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By *annoo OP Woman
over a year ago
Hastings |
Haha I personally dont see the diff between this and going to a club...
I agree I like to have a shower in between but its the mans choice I inform them I've already done q meet its up to them if they still wanna meet after |
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"Haha I personally dont see the diff between this and going to a club...
I agree I like to have a shower in between but its the mans choice I inform them I've already done q meet its up to them if they still wanna meet after" i wouldnt bother to tell them. As long as it doesnt impact on my meet with them what does it matter to them |
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By *annoo OP Woman
over a year ago
Hastings |
"Haha I personally dont see the diff between this and going to a club...
I agree I like to have a shower in between but its the mans choice I inform them I've already done q meet its up to them if they still wanna meet afteri wouldnt bother to tell them. As long as it doesnt impact on my meet with them what does it matter to them"
Haha I guess I'm a little to honest for my own good |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Haha I personally dont see the diff between this and going to a club...
I agree I like to have a shower in between but its the mans choice I inform them I've already done q meet its up to them if they still wanna meet afteri wouldnt bother to tell them. As long as it doesnt impact on my meet with them what does it matter to them"
Exactly this. Why would it be anyone else's business? I don't ask my meets anything about what they get up to on fab and i don't tell them anything about what i get up to. |
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By *HaRiFMan
over a year ago
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"Would you meet someone you know had already had a meet at some point that day any time up to jst before meeting you???"
Why ever not , There not accountable to me, what they choose to do is up to them and has no impact on me  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Early days on Fabs 1/2 way through a meet I found out I was someone's 2nd meet of the day, it was lunchtime. He also had lined up dinner, next morning, lunchtime & an early evening meets, made me feel like shite ~ I half expected him to cum whilst shouting NEXT! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I don't see why not. What is wrong with it?"
Exactly this .
We have met those who have , and we have ourselves .
Once cleaned up we truly don't see the issue .
But then again there are so many precious people on here who think they are so special that the mere thought of someone being there before them would severely dent their egos .
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"Haha I personally dont see the diff between this and going to a club...
I agree I like to have a shower in between but its the mans choice I inform them I've already done q meet its up to them if they still wanna meet afteri wouldnt bother to tell them. As long as it doesnt impact on my meet with them what does it matter to them"  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Ok slight change to the question would you do it and have you done it"
Friday night I met a guy for a social wasn't my type in the flesh but I made him a cuppa tea and offered him a bar of galaxy, we had a fag and a good chat then I messaged a guy who I'd met previously to tell him that he could come over. He knew I was meeting the first guy but said afterwards that he was confident in me that I wouldn't like him based on him knowing my meet to fuck ratio is about 450-3 and he is included in that 3. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I don't see why not. What is wrong with it?
Exactly this .
We have met those who have , and we have ourselves .
Once cleaned up we truly don't see the issue .
But then again there are so many precious people on here who think they are so special that the mere thought of someone being there before them would severely dent their egos .
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You always bang on about people judging how you meet & you're now doing exactly the same.
Case of pot calling the kettle..... |
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"I don't see why not. What is wrong with it?
Exactly this .
We have met those who have , and we have ourselves .
Once cleaned up we truly don't see the issue .
But then again there are so many precious people on here who think they are so special that the mere thought of someone being there before them would severely dent their egos .
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I understand what you're saying,but I wonder if your answer would be different if you were single |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I met a lady after attending a hot tub party where I'd already played with a few ladies and must say I had more fun with her than I expected and still managed to cum 3 times in as many hrs so my answer is yes  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I don't see why not. What is wrong with it?
Exactly this .
We have met those who have , and we have ourselves .
Once cleaned up we truly don't see the issue .
But then again there are so many precious people on here who think they are so special that the mere thought of someone being there before them would severely dent their egos .
You always bang on about people judging how you meet & you're now doing exactly the same.
Case of pot calling the kettle....."
Really ?
Didn't realise that meeting outdoors and exclusivity were the same thing .
Someone meeting more than once a day is hardly the same as choosing to meet outdoors is it ?
Which part of what we said in this post do you object to ?
