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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Also, the words/phrases; "end of" "jog on" and of course, fucking "simples."
GET. FUCKED. "
Sooo, anything said in every sentence in an episode of Jeremy Kyle  |
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"Also, the words/phrases; "end of" "jog on" and of course, fucking "simples."
GET. FUCKED.
Sooo, anything said in every sentence in an episode of Jeremy Kyle "
I'll have to take your word for that. But they definitely appear, always at least two and usually all three, on the profiles of a very particular demographic of lady swinger... |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Also, the words/phrases; "end of" "jog on" and of course, fucking "simples."
GET. FUCKED.
Sooo, anything said in every sentence in an episode of Jeremy Kyle
I'll have to take your word for that. But they definitely appear, always at least two and usually all three, on the profiles of a very particular demographic of lady swinger..."
The demanding sort? |
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"What's everyone's immediate turn off? Mine is when people expect me to act a certain way because I'm bisexual"
That's not an instant turn-off for me. I'll happily set the record straight and, if necessary, turn the tables 
But I know what you mean. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"What's everyone's immediate turn off? Mine is when people expect me to act a certain way because I'm bisexual
That's not an instant turn-off for me. I'll happily set the record straight and, if necessary, turn the tables
But I know what you mean."
I apparantly act like I am straight  . No idea what that means. I am a fabulous and relentless Queen |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Shit car
Shit clothes
Shit small talk
Shit house
Shit attitude
Shit Shit and Tripple Shit
Holy shit that's a lot of shit "
She left out shit language |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Barely coherent messages.
I had one recently that read ";"
Just
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Only half a wink? Thats pretty bad  "
Even a full wink would be bad. Then again, I've never actually seen someone wink sexally |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Barely coherent messages.
I had one recently that read ";"
Just
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Only half a wink? Thats pretty bad
Even a full wink would be bad. Then again, I've never actually seen someone wink sexally"
Oh, you should see me when I'm d*unk, I do it beautifully... |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Barely coherent messages.
I had one recently that read ";"
Just
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Only half a wink? Thats pretty bad
Even a full wink would be bad. Then again, I've never actually seen someone wink sexally
Oh, you should see me when I'm d*unk, I do it beautifully... "
You strike me as the sort who could pull with one stern look in all honesty :') |
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By *ucyfur77Woman
over a year ago
Pleasuretown |
"Barely coherent messages.
I had one recently that read ";"
Just
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Only half a wink? Thats pretty bad
Even a full wink would be bad. Then again, I've never actually seen someone wink sexally
Oh, you should see me when I'm d*unk, I do it beautifully... "
I can't do it without looking like I have something in my eye
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Gynaecologically explicit pictures, I love a little bit of erotic mystery.
Bugger (runs off to hide her butt plug shot even though it's all sparkly)"
No, that's beautifully erotic  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Barely coherent messages.
I had one recently that read ";"
Just
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Only half a wink? Thats pretty bad
Even a full wink would be bad. Then again, I've never actually seen someone wink sexally
Oh, you should see me when I'm d*unk, I do it beautifully...
You strike me as the sort who could pull with one stern look in all honesty :')"
I better learn how to do a stern look then? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"How to make the entire forum cringe with one letter....
Mmmmmmmm
*drops mic and walks off* 
Or one word.
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Moist"
Mmmmmm moister than an oyster |
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By *ucyfur77Woman
over a year ago
Pleasuretown |
"Barely coherent messages.
I had one recently that read ";"
Just
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Only half a wink? Thats pretty bad
Even a full wink would be bad. Then again, I've never actually seen someone wink sexally"
Yes, terribly offensive. |
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"Barely coherent messages.
I had one recently that read ";"
Just
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Only half a wink? Thats pretty bad
Even a full wink would be bad. Then again, I've never actually seen someone wink sexally"
Oh, that might explain it. Half a wink.
Thanks 
That's been bothering me. |
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By *workoutMan
over a year ago
Cradley Heath |
"Gynaecologically explicit pictures, I love a little bit of erotic mystery.
Bugger (runs off to hide her butt plug shot even though it's all sparkly)"
Had to go find that one, it is indeed all sparkly! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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To sum it all up, bad taste and no sense of humour.
Also people expecting reasons for why they aren't the type im looking for. Then when i reveal why they aren't for me, even if i do so in the most delicate of manners they take such a massive huff.
But hey their problem not mine. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Using "discrete" instead of "discreet"
Maybe they are unique?
