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In peoples opinion how many real swingers are there on fab just a rough percentage
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Don't count me. Turns out I'm as far away from being a real swinger as you can be. No interest in group sex, voyeurism, exhibitionism, swapping or socialising |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"When I was meeting, I wasn't a swinger.
I was a women that enjoyed sexual encounters."
That's how I feel
I'm not a swingers I'm just a woman who meets guys for sex
It works for me |
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By *uzy444Woman
over a year ago
in the suffolk countryside |
"Are single people swingers? "
apparently we are swingles...amongst other things... 
as for my definition of swinger...its pretty inclusive..its a single or couple that enjoys sexual encounters with others for fun.
other definitions i have come across...its only for couples, that play with other couples.
some say singles arent swingers, unless they if they got into a relationship, would continue playing on the scene.
and others say lots of other stuff.i cant be bothered to type out  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I don't know how you are defining swinger but if you mean how many of them are actually on the level about meets, what they say and what they do:
Probably about 99% of the males.
Around 70% of the couples and less than 5% of the single females. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I don't know how you are defining swinger but if you mean how many of them are actually on the level about meets, what they say and what they do:
Probably about 99% of the males.
Around 70% of the couples and less than 5% of the single females. "
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"So it would seem singles are more of a nsa kinda group which works for them "
Depends who you ask
Some singles will defend they are swingers till the death, they wear their badge with pride 
For me, so long as I get what I'm looking for I don't much care for what you call it or labels
Or what site/club/real life I get it from |
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"Are single people swingers? apparently we are swingles...amongst other things...
as for my definition of swinger...its pretty inclusive..its a single or couple that enjoys sexual encounters with others for fun.
other definitions i have come across...its only for couples, that play with other couples.
some say singles arent swingers, unless they if they got into a relationship, would continue playing on the scene.
and others say lots of other stuff.i cant be bothered to type out "
^ What she said |
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"I don't know how you are defining swinger but if you mean how many of them are actually on the level about meets, what they say and what they do:
Probably about 99% of the males.
Around 70% of the couples and less than 5% of the single females. "
Less than 5% of the single women,gosh that's not much is it,they need to pull their weight more |
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By *uzy444Woman
over a year ago
in the suffolk countryside |
"So it would seem singles are more of a nsa kinda group which works for them
Spot on there. "
dont agree actually..there are alot of us who have non exclsive relationships on here..more poly, however we also share when we are out together..'swinger'.. not all singles are into just fucking.. |
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By *ovfan OP Man
over a year ago
Coventry |
"So it would seem singles are more of a nsa kinda group which works for them
Spot on there. dont agree actually..there are alot of us who have non exclsive relationships on here..more poly, however we also share when we are out together..'swinger'.. not all singles are into just fucking.."
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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We see the definition of a swinger as someone who enjoys NSA sexual encounters with like minded people that they fancy .
So based on that we would say that about 30% of the site are swingers . |
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By *imjohnCouple
over a year ago
Clacton on sea, Essex |
We have met genuine swingers here on Fab & rarely if any get time wasters, John also on his solo profile as always again met genuine people so it might be certain areas that are worse than others.
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"So it would seem singles are more of a nsa kinda group which works for them
Spot on there. dont agree actually..there are alot of us who have non exclsive relationships on here..more poly, however we also share when we are out together..'swinger'.. not all singles are into just fucking.."
where does none exclusive relationships connect to poly |
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By *uzy444Woman
over a year ago
in the suffolk countryside |
"So it would seem singles are more of a nsa kinda group which works for them
Spot on there. dont agree actually..there are alot of us who have non exclsive relationships on here..more poly, however we also share when we are out together..'swinger'.. not all singles are into just fucking..where does none exclusive relationships connect to poly"
poly is meaningful relationships with more than one partner ( doesnt mean you have to live or be married to them)..therefore its like having multiple friends with benefits..more than NSA sex, but not a relationship... |
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"So it would seem singles are more of a nsa kinda group which works for them
Spot on there. dont agree actually..there are alot of us who have non exclsive relationships on here..more poly, however we also share when we are out together..'swinger'.. not all singles are into just fucking..where does none exclusive relationships connect to polypoly is meaningful relationships with more than one partner ( doesnt mean you have to live or be married to them)..therefore its like having multiple friends with benefits..more than NSA sex, but not a relationship..."