Not having read through the thread , I am guessing you wouldn't meet someone who had already had a meet on that day .
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I don't see why not. What is wrong with it?
Exactly this .
We have met those who have , and we have ourselves .
Once cleaned up we truly don't see the issue .
But then again there are so many precious people on here who think they are so special that the mere thought of someone being there before them would severely dent their egos .
I understand what you're saying,but I wonder if your answer would be different if you were single"
Unless i was specifically looking for a relationship my answer would be the same. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Before fab but on a different site, I was seeing 8 guys at the sane time. Well not exactly at the same specific time as none knew the other existed. We were just a friends and benefits non exclusive arrangement. Met two in one day before but no more then that. Definitely would shower in between meets. It's just hygienic to do so in my opinion. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I did this once ... But in my defence the first meet turned out to have premature ejaculation problems that he had refrained from sharing in advance ... By the time i left he had cum twice without barely touching me and was also seriously selfish in the oral department ... Decided he has had his fun got up went for a shower and left me rolling my eyes thinking really????
I was hornier and more pissed off than i had ever been and someone i had been chatting to for a while invited me over for a drink ... I intended it to be social but it never ended that way  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I don't see why not. What is wrong with it?
Exactly this .
We have met those who have , and we have ourselves .
Once cleaned up we truly don't see the issue .
But then again there are so many precious people on here who think they are so special that the mere thought of someone being there before them would severely dent their egos .
I understand what you're saying,but I wonder if your answer would be different if you were single"
It probably would to be fair .
Swinging as a couple is a very different thing .... |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I did this once ... But in my defence the first meet turned out to have premature ejaculation problems that he had refrained from sharing in advance ... By the time i left he had cum twice without barely touching me and was also seriously selfish in the oral department ... Decided he has had his fun got up went for a shower and left me rolling my eyes thinking really????
I was hornier and more pissed off than i had ever been and someone i had been chatting to for a while invited me over for a drink ... I intended it to be social but it never ended that way "
Also now i think about it i bet plenty of couples have sex with their husband in the morning then meets later that day so i suppose as long as your clean in between how is it different? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I don't see why not. What is wrong with it?
Exactly this .
We have met those who have , and we have ourselves .
Once cleaned up we truly don't see the issue .
But then again there are so many precious people on here who think they are so special that the mere thought of someone being there before them would severely dent their egos .
You always bang on about people judging how you meet & you're now doing exactly the same.
Case of pot calling the kettle.....
Really ?
Didn't realise that meeting outdoors and exclusivity were the same thing .
Someone meeting more than once a day is hardly the same as choosing to meet outdoors is it ?
Which part of what we said in this post do you object to ?
Not having read through the thread , I am guessing you wouldn't meet someone who had already had a meet on that day .
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You've got the wrong end of the stick ~ I'm referring to you constantly saying don't judge us for how we meet if someone says dogging ain't for them, it's seedy etc etc etc.
But you're more than happy (given the opportunity, as in this thread ) to judge people as 'precious with inflatable egos' who dont want to meet those who have fucked multiple pussies in a period of 24 hours.
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"I don't see why not. What is wrong with it?
Exactly this .
We have met those who have , and we have ourselves .
Once cleaned up we truly don't see the issue .
But then again there are so many precious people on here who think they are so special that the mere thought of someone being there before them would severely dent their egos .
I understand what you're saying,but I wonder if your answer would be different if you were single
It probably would to be fair .
Swinging as a couple is a very different thing ...."
Yeah I'm a bit jealous of couples who swing to be honest |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I did this once ... But in my defence the first meet turned out to have premature ejaculation problems that he had refrained from sharing in advance ... By the time i left he had cum twice without barely touching me and was also seriously selfish in the oral department ... Decided he has had his fun got up went for a shower and left me rolling my eyes thinking really????
I was hornier and more pissed off than i had ever been and someone i had been chatting to for a while invited me over for a drink ... I intended it to be social but it never ended that way
Also now i think about it i bet plenty of couples have sex with their husband in the morning then meets later that day so i suppose as long as your clean in between how is it different? "
Exactly....presumably I'm not allowed sex with hubby in the same day  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I don't see why not. What is wrong with it?
