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l think ANR/ABF is misunderstood greatly.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"lt seems people are either revolted at the thought or they either love it. "
So why do you think it is greatly misunderstood?
Seems fairly obvious if you ask me. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Forgive my ignorance on this subject....but what the fuck are we discussing here?  "
lt's when some women like to have their man drink their milk. Most assume it's a form of infatalism but that is not the case at all. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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This will be a topic which has no middle ground. Personally, I don't know what anyone would get from it and as such it's not for me, doesn't mean others can't and won't enjoy it... |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"lt seems people are either revolted at the thought or they either love it.
So why do you think it is greatly misunderstood?
Seems fairly obvious if you ask me."
Because the assumption is that it is a form of infantalism but this couldn't be further from the truth.
l think it more the symbolism behind it. The closeness and the little breaths from my nose that would tickle your breast, the hands roving around your body. The exchange of nutrients (very symbolic nourishing too) and the rhythmic suckle on the sensitive nipple. A completely intimate moment. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"What in the name of good fuck is wrong with this world?   "
To each their own. So people like to ber whipped and fisted. Bizarre to me that getting consensually assaulted is more acceptable that ANR. |
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"lt seems people are either revolted at the thought or they either love it.
So why do you think it is greatly misunderstood?
Seems fairly obvious if you ask me.
Because the assumption is that it is a form of infantalism but this couldn't be further from the truth.
l think it more the symbolism behind it. The closeness and the little breaths from my nose that would tickle your breast, the hands roving around your body. The exchange of nutrients (very symbolic nourishing too) and the rhythmic suckle on the sensitive nipple. A completely intimate moment."
its something your either into or not. I dont read much into it my ex husband enjoyed it.
I have a condition if i dont take medication i lactate really heavily. reckon i could earn a fortune on a fetish site |
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By *uzy444Woman
over a year ago
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"What in the name of good fuck is wrong with this world?
To each their own. So people like to ber whipped and fisted. Bizarre to me that getting consensually assaulted is more acceptable that ANR."
nobody said your preference wasnt acceptable..why become defensive and compare it to a non preference of yours to stir up trouble?. i think youve just looked up the abbreviations and wanted to see who knew what you were going on about..which is fine..however creating an argument amongst preferences in your own mind..im like wha?
im into it all..and? no argument here... go do what makes your head go squiffy
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"Ahh I think you have the wrong site my friend. "
Not really because there is a few woman down south that like it and a women on another thread said she wished her milk hadn't dried up. lt's a shame that some things are judged if it is two consenting adults .
lt's strange to me that some things are not taboo and some are. Like being whipped of spanked hard is consensual assault essentially. To each their own  |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"What in the name of good fuck is wrong with this world?
To each their own. So people like to ber whipped and fisted. Bizarre to me that getting consensually assaulted is more acceptable that ANR.nobody said your preference wasnt acceptable..why become defensive and compare it to a non preference of yours to stir up trouble?. i think youve just looked up the abbreviations and wanted to see who knew what you were going on about..which is fine..however creating an argument amongst preferences in your own mind..im like wha?
im into it all..and? no argument here... go do what makes your head go squiffy
( whichever head you like) "
l'm not really being defensive but there are people asking what is wrong with the world and stuff. Frame it in that context. ls it really that bad? lol. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"lt seems people are either revolted at the thought or they either love it. "
I Wouldn't do it Personally from My Breast's even if My Baby is Allergic to My Breast Milk,though want not waste not I'd use Breast Pump and transfer My Breast's Milk and sell My Breast's Milk and Buy My Baby/Babies Necessities instead.(modern day wet nurse with a twist,lol).   |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"lt seems people are either revolted at the thought or they either love it.
I Wouldn't do it Personally from My Breast's even if My Baby is Allergic to My Breast Milk,though want not waste not I'd use Breast Pump and transfer My Breast's Milk and sell My Breast's Milk and Buy My Baby/Babies Necessities instead.(modern day wet nurse with a twist,lol). "
For most people it's not the milk. lt's the unique intimacy and the symbolism. lt's something only a woman can do and a man can't. Complete fulfillment of female bodily functions. lt's also symbolizes the caring nature of women to me.
Sex is after all mostly psychological. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"we sexualised breasts. not surprised a lot of people don't understand ABF/ANR or the intimacy behind just breastfeeding children."
Good point. Glad l'm not alone |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Can someone explain please
He wants to suck the milk out of a lactating breast.
It tastes awful by the way. "
You must have been eating a lot of garlic and kippers at the time xD |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"lt seems people are either revolted at the thought or they either love it.
I Wouldn't do it Personally from My Breast's even if My Baby is Allergic to My Breast Milk,though want not waste not I'd use Breast Pump and transfer My Breast's Milk and sell My Breast's Milk and Buy My Baby/Babies Necessities instead.(modern day wet nurse with a twist,lol).
For most people it's not the milk. lt's the unique intimacy and the symbolism. lt's something only a woman can do and a man can't. Complete fulfillment of female bodily functions. lt's also symbolizes the caring nature of women to me.
Sex is after all mostly psychological."
Only women have periods too but I wouldn't suck on one of those nor a lactating breast but each to their own, I fail to see what your point is, who's judging you, just get on with it and enjoy what you like and don't worry about what others like or dislike. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"lt seems people are either revolted at the thought or they either love it. "
Or they just don't give it any thought, like many other things that I'm not into but other people are. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"lt seems people are either revolted at the thought or they either love it.
I Wouldn't do it Personally from My Breast's even if My Baby is Allergic to My Breast Milk,though want not waste not I'd use Breast Pump and transfer My Breast's Milk and sell My Breast's Milk and Buy My Baby/Babies Necessities instead.(modern day wet nurse with a twist,lol).
For most people it's not the milk. lt's the unique intimacy and the symbolism. lt's something only a woman can do and a man can't. Complete fulfillment of female bodily functions. lt's also symbolizes the caring nature of women to me.
Sex is after all mostly psychological.
Only women have periods too but I wouldn't suck on one of those nor a lactating breast but each to their own, I fail to see what your point is, who's judging you, just get on with it and enjoy what you like and don't worry about what others like or dislike. "
Tbh l think you are projecting emotions onto me that aren't there.. l don't even do ANR. l was talking about the fetish being judged in itself.
Breast milk has a purpose and was designed to nourish. Periods are different, they don't really have a purpose ; they are just a symptom of a new cycle. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"we sexualised breasts. not surprised a lot of people don't understand ABF/ANR or the intimacy behind just breastfeeding children.
Good point. Glad l'm not alone "
i'm into this myself. never been able to do anything intimate with anyone who doesn't make the time to form some kind of bond with me. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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Personally I'm not into it. Milk was for the babies and though M tried it as he wondered what it tasted like even he said it's not for him but different strokes for different folks |
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By *uzy444Woman
over a year ago
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"Ahh I think you have the wrong site my friend.
Not really because there is a few woman down south that like it and a women on another thread said she wished her milk hadn't dried up. lt's a shame that some things are judged if it is two consenting adults .
lt's strange to me that some things are not taboo and some are. Like being whipped of spanked hard is consensual assault essentially. To each their own "
its not assault... if you knew anything about 'sensation play' or even had respect for the BDSM scene, you wouldnt be slagging it off..is that why you are on here?, because you became judgemental about lifestylers elsewhere? hmmm. maybe you create the animosity... |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"we sexualised breasts. not surprised a lot of people don't understand ABF/ANR or the intimacy behind just breastfeeding children.
Good point. Glad l'm not alone
i'm into this myself. never been able to do anything intimate with anyone who doesn't make the time to form some kind of bond with me. "
l'd certainly give it a go with you if you were closer. lt take commitment to inducing. lt's also nice one on one time in the faster paced world. l don't think many couples take time for that these days. l read a woman talk about how the complete one on one intimacy saved her marriage and that is what they were needing.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I actually find the setting of it very appealing, maybe not being fed by breasts milk, yet absolutely love how sensual suckling on tits can be.
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By *ndykayMan
over a year ago
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"Personally I'm not into it. Milk was for the babies and though M tried it as he wondered what it tasted like even he said it's not for him but different strokes for different folks "
I tried it when my first one was born. My ex said I should. It wasn't very nice to be honest but I don't have a problem with it even in a sexual scenario.
As has already been said, each to their own. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"Ahh I think you have the wrong site my friend.
Not really because there is a few woman down south that like it and a women on another thread said she wished her milk hadn't dried up. lt's a shame that some things are judged if it is two consenting adults .
lt's strange to me that some things are not taboo and some are. Like being whipped of spanked hard is consensual assault essentially. To each their own its not assault... if you knew anything about 'sensation play' or even had respect for the BDSM scene, you wouldnt be slagging it off..is that why you are on here?, because you became judgemental about lifestylers elsewhere? hmmm. maybe you create the animosity..."
See now you are getting defense. l even said to each their own. Replace 'assualt' with a synonym that doesn't offend you. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"lt seems people are either revolted at the thought or they either love it.
I Wouldn't do it Personally from My Breast's even if My Baby is Allergic to My Breast Milk,though want not waste not I'd use Breast Pump and transfer My Breast's Milk and sell My Breast's Milk and Buy My Baby/Babies Necessities instead.(modern day wet nurse with a twist,lol).
