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Maybe a post where the clicky forum users dont hijack it?
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I predict a popcorn comment in less than 20 posts...... | |||
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"Well that OP is like a red rag to a bull
I predict a popcorn comment in less than 20 posts......" | |||
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"Well that OP is like a red rag to a bull
I predict a popcorn comment in less than 20 posts......"
It's morning, let's ditch the popcorn.
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" Anyone noticed how they do that? Private jokes thrown around, ignore what other people say and just flood thread with their private conversations lol Like the group that thinks their cool in the playground at school that all end up working at tescos on the night shift Hahah (no doubt sarky comments will ensue) If any normal forum users want to get something off their chest about the forums on here please go ahead ! Apart from that, im loving fab and meeting loads of awesome people. #FabRulez " You're brave | |||
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" Anyone noticed how they do that? Private jokes thrown around, ignore what other people say and just flood thread with their private conversations lol Like the group that thinks their cool in the playground at school that all end up working at tescos on the night shift Hahah (no doubt sarky comments will ensue) If any normal forum users want to get something off their chest about the forums on here please go ahead ! Apart from that, im loving fab and meeting loads of awesome people. #FabRulez You're brave "Its not brave to state the truth. | |||
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" Anyone noticed how they do that? Private jokes thrown around, ignore what other people say and just flood thread with their private conversations lol Like the group that thinks their cool in the playground at school that all end up working at tescos on the night shift Hahah (no doubt sarky comments will ensue) If any normal forum users want to get something off their chest about the forums on here please go ahead ! Apart from that, im loving fab and meeting loads of awesome people. #FabRulez You're brave
Its not brave to state the truth.
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"Ah you shouldn't have removed it or maybe re write it in a slightly different way & re post it. I've said on numerous occasions I think the forums can be clicky & the bloody cake reference thing that was banded around a while ago used to make me want to....aaarrggggh!!! I think it comes & go, at the moment with regular posters away it feels different & it's nice to see some new people that otherwise would possibly go un noticed " There will always be banter between people that know each other.
I like how the forums are currently. Feels clique-less and lots of new people.
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"Ah you shouldn't have removed it or maybe re write it in a slightly different way & re post it. I've said on numerous occasions I think the forums can be clicky & the bloody cake reference thing that was banded around a while ago used to make me want to....aaarrggggh!!! I think it comes & go, at the moment with regular posters away it feels different & it's nice to see some new people that otherwise would possibly go un noticed "Its not essentially the clickyness. . Thats bound to happen. Its the being rude to people and having their crony mate team up on someone. . Both of them are losers with loser jobs. No doubt why they attempt to look 'tough' on a forum. Feel sorry for them really. . .this is all they have lol  | |||
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"I'm still curious as to who is in the "clique" nobody ever answers me. I don't take much notice tho tbh I just respond to the thread/post of it interests me irrespective of who wrote it. Mrs" Oh and get ignored a lot but it doesn't bother me I still post random crap regardless | |||
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"I'm still curious as to who is in the "clique" nobody ever answers me. I don't take much notice tho tbh I just respond to the thread/post of it interests me irrespective of who wrote it. Mrs" A little while a go someone did name who they thought was in the 'clique', interesting responses to say the very least | |||
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" Anyone noticed how they do that? Private jokes thrown around, ignore what other people say and just flood thread with their private conversations lol Like the group that thinks their cool in the playground at school that all end up working at tescos on the night shift Hahah (no doubt sarky comments will ensue) If any normal forum users want to get something off their chest about the forums on here please go ahead ! Apart from that, im loving fab and meeting loads of awesome people. #FabRulez You're brave
Its not brave to state the truth.
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"I'm still curious as to who is in the "clique" nobody ever answers me. I don't take much notice tho tbh I just respond to the thread/post of it interests me irrespective of who wrote it. Mrs A little while a go someone did name who they thought was in the 'clique', interesting responses to say the very least "I missed that | |||
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"I'm still curious as to who is in the "clique" nobody ever answers me. I don't take much notice tho tbh I just respond to the thread/post of it interests me irrespective of who wrote it. Mrs A little while a go someone did name who they thought was in the 'clique', interesting responses to say the very least
I missed that "Damn it so did I | |||
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"Ah you shouldn't have removed it or maybe re write it in a slightly different way & re post it. I've said on numerous occasions I think the forums can be clicky & the bloody cake reference thing that was banded around a while ago used to make me want to....aaarrggggh!!! I think it comes & go, at the moment with regular posters away it feels different & it's nice to see some new people that otherwise would possibly go un noticed
Its not essentially the clickyness. . Thats bound to happen.