Exactly this .
We have met those who have , and we have ourselves .
Once cleaned up we truly don't see the issue .
But then again there are so many precious people on here who think they are so special that the mere thought of someone being there before them would severely dent their egos .
You always bang on about people judging how you meet & you're now doing exactly the same.
Case of pot calling the kettle.....
Really ?
Didn't realise that meeting outdoors and exclusivity were the same thing .
Someone meeting more than once a day is hardly the same as choosing to meet outdoors is it ?
Which part of what we said in this post do you object to ?
Not having read through the thread , I am guessing you wouldn't meet someone who had already had a meet on that day .
You've got the wrong end of the stick ~ I'm referring to you constantly saying don't judge us for how we meet if someone says dogging ain't for them, it's seedy etc etc etc.
But you're more than happy (given the opportunity, as in this thread ) to judge people as 'precious with inflatable egos' who dont want to meet those who have fucked multiple pussies in a period of 24 hours.
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Yes we are more than happy to do just that  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I did this once ... But in my defence the first meet turned out to have premature ejaculation problems that he had refrained from sharing in advance ... By the time i left he had cum twice without barely touching me and was also seriously selfish in the oral department ... Decided he has had his fun got up went for a shower and left me rolling my eyes thinking really????
I was hornier and more pissed off than i had ever been and someone i had been chatting to for a while invited me over for a drink ... I intended it to be social but it never ended that way
Also now i think about it i bet plenty of couples have sex with their husband in the morning then meets later that day so i suppose as long as your clean in between how is it different? "
Don't meet couples, problem sorted  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I don't see why not. What is wrong with it?
Exactly this .
We have met those who have , and we have ourselves .
Once cleaned up we truly don't see the issue .
But then again there are so many precious people on here who think they are so special that the mere thought of someone being there before them would severely dent their egos .
You always bang on about people judging how you meet & you're now doing exactly the same.
Case of pot calling the kettle.....
Really ?
Didn't realise that meeting outdoors and exclusivity were the same thing .
Someone meeting more than once a day is hardly the same as choosing to meet outdoors is it ?
Which part of what we said in this post do you object to ?
Not having read through the thread , I am guessing you wouldn't meet someone who had already had a meet on that day .
You've got the wrong end of the stick ~ I'm referring to you constantly saying don't judge us for how we meet if someone says dogging ain't for them, it's seedy etc etc etc.
But you're more than happy (given the opportunity, as in this thread ) to judge people as 'precious with inflatable egos' who dont want to meet those who have fucked multiple pussies in a period of 24 hours.
Yes we are more than happy to do just that "
It's all in good fun. If you enjoy sex, then why not |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I don't see why not. What is wrong with it?
Exactly this .
We have met those who have , and we have ourselves .
Once cleaned up we truly don't see the issue .
But then again there are so many precious people on here who think they are so special that the mere thought of someone being there before them would severely dent their egos .
You always bang on about people judging how you meet & you're now doing exactly the same.
Case of pot calling the kettle.....
Really ?
Didn't realise that meeting outdoors and exclusivity were the same thing .
Someone meeting more than once a day is hardly the same as choosing to meet outdoors is it ?
Which part of what we said in this post do you object to ?
Not having read through the thread , I am guessing you wouldn't meet someone who had already had a meet on that day .
You've got the wrong end of the stick ~ I'm referring to you constantly saying don't judge us for how we meet if someone says dogging ain't for them, it's seedy etc etc etc.
But you're more than happy (given the opportunity, as in this thread ) to judge people as 'precious with inflatable egos' who dont want to meet those who have fucked multiple pussies in a period of 24 hours.
Yes we are more than happy to do just that
It's all in good fun. If you enjoy sex, then why not"
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I don't see why not. What is wrong with it?
Exactly this .
We have met those who have , and we have ourselves .
Once cleaned up we truly don't see the issue .
But then again there are so many precious people on here who think they are so special that the mere thought of someone being there before them would severely dent their egos .
You always bang on about people judging how you meet & you're now doing exactly the same.