For most people it's not the milk. lt's the unique intimacy and the symbolism. lt's something only a woman can do and a man can't. Complete fulfillment of female bodily functions. lt's also symbolizes the caring nature of women to me.
Sex is after all mostly psychological.
Only women have periods too but I wouldn't suck on one of those nor a lactating breast but each to their own, I fail to see what your point is, who's judging you, just get on with it and enjoy what you like and don't worry about what others like or dislike.
Tbh l think you are projecting emotions onto me that aren't there.. l don't even do ANR. l was talking about the fetish being judged in itself.
Breast milk has a purpose and was designed to nourish. Periods are different, they don't really have a purpose ; they are just a symptom of a new cycle."
I'm not projecting any emotions onto you, whatever that means. If you don't partake in ANR then what experience do you have of it being judged or why do you care enough to start a thread about it? As for periods having no purpose, I think we'll just leave that there. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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For most people it's not the milk. lt's the unique intimacy and the symbolism. lt's something only a woman can do and a man can't. Complete fulfillment of female bodily functions. lt's also symbolizes the caring nature of women to me.
Sex is after all mostly psychological.
Only women have periods too but I wouldn't suck on one of those nor a lactating breast but each to their own, I fail to see what your point is, who's judging you, just get on with it and enjoy what you like and don't worry about what others like or dislike.
Tbh l think you are projecting emotions onto me that aren't there.. l don't even do ANR. l was talking about the fetish being judged in itself.
Breast milk has a purpose and was designed to nourish. Periods are different, they don't really have a purpose ; they are just a symptom of a new cycle."
If you don't even do it yourself why are you getting offended on other people's behalves and how exactly do you know why someone would enjoy doing it if you don't partake?
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By (user no longer on site)
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"we sexualised breasts. not surprised a lot of people don't understand ABF/ANR or the intimacy behind just breastfeeding children.
Good point. Glad l'm not alone
i'm into this myself. never been able to do anything intimate with anyone who doesn't make the time to form some kind of bond with me.
l'd certainly give it a go with you if you were closer. lt take commitment to inducing. lt's also nice one on one time in the faster paced world. l don't think many couples take time for that these days. l read a woman talk about how the complete one on one intimacy saved her marriage and that is what they were needing.
xx"
inducing is no problem, i hadn't met for months off here then i met someone last week and we managed it straight away. it is the fact that i wouldn't do this with randoms and not with anyone who wasn't prepared to invest in me because it is something more intimate than sex for me.
it depends on the guy as well. like NSA sex is easy with anyone but if you feel something for that person then it changes everything. if they feel something more back then all is good and intimacy is formed. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"lt seems people are either revolted at the thought or they either love it.
I Wouldn't do it Personally from My Breast's even if My Baby is Allergic to My Breast Milk,though want not waste not I'd use Breast Pump and transfer My Breast's Milk and sell My Breast's Milk and Buy My Baby/Babies Necessities instead.(modern day wet nurse with a twist,lol).
For most people it's not the milk. lt's the unique intimacy and the symbolism. lt's something only a woman can do and a man can't. Complete fulfillment of female bodily functions. lt's also symbolizes the caring nature of women to me.
Sex is after all mostly psychological.
Only women have periods too but I wouldn't suck on one of those nor a lactating breast but each to their own, I fail to see what your point is, who's judging you, just get on with it and enjoy what you like and don't worry about what others like or dislike. "
I get My Pussy Sucked when I ain't on My Period and have had sex when I'm on period,some Men only like Women when They're only on Their Periods doesn't Surprise Me that some Men like to suck Breast Milk.(got Biological Today)  |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"lt seems people are either revolted at the thought or they either love it.
I Wouldn't do it Personally from My Breast's even if My Baby is Allergic to My Breast Milk,though want not waste not I'd use Breast Pump and transfer My Breast's Milk and sell My Breast's Milk and Buy My Baby/Babies Necessities instead.(modern day wet nurse with a twist,lol).
For most people it's not the milk. lt's the unique intimacy and the symbolism. lt's something only a woman can do and a man can't. Complete fulfillment of female bodily functions. lt's also symbolizes the caring nature of women to me.
Sex is after all mostly psychological.
Only women have periods too but I wouldn't suck on one of those nor a lactating breast but each to their own, I fail to see what your point is, who's judging you, just get on with it and enjoy what you like and don't worry about what others like or dislike.
Tbh l think you are projecting emotions onto me that aren't there.. l don't even do ANR. l was talking about the fetish being judged in itself.
Breast milk has a purpose and was designed to nourish. Periods are different, they don't really have a purpose ; they are just a symptom of a new cycle.
I'm not projecting any emotions onto you, whatever that means. If you don't partake in ANR then what experience do you have of it being judged or why do you care enough to start a thread about it? As for periods having no purpose, I think we'll just leave that there. "
You obviously didn't read what l said at all. l said it is strange that some things are taboo but some aren't.
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By (user no longer on site)
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"lt seems people are either revolted at the thought or they either love it. "
It also seems people just say things for the shock factor..
It's a bit niche IMO and not my thing so has no bearing on me |
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"What in the name of good fuck is wrong with this world?
To each their own. So people like to ber whipped and fisted. Bizarre to me that getting consensually assaulted is more acceptable that ANR.nobody said your preference wasnt acceptable..why become defensive and compare it to a non preference of yours to stir up trouble?. i think youve just looked up the abbreviations and wanted to see who knew what you were going on about..which is fine..however creating an argument amongst preferences in your own mind..im like wha?
im into it all..and? no argument here... go do what makes your head go squiffy
( whichever head you like) "
A couple of comments you missed obviously |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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For most people it's not the milk. lt's the unique intimacy and the symbolism. lt's something only a woman can do and a man can't. Complete fulfillment of female bodily functions. lt's also symbolizes the caring nature of women to me.
Sex is after all mostly psychological.
Only women have periods too but I wouldn't suck on one of those nor a lactating breast but each to their own, I fail to see what your point is, who's judging you, just get on with it and enjoy what you like and don't worry about what others like or dislike.
Tbh l think you are projecting emotions onto me that aren't there.. l don't even do ANR. l was talking about the fetish being judged in itself.
Breast milk has a purpose and was designed to nourish. Periods are different, they don't really have a purpose ; they are just a symptom of a new cycle.
If you don't even do it yourself why are you getting offended on other people's behalves and how exactly do you know why someone would enjoy doing it if you don't partake?
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l love when people tell other people how they are feeling. Apparently l am offended. l really am not. lf you were to read the threat thoroughly you'd see people asking if l wear a nappy and and taking a bottle home with me. l merely found it strange that this fetish is open to ridicule and other are defended. l found some of the comment to be pretty funny tbh.
l have tried breast milk. l'm not currently in an ANR. |
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"lt seems people are either revolted at the thought or they either love it.
I Wouldn't do it Personally from My Breast's even if My Baby is Allergic to My Breast Milk,though want not waste not I'd use Breast Pump and transfer My Breast's Milk and sell My Breast's Milk and Buy My Baby/Babies Necessities instead.(modern day wet nurse with a twist,lol).
For most people it's not the milk. lt's the unique intimacy and the symbolism. lt's something only a woman can do and a man can't. Complete fulfillment of female bodily functions. lt's also symbolizes the caring nature of women to me.
Sex is after all mostly psychological.
Only women have periods too but I wouldn't suck on one of those nor a lactating breast but each to their own, I fail to see what your point is, who's judging you, just get on with it and enjoy what you like and don't worry about what others like or dislike.
Tbh l think you are projecting emotions onto me that aren't there.. l don't even do ANR. l was talking about the fetish being judged in itself.
Breast milk has a purpose and was designed to nourish. Periods are different, they don't really have a purpose ; they are just a symptom of a new cycle."
well if you dont do it yourself why are you bothered |
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By (user no longer on site)
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I don't understand adult breastfeeding in the slightest, or even why it's called adult breastfeeding. Babies/toddlers/preschoolers actually have to learn a certain way to latch to even get milk out of a breast, an adult can't relearn how to latch on (even I'd they were fed as a child). Basically it's sucking boobs. |
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"I don't understand adult breastfeeding in the slightest, or even why it's called adult breastfeeding. Babies/toddlers/preschoolers actually have to learn a certain way to latch to even get milk out of a breast, an adult can't relearn how to latch on (even I'd they were fed as a child). Basically it's sucking boobs."
l have a slight overbite so l can suckle :P |
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By *uzy444Woman
over a year ago
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"Ahh I think you have the wrong site my friend.
Not really because there is a few woman down south that like it and a women on another thread said she wished her milk hadn't dried up. lt's a shame that some things are judged if it is two consenting adults .
lt's strange to me that some things are not taboo and some are. Like being whipped of spanked hard is consensual assault essentially. To each their own its not assault... if you knew anything about 'sensation play' or even had respect for the BDSM scene, you wouldnt be slagging it off..is that why you are on here?, because you became judgemental about lifestylers elsewhere? hmmm. maybe you create the animosity...
See now you are getting defense. l even said to each their own. Replace 'assualt' with a synonym that doesn't offend you. "
i have no problem in being defensive about the differe3nce between assault and BDSM i suggest you get educated..one day you may actually like someone and then put them off by the words that you choose to use..have fun my lovely . im glad i saw the truth of you x |
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l love when people tell other people how they are feeling. Apparently l am offended. l really am not. lf you were to read the threat thoroughly you'd see people asking if l wear a nappy and and taking a bottle home with me. l merely found it strange that this fetish is open to ridicule and other are defended. l found some of the comment to be pretty funny tbh.
l have tried breast milk. l'm not currently in an ANR."
