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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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I had a date with someone from pof last night who I really liked and we were going to arrange a second date tonight but she saw me online. I was actually online trying to delete my account! She messaged me on WhatsApp and said she was disappointed. Then turned off her phone. I tried phoning and have left a message explaining but now I am wondering if I should run away....after all she was online too checking me out. |
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"I had a date with someone from pof last night who I really liked and we were going to arrange a second date tonight but she saw me online. I was actually online trying to delete my account! She messaged me on WhatsApp and said she was disappointed. Then turned off her phone. I tried phoning and have left a message explaining but now I am wondering if I should run away....after all she was online too checking me out. "
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By *icketysplitsWoman
over a year ago
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Let it go and move on. That's a lot of drama after one date.
She was online. How do you delete a profile without going online to do it? If you hadn't deleted would there have been an issue.
Were you deleting here too?
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I had a date with someone from pof last night who I really liked and we were going to arrange a second date tonight but she saw me online. I was actually online trying to delete my account! She messaged me on WhatsApp and said she was disappointed. Then turned off her phone. I tried phoning and have left a message explaining but now I am wondering if I should run away....after all she was online too checking me out. "
Tell her about FAB that should distract her from the POF online situation.  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I had a date with someone from pof last night who I really liked and we were going to arrange a second date tonight but she saw me online. I was actually online trying to delete my account! She messaged me on WhatsApp and said she was disappointed. Then turned off her phone. I tried phoning and have left a message explaining but now I am wondering if I should run away....after all she was online too checking me out.
Tell her about FAB that should distract her from the POF online situation. "
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Can you imagine if she's seen yesterdays veri then?  "
Yes OK good point. I was planning on giving this up for her and hoping to introduce her to the lifestyle further down the line. Thinking now, Maybe she is not the one. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Why was you deleting your account?"
I was deleting my plenty of fish account as I didn't need to look anymore. I am keeping this one but not for meeting but for when I can introduce her to the lifestyle...that was the plan "A" anyway |
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"Why was you deleting your account?
I was deleting my plenty of fish account as I didn't need to look anymore. I am keeping this one but not for meeting but for when I can introduce her to the lifestyle...that was the plan "A" anyway"
After only one date?  |
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"Can you imagine if she's seen yesterdays veri then?
Yes OK good point. I was planning on giving this up for her and hoping to introduce her to the lifestyle further down the line. Thinking now, Maybe she is not the one. "
so after one date you was planning on giving everything up and after one date she didnt want you online. Id run from both of you |
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By (user no longer on site)
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Deleting your account after one date is just silly in my opinion. I had arranged a date with some guy ages ago on Pof and he started messaging me asking do I chat to other men etc, errr yes it's a dating site. It was such a turn off hence to say we never met. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"and u were verifed on fab yesterday "
To justify the verification. it was from Thursday and I didn't know her then. We messaged Friday and spoke all night then went to dinner Saturday. |
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Run the stuff away,don't justify what you do to anyway unless you're in a committed relationship or have some other agreement. I've had someone questioning what I did after two meetings,if someone is like that after one date what the stuff are they going to be like further down the line,unless you like restraints  |
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"Why was you deleting your account?
I was deleting my plenty of fish account as I didn't need to look anymore. I am keeping this one but not for meeting but for when I can introduce her to the lifestyle...that was the plan "A" anyway"
did she even know you had that all lined up for her |
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By *icketysplitsWoman
over a year ago
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"and u were verifed on fab yesterday
To justify the verification. it was from Thursday and I didn't know her then. We messaged Friday and spoke all night then went to dinner Saturday. "
Ah! The hot burning flame. Go for a longer lasting hot ember.