well by that definition ive been poly all my life
Why do people have to label themselves all the while whats wrong with just getting on with it. It just amuses me that people have to keep sticking themselves in boxes |
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By *uzy444Woman
over a year ago
in the suffolk countryside |
"So it would seem singles are more of a nsa kinda group which works for them
Spot on there. dont agree actually..there are alot of us who have non exclsive relationships on here..more poly, however we also share when we are out together..'swinger'.. not all singles are into just fucking..where does none exclusive relationships connect to polypoly is meaningful relationships with more than one partner ( doesnt mean you have to live or be married to them)..therefore its like having multiple friends with benefits..more than NSA sex, but not a relationship...well by that definition ive been poly all my life
Why do people have to label themselves all the while whats wrong with just getting on with it. It just amuses me that people have to keep sticking themselves in boxes"
i dont define the boxes..i just fit into some shapes and not others..to communicate effectively with new people, to get across what you do and dont do, its helpful to use common terminology...we do it all the time..and while i am just a being, if it helps people understand something or someone else better, thats what words were invented for, imo...to communicate ideas or concepts... |
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"So it would seem singles are more of a nsa kinda group which works for them
Spot on there. dont agree actually..there are alot of us who have non exclsive relationships on here..more poly, however we also share when we are out together..'swinger'.. not all singles are into just fucking..where does none exclusive relationships connect to polypoly is meaningful relationships with more than one partner ( doesnt mean you have to live or be married to them)..therefore its like having multiple friends with benefits..more than NSA sex, but not a relationship...well by that definition ive been poly all my life
Why do people have to label themselves all the while whats wrong with just getting on with it. It just amuses me that people have to keep sticking themselves in boxesi dont define the boxes..i just fit into some shapes and not others..to communicate effectively with new people, to get across what you do and dont do, its helpful to use common terminology...we do it all the time..and while i am just a being, if it helps people understand something or someone else better, thats what words were invented for, imo...to communicate ideas or concepts..."
i dont think i fit into any shape. Im just karen shape. If i communicate with people they know what im about. I wouldnt even know where to begin anyway |
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By *uzy444Woman
over a year ago
in the suffolk countryside |
"So it would seem singles are more of a nsa kinda group which works for them
Spot on there. dont agree actually..there are alot of us who have non exclsive relationships on here..more poly, however we also share when we are out together..'swinger'.. not all singles are into just fucking..where does none exclusive relationships connect to polypoly is meaningful relationships with more than one partner ( doesnt mean you have to live or be married to them)..therefore its like having multiple friends with benefits..more than NSA sex, but not a relationship...well by that definition ive been poly all my life
Why do people have to label themselves all the while whats wrong with just getting on with it. It just amuses me that people have to keep sticking themselves in boxesi dont define the boxes..i just fit into some shapes and not others..to communicate effectively with new people, to get across what you do and dont do, its helpful to use common terminology...we do it all the time..and while i am just a being, if it helps people understand something or someone else better, thats what words were invented for, imo...to communicate ideas or concepts...i dont think i fit into any shape. Im just karen shape. If i communicate with people they know what im about. I wouldnt even know where to begin anyway"
i just meet people at where they meet me..however im getting used to fab and fet terminology...it helps me define to others what i like..if you cant beat em, join em..its stops me from getting frustrated with my expression xx |
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"So it would seem singles are more of a nsa kinda group which works for them
Spot on there. dont agree actually..there are alot of us who have non exclsive relationships on here..more poly, however we also share when we are out together..'swinger'.. not all singles are into just fucking..where does none exclusive relationships connect to polypoly is meaningful relationships with more than one partner ( doesnt mean you have to live or be married to them)..therefore its like having multiple friends with benefits..more than NSA sex, but not a relationship...well by that definition ive been poly all my life
Why do people have to label themselves all the while whats wrong with just getting on with it. It just amuses me that people have to keep sticking themselves in boxesi dont define the boxes..i just fit into some shapes and not others..to communicate effectively with new people, to get across what you do and dont do, its helpful to use common terminology...we do it all the time..and while i am just a being, if it helps people understand something or someone else better, thats what words were invented for, imo...to communicate ideas or concepts...i dont think i fit into any shape. Im just karen shape. If i communicate with people they know what im about. I wouldnt even know where to begin anyway i just meet people at where they meet me..however im getting used to fab and fet terminology...it helps me define to others what i like..if you cant beat em, join em..its stops me from getting frustrated with my expression xx"
guess thats why ive never really given it much thought as it doesnt cause me frustration |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"So it would seem singles are more of a nsa kinda group which works for them
Spot on there. dont agree actually..there are alot of us who have non exclsive relationships on here..more poly, however we also share when we are out together..'swinger'.. not all singles are into just fucking.."