I'm not knocking it I'm just I'm indifferent to it. I'd even go as far as saying I like doing some things that could be described as infantilism but not the nappy wearing. Like I really enjoy bathing a guy and washing his willy and drying him and putting talc on him. I like cutting guys toenails and taking them to the toilet and holding their willy for them to pee and sucking the drips off afterwards. I also like sucking guys cocks when they're sleeping, sticking my tongue up their arse or climbing onto their face to fuck their nose and their chin whilst they sleep. I try not to judge anything cos I like some unusual things myself. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"everyone here is probably drinking cows breastmilk.
nothing makes sense half the time anyway."
why do we drink cows milk anyway? Did someone years and years ago start succing on cow titties then be like "hey, that's pretty good" |
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"everyone here is probably drinking cows breastmilk.
nothing makes sense half the time anyway. why do we drink cows milk anyway? Did someone years and years ago start succing on cow titties then be like "hey, that's pretty good""
probably was that someone had a cow fetish lol.
really i think when people were starving during hard times they just saw something that they could eat and did that. |
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"Ahh I think you have the wrong site my friend.
Not really because there is a few woman down south that like it and a women on another thread said she wished her milk hadn't dried up. lt's a shame that some things are judged if it is two consenting adults .
lt's strange to me that some things are not taboo and some are. Like being whipped of spanked hard is consensual assault essentially. To each their own its not assault... if you knew anything about 'sensation play' or even had respect for the BDSM scene, you wouldnt be slagging it off..is that why you are on here?, because you became judgemental about lifestylers elsewhere? hmmm. maybe you create the animosity..."
No,you created the animosity here. He asked a question then compared two forms of fetish,or whatever you want to call it. You took it off course and became defensive because he used a word you haven't sanctioned. |
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"lt seems people are either revolted at the thought or they either love it.
I Wouldn't do it Personally from My Breast's even if My Baby is Allergic to My Breast Milk,though want not waste not I'd use Breast Pump and transfer My Breast's Milk and sell My Breast's Milk and Buy My Baby/Babies Necessities instead.(modern day wet nurse with a twist,lol).
For most people it's not the milk. lt's the unique intimacy and the symbolism. lt's something only a woman can do and a man can't. Complete fulfillment of female bodily functions. lt's also symbolizes the caring nature of women to me.
Sex is after all mostly psychological.
Only women have periods too but I wouldn't suck on one of those nor a lactating breast but each to their own, I fail to see what your point is, who's judging you, just get on with it and enjoy what you like and don't worry about what others like or dislike. "
That's a ridiculous statement to make.
Breast milk is a food.
Period blood is a byproduct/ waste product. |
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By *uzy444Woman
over a year ago
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"Ahh I think you have the wrong site my friend.
Not really because there is a few woman down south that like it and a women on another thread said she wished her milk hadn't dried up. lt's a shame that some things are judged if it is two consenting adults .
lt's strange to me that some things are not taboo and some are. Like being whipped of spanked hard is consensual assault essentially. To each their own its not assault... if you knew anything about 'sensation play' or even had respect for the BDSM scene, you wouldnt be slagging it off..is that why you are on here?, because you became judgemental about lifestylers elsewhere? hmmm. maybe you create the animosity...
No,you created the animosity here. He asked a question then compared two forms of fetish,or whatever you want to call it. You took it off course and became defensive because he used a word you haven't sanctioned. "
ok i objected to BDSM being called assault true i did...however he brought up that analogue in his postings i said i was into everything he mentioned but objected to it being brought up as negative connotation rather than he didnt like it..as hes had no experience anyway..it hardly matters does it? |
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"Ahh I think you have the wrong site my friend.
Not really because there is a few woman down south that like it and a women on another thread said she wished her milk hadn't dried up. lt's a shame that some things are judged if it is two consenting adults .
lt's strange to me that some things are not taboo and some are. Like being whipped of spanked hard is consensual assault essentially. To each their own its not assault... if you knew anything about 'sensation play' or even had respect for the BDSM scene, you wouldnt be slagging it off..is that why you are on here?, because you became judgemental about lifestylers elsewhere? hmmm. maybe you create the animosity...
No,you created the animosity here. He asked a question then compared two forms of fetish,or whatever you want to call it. You took it off course and became defensive because he used a word you haven't sanctioned. "
You are wrong. lf you can't compare two things to make an analysis then we would get nowhere in this world.
Read what l have said you would find the comment ''to each their own'' multiple times. |
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"Ahh I think you have the wrong site my friend.
Not really because there is a few woman down south that like it and a women on another thread said she wished her milk hadn't dried up. lt's a shame that some things are judged if it is two consenting adults .
lt's strange to me that some things are not taboo and some are. Like being whipped of spanked hard is consensual assault essentially. To each their own its not assault... if you knew anything about 'sensation play' or even had respect for the BDSM scene, you wouldnt be slagging it off..is that why you are on here?, because you became judgemental about lifestylers elsewhere? hmmm. maybe you create the animosity...
No,you created the animosity here. He asked a question then compared two forms of fetish,or whatever you want to call it. You took it off course and became defensive because he used a word you haven't sanctioned. ok i objected to BDSM being called assault true i did...however he brought up that analogue in his postings i said i was into everything he mentioned but objected to it being brought up as negative connotation rather than he didnt like it..as hes had no experience anyway..it hardly matters does it? "
l have tried it. You need to be in a relationship...What do you think the 'R' in 'ANR' stands for? l'm currently not in a relationship. |
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" ok i objected to BDSM being called assault true i did...however he brought up that analogue in his postings i said i was into everything he mentioned but objected to it being brought up as negative connotation rather than he didnt like it..as hes had no experience anyway..it hardly matters does it? "
And how do you even know l don't like the idea of BDSM?? l was only comparing societal opinions of different fetishes.. You assumed a hell of a lot about me. |
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"lt seems people are either revolted at the thought or they either love it.
I Wouldn't do it Personally from My Breast's even if My Baby is Allergic to My Breast Milk,though want not waste not I'd use Breast Pump and transfer My Breast's Milk and sell My Breast's Milk and Buy My Baby/Babies Necessities instead.(modern day wet nurse with a twist,lol).
For most people it's not the milk. lt's the unique intimacy and the symbolism. lt's something only a woman can do and a man can't. Complete fulfillment of female bodily functions. lt's also symbolizes the caring nature of women to me.
Sex is after all mostly psychological.
Only women have periods too but I wouldn't suck on one of those nor a lactating breast but each to their own, I fail to see what your point is, who's judging you, just get on with it and enjoy what you like and don't worry about what others like or dislike.
Tbh l think you are projecting emotions onto me that aren't there.. l don't even do ANR. l was talking about the fetish being judged in itself.
Breast milk has a purpose and was designed to nourish. Periods are different, they don't really have a purpose ; they are just a symptom of a new cycle."
i dont see where anyone has said its taboo or wrong on here? you seem determined to make an argument out of nothing...but if you make comments like periods have no purpose, then you are unfortunately not really helping yourself much as it makes you sound ill-informed and unintelligent, as well as rather immature. |
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By *uzy444Woman
over a year ago
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"Ahh I think you have the wrong site my friend.
Not really because there is a few woman down south that like it and a women on another thread said she wished her milk hadn't dried up. lt's a shame that some things are judged if it is two consenting adults .
lt's strange to me that some things are not taboo and some are. Like being whipped of spanked hard is consensual assault essentially. To each their own its not assault... if you knew anything about 'sensation play' or even had respect for the BDSM scene, you wouldnt be slagging it off..is that why you are on here?, because you became judgemental about lifestylers elsewhere? hmmm. maybe you create the animosity...
No,you created the animosity here. He asked a question then compared two forms of fetish,or whatever you want to call it. You took it off course and became defensive because he used a word you haven't sanctioned.
You are wrong. lf you can't compare two things to make an analysis then we would get nowhere in this world.
Read what l have said you would find the comment ''to each their own'' multiple times. "
so im allowed if mad to choose assault..thats what you said..flogging and whipping is assault to you while your preference is to suck milk a 'good thing' a misunderstood thing, seen as taboo but really ok...as ive done all of the above including the difference between assault, GBH and impact/ sensation play in BDSM. i was pointing out how you letting me choose 'assault'over your taboo lactating fetish, might not be taken as someone with any sensitivity or knowledge of the differences..a little education may not go amiss..thats my point..x |
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The reason it feels good, I would imagine, is the same reason mother nature intended.
The endorphin release, designed to bond mother and baby together everytime they nurse/feed.
The same mother nature that changes the shape of the child's mouth once the 'milk teeth' fall out and consequently the nursing relationship ceases because a correct latch becomes impossible. |
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"Ahh I think you have the wrong site my friend.
Not really because there is a few woman down south that like it and a women on another thread said she wished her milk hadn't dried up. lt's a shame that some things are judged if it is two consenting adults .
lt's strange to me that some things are not taboo and some are. Like being whipped of spanked hard is consensual assault essentially. To each their own its not assault... if you knew anything about 'sensation play' or even had respect for the BDSM scene, you wouldnt be slagging it off..is that why you are on here?, because you became judgemental about lifestylers elsewhere? hmmm. maybe you create the animosity...