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"and u were verifed on fab yesterday
To justify the verification. it was from Thursday and I didn't know her then. We messaged Friday and spoke all night then went to dinner Saturday. "
you don't have to justify anything to her or us. You haven't committed a crime but talk about being "caught" on line and justifying a verification. You met this lady once, you owe her nothing, you've done nothing wrong. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"Deleting your account after one date is just silly in my opinion. I had arranged a date with some guy ages ago on Pof and he started messaging me asking do I chat to other men etc, errr yes it's a dating site. It was such a turn off hence to say we never met. "
Deleting a pof account is not a big deal unlike fab where relationships and history are made. If it didn't work I could set up another account in 5 minutes. I wasn't talking to anyone else there so it's not a huge step. |
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"and u were verifed on fab yesterday
To justify the verification. it was from Thursday and I didn't know her then. We messaged Friday and spoke all night then went to dinner Saturday. "
coola booola,tink fab@pof a bad mix.theres local gals on it we know,wit pages stating they want long term and no sleaze,one nite stand etc on pof.we have seen same gals on fab,same user names looking for no strings fucking |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"and u were verifed on fab yesterday
To justify the verification. it was from Thursday and I didn't know her then. We messaged Friday and spoke all night then went to dinner Saturday. "
From experience you can't change somebody or expect them to fall into your kink months down the road. So what if it wasn't her thing, you'd sacrifice being true to yourself in return for someone else's happiness as such.
You don't even know each other and your talking like you have committed a crime or adultry. Jeez so what if you were online big deal NOT
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"and u were verifed on fab yesterday
To justify the verification. it was from Thursday and I didn't know her then. We messaged Friday and spoke all night then went to dinner Saturday.
you don't have to justify anything to her or us. You haven't committed a crime but talk about being "caught" on line and justifying a verification. You met this lady once, you owe her nothing, you've done nothing wrong."
Thank you. Yes. I will move on...I may stay off pof for a little while though! |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Deleting your account after one date is just silly in my opinion. I had arranged a date with some guy ages ago on Pof and he started messaging me asking do I chat to other men etc, errr yes it's a dating site. It was such a turn off hence to say we never met.
Deleting a pof account is not a big deal unlike fab where relationships and history are made. If it didn't work I could set up another account in 5 minutes. I wasn't talking to anyone else there so it's not a huge step. "
You should of explained the above to her. If she was genuine and reasonable she would of understood just like you've just explained to us instead of her. Now I'm rambling, sorry x
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By (user no longer on site)
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I don't get it...
She was online, so was he, so she threw a strop because he was online same as she and instead of a strop he threw a guilt trip and forgot to ask why she was online, so he came online on a different site to tell us about it...
Stuff gets weird online... |
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"and u were verifed on fab yesterday
To justify the verification. it was from Thursday and I didn't know her then. We messaged Friday and spoke all night then went to dinner Saturday.
you don't have to justify anything to her or us. You haven't committed a crime but talk about being "caught" on line and justifying a verification. You met this lady once, you owe her nothing, you've done nothing wrong.
Thank you. Yes. I will move on...I may stay off pof for a little while though! "
Might be a good idea, looks like both of you were getting a bit ahead of yourselves |
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"I don't get it...
She was online, so was he, so she threw a strop because he was online same as she and instead of a strop he threw a guilt trip and forgot to ask why she was online, so he came online on a different site to tell us about it...
Stuff gets weird online..."
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"Deleting your account after one date is just silly in my opinion. I had arranged a date with some guy ages ago on Pof and he started messaging me asking do I chat to other men etc, errr yes it's a dating site. It was such a turn off hence to say we never met.
Deleting a pof account is not a big deal unlike fab where relationships and history are made. If it didn't work I could set up another account in 5 minutes. I wasn't talking to anyone else there so it's not a huge step.
You should of explained the above to her. If she was genuine and reasonable she would of understood just like you've just explained to us instead of her. Now I'm rambling, sorry x
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I can't explain. She has turned off her phone. I have sent the message so she can read it in the morning. She was obviously online checking on me that doesn't bother me. I am moving on because I'm not giving up the lifestyle and nice as she seemed she was obviously never going to embrace it. |
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By *uzy444Woman
over a year ago
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"Can you imagine if she's seen yesterdays veri then?