Its the being rude to people and having their crony mate team up on someone. . Both of them are losers with loser jobs. No doubt why they attempt to look 'tough' on a forum.
Feel sorry for them really. . .this is all they have lol
"I don't agree with the pack of baying wolves mentality that's wrong but so is using a forum thread to ger back at someone, is that what this is about OP? | |||
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"I'm still curious as to who is in the "clique" nobody ever answers me. I don't take much notice tho tbh I just respond to the thread/post of it interests me irrespective of who wrote it. Mrs" I don't think it's a set clique as such. More lots of little cliquey groups. | |||
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" Anyone noticed how they do that? Private jokes thrown around, ignore what other people say and just flood thread with their private conversations lol Like the group that thinks their cool in the playground at school that all end up working at tescos on the night shift Hahah (no doubt sarky comments will ensue) If any normal forum users want to get something off their chest about the forums on here please go ahead ! Apart from that, im loving fab and meeting loads of awesome people. #FabRulez You're brave
Its not brave to state the truth.
"You do realise when you've been on for 9 years rather than 9 weeks you will be part of the in jokes,just be patient you'll get there  | |||
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"Just do your thing in the way you what to and ignore the threads that are taken over. Being indifferent to it all is the best way. Welcome and good luck " | |||
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"I'm still curious as to who is in the "clique" nobody ever answers me. I don't take much notice tho tbh I just respond to the thread/post of it interests me irrespective of who wrote it. Mrs A little while a go someone did name who they thought was in the 'clique', interesting responses to say the very least
I missed that
Damn it so did I "So did I. Ah well, I guess I'll never know who the cool kids are and can carry on blithely in my own oblivious way. | |||
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" Anyone noticed how they do that? Private jokes thrown around, ignore what other people say and just flood thread with their private conversations lol Like the group that thinks their cool in the playground at school that all end up working at tescos on the night shift Hahah (no doubt sarky comments will ensue) If any normal forum users want to get something off their chest about the forums on here please go ahead ! Apart from that, im loving fab and meeting loads of awesome people. #FabRulez You're brave
Its not brave to state the truth.
You do realise when you've been on for 9 years rather than 9 weeks you will be part of the in jokes,just be patient you'll get there "You said it | |||
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"Forum users are rude to other forum users regardless of a clique, length of time on site, whatever. You don't have to be special to be on the receiving end of a cup of rude "Agreed. Clique or not, keyboard warriors will always be that. I read the posts and respond on the ones I am interested in. No bother sweating the rest. If a thread is hijacked I simply back up and read another one. There isn't much point getting my nose out of joint. Life is too short to be mithered by something so trivial after all. | |||
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"I'm still curious as to who is in the "clique" nobody ever answers me. I don't take much notice tho tbh I just respond to the thread/post of it interests me irrespective of who wrote it. Mrs A little while a go someone did name who they thought was in the 'clique', interesting responses to say the very least
I missed that
Damn it so did I
So did I. Ah well, I guess I'll never know who the cool kids are and can carry on blithely in my own oblivious way." | |||
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"Ah you shouldn't have removed it or maybe re write it in a slightly different way & re post it. I've said on numerous occasions I think the forums can be clicky & the bloody cake reference thing that was banded around a while ago used to make me want to....aaarrggggh!!! I think it comes & go, at the moment with regular posters away it feels different & it's nice to see some new people that otherwise would possibly go un noticed
Its not essentially the clickyness. . Thats bound to happen.
Its the being rude to people and having their crony mate team up on someone. . Both of them are losers with loser jobs. No doubt why they attempt to look 'tough' on a forum.
Feel sorry for them really. . .this is all they have lol
I don't agree with the pack of baying wolves mentality that's wrong but so is using a forum thread to ger back at someone, is that what this is about OP?