No,you created the animosity here. He asked a question then compared two forms of fetish,or whatever you want to call it. You took it off course and became defensive because he used a word you haven't sanctioned.
You are wrong. lf you can't compare two things to make an analysis then we would get nowhere in this world.
Read what l have said you would find the comment ''to each their own'' multiple times. so im allowed if mad to choose assault..thats what you said..flogging and whipping is assault to you while your preference is to suck milk a 'good thing' a misunderstood thing, seen as taboo but really ok...as ive done all of the above including the difference between assault, GBH and impact/ sensation play in BDSM. i was pointing out how you letting me choose 'assault'over your taboo lactating fetish, might not be taken as someone with any sensitivity or knowledge of the differences..a little education may not go amiss..thats my point..x"
What the hell are you even on about? l'm going to assume you never read what l said because you keep going on this tangent even though l have told you that l said ''to each their own without judgement''. You took offense at the word 'assault'. You are taking offense at the word rather than the crux of what l was actually saying. You are assuming connotations on my thoughts from that word. Would you actually asking my feelings on it? Before putting a noose around my neck? Assumption is never fair. |
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"The reason it feels good, I would imagine, is the same reason mother nature intended.
The endorphin release, designed to bond mother and baby together everytime they nurse/feed.
The same mother nature that changes the shape of the child's mouth once the 'milk teeth' fall out and consequently the nursing relationship ceases because a correct latch becomes impossible."
See, you get it The little tickly breaths on the nipple and the rhythmic tender suckle too. A true bonding moment. |
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"The reason it feels good, I would imagine, is the same reason mother nature intended.
The endorphin release, designed to bond mother and baby together everytime they nurse/feed.
The same mother nature that changes the shape of the child's mouth once the 'milk teeth' fall out and consequently the nursing relationship ceases because a correct latch becomes impossible.
See, you get it The little tickly breaths on the nipple and the rhythmic tender suckle too. A true bonding moment. "
I get it between mother and baby.
Sorry but I don't get it between adults. (Being polite and respectful here) |
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"lt seems people are either revolted at the thought or they either love it.
I Wouldn't do it Personally from My Breast's even if My Baby is Allergic to My Breast Milk,though want not waste not I'd use Breast Pump and transfer My Breast's Milk and sell My Breast's Milk and Buy My Baby/Babies Necessities instead.(modern day wet nurse with a twist,lol).
For most people it's not the milk. lt's the unique intimacy and the symbolism. lt's something only a woman can do and a man can't. Complete fulfillment of female bodily functions. lt's also symbolizes the caring nature of women to me.
Sex is after all mostly psychological.
Only women have periods too but I wouldn't suck on one of those nor a lactating breast but each to their own, I fail to see what your point is, who's judging you, just get on with it and enjoy what you like and don't worry about what others like or dislike.
Tbh l think you are projecting emotions onto me that aren't there.. l don't even do ANR. l was talking about the fetish being judged in itself.
Breast milk has a purpose and was designed to nourish. Periods are different, they don't really have a purpose ; they are just a symptom of a new cycle.
i dont see where anyone has said its taboo or wrong on here? you seem determined to make an argument out of nothing...but if you make comments like periods have no purpose, then you are unfortunately not really helping yourself much as it makes you sound ill-informed and unintelligent, as well as rather immature."
No you sound unintelligent if you can't glean the meaning from what l said. l never said period cycles had no purpose. l said period blood doesn't as it's waste product. |
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"The reason it feels good, I would imagine, is the same reason mother nature intended.
The endorphin release, designed to bond mother and baby together everytime they nurse/feed.
The same mother nature that changes the shape of the child's mouth once the 'milk teeth' fall out and consequently the nursing relationship ceases because a correct latch becomes impossible.
See, you get it The little tickly breaths on the nipple and the rhythmic tender suckle too. A true bonding moment.
I get it between mother and baby.
Sorry but I don't get it between adults. (Being polite and respectful here)"
That's understandable x |
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"The reason it feels good, I would imagine, is the same reason mother nature intended.
The endorphin release, designed to bond mother and baby together everytime they nurse/feed.
The same mother nature that changes the shape of the child's mouth once the 'milk teeth' fall out and consequently the nursing relationship ceases because a correct latch becomes impossible.
See, you get it The little tickly breaths on the nipple and the rhythmic tender suckle too. A true bonding moment.
I get it between mother and baby.
Sorry but I don't get it between adults. (Being polite and respectful here)"
This so much, this. |
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By *uzy444Woman
over a year ago
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"Ahh I think you have the wrong site my friend.
Not really because there is a few woman down south that like it and a women on another thread said she wished her milk hadn't dried up. lt's a shame that some things are judged if it is two consenting adults .
lt's strange to me that some things are not taboo and some are. Like being whipped of spanked hard is consensual assault essentially. To each their own its not assault... if you knew anything about 'sensation play' or even had respect for the BDSM scene, you wouldnt be slagging it off..is that why you are on here?, because you became judgemental about lifestylers elsewhere? hmmm. maybe you create the animosity...
No,you created the animosity here. He asked a question then compared two forms of fetish,or whatever you want to call it. You took it off course and became defensive because he used a word you haven't sanctioned.
You are wrong. lf you can't compare two things to make an analysis then we would get nowhere in this world.
Read what l have said you would find the comment ''to each their own'' multiple times. so im allowed if mad to choose assault..thats what you said..flogging and whipping is assault to you while your preference is to suck milk a 'good thing' a misunderstood thing, seen as taboo but really ok...as ive done all of the above including the difference between assault, GBH and impact/ sensation play in BDSM. i was pointing out how you letting me choose 'assault'over your taboo lactating fetish, might not be taken as someone with any sensitivity or knowledge of the differences..a little education may not go amiss..thats my point..x
What the hell are you even on about? l'm going to assume you never read what l said because you keep going on this tangent even though l have told you that l said ''to each their own without judgement''. You took offense at the word 'assault'. You are taking offense at the word rather than the crux of what l was actually saying. You are assuming connotations on my thoughts from that word. Would you actually asking my feelings on it? Before putting a noose around my neck? Assumption is never fair. "
you likened impact play with assault..what assumption did i make here?..none..dont use words you dont mean and then tell everyone else you didnt mean it when they pull you up on it..i dont need to know your feelings on the matter, they were quite clear from the words you used..you want to retract the words..thats your deal. |
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"Ahh I think you have the wrong site my friend.
Not really because there is a few woman down south that like it and a women on another thread said she wished her milk hadn't dried up. lt's a shame that some things are judged if it is two consenting adults .
lt's strange to me that some things are not taboo and some are. Like being whipped of spanked hard is consensual assault essentially. To each their own its not assault... if you knew anything about 'sensation play' or even had respect for the BDSM scene, you wouldnt be slagging it off..is that why you are on here?, because you became judgemental about lifestylers elsewhere? hmmm. maybe you create the animosity...
No,you created the animosity here. He asked a question then compared two forms of fetish,or whatever you want to call it. You took it off course and became defensive because he used a word you haven't sanctioned.
You are wrong. lf you can't compare two things to make an analysis then we would get nowhere in this world.
Read what l have said you would find the comment ''to each their own'' multiple times. so im allowed if mad to choose assault..thats what you said..flogging and whipping is assault to you while your preference is to suck milk a 'good thing' a misunderstood thing, seen as taboo but really ok...as ive done all of the above including the difference between assault, GBH and impact/ sensation play in BDSM. i was pointing out how you letting me choose 'assault'over your taboo lactating fetish, might not be taken as someone with any sensitivity or knowledge of the differences..a little education may not go amiss..thats my point..x
What the hell are you even on about? l'm going to assume you never read what l said because you keep going on this tangent even though l have told you that l said ''to each their own without judgement''. You took offense at the word 'assault'. You are taking offense at the word rather than the crux of what l was actually saying. You are assuming connotations on my thoughts from that word. Would you actually asking my feelings on it? Before putting a noose around my neck? Assumption is never fair. you likened impact play with assault..what assumption did i make here?..none..dont use words you dont mean and then tell everyone else you didnt mean it when they pull you up on it..i dont need to know your feelings on the matter, they were quite clear from the words you used..you want to retract the words..thats your deal."
You are assuming my thoughts on that word.The S in BDSM stands for 'sadism'. lf you called someone a sadist out of context they would likely be offended. Would they be right to be offended?
Assault can have positive connotations. My very first reply to you was to use a word in place of it as it wasn't meant to cause offense. Keep being offended if you want. l'm finish explaining to you my thoughts. |
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"Ahh I think you have the wrong site my friend.
Not really because there is a few woman down south that like it and a women on another thread said she wished her milk hadn't dried up. lt's a shame that some things are judged if it is two consenting adults .
lt's strange to me that some things are not taboo and some are. Like being whipped of spanked hard is consensual assault essentially. To each their own its not assault... if you knew anything about 'sensation play' or even had respect for the BDSM scene, you wouldnt be slagging it off..is that why you are on here?, because you became judgemental about lifestylers elsewhere? hmmm. maybe you create the animosity...
No,you created the animosity here. He asked a question then compared two forms of fetish,or whatever you want to call it. You took it off course and became defensive because he used a word you haven't sanctioned.
You are wrong. lf you can't compare two things to make an analysis then we would get nowhere in this world.