Yes OK good point. I was planning on giving this up for her and hoping to introduce her to the lifestyle further down the line. Thinking now, Maybe she is not the one. "
let me get this straight..you went on a date with a vanilla, thought she might be the one for you...then you had a meet from FAB within 24 hours? a play meet? got a veri..right then you went online to delete your POF account, but not your FAB one so you could reassure her you were interested in her..hoping to bring her here in good time?....is that correct? and then she caught you online, presumably on POF, while 'deleting it' and now she wont talk to you? what exactly did you agree to on this first date? and when were you going to explain the FAb meet, hours after the first date....would that come after the honeymoon ? i know i said about leaving this lifestyle in the dark for a bit, but i didnt expect you to go after seeing her to have a play meet...no i dont think you are the one for her...i genuinely thought you liked this girl..so run for the hills do yourself and her a favour xx |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"and u were verifed on fab yesterday
To justify the verification. it was from Thursday and I didn't know her then. We messaged Friday and spoke all night then went to dinner Saturday.
you don't have to justify anything to her or us. You haven't committed a crime but talk about being "caught" on line and justifying a verification. You met this lady once, you owe her nothing, you've done nothing wrong."
This ^^ |
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"Can you imagine if she's seen yesterdays veri then?
Yes OK good point. I was planning on giving this up for her and hoping to introduce her to the lifestyle further down the line. Thinking now, Maybe she is not the one. let me get this straight..you went on a date with a vanilla, thought she might be the one for you...then you had a meet from FAB within 24 hours? a play meet? got a veri..right then you went online to delete your POF account, but not your FAB one so you could reassure her you were interested in her..hoping to bring her here in good time?....is that correct? and then she caught you online, presumably on POF, while 'deleting it' and now she wont talk to you? what exactly did you agree to on this first date? and when were you going to explain the FAb meet, hours after the first date....would that come after the honeymoon ? i know i said about leaving this lifestyle in the dark for a bit, but i didnt expect you to go after seeing her to have a play meet...no i dont think you are the one for her...i genuinely thought you liked this girl..so run for the hills do yourself and her a favour xx"
The Fab meet was the Thursday and the PoF date on the Saturday. But other than that it doesn't add up well 
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"Can you imagine if she's seen yesterdays veri then?
Yes OK good point. I was planning on giving this up for her and hoping to introduce her to the lifestyle further down the line. Thinking now, Maybe she is not the one. let me get this straight..you went on a date with a vanilla, thought she might be the one for you...then you had a meet from FAB within 24 hours? a play meet? got a veri..right then you went online to delete your POF account, but not your FAB one so you could reassure her you were interested in her..hoping to bring her here in good time?....is that correct? and then she caught you online, presumably on POF, while 'deleting it' and now she wont talk to you? what exactly did you agree to on this first date? and when were you going to explain the FAb meet, hours after the first date....would that come after the honeymoon ? i know i said about leaving this lifestyle in the dark for a bit, but i didnt expect you to go after seeing her to have a play meet...no i dont think you are the one for her...i genuinely thought you liked this girl..so run for the hills do yourself and her a favour xx"
No. The other way around. I hadn't met her when I had the play date. play date Thursday. I met her Friday. Dinner Saturday. All gone crazy Sunday. Single again Monday. |
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By *uzy444Woman
over a year ago
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"Can you imagine if she's seen yesterdays veri then?
Yes OK good point. I was planning on giving this up for her and hoping to introduce her to the lifestyle further down the line. Thinking now, Maybe she is not the one. let me get this straight..you went on a date with a vanilla, thought she might be the one for you...then you had a meet from FAB within 24 hours? a play meet? got a veri..right then you went online to delete your POF account, but not your FAB one so you could reassure her you were interested in her..hoping to bring her here in good time?....is that correct? and then she caught you online, presumably on POF, while 'deleting it' and now she wont talk to you? what exactly did you agree to on this first date? and when were you going to explain the FAb meet, hours after the first date....would that come after the honeymoon ? i know i said about leaving this lifestyle in the dark for a bit, but i didnt expect you to go after seeing her to have a play meet...no i dont think you are the one for her...i genuinely thought you liked this girl..so run for the hills do yourself and her a favour xx
No. The other way around. I hadn't met her when I had the play date. play date Thursday. I met her Friday. Dinner Saturday. All gone crazy Sunday. Single again Monday. "
ahh well you win some you lose some xxx |
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"Can you imagine if she's seen yesterdays veri then?