"No i havent been attacked or anything. . Just twice in last week i was reading some posts and saw on 2 occasions this happen. What annoyed me was that the clicky people thought they were so cool demeaning someone. I just hate to see horrible people enjoying themselves at other peoples expense.  | |||
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"I'm still curious as to who is in the "clique" nobody ever answers me. I don't take much notice tho tbh I just respond to the thread/post of it interests me irrespective of who wrote it. Mrs I don't think it's a set clique as such. More lots of little cliquey groups. " Oh I see. Meh | |||
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" Anyone noticed how they do that? Private jokes thrown around, ignore what other people say and just flood thread with their private conversations lol Like the group that thinks their cool in the playground at school that all end up working at tescos on the night shift Hahah (no doubt sarky comments will ensue) If any normal forum users want to get something off their chest about the forums on here please go ahead ! Apart from that, im loving fab and meeting loads of awesome people. #FabRulez You're brave
Its not brave to state the truth.
You do realise when you've been on for 9 years rather than 9 weeks you will be part of the in jokes,just be patient you'll get there "Nice condescending attitude  | |||
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"Ah you shouldn't have removed it or maybe re write it in a slightly different way & re post it. I've said on numerous occasions I think the forums can be clicky & the bloody cake reference thing that was banded around a while ago used to make me want to....aaarrggggh!!! I think it comes & go, at the moment with regular posters away it feels different & it's nice to see some new people that otherwise would possibly go un noticed
Its not essentially the clickyness. . Thats bound to happen.
Its the being rude to people and having their crony mate team up on someone. . Both of them are losers with loser jobs. No doubt why they attempt to look 'tough' on a forum.
Feel sorry for them really. . .this is all they have lol
"Of course, it is not rude to suggest that people you do not know are "losers with loser jobs?" | |||
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"I'm still curious as to who is in the "clique" nobody ever answers me. I don't take much notice tho tbh I just respond to the thread/post of it interests me irrespective of who wrote it. Mrs A little while a go someone did name who they thought was in the 'clique', interesting responses to say the very least
I missed that
Damn it so did I
So did I. Ah well, I guess I'll never know who the cool kids are and can carry on blithely in my own oblivious way."it was a very brief mention by a newer poster 1/2 way down a thread a few months back, he spent the next 1/2 apologising.... | |||
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"Ah you shouldn't have removed it or maybe re write it in a slightly different way & re post it. I've said on numerous occasions I think the forums can be clicky & the bloody cake reference thing that was banded around a while ago used to make me want to....aaarrggggh!!! I think it comes & go, at the moment with regular posters away it feels different & it's nice to see some new people that otherwise would possibly go un noticed
Its not essentially the clickyness. . Thats bound to happen.
Its the being rude to people and having their crony mate team up on someone. . Both of them are losers with loser jobs. No doubt why they attempt to look 'tough' on a forum.
Feel sorry for them really. . .this is all they have lol
Of course, it is not rude to suggest that people you do not know are "losers with loser jobs?""Not if they have been rude and demeaning to someone for no reason other than to look tough. Also if the shoe fits . . | |||
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"Ah you shouldn't have removed it or maybe re write it in a slightly different way & re post it. I've said on numerous occasions I think the forums can be clicky & the bloody cake reference thing that was banded around a while ago used to make me want to....aaarrggggh!!! I think it comes & go, at the moment with regular posters away it feels different & it's nice to see some new people that otherwise would possibly go un noticed
Its not essentially the clickyness. . Thats bound to happen.
Its the being rude to people and having their crony mate team up on someone. . Both of them are losers with loser jobs. No doubt why they attempt to look 'tough' on a forum.
Feel sorry for them really. . .this is all they have lol
I don't agree with the pack of baying wolves mentality that's wrong but so is using a forum thread to ger back at someone, is that what this is about OP?
No i havent been attacked or anything. . Just twice in last week i was reading some posts and saw on 2 occasions this happen.
What annoyed me was that the clicky people thought they were so cool demeaning someone.
I just hate to see horrible people enjoying themselves at other peoples expense.
