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Anyone got some hugs going spare?
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Could do with them..
Parenting is sooooo hard at times.  "
I feel your pain I have 3 little ones and they push as far as they can haha
Huge cuddles , snuggles and pampering sent your way  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"It's the most difficult, scary, frustrating, exhausting job ever especially if your a single parent (but also the most rewarding)
*Sends Hugs* x"
I would not just say for single parents, bringing up a child for anyone is hard work. If you're alone yes its obviously harder but doesnt make it easy for a couple  |
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By *mmmMaybeCouple
over a year ago
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"Could do with them..
Parenting is sooooo hard at times. "
Tell is about it!! Seriously considering digging a couple of holes in the field out back!!
"Go to sleep you little fxxxxxs!"
Sending spare hugs your way!!
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By *isaB45Woman
over a year ago
Fabville |
"Thanks all for the hugs and love
She's not a pain or being difficult.. she is just growing up and realizing the sad truth about people she loves.. "
You are the best, most amazing person in her life. Never doubt that xxx |
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By *urpurseCouple
over a year ago
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"Thanks all for the hugs and love
She's not a pain or being difficult.. she is just growing up and realizing the sad truth about people she loves.. "
Oh it is hard when they see us as people with all of our inevitable flaws and we all do, no one is perfect, the fact that you are trying is more than enough.......all you can be is a 'good enough parent' a great guy once said Didicott I think |
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"It's the most difficult, scary, frustrating, exhausting job ever especially if your a single parent (but also the most rewarding)
*Sends Hugs* x"
see i dont get this. Parenting is bloody hard work full stop. I dont think it would have been any less hard work if i hadnt been a single parent |
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"It's the most difficult, scary, frustrating, exhausting job ever especially if your a single parent (but also the most rewarding)
*Sends Hugs* xsee i dont get this. Parenting is bloody hard work full stop. I dont think it would have been any less hard work if i hadnt been a single parent"
It's harder work when the other parent virtually disappears from their lives and your child thinks it's something they have done wrong. I've spent 2 years reassuring my little girl that she hadn't done anything to make her dad go away. It's very hard seeing that pain your child is going through and not being able to take it away was what I meant |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Having gone through difficult times with my ex being an absent parent I realised that I couldn't make my ex have the relationship with our child that I believed our child deserved. I did everything I could to facilitate and support their relationship whilst ensuring that I was the 'constant' - always there, steady, reliable, security etc
It really isn't easy when your cHild is asking if their Dad is dead because they just disappeared
Or the child is facing up to how unreliable the other parent is - lying etc
I always answered the questions and I think that and lots of love, reassurance and normality got us through
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"You can have one but I'm hanging onto what little hugs i have at the moment. I need them too.x"
will share the love.. everyone needs it xxx
Hope your life events ease up x |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I've never needed hugs so much in my damn life, but imma keep it on the down low.
Tomorrow is a new day sweetie, rest up and *huuuuuuuggg* from me - I give the beat hugs, proven fact! Haha Xx |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Having gone through difficult times with my ex being an absent parent I realised that I couldn't make my ex have the relationship with our child that I believed our child deserved. I did everything I could to facilitate and support their relationship whilst ensuring that I was the 'constant' - always there, steady, reliable, security etc
It really isn't easy when your cHild is asking if their Dad is dead because they just disappeared
Or the child is facing up to how unreliable the other parent is - lying etc
I always answered the questions and I think that and lots of love, reassurance and normality got us through
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feel a bit crap and frustrated.. ive always wanted them to have some kind of bond...
she adores the idea of a dad and worships the toy dog he won for her once at the arcade. She named it after him and goes to bed every night with it..
and now she picks up that he really doesnt have the time of day for her and she is the one hurting..
i feel guilty for trying to force a relationship when he clearly never gave a toss,, so indirectly she's suffering because i never gave up on their bond as quick as he did
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Having gone through difficult times with my ex being an absent parent I realised that I couldn't make my ex have the relationship with our child that I believed our child deserved. I did everything I could to facilitate and support their relationship whilst ensuring that I was the 'constant' - always there, steady, reliable, security etc
It really isn't easy when your cHild is asking if their Dad is dead because they just disappeared
Or the child is facing up to how unreliable the other parent is - lying etc
I always answered the questions and I think that and lots of love, reassurance and normality got us through
feel a bit crap and frustrated.. ive always wanted them to have some kind of bond...
she adores the idea of a dad and worships the toy dog he won for her once at the arcade. She named it after him and goes to bed every night with it..
and now she picks up that he really doesnt have the time of day for her and she is the one hurting..
i feel guilty for trying to force a relationship when he clearly never gave a toss,, so indirectly she's suffering because i never gave up on their bond as quick as he did
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You were doing what you thought was right at the time. Don't beat yourself up about it and concentrate on moving forward x x |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Parenting is really, really hard at times, it's one of the few things we learn 'on the job' so to speak.