Yes OK good point. I was planning on giving this up for her and hoping to introduce her to the lifestyle further down the line. Thinking now, Maybe she is not the one. let me get this straight..you went on a date with a vanilla, thought she might be the one for you...then you had a meet from FAB within 24 hours? a play meet? got a veri..right then you went online to delete your POF account, but not your FAB one so you could reassure her you were interested in her..hoping to bring her here in good time?....is that correct? and then she caught you online, presumably on POF, while 'deleting it' and now she wont talk to you? what exactly did you agree to on this first date? and when were you going to explain the FAb meet, hours after the first date....would that come after the honeymoon ? i know i said about leaving this lifestyle in the dark for a bit, but i didnt expect you to go after seeing her to have a play meet...no i dont think you are the one for her...i genuinely thought you liked this girl..so run for the hills do yourself and her a favour xx
No. The other way around. I hadn't met her when I had the play date. play date Thursday. I met her Friday. Dinner Saturday. All gone crazy Sunday. Single again Monday. ahh well you win some you lose some xxx"
Is it just me that thought of Craig David when reading the last paragraph  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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Hide your pof profile n tell her you've deleted it because she's 'the one'.
Go all out on the next date wineing n dining her....give her some awsome sex then slip an "I love you" into the post sex pillow talk.
Then completely cease all contact n hide any bunnies you may have out of harms way!
Then wait for the call from the Jeremy Kyle show....Mwahahaha! |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I don't get it...
She was online, so was he, so she threw a strop because he was online same as she and instead of a strop he threw a guilt trip and forgot to ask why she was online, so he came online on a different site to tell us about it...
Stuff gets weird online..."
And had dinner |
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By *uzy444Woman
over a year ago
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"Can you imagine if she's seen yesterdays veri then?
Yes OK good point. I was planning on giving this up for her and hoping to introduce her to the lifestyle further down the line. Thinking now, Maybe she is not the one. let me get this straight..you went on a date with a vanilla, thought she might be the one for you...then you had a meet from FAB within 24 hours? a play meet? got a veri..right then you went online to delete your POF account, but not your FAB one so you could reassure her you were interested in her..hoping to bring her here in good time?....is that correct? and then she caught you online, presumably on POF, while 'deleting it' and now she wont talk to you? what exactly did you agree to on this first date? and when were you going to explain the FAb meet, hours after the first date....would that come after the honeymoon ? i know i said about leaving this lifestyle in the dark for a bit, but i didnt expect you to go after seeing her to have a play meet...no i dont think you are the one for her...i genuinely thought you liked this girl..so run for the hills do yourself and her a favour xx
No. The other way around. I hadn't met her when I had the play date. play date Thursday. I met her Friday. Dinner Saturday. All gone crazy Sunday. Single again Monday. ahh well you win some you lose some xxx
Is it just me that thought of Craig David when reading the last paragraph "
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I had a date with someone from pof last night who I really liked and we were going to arrange a second date tonight but she saw me online. I was actually online trying to delete my account! She messaged me on WhatsApp and said she was disappointed. Then turned off her phone. I tried phoning and have left a message explaining but now I am wondering if I should run away....after all she was online too checking me out. "
sounds like a crazy ass bitch to me lol she was probably stalking ur profile to see when u came on I'd say run for the hills and don't ever look back lmao
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"Can you imagine if she's seen yesterdays veri then?
Yes OK good point. I was planning on giving this up for her and hoping to introduce her to the lifestyle further down the line. Thinking now, Maybe she is not the one. let me get this straight..you went on a date with a vanilla, thought she might be the one for you...then you had a meet from FAB within 24 hours? a play meet? got a veri..right then you went online to delete your POF account, but not your FAB one so you could reassure her you were interested in her..hoping to bring her here in good time?....is that correct? and then she caught you online, presumably on POF, while 'deleting it' and now she wont talk to you? what exactly did you agree to on this first date? and when were you going to explain the FAb meet, hours after the first date....would that come after the honeymoon ? i know i said about leaving this lifestyle in the dark for a bit, but i didnt expect you to go after seeing her to have a play meet...no i dont think you are the one for her...i genuinely thought you liked this girl..so run for the hills do yourself and her a favour xx
No. The other way around. I hadn't met her when I had the play date. play date Thursday. I met her Friday. Dinner Saturday. All gone crazy Sunday. Single again Monday. ahh well you win some you lose some xxx
Is it just me that thought of Craig David when reading the last paragraph i shouldnt have chuckled..but i admit i did "
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