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" Anyone noticed how they do that? Private jokes thrown around, ignore what other people say and just flood thread with their private conversations lol Like the group that thinks their cool in the playground at school that all end up working at tescos on the night shift Hahah (no doubt sarky comments will ensue) If any normal forum users want to get something off their chest about the forums on here please go ahead ! Apart from that, im loving fab and meeting loads of awesome people. #FabRulez You're brave
Its not brave to state the truth.
You do realise when you've been on for 9 years rather than 9 weeks you will be part of the in jokes,just be patient you'll get there
You said it " | |||
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" Anyone noticed how they do that? Private jokes thrown around, ignore what other people say and just flood thread with their private conversations lol Like the group that thinks their cool in the playground at school that all end up working at tescos on the night shift Hahah (no doubt sarky comments will ensue) If any normal forum users want to get something off their chest about the forums on here please go ahead ! Apart from that, im loving fab and meeting loads of awesome people. #FabRulez You're brave
Its not brave to state the truth.
You do realise when you've been on for 9 years rather than 9 weeks you will be part of the in jokes,just be patient you'll get there
Nice condescending attitude
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" Anyone noticed how they do that? Private jokes thrown around, ignore what other people say and just flood thread with their private conversations lol Like the group that thinks their cool in the playground at school that all end up working at tescos on the night shift Hahah (no doubt sarky comments will ensue) If any normal forum users want to get something off their chest about the forums on here please go ahead ! Apart from that, im loving fab and meeting loads of awesome people. #FabRulez You're brave
Its not brave to state the truth.
You do realise when you've been on for 9 years rather than 9 weeks you will be part of the in jokes,just be patient you'll get there
Nice condescending attitude
"It very true op. I'm sure you think I'm 1 of your offender's but does it matter what you think of me or me you its a forum it's supposed to be fun and on the whole that's all I use it for. Just join in have a laugh it's what it's all about... | |||
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" Anyone noticed how they do that? Private jokes thrown around, ignore what other people say and just flood thread with their private conversations lol Like the group that thinks their cool in the playground at school that all end up working at tescos on the night shift Hahah (no doubt sarky comments will ensue) If any normal forum users want to get something off their chest about the forums on here please go ahead ! Apart from that, im loving fab and meeting loads of awesome people. #FabRulez " I could save money cancelling sky and get my entertainment on here for free: oh the intrigues and dramas. (Usually) single blokes trying to circumvent the filters so hijack threads to flirt. Egos get massaged. Other females get jealous so join in, at times you feel like a voyeur and want to tell them to get a room! All fun and games! | |||
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"I'd like to think I'm a normal forum poster. Well more normal than some. Some are just out there crazy, they're cool cats none the less. Op...I hope your day gets better, maybe sport a sandwich board offering free hugs? I hear hugging strangers is good for the soul, your mood and general well being. Failing that...hit the Ben and Jerrys, pull up your girly pants, sit back and watch made in Manhattan "Oh, I love that film! You know what, regardless of what the OP wrote to instigate that suggestion, I'm taking it on board. Easy pants? Check! Tub of icecream? Check! Comfy sofa? Check! Feelgood romcom? Check! All set! Cheers Merry m'dear! | |||
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"I'm still curious as to who is in the "clique" nobody ever answers me. I don't take much notice tho tbh I just respond to the thread/post of it interests me irrespective of who wrote it. Mrs" I'm happy to confirm I'm in the boob appreciation clique, I started a thread a while ago encouraging folk to join.. only requirement is to like boobs .. ladies for a full appreciation please send pictures to my inbox. | |||
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"Ah you shouldn't have removed it or maybe re write it in a slightly different way & re post it. I've said on numerous occasions I think the forums can be clicky & the bloody cake reference thing that was banded around a while ago used to make me want to....aaarrggggh!!! I think it comes & go, at the moment with regular posters away it feels different & it's nice to see some new people that otherwise would possibly go un noticed "Cake...popcorn...tin hat...comfy chair...haribos...tiresome! | |||
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"I'm still curious as to who is in the "clique" nobody ever answers me. I don't take much notice tho tbh I just respond to the thread/post of it interests me irrespective of who wrote it. Mrs A little while a go someone did name who they thought was in the 'clique', interesting responses to say the very least "Oh I missed that! | |||
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" Anyone noticed how they do that? Private jokes thrown around, ignore what other people say and just flood thread with their private conversations lol Like the group that thinks their cool in the playground at school that all end up working at tescos on the night shift Hahah (no doubt sarky comments will ensue) If any normal forum users want to get something off their chest about the forums on here please go ahead ! Apart from that, im loving fab and meeting loads of awesome people. #FabRulez You're brave
Its not brave to state the truth.
