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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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i know its hard on here for guys to get a meet while unverified ... And without the meet no verification ... Vicious circle
However is it just me that is really wary of profile that have been here for over a year and never had even a cam veri?
I tend to think they are either fantasists, fakes or in a relationship so will never actully meet ... If i get a message from one i just delete no matter how nice i think they look
Am i being a bit presumptious or do other people feel the same? |
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"i know its hard on here for guys to get a meet while unverified ... And without the meet no verification ... Vicious circle
However is it just me that is really wary of profile that have been here for over a year and never had even a cam veri?
I tend to think they are either fantasists, fakes or in a relationship so will never actully meet ... If i get a message from one i just delete no matter how nice i think they look
Am i being a bit presumptious or do other people feel the same? "
I seem to get guys messaging at night with those sorts of profiles.
I think most just masturbate at their pc over pics etc 
When 2am+ hits i get swamped in lame messages from guys with no pics and no veris hah ! |
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By *ee VianteWoman
over a year ago
Somewhere in North Norfolk |
"i know its hard on here for guys to get a meet while unverified ... And without the meet no verification ... Vicious circle
However is it just me that is really wary of profile that have been here for over a year and never had even a cam veri?
I tend to think they are either fantasists, fakes or in a relationship so will never actully meet ... If i get a message from one i just delete no matter how nice i think they look
Am i being a bit presumptious or do other people feel the same? "
No, it's not just you.
I'm very dubious when someone with a profile over a year old with no veris contacts me for a meet. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"i know its hard on here for guys to get a meet while unverified ... And without the meet no verification ... Vicious circle
However is it just me that is really wary of profile that have been here for over a year and never had even a cam veri?
I tend to think they are either fantasists, fakes or in a relationship so will never actully meet ... If i get a message from one i just delete no matter how nice i think they look
Am i being a bit presumptious or do other people feel the same?
No, it's not just you.
I'm very dubious when someone with a profile over a year old with no veris contacts me for a meet."
Me too and all the ones I have chatted to have backed out of meeting, just fantasy and dreams for them. XXX |
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By *ee VianteWoman
over a year ago
Somewhere in North Norfolk |
"I havent posted veries for a while, some people dont believe them and enjoy having a go so now i dont bother to even ask"
You don't have no veris at all though, so you're not in the group this thread is about. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Some guys hide their veri and veri status
There a guy here I've merry twice
His profile looks like he hasn't met anyone"
Even if they hide their veris and summary , they would still have the green tick |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"i know its hard on here for guys to get a meet while unverified ... And without the meet no verification ... Vicious circle
However is it just me that is really wary of profile that have been here for over a year and never had even a cam veri?
I tend to think they are either fantasists, fakes or in a relationship so will never actully meet ... If i get a message from one i just delete no matter how nice i think they look
Am i being a bit presumptious or do other people feel the same? "
Keep your wits about sure, but give 'em a chance. Social public meet first off. DO NOT park in a secluded spot. Take a rape alarm and a can of mace and get to it!!
Have fun!  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Not always true. I have met two people that were not verified. After meeting them I didn't verify them and they didn't ask me to.
However, I am wary of these people. Can't be dealing with anymore pic collectors right now. |
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"i know its hard on here for guys to get a meet while unverified ... And without the meet no verification ... Vicious circle
However is it just me that is really wary of profile that have been here for over a year and never had even a cam veri?
I tend to think they are either fantasists, fakes or in a relationship so will never actully meet ... If i get a message from one i just delete no matter how nice i think they look
Am i being a bit presumptious or do other people feel the same?
Keep your wits about sure, but give 'em a chance. Social public meet first off. DO NOT park in a secluded spot. Take a rape alarm and a can of mace and get to it!!
Have fun! "
Why would you want to meet anyone that is so nervous to veri themselves on a sex site?
I wouldnt reccomend meeting anyone that cant be bothered to upload pics or have himself verified.
Theres thousands of people on FabSwingers. . Why waste your time with dreamers and time wasters?
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Not always true. I have met two people that were not verified. After meeting them I didn't verify them and they didn't ask me to.
However, I am wary of these people. Can't be dealing with anymore pic collectors right now. "
I think i would meet people who were unverified ... We all had to start that way ... But i usually check to see how long they have been on and unverified ... If its anymore than about 6 months i wont even waste my time replying or chatting now |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"i know its hard on here for guys to get a meet while unverified ... And without the meet no verification ... Vicious circle
However is it just me that is really wary of profile that have been here for over a year and never had even a cam veri?
I tend to think they are either fantasists, fakes or in a relationship so will never actully meet ... If i get a message from one i just delete no matter how nice i think they look
Am i being a bit presumptious or do other people feel the same?
Keep your wits about sure, but give 'em a chance. Social public meet first off. DO NOT park in a secluded spot. Take a rape alarm and a can of mace and get to it!!
Have fun! "
Ah rape alarms and mace ... Just the things i want to be thinking about before a meet to get me in the mood  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Not always true. I have met two people that were not verified. After meeting them I didn't verify them and they didn't ask me to.
However, I am wary of these people. Can't be dealing with anymore pic collectors right now.