Remember the hard times don't last too long, think back to what was hard previously, somehow it worked itself out & you moved on, do you see what I'm getting at?
I have had challenge after challenge with my son, teenage hormones are really something!!
Big hugs
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Parenting is really, really hard at times, it's one of the few things we learn 'on the job' so to speak.
Remember the hard times don't last too long, think back to what was hard previously, somehow it worked itself out & you moved on, do you see what I'm getting at?
I have had challenge after challenge with my son, teenage hormones are really something!!
Big hugs
xx
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So are nits!! Eurgh! Little critters....  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Parenting is really, really hard at times, it's one of the few things we learn 'on the job' so to speak.
Remember the hard times don't last too long, think back to what was hard previously, somehow it worked itself out & you moved on, do you see what I'm getting at?
I have had challenge after challenge with my son, teenage hormones are really something!!
Big hugs
xx
So are nits!! Eurgh! Little critters.... "
Oh gawd yeah, don't get me started on them!! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Could do with them..
Parenting is sooooo hard at times. "
Green arrow me for my cuddle thread. It has been resurrected and free hugs and cuddles for all. Mr L. |
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"Parenting is really, really hard at times, it's one of the few things we learn 'on the job' so to speak.
Remember the hard times don't last too long, think back to what was hard previously, somehow it worked itself out & you moved on, do you see what I'm getting at?
I have had challenge after challenge with my son, teenage hormones are really something!!
Big hugs
xx
So are nits!! Eurgh! Little critters.... "
Oh no, have the itchy scratchy monsters come to visit  |
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"Parenting is really, really hard at times, it's one of the few things we learn 'on the job' so to speak.
Remember the hard times don't last too long, think back to what was hard previously, somehow it worked itself out & you moved on, do you see what I'm getting at?
I have had challenge after challenge with my son, teenage hormones are really something!!
Big hugs
xx
So are nits!! Eurgh! Little critters.... "
Absolute pain when one of your daughters hair is very long  |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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So are nits!! Eurgh! Little critters....
Absolute pain when one of your daughters hair is very long "
My daughters hair is almost at her bum.. but yes its a constant battle..
boils my piss no end when some parents just dont give a shit
Nitty Gritty comb is a god send :D |
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By *urpurseCouple
over a year ago
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"Parenting is really, really hard at times, it's one of the few things we learn 'on the job' so to speak.
Remember the hard times don't last too long, think back to what was hard previously, somehow it worked itself out & you moved on, do you see what I'm getting at?
I have had challenge after challenge with my son, teenage hormones are really something!!
Big hugs
xx
So are nits!! Eurgh! Little critters....
Absolute pain when one of your daughters hair is very long "
We talked about last resort of shaving long hair off when nits struck us......thankfully just averted it!! |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Parenting is really, really hard at times, it's one of the few things we learn 'on the job' so to speak.
Remember the hard times don't last too long, think back to what was hard previously, somehow it worked itself out & you moved on, do you see what I'm getting at?
I have had challenge after challenge with my son, teenage hormones are really something!!
Big hugs
xx
So are nits!! Eurgh! Little critters....
Oh no, have the itchy scratchy monsters come to visit "
Yep....luckily only for my eldest...the rest of us passed the comb test.... |
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"Parenting is really, really hard at times, it's one of the few things we learn 'on the job' so to speak.
Remember the hard times don't last too long, think back to what was hard previously, somehow it worked itself out & you moved on, do you see what I'm getting at?
I have had challenge after challenge with my son, teenage hormones are really something!!
Big hugs
xx
So are nits!! Eurgh! Little critters....
Absolute pain when one of your daughters hair is very long
We talked about last resort of shaving long hair off when nits struck us......thankfully just averted it!!"
I was alway's threatened her with it |
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So are nits!! Eurgh! Little critters....
Absolute pain when one of your daughters hair is very long
My daughters hair is almost at her bum.. but yes its a constant battle..
boils my piss no end when some parents just dont give a shit
Nitty Gritty comb is a god send :D "
It's hard to keep at bay as girl's are so huggy with each other,nit's are a bloody nuisance |
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"Parenting is really, really hard at times, it's one of the few things we learn 'on the job' so to speak.
Remember the hard times don't last too long, think back to what was hard previously, somehow it worked itself out & you moved on, do you see what I'm getting at?
I have had challenge after challenge with my son, teenage hormones are really something!!
Big hugs
xx
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not to long. From the age of two to 26 so far for me, getting them through childhood then teenage years, then a young adult, getting them back on the rails if they fall off. Supporting them through relationship break ups. Sometimes just being by their side is challenging enough |
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