Badaboom, tish!
I'll get my coat...
Pmsl, sadly, they're all over the place!"
I've got to admit, including me at one point. Never again though, promise |
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Spelling mistakes in profiles or in a sent message ...Please check first
Not bringing condoms!!!
Asking if ive got kik or skype
Asking for my number or sending me theirs .
Asking what I will be wearing
Do I squirt .
..... NEXT !!!!!!!!! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Using "discrete" instead of "discreet"
Maybe they are unique?
Badaboom, tish!
I'll get my coat...
Pmsl, sadly, they're all over the place!
I've got to admit, including me at one point. Never again though, promise "
Spellcheck did it to me, I thought it looked odd, gone now! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Asking me what I'm wearing now.
If I've arranged to meet what I'm going to wear.
Asking if I squirt
Manky finger/toe nails
Sex talk early on in a convo
Lots of things "
yeah the asking if i squirt puts me off too because you know if you meet them your going to have to endure constant finger blasting |
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"Asking me what I'm wearing now.
If I've arranged to meet what I'm going to wear.
Asking if I squirt
Manky finger/toe nails
Sex talk early on in a convo
Lots of things
yeah the asking if i squirt puts me off too because you know if you meet them your going to have to endure constant finger blasting "
To make them feel like a hero |
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By *oxesMan
over a year ago
Southend, Essex |
inability to hold a decent convirsation,
the mere mention of rimming, watersports or bukkake,
talking or showing pictures of sexy clothing, great does abso nothing for me.
assuming that because I am a single male, that at the nearest and most oppotune moment I will want to have sex with you and can't understand when I turn them down. Seriusly who do youthink I am easy or something. secondly i do have a life away from swinging.
that said I belive through reflection that possibly that instability, inability to understand the suposed 'signs'. Inability to accommodate and a certain cynicism apparently might be a turn off for women. |
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By *oxesMan
over a year ago
Southend, Essex |
"Self entitlement. Drives me fucking barmy. "
wherehas this self entitlment came from they recently did a study and found that from a cohort of 300 males found that overwelmingly tgey were entitled to women. this had led the government to perform there own reserch with a much wider cohort. |
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By *oxesMan
over a year ago
Southend, Essex |
"Self entitlement. Drives me fucking barmy.
wherehas this self entitlment came from they recently did a study and found that from a cohort of 300 males found that overwelmingly tgey were entitled to women. this had led the government to perform there own reserch with a much wider cohort."
sorry i forgot to mention the cohort was on teenagers. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Self entitlement. Drives me fucking barmy.
wherehas this self entitlment came from they recently did a study and found that from a cohort of 300 males found that overwelmingly tgey were entitled to women. this had led the government to perform there own reserch with a much wider cohort.
sorry i forgot to mention the cohort was on teenagers."
Over-indulgence by parents combined with easy access to porn |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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When you start having a conversation with someone and then with in minutes it's, have you got any naughty pics and video you can send me Etc. then it's all about sex and no talking.. really drives me mad and then that's it the talk stops and move on  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"When you start having a conversation with someone and then with in minutes it's, have you got any naughty pics and video you can send me Etc. then it's all about sex and no talking.. really drives me mad and then that's it the talk stops and move on "
Agree  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Hypocrisy, prejudice and making assumptions. No sense of humour. Lack of manners. Little grasp of the English language. Disdain for those they see as 'beneath' them somehow. Abusive or questioning mails when I haven't got back to them within five minutes. Clinginess. Bad hygiene. Jealousy. Chip on the shoulder.
Good god. I'm actually quite picky.  |
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"Action" pics involving a guy.
Mention of (male) FB watching or joining in.
Long lists of demands or rules.
Generalisations ("Nobody ever reads profiles so...")
Women who not only express a preference for or against something (very useful), but then act like no other lady in the world would ever want the opposite. Usually one profile warning against the dire consequences of sending a cock pic with "no wonder guys aren't successful on here", or "have a bit of self respect" - then the very next profile saying messages without one will be deleted!
Male cum in pictures.
Huge lists of meet verifications.