Case of pot calling the kettle.....
Really ?
Didn't realise that meeting outdoors and exclusivity were the same thing .
Someone meeting more than once a day is hardly the same as choosing to meet outdoors is it ?
Which part of what we said in this post do you object to ?
Not having read through the thread , I am guessing you wouldn't meet someone who had already had a meet on that day .
You've got the wrong end of the stick ~ I'm referring to you constantly saying don't judge us for how we meet if someone says dogging ain't for them, it's seedy etc etc etc.
But you're more than happy (given the opportunity, as in this thread ) to judge people as 'precious with inflatable egos' who dont want to meet those who have fucked multiple pussies in a period of 24 hours.
Yes we are more than happy to do just that "
Well yes of course you are......
Let's wait till the next dogging, having sex with a dwarf amputee in a graveyard thread & then maybe you'll get my drift. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"This isn't about judging... This was abit personal opinion life in most threads at the end of the day we are All diff and we all have diff cravings"
Exactly this. There is no need to be rude about what other people are into |
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By *annoo OP Woman
over a year ago
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"This isn't about judging... This was abit personal opinion life in most threads at the end of the day we are All diff and we all have diff cravings
Exactly this. There is no need to be rude about what other people are into"
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I don't see why not. What is wrong with it?
Exactly this .
We have met those who have , and we have ourselves .
Once cleaned up we truly don't see the issue .
But then again there are so many precious people on here who think they are so special that the mere thought of someone being there before them would severely dent their egos .
You always bang on about people judging how you meet & you're now doing exactly the same.
Case of pot calling the kettle.....
Really ?
Didn't realise that meeting outdoors and exclusivity were the same thing .
Someone meeting more than once a day is hardly the same as choosing to meet outdoors is it ?
Which part of what we said in this post do you object to ?
Not having read through the thread , I am guessing you wouldn't meet someone who had already had a meet on that day .
You've got the wrong end of the stick ~ I'm referring to you constantly saying don't judge us for how we meet if someone says dogging ain't for them, it's seedy etc etc etc.
But you're more than happy (given the opportunity, as in this thread ) to judge people as 'precious with inflatable egos' who dont want to meet those who have fucked multiple pussies in a period of 24 hours.
Yes we are more than happy to do just that
Well yes of course you are......
Let's wait till the next dogging, having sex with a dwarf amputee in a graveyard thread & then maybe you'll get my drift."
That will be a long wait then .
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Well my ego gets insulted if a guy meets someone after me so meeting someone that's already met someone that day wouldn't happen, well obviously it could happen if they don't tell me but I wouldn't knowingly. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Well my ego gets insulted if a guy meets someone after me so meeting someone that's already met someone that day wouldn't happen, well obviously it could happen if they don't tell me but I wouldn't knowingly. "
An honest answer , and fair play  |
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Probably not if I sensed their reliability for meeting or their energy levels etc would be unreliable.
I'd like a site meet confirmation that would warn you if someone had other meets confirmed that day - then you'd be able to make your own choice upon it. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I wouldn't meet a guy who'd had anything other than a social meet that same day - not because my ego would be dented but because I always build up to my meets, and I expect them to be 100% horny for me and firing on all cylinders.
Double standards I know but I have on occasion had 2 meets in the same day, I just haven't told them about each other  |
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I have had a play meet followed by two spontaneous socials in one day.
I will also play with others at a club if they have played before on the condition they have had a bloody good wash in between (as I would too obviously) |
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"Ok slight change to the question would you do it and have you done it"
I met a guy who thought it was such a turn on for me to be arranging another meet straight after him. Was texting as he was fucking me lol luckily the other guy also thought it was horny! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Respect has to be the answer here. Don't get me wrong if both parties are aware and are fine with it fill your boots. But underhand tactics and skullduggery are an absolute no. |
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By *manda63Woman
over a year ago
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"Would you meet someone you know had already had a meet at some point that day any time up to jst before meeting you???"
No i wouldn't but I've had someone say they would meet me and then cancel but they then got a veri for the same day, why lie just be honest, we are adults on here |
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