Read what l have said you would find the comment ''to each their own'' multiple times. so im allowed if mad to choose assault..thats what you said..flogging and whipping is assault to you while your preference is to suck milk a 'good thing' a misunderstood thing, seen as taboo but really ok...as ive done all of the above including the difference between assault, GBH and impact/ sensation play in BDSM. i was pointing out how you letting me choose 'assault'over your taboo lactating fetish, might not be taken as someone with any sensitivity or knowledge of the differences..a little education may not go amiss..thats my point..x
What the hell are you even on about? l'm going to assume you never read what l said because you keep going on this tangent even though l have told you that l said ''to each their own without judgement''. You took offense at the word 'assault'. You are taking offense at the word rather than the crux of what l was actually saying. You are assuming connotations on my thoughts from that word. Would you actually asking my feelings on it? Before putting a noose around my neck? Assumption is never fair. you likened impact play with assault..what assumption did i make here?..none..dont use words you dont mean and then tell everyone else you didnt mean it when they pull you up on it..i dont need to know your feelings on the matter, they were quite clear from the words you used..you want to retract the words..thats your deal."
Impact play is a nice way of saying assault. Not everyone doing "impact play" is being nice about it either,but that's another story. From what I read he was giving an example. BDSM. Sadism. Fisting -assaulting a pussy or arse with a fist. He's not saying it's wrong. |
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"Ahh I think you have the wrong site my friend.
Not really because there is a few woman down south that like it and a women on another thread said she wished her milk hadn't dried up. lt's a shame that some things are judged if it is two consenting adults .
lt's strange to me that some things are not taboo and some are. Like being whipped of spanked hard is consensual assault essentially. To each their own its not assault... if you knew anything about 'sensation play' or even had respect for the BDSM scene, you wouldnt be slagging it off..is that why you are on here?, because you became judgemental about lifestylers elsewhere? hmmm. maybe you create the animosity...
No,you created the animosity here. He asked a question then compared two forms of fetish,or whatever you want to call it. You took it off course and became defensive because he used a word you haven't sanctioned.
You are wrong. lf you can't compare two things to make an analysis then we would get nowhere in this world.
Read what l have said you would find the comment ''to each their own'' multiple times. so im allowed if mad to choose assault..thats what you said..flogging and whipping is assault to you while your preference is to suck milk a 'good thing' a misunderstood thing, seen as taboo but really ok...as ive done all of the above including the difference between assault, GBH and impact/ sensation play in BDSM. i was pointing out how you letting me choose 'assault'over your taboo lactating fetish, might not be taken as someone with any sensitivity or knowledge of the differences..a little education may not go amiss..thats my point..x
What the hell are you even on about? l'm going to assume you never read what l said because you keep going on this tangent even though l have told you that l said ''to each their own without judgement''. You took offense at the word 'assault'. You are taking offense at the word rather than the crux of what l was actually saying. You are assuming connotations on my thoughts from that word. Would you actually asking my feelings on it? Before putting a noose around my neck? Assumption is never fair. you likened impact play with assault..what assumption did i make here?..none..dont use words you dont mean and then tell everyone else you didnt mean it when they pull you up on it..i dont need to know your feelings on the matter, they were quite clear from the words you used..you want to retract the words..thats your deal.
You are assuming my thoughts on that word.The S in BDSM stands for 'sadism'. lf you called someone a sadist out of context they would likely be offended. Would they be right to be offended?
Assault can have positive connotations. My very first reply to you was to use a word in place of it as it wasn't meant to cause offense. Keep being offended if you want. l'm finish explaining to you my thoughts."
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"Ahh I think you have the wrong site my friend.
Not really because there is a few woman down south that like it and a women on another thread said she wished her milk hadn't dried up. lt's a shame that some things are judged if it is two consenting adults .
lt's strange to me that some things are not taboo and some are. Like being whipped of spanked hard is consensual assault essentially. To each their own its not assault... if you knew anything about 'sensation play' or even had respect for the BDSM scene, you wouldnt be slagging it off..is that why you are on here?, because you became judgemental about lifestylers elsewhere? hmmm. maybe you create the animosity...
No,you created the animosity here. He asked a question then compared two forms of fetish,or whatever you want to call it. You took it off course and became defensive because he used a word you haven't sanctioned.
You are wrong. lf you can't compare two things to make an analysis then we would get nowhere in this world.
Read what l have said you would find the comment ''to each their own'' multiple times. so im allowed if mad to choose assault..thats what you said..flogging and whipping is assault to you while your preference is to suck milk a 'good thing' a misunderstood thing, seen as taboo but really ok...as ive done all of the above including the difference between assault, GBH and impact/ sensation play in BDSM. i was pointing out how you letting me choose 'assault'over your taboo lactating fetish, might not be taken as someone with any sensitivity or knowledge of the differences..a little education may not go amiss..thats my point..x
What the hell are you even on about? l'm going to assume you never read what l said because you keep going on this tangent even though l have told you that l said ''to each their own without judgement''. You took offense at the word 'assault'. You are taking offense at the word rather than the crux of what l was actually saying. You are assuming connotations on my thoughts from that word. Would you actually asking my feelings on it? Before putting a noose around my neck? Assumption is never fair. "
I read what you said OP. Basically that ANR / ABF is misunderstood and shouldn't be judged. You then went on to judge another 'fetish' saying you found it bizarre and using the term assault. I engage in BDSM with my partner and have never assaulted him and neither of us would ever view it that way. By using words like that you're doing to BDSM what you claim is being done to your chosen fetish. There's really no need |
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By *uzy444Woman
over a year ago
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"Ahh I think you have the wrong site my friend.
Not really because there is a few woman down south that like it and a women on another thread said she wished her milk hadn't dried up. lt's a shame that some things are judged if it is two consenting adults .
lt's strange to me that some things are not taboo and some are. Like being whipped of spanked hard is consensual assault essentially. To each their own its not assault... if you knew anything about 'sensation play' or even had respect for the BDSM scene, you wouldnt be slagging it off..is that why you are on here?, because you became judgemental about lifestylers elsewhere? hmmm. maybe you create the animosity...
No,you created the animosity here. He asked a question then compared two forms of fetish,or whatever you want to call it. You took it off course and became defensive because he used a word you haven't sanctioned.
You are wrong. lf you can't compare two things to make an analysis then we would get nowhere in this world.
Read what l have said you would find the comment ''to each their own'' multiple times. so im allowed if mad to choose assault..thats what you said..flogging and whipping is assault to you while your preference is to suck milk a 'good thing' a misunderstood thing, seen as taboo but really ok...as ive done all of the above including the difference between assault, GBH and impact/ sensation play in BDSM. i was pointing out how you letting me choose 'assault'over your taboo lactating fetish, might not be taken as someone with any sensitivity or knowledge of the differences..a little education may not go amiss..thats my point..x
What the hell are you even on about? l'm going to assume you never read what l said because you keep going on this tangent even though l have told you that l said ''to each their own without judgement''. You took offense at the word 'assault'. You are taking offense at the word rather than the crux of what l was actually saying. You are assuming connotations on my thoughts from that word. Would you actually asking my feelings on it? Before putting a noose around my neck? Assumption is never fair. you likened impact play with assault..what assumption did i make here?..none..dont use words you dont mean and then tell everyone else you didnt mean it when they pull you up on it..i dont need to know your feelings on the matter, they were quite clear from the words you used..you want to retract the words..thats your deal.
You are assuming my thoughts on that word.The S in BDSM stands for 'sadism'. lf you called someone a sadist out of context they would likely be offended. Would they be right to be offended?
Assault can have positive connotations. My very first reply to you was to use a word in place of it as it wasn't meant to cause offense. Keep being offended if you want. l'm finish explaining to you my thoughts."
no worries be careful in future because BDSM folks wont tolerate your attitude/ wording/ personal meaning..they will just think, as i do, you dont know anything about what you are talking about..and a lot of people, more into the BD part of things, still take part in impact play..'sadism' is an extreme form of fetish play and can be psychological, emotional as well as physical..im only offended by your lack of education..get educated, hope this helps, no need to thank me x |
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"Ahh I think you have the wrong site my friend.
Not really because there is a few woman down south that like it and a women on another thread said she wished her milk hadn't dried up. lt's a shame that some things are judged if it is two consenting adults .
lt's strange to me that some things are not taboo and some are. Like being whipped of spanked hard is consensual assault essentially. To each their own its not assault... if you knew anything about 'sensation play' or even had respect for the BDSM scene, you wouldnt be slagging it off..is that why you are on here?, because you became judgemental about lifestylers elsewhere? hmmm. maybe you create the animosity...
No,you created the animosity here. He asked a question then compared two forms of fetish,or whatever you want to call it. You took it off course and became defensive because he used a word you haven't sanctioned.
You are wrong. lf you can't compare two things to make an analysis then we would get nowhere in this world.