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"When you start having a conversation with someone and then with in minutes it's, have you got any naughty pics and video you can send me Etc. then it's all about sex and no talking.. really drives me mad and then that's it the talk stops and move on "
I understand that pov entirely, but it can be very difficult for guys to judge without knowing the other person. I'm more than happy to have "getting-to-know-someone" chat(s) before any mention of sex, but there are plenty of women as well as blokes of the "it's a sex site, tell me you what you want to do to me" mindset. Too clean and we're "boring", too explicit too early and we're "crude"! The best that we can hope for is a hint of the best approach on their profile... It's a game and a half this Fab lark! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Checking fab whilst sitting next you and showing you there next conquests.... "
We had a guy once whilst during a meet was always on his phone (fuck we must be boring) when we jokingly asked if he was texting his wife he replied no he was on fab |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"When you start having a conversation with someone and then with in minutes it's, have you got any naughty pics and video you can send me Etc. then it's all about sex and no talking.. really drives me mad and then that's it the talk stops and move on
I understand that pov entirely, but it can be very difficult for guys to judge without knowing the other person. I'm more than happy to have "getting-to-know-someone" chat(s) before any mention of sex, but there are plenty of women as well as blokes of the "it's a sex site, tell me you what you want to do to me" mindset. Too clean and we're "boring", too explicit too early and we're "crude"! The best that we can hope for is a hint of the best approach on their profile... It's a game and a half this Fab lark!"
That's true and understanding that.. it with in the first 2 messages have you got pics and video just a bit to forward and comes across a collector rather then anything else.. I get changing face pics etc but naughty ones and video just a bit to much to fast in my opinion x |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Checking fab whilst sitting next you and showing you there next conquests....
We had a guy once whilst during a meet was always on his phone (fuck we must be boring) when we jokingly asked if he was texting his wife he replied no he was on fab "
The addiction is real lol |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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For me its 'lack of charactor'
Had a meet once & was bored out my mind within 1st 10mins, I had to put in all the effort to make conversation & everything & when I'm came to it, let's just say sticking my dick in a cold pie wld have been more exciting |
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Beard hate! I don't just mean not liking beards, of course that's absolutely fine. It takes all sorts to make a liquorice. I mean the unnecessarily venomous beard hate, those that can't just put "No beards" without following it up with a downright offensive ranting attack. "No beards yuk horrible disgusting smelly things why would you want to look like a dirty smelly tramp it makes me sick" that sort of thing.
A: My beard gets brushed twice a day and cleaned more often than your gash, you judgemental mongol.
And B: Don't launch such a scathing attack on people you don't know for no reason, you psycho. Imagine that same rant on a bloke's profile, but replace "beards" with "fat girls." You'd be furious at the nasty, misogynistic piece of shit, and rightly so.
(NB: I most certainly do not feel that way about "fat" girls. I absolutely adore a bigger body. Don't just read the last bit and get angry...) |
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By *ucyfur77Woman
over a year ago
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"Beard hate! I don't just mean not liking beards, of course that's absolutely fine. It takes all sorts to make a liquorice. I mean the unnecessarily venomous beard hate, those that can't just put "No beards" without following it up with a downright offensive ranting attack. "No beards yuk horrible disgusting smelly things why would you want to look like a dirty smelly tramp it makes me sick" that sort of thing.
A: My beard gets brushed twice a day and cleaned more often than your gash, you judgemental mongol.
And B: Don't launch such a scathing attack on people you don't know for no reason, you psycho. Imagine that same rant on a bloke's profile, but replace "beards" with "fat girls." You'd be furious at the nasty, misogynistic piece of shit, and rightly so.
(NB: I most certainly do not feel that way about "fat" girls. I absolutely adore a bigger body. Don't just read the last bit and get angry...)"
Wow |
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"Beard hate! I don't just mean not liking beards, of course that's absolutely fine. It takes all sorts to make a liquorice. I mean the unnecessarily venomous beard hate, those that can't just put "No beards" without following it up with a downright offensive ranting attack. "No beards yuk horrible disgusting smelly things why would you want to look like a dirty smelly tramp it makes me sick" that sort of thing.
A: My beard gets brushed twice a day and cleaned more often than your gash, you judgemental mongol.
And B: Don't launch such a scathing attack on people you don't know for no reason, you psycho. Imagine that same rant on a bloke's profile, but replace "beards" with "fat girls." You'd be furious at the nasty, misogynistic piece of shit, and rightly so.
(NB: I most certainly do not feel that way about "fat" girls. I absolutely adore a bigger body. Don't just read the last bit and get angry...)