Have to agree with you. So us singletons aren't real swingers we just fuck about? Hmmmmm |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I don't know how you are defining swinger but if you mean how many of them are actually on the level about meets, what they say and what they do:
Probably about 99% of the males.
Around 70% of the couples and less than 5% of the single females.
Less than 5% of the single women,gosh that's not much is it,they need to pull their weight more "
Dunno if pulling their weight is the right way to put it, but ceasing some of their dickishness would be so appreciated :D |
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By *ty31Man
over a year ago
NW London |
I wouldn't class myself as being a swinger, I just don't see the difference between having sex with a lady I meet thru here or at a swingers club/party and a one night stand I'd meet in the "real world" |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I would say about 35%"
About 15% imho. Simply because the number of single men dwarfs every other group and most of them wouldn't share their partner if they had one. |
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By *ovfan OP Man
over a year ago
Coventry |
"I would say about 35%
About 15% imho. Simply because the number of single men dwarfs every other group and most of them wouldn't share their partner if they had one. "
couldn't agree more |
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By *uzy444Woman
over a year ago
in the suffolk countryside |
"So it would seem singles are more of a nsa kinda group which works for them
Spot on there. dont agree actually..there are alot of us who have non exclsive relationships on here..more poly, however we also share when we are out together..'swinger'.. not all singles are into just fucking..
Have to agree with you. So us singletons aren't real swingers we just fuck about? Hmmmmm "
thats how some see it..i dont, but some do yes, if you are single you are just 'into casual sex' apparently... |
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By *ovfan OP Man
over a year ago
Coventry |
"So it would seem singles are more of a nsa kinda group which works for them
Spot on there. dont agree actually..there are alot of us who have non exclsive relationships on here..more poly, however we also share when we are out together..'swinger'.. not all singles are into just fucking..
Have to agree with you. So us singletons aren't real swingers we just fuck about? Hmmmmm thats how some see it..i dont, but some do yes, if you are single you are just 'into casual sex' apparently..."
casual sex for singles is all about harmless fun and providing both party's are happy with that I don't see it as a problem |
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By *andom2chatMan
over a year ago
A Galaxy Far, Far Away & Spain |
All the folk I've met at Socials seem to be swingers. Can't speak for the ones who I've not met, but I'm not fussed about the ones I've not met as I'm mostly sticking with my regular playmates now. Too many weekender profiles & fantasists convinced me to keep the circle of my friends tight.  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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As being quite new to the swinging scene this is one thing I've been quite nervous about to begin with I'd hope it was quite high but there's always some that ruin the fun |
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By *ee VianteWoman
over a year ago
Somewhere in North Norfolk |
"I would say about 35%
About 15% imho. Simply because the number of single men dwarfs every other group and most of them wouldn't share their partner if they had one. "
A lot of them do have one and don't even tell them they're "swinging"  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"100%
I thinking Swinging encompasses many different variations. Everyone on here is a Swinger.
Even me. 
I'm not! "
Looking at your new avatar, you will be if you bend over |
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By *100Man
over a year ago
Essex |
I don't meet but I do cam and chat and have been a paying gold member for over 2 years and I love to fab but I don't waste anyone's time so I cant see why anyone should have a problem with that I know admin won't ££££ |
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I don't have a partner to share or explore sexual fantasies but if I get into another long term relationship and she is up for meeting then I'd say I'm a swinger. Currently I'm a single guy who enjoys meeting couples to explore their fantasies |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"We see the definition of a swinger as someone who enjoys NSA sexual encounters with like minded people that they fancy .
So based on that we would say that about 30% of the site are swingers ."
0.0001% of the forums? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I would say about 35%
About 15% imho. Simply because the number of single men dwarfs every other group and most of them wouldn't share their partner if they had one. "
This confused me... made me think of really short guys. |
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By *uzy444Woman
over a year ago
in the suffolk countryside |
"I would say about 35%
About 15% imho. Simply because the number of single men dwarfs every other group and most of them wouldn't share their partner if they had one.
This confused me... made me think of really short guys. "
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