Read what l have said you would find the comment ''to each their own'' multiple times. so im allowed if mad to choose assault..thats what you said..flogging and whipping is assault to you while your preference is to suck milk a 'good thing' a misunderstood thing, seen as taboo but really ok...as ive done all of the above including the difference between assault, GBH and impact/ sensation play in BDSM. i was pointing out how you letting me choose 'assault'over your taboo lactating fetish, might not be taken as someone with any sensitivity or knowledge of the differences..a little education may not go amiss..thats my point..x
What the hell are you even on about? l'm going to assume you never read what l said because you keep going on this tangent even though l have told you that l said ''to each their own without judgement''. You took offense at the word 'assault'. You are taking offense at the word rather than the crux of what l was actually saying. You are assuming connotations on my thoughts from that word. Would you actually asking my feelings on it? Before putting a noose around my neck? Assumption is never fair. you likened impact play with assault..what assumption did i make here?..none..dont use words you dont mean and then tell everyone else you didnt mean it when they pull you up on it..i dont need to know your feelings on the matter, they were quite clear from the words you used..you want to retract the words..thats your deal.
You are assuming my thoughts on that word.The S in BDSM stands for 'sadism'. lf you called someone a sadist out of context they would likely be offended. Would they be right to be offended?
Assault can have positive connotations. My very first reply to you was to use a word in place of it as it wasn't meant to cause offense. Keep being offended if you want. l'm finish explaining to you my thoughts.no worries be careful in future because BDSM folks wont tolerate your attitude/ wording/ personal meaning..they will just think, as i do, you dont know anything about what you are talking about..and a lot of people, more into the BD part of things, still take part in impact play..'sadism' is an extreme form of fetish play and can be psychological, emotional as well as physical..im only offended by your lack of education..get educated, hope this helps, no need to thank me x"
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Not into the whole adult nursing thing (hell my stupid boobs wouldn't work properly for my own babies so no one else stands a chance lol) but at certain times of the month they get so uncomfortable that the idea of someone spending hours kneading and sucking on them to relieve the pain sounds frickin awesome!
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"Seems like adult sexualisation of something wonderful and innocent."
some people turn it into that yes.
ANR is not that though, it is deeper bonding in a relationship. |
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"Seems like adult sexualisation of something wonderful and innocent."
There are a Similar examples. School girl outfits? Don't think many would be "outraged" by them. Can buy them on the high street or from lovehoney with your discount of course |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"Ahh I think you have the wrong site my friend.
Not really because there is a few woman down south that like it and a women on another thread said she wished her milk hadn't dried up. lt's a shame that some things are judged if it is two consenting adults .
lt's strange to me that some things are not taboo and some are. Like being whipped of spanked hard is consensual assault essentially. To each their own its not assault... if you knew anything about 'sensation play' or even had respect for the BDSM scene, you wouldnt be slagging it off..is that why you are on here?, because you became judgemental about lifestylers elsewhere? hmmm. maybe you create the animosity...
No,you created the animosity here. He asked a question then compared two forms of fetish,or whatever you want to call it. You took it off course and became defensive because he used a word you haven't sanctioned.
You are wrong. lf you can't compare two things to make an analysis then we would get nowhere in this world.
Read what l have said you would find the comment ''to each their own'' multiple times. so im allowed if mad to choose assault..thats what you said..flogging and whipping is assault to you while your preference is to suck milk a 'good thing' a misunderstood thing, seen as taboo but really ok...as ive done all of the above including the difference between assault, GBH and impact/ sensation play in BDSM. i was pointing out how you letting me choose 'assault'over your taboo lactating fetish, might not be taken as someone with any sensitivity or knowledge of the differences..a little education may not go amiss..thats my point..x
What the hell are you even on about? l'm going to assume you never read what l said because you keep going on this tangent even though l have told you that l said ''to each their own without judgement''. You took offense at the word 'assault'. You are taking offense at the word rather than the crux of what l was actually saying. You are assuming connotations on my thoughts from that word. Would you actually asking my feelings on it? Before putting a noose around my neck? Assumption is never fair.
I read what you said OP. Basically that ANR / ABF is misunderstood and shouldn't be judged. You then went on to judge another 'fetish' saying you found it bizarre and using the term assault. I engage in BDSM with my partner and have never assaulted him and neither of us would ever view it that way. By using words like that you're doing to BDSM what you claim is being done to your chosen fetish. There's really no need "
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"Ahh I think you have the wrong site my friend.
Not really because there is a few woman down south that like it and a women on another thread said she wished her milk hadn't dried up. lt's a shame that some things are judged if it is two consenting adults .
lt's strange to me that some things are not taboo and some are. Like being whipped of spanked hard is consensual assault essentially. To each their own its not assault... if you knew anything about 'sensation play' or even had respect for the BDSM scene, you wouldnt be slagging it off..is that why you are on here?, because you became judgemental about lifestylers elsewhere? hmmm. maybe you create the animosity...
No,you created the animosity here. He asked a question then compared two forms of fetish,or whatever you want to call it. You took it off course and became defensive because he used a word you haven't sanctioned.
You are wrong. lf you can't compare two things to make an analysis then we would get nowhere in this world.
Read what l have said you would find the comment ''to each their own'' multiple times. so im allowed if mad to choose assault..thats what you said..flogging and whipping is assault to you while your preference is to suck milk a 'good thing' a misunderstood thing, seen as taboo but really ok...as ive done all of the above including the difference between assault, GBH and impact/ sensation play in BDSM. i was pointing out how you letting me choose 'assault'over your taboo lactating fetish, might not be taken as someone with any sensitivity or knowledge of the differences..a little education may not go amiss..thats my point..x
What the hell are you even on about? l'm going to assume you never read what l said because you keep going on this tangent even though l have told you that l said ''to each their own without judgement''. You took offense at the word 'assault'. You are taking offense at the word rather than the crux of what l was actually saying. You are assuming connotations on my thoughts from that word. Would you actually asking my feelings on it? Before putting a noose around my neck? Assumption is never fair. you likened impact play with assault..what assumption did i make here?..none..dont use words you dont mean and then tell everyone else you didnt mean it when they pull you up on it..i dont need to know your feelings on the matter, they were quite clear from the words you used..you want to retract the words..thats your deal.
You are assuming my thoughts on that word.The S in BDSM stands for 'sadism'. lf you called someone a sadist out of context they would likely be offended. Would they be right to be offended?
Assault can have positive connotations. My very first reply to you was to use a word in place of it as it wasn't meant to cause offense. Keep being offended if you want. l'm finish explaining to you my thoughts.no worries be careful in future because BDSM folks wont tolerate your attitude/ wording/ personal meaning..they will just think, as i do, you dont know anything about what you are talking about..and a lot of people, more into the BD part of things, still take part in impact play..'sadism' is an extreme form of fetish play and can be psychological, emotional as well as physical..im only offended by your lack of education..get educated, hope this helps, no need to thank me x"
As far as I can see he has nothing to thank you for. You're not the authority on BDSM because you've done a bit of it. |
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"Seems like adult sexualisation of something wonderful and innocent.
There are a Similar examples. School girl outfits? Don't think many would be "outraged" by them. Can buy them on the high street or from lovehoney with your discount of course "
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"Ahh I think you have the wrong site my friend.
Not really because there is a few woman down south that like it and a women on another thread said she wished her milk hadn't dried up. lt's a shame that some things are judged if it is two consenting adults .
lt's strange to me that some things are not taboo and some are. Like being whipped of spanked hard is consensual assault essentially. To each their own its not assault... if you knew anything about 'sensation play' or even had respect for the BDSM scene, you wouldnt be slagging it off..is that why you are on here?, because you became judgemental about lifestylers elsewhere? hmmm. maybe you create the animosity...
No,you created the animosity here. He asked a question then compared two forms of fetish,or whatever you want to call it. You took it off course and became defensive because he used a word you haven't sanctioned.
You are wrong. lf you can't compare two things to make an analysis then we would get nowhere in this world.
Read what l have said you would find the comment ''to each their own'' multiple times. so im allowed if mad to choose assault..thats what you said..flogging and whipping is assault to you while your preference is to suck milk a 'good thing' a misunderstood thing, seen as taboo but really ok...as ive done all of the above including the difference between assault, GBH and impact/ sensation play in BDSM. i was pointing out how you letting me choose 'assault'over your taboo lactating fetish, might not be taken as someone with any sensitivity or knowledge of the differences..a little education may not go amiss..thats my point..x
What the hell are you even on about? l'm going to assume you never read what l said because you keep going on this tangent even though l have told you that l said ''to each their own without judgement''. You took offense at the word 'assault'. You are taking offense at the word rather than the crux of what l was actually saying. You are assuming connotations on my thoughts from that word. Would you actually asking my feelings on it? Before putting a noose around my neck? Assumption is never fair.
I read what you said OP. Basically that ANR / ABF is misunderstood and shouldn't be judged. You then went on to judge another 'fetish' saying you found it bizarre and using the term assault. I engage in BDSM with my partner and have never assaulted him and neither of us would ever view it that way. By using words like that you're doing to BDSM what you claim is being done to your chosen fetish. There's really no need
l said it was bizarre that one was taboo and one wasn't! Good God."
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Can someone explain please
He wants to suck the milk out of a lactating breast.
It tastes awful by the way.
Agree..like dairy cardboard. "
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"Ahh I think you have the wrong site my friend.
Not really because there is a few woman down south that like it and a women on another thread said she wished her milk hadn't dried up. lt's a shame that some things are judged if it is two consenting adults .
lt's strange to me that some things are not taboo and some are. Like being whipped of spanked hard is consensual assault essentially. To each their own its not assault... if you knew anything about 'sensation play' or even had respect for the BDSM scene, you wouldnt be slagging it off..is that why you are on here?, because you became judgemental about lifestylers elsewhere? hmmm. maybe you create the animosity...