You do realise when you've been on for 9 years rather than 9 weeks you will be part of the in jokes,just be patient you'll get there "Whoop! Whoop! Only another year to go! | |||
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"Spurs will definitely win the premiership this year "It's the disillusioned people that amuse me the most. | |||
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"I'm still curious as to who is in the "clique" nobody ever answers me. I don't take much notice tho tbh I just respond to the thread/post of it interests me irrespective of who wrote it. Mrs A little while a go someone did name who they thought was in the 'clique', interesting responses to say the very least
I missed that
Damn it so did I "Me too but I know I wouldn't have been on it, despite being a forum poster for about 5 years. | |||
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" Anyone noticed how they do that? Private jokes thrown around, ignore what other people say and just flood thread with their private conversations lol Like the group that thinks their cool in the playground at school that all end up working at tescos on the night shift Hahah (no doubt sarky comments will ensue) If any normal forum users want to get something off their chest about the forums on here please go ahead ! Apart from that, im loving fab and meeting loads of awesome people. #FabRulez You're brave "Lol  | |||
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" Anyone noticed how they do that? Private jokes thrown around, ignore what other people say and just flood thread with their private conversations lol Like the group that thinks their cool in the playground at school that all end up working at tescos on the night shift Hahah (no doubt sarky comments will ensue) If any normal forum users want to get something off their chest about the forums on here please go ahead ! Apart from that, im loving fab and meeting loads of awesome people. #FabRulez You're brave "Or not.... | |||
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"Haha I've only been actively using the forums for a few weeks. Just post, have a giggle and don't worry about whether your post is getting replies or if others have gone into a tangent! Red xx " | |||
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"Haha I've only been actively using the forums for a few weeks. Just post, have a giggle and don't worry about whether your post is getting replies or if others have gone into a tangent! Red xx " | |||
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" Anyone noticed how they do that? Private jokes thrown around, ignore what other people say and just flood thread with their private conversations lol Like the group that thinks their cool in the playground at school that all end up working at tescos on the night shift Hahah (no doubt sarky comments will ensue) If any normal forum users want to get something off their chest about the forums on here please go ahead ! Apart from that, im loving fab and meeting loads of awesome people. #FabRulez You're brave
Its not brave to state the truth.
It's an opinion, not a fact. "A factual opinion maybe? | |||
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"Cliques are nothing new with Internet forums, and it's going to be even worse with swinging. I try not to let it bother me and not fall into the trap of being bitter towards them in return. Although, I do find it particularly frustrating when advice threads are hijacked by those wanting to display their acid wit with facetious/sarcastic remarks. " I think I've only seen that happen on the single men wanting profile advice thread. But there's always at least 1 post advising them to forum search. Folk just get bored of writing out the same thing over and over. Especially as it's often ignored anyway. | |||
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" Anyone noticed how they do that? Private jokes thrown around, ignore what other people say and just flood thread with their private conversations lol Like the group that thinks their cool in the playground at school that all end up working at tescos on the night shift Hahah (no doubt sarky comments will ensue) If any normal forum users want to get something off their chest about the forums on here please go ahead ! Apart from that, im loving fab and meeting loads of awesome people. #FabRulez You're brave
Its not brave to state the truth.