I think i would meet people who were unverified ... We all had to start that way ... But i usually check to see how long they have been on and unverified ... If its anymore than about 6 months i wont even waste my time replying or chatting now "
I only agree to have socials so if it's over 6 months it won't bother me because It's just a drink. If they don't turn up I won't cry about it. Can make a decent beverage at home; saved me paying for one lol |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"i know its hard on here for guys to get a meet while unverified ... And without the meet no verification ... Vicious circle
However is it just me that is really wary of profile that have been here for over a year and never had even a cam veri?
I tend to think they are either fantasists, fakes or in a relationship so will never actully meet ... If i get a message from one i just delete no matter how nice i think they look
Am i being a bit presumptious or do other people feel the same?
Keep your wits about sure, but give 'em a chance. Social public meet first off. DO NOT park in a secluded spot. Take a rape alarm and a can of mace and get to it!!
Have fun!
Ah rape alarms and mace ... Just the things i want to be thinking about before a meet to get me in the mood "
My rape alarm goes everywhere with me and yes they work. Found that out when I got mine caught and accidentally let it off  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I'm probably one of those, been here a while but no successful verifications although I'm photo verified. Give people a chance but I agree your always going to put your safety first. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"I'm probably one of those, been here a while but no successful verifications although I'm photo verified. Give people a chance but I agree your always going to put your safety first. "
3 months isnt long ... Im not daft im aware that it can take guys a while to get a meet and get started on here
I just think when it gets longer than about 6 months its probably something more than someone not taking a chance on you  |
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By *ee VianteWoman
over a year ago
Somewhere in North Norfolk |
"i know its hard on here for guys to get a meet while unverified ... And without the meet no verification ... Vicious circle
However is it just me that is really wary of profile that have been here for over a year and never had even a cam veri?
I tend to think they are either fantasists, fakes or in a relationship so will never actully meet ... If i get a message from one i just delete no matter how nice i think they look
Am i being a bit presumptious or do other people feel the same?
Keep your wits about sure, but give 'em a chance. Social public meet first off. DO NOT park in a secluded spot. Take a rape alarm and a can of mace and get to it!!
Have fun! "
Advising people to carry an offensive weapon in public isn't clever. |
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By *ee VianteWoman
over a year ago
Somewhere in North Norfolk |
"I'm probably one of those, been here a while but no successful verifications although I'm photo verified. Give people a chance but I agree your always going to put your safety first. "
3 months unverified is not a problem. An account over a year old and unverified is more of an issue, to me. |
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By *ady LickWoman
over a year ago
Northampton Somewhere |
I'm wary of most guys I meet initially but even more so if they are unverified. I do like to give people the benefit of the doubt sometimes you know they've been too busy with real life stuff or haven't met anyone suitable  |
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By *ee VianteWoman
over a year ago
Somewhere in North Norfolk |
"I'm wary of most guys I meet initially but even more so if they are unverified. I do like to give people the benefit of the doubt sometimes you know they've been too busy with real life stuff or haven't met anyone suitable "
For more than a year?
That, to me, shows a lack of interest in meeting. |
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By *ee VianteWoman
over a year ago
Somewhere in North Norfolk |
"Is there also a problem with those with a huge list of verifications?? Puts us off sometimes when we see 30+ verifications in a matter of a few months x"
I find the concept of people meeting too much on a site like this absolutely hilarious as well as unjustly judgemental.
Being promiscuous is fine, as long as you're not too promiscuous? |
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By *ucyfur77Woman
over a year ago
Pleasuretown |
"i know its hard on here for guys to get a meet while unverified ... And without the meet no verification ... Vicious circle
However is it just me that is really wary of profile that have been here for over a year and never had even a cam veri?
I tend to think they are either fantasists, fakes or in a relationship so will never actully meet ... If i get a message from one i just delete no matter how nice i think they look
Am i being a bit presumptious or do other people feel the same?
Keep your wits about sure, but give 'em a chance. Social public meet first off. DO NOT park in a secluded spot. Take a rape alarm and a can of mace and get to it!!
Have fun!
Why would you want to meet anyone that is so nervous to veri themselves on a sex site?
I wouldnt reccomend meeting anyone that cant be bothered to upload pics or have himself verified.
Theres thousands of people on FabSwingers. . Why waste your time with dreamers and time wasters?
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Or people who make assumptions about others |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"i know its hard on here for guys to get a meet while unverified ... And without the meet no verification ... Vicious circle
However is it just me that is really wary of profile that have been here for over a year and never had even a cam veri?
I tend to think they are either fantasists, fakes or in a relationship so will never actully meet ... If i get a message from one i just delete no matter how nice i think they look
Am i being a bit presumptious or do other people feel the same? "
To be fair it can work both ways,not everyone wants to tell the world about their sexual adventures and so are more discreet about it. Also when you see a profile 2 weeks old with 30 verifications of meets, that's not reassuring to me  |
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"And this is why I pay no heed to verifications.
Ah but we're talking about a lack of verifications  "
Lack of verifications/too many verifications... don't care either way. I have a mind of my own. |
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"I'm wary of most guys I meet initially but even more so if they are unverified. I do like to give people the benefit of the doubt sometimes you know they've been too busy with real life stuff or haven't met anyone suitable "
Or perhaps still meeting with the same people that gave the initial veris. Just because they haven't met anyone new doesn't mean they haven't been meeting. |
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