No,you created the animosity here. He asked a question then compared two forms of fetish,or whatever you want to call it. You took it off course and became defensive because he used a word you haven't sanctioned.
You are wrong. lf you can't compare two things to make an analysis then we would get nowhere in this world.
Read what l have said you would find the comment ''to each their own'' multiple times. so im allowed if mad to choose assault..thats what you said..flogging and whipping is assault to you while your preference is to suck milk a 'good thing' a misunderstood thing, seen as taboo but really ok...as ive done all of the above including the difference between assault, GBH and impact/ sensation play in BDSM. i was pointing out how you letting me choose 'assault'over your taboo lactating fetish, might not be taken as someone with any sensitivity or knowledge of the differences..a little education may not go amiss..thats my point..x
What the hell are you even on about? l'm going to assume you never read what l said because you keep going on this tangent even though l have told you that l said ''to each their own without judgement''. You took offense at the word 'assault'. You are taking offense at the word rather than the crux of what l was actually saying. You are assuming connotations on my thoughts from that word. Would you actually asking my feelings on it? Before putting a noose around my neck? Assumption is never fair.
I read what you said OP. Basically that ANR / ABF is misunderstood and shouldn't be judged. You then went on to judge another 'fetish' saying you found it bizarre and using the term assault. I engage in BDSM with my partner and have never assaulted him and neither of us would ever view it that way. By using words like that you're doing to BDSM what you claim is being done to your chosen fetish. There's really no need
l said it was bizarre that one was taboo and one wasn't! Good God.
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"Ahh I think you have the wrong site my friend.
Not really because there is a few woman down south that like it and a women on another thread said she wished her milk hadn't dried up. lt's a shame that some things are judged if it is two consenting adults .
lt's strange to me that some things are not taboo and some are. Like being whipped of spanked hard is consensual assault essentially. To each their own its not assault... if you knew anything about 'sensation play' or even had respect for the BDSM scene, you wouldnt be slagging it off..is that why you are on here?, because you became judgemental about lifestylers elsewhere? hmmm. maybe you create the animosity...
No,you created the animosity here. He asked a question then compared two forms of fetish,or whatever you want to call it. You took it off course and became defensive because he used a word you haven't sanctioned.
You are wrong. lf you can't compare two things to make an analysis then we would get nowhere in this world.
Read what l have said you would find the comment ''to each their own'' multiple times. so im allowed if mad to choose assault..thats what you said..flogging and whipping is assault to you while your preference is to suck milk a 'good thing' a misunderstood thing, seen as taboo but really ok...as ive done all of the above including the difference between assault, GBH and impact/ sensation play in BDSM. i was pointing out how you letting me choose 'assault'over your taboo lactating fetish, might not be taken as someone with any sensitivity or knowledge of the differences..a little education may not go amiss..thats my point..x
What the hell are you even on about? l'm going to assume you never read what l said because you keep going on this tangent even though l have told you that l said ''to each their own without judgement''. You took offense at the word 'assault'. You are taking offense at the word rather than the crux of what l was actually saying. You are assuming connotations on my thoughts from that word. Would you actually asking my feelings on it? Before putting a noose around my neck? Assumption is never fair.
I read what you said OP. Basically that ANR / ABF is misunderstood and shouldn't be judged. You then went on to judge another 'fetish' saying you found it bizarre and using the term assault. I engage in BDSM with my partner and have never assaulted him and neither of us would ever view it that way. By using words like that you're doing to BDSM what you claim is being done to your chosen fetish. There's really no need
l said it was bizarre that one was taboo and one wasn't! Good God."
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"Ahh I think you have the wrong site my friend.
Not really because there is a few woman down south that like it and a women on another thread said she wished her milk hadn't dried up. lt's a shame that some things are judged if it is two consenting adults .
lt's strange to me that some things are not taboo and some are. Like being whipped of spanked hard is consensual assault essentially. To each their own its not assault... if you knew anything about 'sensation play' or even had respect for the BDSM scene, you wouldnt be slagging it off..is that why you are on here?, because you became judgemental about lifestylers elsewhere? hmmm. maybe you create the animosity...
No,you created the animosity here. He asked a question then compared two forms of fetish,or whatever you want to call it. You took it off course and became defensive because he used a word you haven't sanctioned.
You are wrong. lf you can't compare two things to make an analysis then we would get nowhere in this world.
Read what l have said you would find the comment ''to each their own'' multiple times. so im allowed if mad to choose assault..thats what you said..flogging and whipping is assault to you while your preference is to suck milk a 'good thing' a misunderstood thing, seen as taboo but really ok...as ive done all of the above including the difference between assault, GBH and impact/ sensation play in BDSM. i was pointing out how you letting me choose 'assault'over your taboo lactating fetish, might not be taken as someone with any sensitivity or knowledge of the differences..a little education may not go amiss..thats my point..x
What the hell are you even on about? l'm going to assume you never read what l said because you keep going on this tangent even though l have told you that l said ''to each their own without judgement''. You took offense at the word 'assault'. You are taking offense at the word rather than the crux of what l was actually saying. You are assuming connotations on my thoughts from that word. Would you actually asking my feelings on it? Before putting a noose around my neck? Assumption is never fair.
I read what you said OP. Basically that ANR / ABF is misunderstood and shouldn't be judged. You then went on to judge another 'fetish' saying you found it bizarre and using the term assault. I engage in BDSM with my partner and have never assaulted him and neither of us would ever view it that way. By using words like that you're doing to BDSM what you claim is being done to your chosen fetish. There's really no need
l said it was bizarre that one was taboo and one wasn't! Good God.
Yet one is taboo to you and one isn't. So what's the difference? Yes, good god"
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"Ahh I think you have the wrong site my friend.
Not really because there is a few woman down south that like it and a women on another thread said she wished her milk hadn't dried up. lt's a shame that some things are judged if it is two consenting adults .
lt's strange to me that some things are not taboo and some are. Like being whipped of spanked hard is consensual assault essentially. To each their own its not assault... if you knew anything about 'sensation play' or even had respect for the BDSM scene, you wouldnt be slagging it off..is that why you are on here?, because you became judgemental about lifestylers elsewhere? hmmm. maybe you create the animosity...
No,you created the animosity here. He asked a question then compared two forms of fetish,or whatever you want to call it. You took it off course and became defensive because he used a word you haven't sanctioned.
You are wrong. lf you can't compare two things to make an analysis then we would get nowhere in this world.
Read what l have said you would find the comment ''to each their own'' multiple times. so im allowed if mad to choose assault..thats what you said..flogging and whipping is assault to you while your preference is to suck milk a 'good thing' a misunderstood thing, seen as taboo but really ok...as ive done all of the above including the difference between assault, GBH and impact/ sensation play in BDSM. i was pointing out how you letting me choose 'assault'over your taboo lactating fetish, might not be taken as someone with any sensitivity or knowledge of the differences..a little education may not go amiss..thats my point..x
What the hell are you even on about? l'm going to assume you never read what l said because you keep going on this tangent even though l have told you that l said ''to each their own without judgement''. You took offense at the word 'assault'. You are taking offense at the word rather than the crux of what l was actually saying. You are assuming connotations on my thoughts from that word. Would you actually asking my feelings on it? Before putting a noose around my neck? Assumption is never fair.
I read what you said OP. Basically that ANR / ABF is misunderstood and shouldn't be judged. You then went on to judge another 'fetish' saying you found it bizarre and using the term assault. I engage in BDSM with my partner and have never assaulted him and neither of us would ever view it that way. By using words like that you're doing to BDSM what you claim is being done to your chosen fetish. There's really no need
l said it was bizarre that one was taboo and one wasn't! Good God.
Yet one is taboo to you and one isn't. So what's the difference? Yes, good god"
There should be no difference,is what he was saying,I think.
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"Ahh I think you have the wrong site my friend.
Not really because there is a few woman down south that like it and a women on another thread said she wished her milk hadn't dried up. lt's a shame that some things are judged if it is two consenting adults .
lt's strange to me that some things are not taboo and some are. Like being whipped of spanked hard is consensual assault essentially. To each their own its not assault... if you knew anything about 'sensation play' or even had respect for the BDSM scene, you wouldnt be slagging it off..is that why you are on here?, because you became judgemental about lifestylers elsewhere? hmmm. maybe you create the animosity...
No,you created the animosity here. He asked a question then compared two forms of fetish,or whatever you want to call it. You took it off course and became defensive because he used a word you haven't sanctioned.
You are wrong. lf you can't compare two things to make an analysis then we would get nowhere in this world.
Read what l have said you would find the comment ''to each their own'' multiple times. so im allowed if mad to choose assault..thats what you said..flogging and whipping is assault to you while your preference is to suck milk a 'good thing' a misunderstood thing, seen as taboo but really ok...as ive done all of the above including the difference between assault, GBH and impact/ sensation play in BDSM. i was pointing out how you letting me choose 'assault'over your taboo lactating fetish, might not be taken as someone with any sensitivity or knowledge of the differences..a little education may not go amiss..thats my point..x
What the hell are you even on about? l'm going to assume you never read what l said because you keep going on this tangent even though l have told you that l said ''to each their own without judgement''. You took offense at the word 'assault'. You are taking offense at the word rather than the crux of what l was actually saying. You are assuming connotations on my thoughts from that word. Would you actually asking my feelings on it? Before putting a noose around my neck? Assumption is never fair.
