a person of the opposite sex
Bi-curious: - Someone with a curiosity about sexual activity with someone of the same sex
Bisexual: - Sexual feelings or behavior directed towards people of both sexes
Gay: - Sexual feelings or behavior directed towards people of the same sex
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YUP, there you have it |
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