Wow "
If you only realised how frequently one comes across this kind of shite... |
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By *ucyfur77Woman
over a year ago
Pleasuretown |
"Beard hate! I don't just mean not liking beards, of course that's absolutely fine. It takes all sorts to make a liquorice. I mean the unnecessarily venomous beard hate, those that can't just put "No beards" without following it up with a downright offensive ranting attack. "No beards yuk horrible disgusting smelly things why would you want to look like a dirty smelly tramp it makes me sick" that sort of thing.
A: My beard gets brushed twice a day and cleaned more often than your gash, you judgemental mongol.
And B: Don't launch such a scathing attack on people you don't know for no reason, you psycho. Imagine that same rant on a bloke's profile, but replace "beards" with "fat girls." You'd be furious at the nasty, misogynistic piece of shit, and rightly so.
(NB: I most certainly do not feel that way about "fat" girls. I absolutely adore a bigger body. Don't just read the last bit and get angry...)
Wow
If you only realised how frequently one comes across this kind of shite..."
Your post and choice of language makes it quite clear, hence the expression |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"What's everyone's immediate turn off? Mine is when people expect me to act a certain way because I'm bisexual"
bad breath (gags) bad hygiene and bad attitude |
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By *oxesMan
over a year ago
Southend, Essex |
"Graphic usernames and unnecessary bitchy nasty posts on the forums"
The Irony is that I like graphic usernames its a turn on. It alias the mind to wonder what could possibly be and what z profile like or are good at. |
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By *oxesMan
over a year ago
Southend, Essex |
"Hypocrisy, prejudice and making assumptions. No sense of humour. Lack of manners. Little grasp of the English language. Disdain for those they see as 'beneath' them somehow. Abusive or questioning mails when I haven't got back to them within five minutes. Clinginess. Bad hygiene. Jealousy. Chip on the shoulder.
Good god. I'm actually quite picky. "
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"The ignorant, those who can't write a proper sentence and those who swear!
I'm really bad for swearing f*** that! It's normal to f****** swear lol "
I hate people who swear in every day conversation
I guess we all swear at some point, when we are angry etc
My ex swears every other word, he can't string a sentence together without half a dozen swear words in there, I know a few others like that too, to me it just shows lack of intelligence, to thick to think of the correct word so just strings a loads of sweat words together and pass it off as conversation |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"The ignorant, those who can't write a proper sentence and those who swear!
I'm really bad for swearing f*** that! It's normal to f****** swear lol
I hate people who swear in every day conversation
I guess we all swear at some point, when we are angry etc
My ex swears every other word, he can't string a sentence together without half a dozen swear words in there, I know a few others like that too, to me it just shows lack of intelligence, to thick to think of the correct word so just strings a loads of sweat words together and pass it off as conversation "
too* thick...  |
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"The ignorant, those who can't write a proper sentence and those who swear!
I'm really bad for swearing f*** that! It's normal to f****** swear lol
I hate people who swear in every day conversation
I guess we all swear at some point, when we are angry etc
My ex swears every other word, he can't string a sentence together without half a dozen swear words in there, I know a few others like that too, to me it just shows lack of intelligence, to thick to think of the correct word so just strings a loads of sweat words together and pass it off as conversation "
To paraphrase Steven fry, foul language is a good thing and the more intelligent people in this world tend to use it more often than most. Its not an inability to find the correct word as there are no correct words when you are forming a sentence, only a colourful use of the language as we know it. |
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By *imiUKMan
over a year ago
Hereford |
Even as a single feller, I've had the odd "Hi, how r u?" message from single ladies.
Fuck that. I usually reply to most messages, but they go straight in the bin. Instant turn off.
If you are going to message me, please, at least be able to communicate in sentences. Thank you. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Even as a single feller, I've had the odd "Hi, how r u?" message from single ladies.
Fuck that. I usually reply to most messages, but they go straight in the bin. Instant turn off.
If you are going to message me, please, at least be able to communicate in sentences. Thank you. "
Hi, how are you? 
Nice profile pictures btw #justsaying  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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For me, it has to be those people, that we all know, that challenge what you said, until they are blue in the face, on the dumbest, and dullest subject, that briefly made an appearance in conversation.
For example;
Me: "I cooked a roast yesterday. I've found that roasting potatoes in olive oil, after seasoning and sprinkling a bit of garlic and rosemary, works for me"
Arsehole:
"No" [now this is the bit that grinds me] "What you want to do is......" [5 minutes later........]
Me (in my head, after submitting and changing the subject, because I don't care, but am too polite to say so):
"Shut up, you absolute twat!"
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