I read what you said OP. Basically that ANR / ABF is misunderstood and shouldn't be judged. You then went on to judge another 'fetish' saying you found it bizarre and using the term assault. I engage in BDSM with my partner and have never assaulted him and neither of us would ever view it that way. By using words like that you're doing to BDSM what you claim is being done to your chosen fetish. There's really no need
l said it was bizarre that one was taboo and one wasn't! Good God.
Yet one is taboo to you and one isn't. So what's the difference? Yes, good god "
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"Ahh I think you have the wrong site my friend.
Not really because there is a few woman down south that like it and a women on another thread said she wished her milk hadn't dried up. lt's a shame that some things are judged if it is two consenting adults .
lt's strange to me that some things are not taboo and some are. Like being whipped of spanked hard is consensual assault essentially. To each their own its not assault... if you knew anything about 'sensation play' or even had respect for the BDSM scene, you wouldnt be slagging it off..is that why you are on here?, because you became judgemental about lifestylers elsewhere? hmmm. maybe you create the animosity...
No,you created the animosity here. He asked a question then compared two forms of fetish,or whatever you want to call it. You took it off course and became defensive because he used a word you haven't sanctioned.
You are wrong. lf you can't compare two things to make an analysis then we would get nowhere in this world.
Read what l have said you would find the comment ''to each their own'' multiple times. so im allowed if mad to choose assault..thats what you said..flogging and whipping is assault to you while your preference is to suck milk a 'good thing' a misunderstood thing, seen as taboo but really ok...as ive done all of the above including the difference between assault, GBH and impact/ sensation play in BDSM. i was pointing out how you letting me choose 'assault'over your taboo lactating fetish, might not be taken as someone with any sensitivity or knowledge of the differences..a little education may not go amiss..thats my point..x
What the hell are you even on about? l'm going to assume you never read what l said because you keep going on this tangent even though l have told you that l said ''to each their own without judgement''. You took offense at the word 'assault'. You are taking offense at the word rather than the crux of what l was actually saying. You are assuming connotations on my thoughts from that word. Would you actually asking my feelings on it? Before putting a noose around my neck? Assumption is never fair.
I read what you said OP. Basically that ANR / ABF is misunderstood and shouldn't be judged. You then went on to judge another 'fetish' saying you found it bizarre and using the term assault. I engage in BDSM with my partner and have never assaulted him and neither of us would ever view it that way. By using words like that you're doing to BDSM what you claim is being done to your chosen fetish. There's really no need
l said it was bizarre that one was taboo and one wasn't! Good God.
Yet one is taboo to you and one isn't. So what's the difference? Yes, good god"
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"Ahh I think you have the wrong site my friend.
Not really because there is a few woman down south that like it and a women on another thread said she wished her milk hadn't dried up. lt's a shame that some things are judged if it is two consenting adults .
lt's strange to me that some things are not taboo and some are. Like being whipped of spanked hard is consensual assault essentially. To each their own its not assault... if you knew anything about 'sensation play' or even had respect for the BDSM scene, you wouldnt be slagging it off..is that why you are on here?, because you became judgemental about lifestylers elsewhere? hmmm. maybe you create the animosity...
No,you created the animosity here. He asked a question then compared two forms of fetish,or whatever you want to call it. You took it off course and became defensive because he used a word you haven't sanctioned.
You are wrong. lf you can't compare two things to make an analysis then we would get nowhere in this world.
Read what l have said you would find the comment ''to each their own'' multiple times. so im allowed if mad to choose assault..thats what you said..flogging and whipping is assault to you while your preference is to suck milk a 'good thing' a misunderstood thing, seen as taboo but really ok...as ive done all of the above including the difference between assault, GBH and impact/ sensation play in BDSM. i was pointing out how you letting me choose 'assault'over your taboo lactating fetish, might not be taken as someone with any sensitivity or knowledge of the differences..a little education may not go amiss..thats my point..x
What the hell are you even on about? l'm going to assume you never read what l said because you keep going on this tangent even though l have told you that l said ''to each their own without judgement''. You took offense at the word 'assault'. You are taking offense at the word rather than the crux of what l was actually saying. You are assuming connotations on my thoughts from that word. Would you actually asking my feelings on it? Before putting a noose around my neck? Assumption is never fair.
I read what you said OP. Basically that ANR / ABF is misunderstood and shouldn't be judged. You then went on to judge another 'fetish' saying you found it bizarre and using the term assault. I engage in BDSM with my partner and have never assaulted him and neither of us would ever view it that way. By using words like that you're doing to BDSM what you claim is being done to your chosen fetish. There's really no need
l said it was bizarre that one was taboo and one wasn't! Good God.
Yet one is taboo to you and one isn't. So what's the difference? Yes, good god
But BDSM is not taboo to me..."
Nor is ANR to me. So I guess we're all good |
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"Ahh I think you have the wrong site my friend.
Not really because there is a few woman down south that like it and a women on another thread said she wished her milk hadn't dried up. lt's a shame that some things are judged if it is two consenting adults .
lt's strange to me that some things are not taboo and some are. Like being whipped of spanked hard is consensual assault essentially. To each their own its not assault... if you knew anything about 'sensation play' or even had respect for the BDSM scene, you wouldnt be slagging it off..is that why you are on here?, because you became judgemental about lifestylers elsewhere? hmmm. maybe you create the animosity...
No,you created the animosity here. He asked a question then compared two forms of fetish,or whatever you want to call it. You took it off course and became defensive because he used a word you haven't sanctioned.
You are wrong. lf you can't compare two things to make an analysis then we would get nowhere in this world.
Read what l have said you would find the comment ''to each their own'' multiple times. so im allowed if mad to choose assault..thats what you said..flogging and whipping is assault to you while your preference is to suck milk a 'good thing' a misunderstood thing, seen as taboo but really ok...as ive done all of the above including the difference between assault, GBH and impact/ sensation play in BDSM. i was pointing out how you letting me choose 'assault'over your taboo lactating fetish, might not be taken as someone with any sensitivity or knowledge of the differences..a little education may not go amiss..thats my point..x
What the hell are you even on about? l'm going to assume you never read what l said because you keep going on this tangent even though l have told you that l said ''to each their own without judgement''. You took offense at the word 'assault'. You are taking offense at the word rather than the crux of what l was actually saying. You are assuming connotations on my thoughts from that word. Would you actually asking my feelings on it? Before putting a noose around my neck? Assumption is never fair.
I read what you said OP. Basically that ANR / ABF is misunderstood and shouldn't be judged. You then went on to judge another 'fetish' saying you found it bizarre and using the term assault. I engage in BDSM with my partner and have never assaulted him and neither of us would ever view it that way. By using words like that you're doing to BDSM what you claim is being done to your chosen fetish. There's really no need
l said it was bizarre that one was taboo and one wasn't! Good God.
Yet one is taboo to you and one isn't. So what's the difference? Yes, good god
There should be no difference,is what he was saying,I think.
P.S. I'm not wrong "
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"Ahh I think you have the wrong site my friend.
Not really because there is a few woman down south that like it and a women on another thread said she wished her milk hadn't dried up. lt's a shame that some things are judged if it is two consenting adults .
lt's strange to me that some things are not taboo and some are. Like being whipped of spanked hard is consensual assault essentially. To each their own its not assault... if you knew anything about 'sensation play' or even had respect for the BDSM scene, you wouldnt be slagging it off..is that why you are on here?, because you became judgemental about lifestylers elsewhere? hmmm. maybe you create the animosity...
No,you created the animosity here. He asked a question then compared two forms of fetish,or whatever you want to call it. You took it off course and became defensive because he used a word you haven't sanctioned.
You are wrong. lf you can't compare two things to make an analysis then we would get nowhere in this world.
Read what l have said you would find the comment ''to each their own'' multiple times. so im allowed if mad to choose assault..thats what you said..flogging and whipping is assault to you while your preference is to suck milk a 'good thing' a misunderstood thing, seen as taboo but really ok...as ive done all of the above including the difference between assault, GBH and impact/ sensation play in BDSM. i was pointing out how you letting me choose 'assault'over your taboo lactating fetish, might not be taken as someone with any sensitivity or knowledge of the differences..a little education may not go amiss..thats my point..x
What the hell are you even on about? l'm going to assume you never read what l said because you keep going on this tangent even though l have told you that l said ''to each their own without judgement''. You took offense at the word 'assault'. You are taking offense at the word rather than the crux of what l was actually saying. You are assuming connotations on my thoughts from that word. Would you actually asking my feelings on it? Before putting a noose around my neck? Assumption is never fair.
I read what you said OP. Basically that ANR / ABF is misunderstood and shouldn't be judged. You then went on to judge another 'fetish' saying you found it bizarre and using the term assault. I engage in BDSM with my partner and have never assaulted him and neither of us would ever view it that way. By using words like that you're doing to BDSM what you claim is being done to your chosen fetish. There's really no need
l said it was bizarre that one was taboo and one wasn't! Good God.
Yet one is taboo to you and one isn't. So what's the difference? Yes, good god
There should be no difference,is what he was saying,I think.
P.S. I'm not wrong
Thank you for seeing my pointm lass. "
I was wondering if I'm reading something different to other people. I'm empathetic,which helps |
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