You do realise when you've been on for 9 years rather than 9 weeks you will be part of the in jokes,just be patient you'll get there
Whoop! Whoop! Only another year to go! "Patience woman! I've got 7 years yet  | |||
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"I'm still curious as to who is in the "clique" nobody ever answers me. I don't take much notice tho tbh I just respond to the thread/post of it interests me irrespective of who wrote it. Mrs A little while a go someone did name who they thought was in the 'clique', interesting responses to say the very least
I missed that
Damn it so did I
Me too but I know I wouldn't have been on it, despite being a forum poster for about 5 years. "Most of your clique have left or stopped using the forums. Do you miss them? | |||
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"Haha I've only been actively using the forums for a few weeks. Just post, have a giggle and don't worry about whether your post is getting replies or if others have gone into a tangent! Red xx "Sound advice,it's much better to have that attitude rather than having a moan and still be using the forums,now that doesn't make sense to me! | |||
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"I'm still curious as to who is in the "clique" nobody ever answers me. I don't take much notice tho tbh I just respond to the thread/post of it interests me irrespective of who wrote it. Mrs A little while a go someone did name who they thought was in the 'clique', interesting responses to say the very least
I missed that
Damn it so did I
Me too but I know I wouldn't have been on it, despite being a forum poster for about 5 years.
Most of your clique have left or stopped using the forums. Do you miss them? "Haha They are trying to make new friends no doubt but saying rhings like 'dont worry if your post doesnt get replies' Condescending attitude considering not one part of my post was about lack of replies. Its just a way to make them feel better about how 'cool' they obviously are. Lol #Fabswingersshityoucouldntmakeup | |||
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"Haha I've only been actively using the forums for a few weeks. Just post, have a giggle and don't worry about whether your post is getting replies or if others have gone into a tangent! Red xx
Sound advice,it's much better to have that attitude rather than having a moan and still be using the forums,now that doesn't make sense to me!"Again you are missing the point. Its not a moan as i have been giggling througout. It was merely to say. . I see you guys and see what your doing. I sometimes think the 'cool' people.as they see it assume no one notices. | |||
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"I'm still curious as to who is in the "clique" nobody ever answers me. I don't take much notice tho tbh I just respond to the thread/post of it interests me irrespective of who wrote it. Mrs A little while a go someone did name who they thought was in the 'clique', interesting responses to say the very least
I missed that
Damn it so did I
Me too but I know I wouldn't have been on it, despite being a forum poster for about 5 years.
Most of your clique have left or stopped using the forums. Do you miss them?
Haha
They are trying to make new friends no doubt but saying rhings like 'dont worry if your post doesnt get replies'
Condescending attitude considering not one part of my post was about lack of replies.
Its just a way to make them feel better about how 'cool' they obviously are.
Lol
#Fabswingersshityoucouldntmakeup"Still, on the plus side OP, you have a lovely pecker
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"I'm still curious as to who is in the "clique" nobody ever answers me. I don't take much notice tho tbh I just respond to the thread/post of it interests me irrespective of who wrote it. Mrs A little while a go someone did name who they thought was in the 'clique', interesting responses to say the very least
I missed that
Damn it so did I
Me too but I know I wouldn't have been on it, despite being a forum poster for about 5 years.
Most of your clique have left or stopped using the forums. Do you miss them?
Haha
They are trying to make new friends no doubt but saying rhings like 'dont worry if your post doesnt get replies'
Condescending attitude considering not one part of my post was about lack of replies.
Its just a way to make them feel better about how 'cool' they obviously are.
Lol
#Fabswingersshityoucouldntmakeup
Still, on the plus side OP, you have a lovely pecker
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"Haha I've only been actively using the forums for a few weeks. Just post, have a giggle and don't worry about whether your post is getting replies or if others have gone into a tangent! Red xx
Sound advice,it's much better to have that attitude rather than having a moan and still be using the forums,now that doesn't make sense to me!
Again you are missing the point.
Its not a moan as i have been giggling througout.
It was merely to say. . I see you guys and see what your doing.
I sometimes think the 'cool' people.as they see it assume no one notices."You're right I am missing your point please accept my apologies. What was your point again?! I'm poorly in bed so my concentration isn't as it should be. Do you really think though that the 'cool' people are in the least bit interested in whether you notice whatever it is you're going on about rather than having their own private conversation?! | |||
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"Haha I've only been actively using the forums for a few weeks. Just post, have a giggle and don't worry about whether your post is getting replies or if others have gone into a tangent! Red xx
Sound advice,it's much better to have that attitude rather than having a moan and still be using the forums,now that doesn't make sense to me!
Again you are missing the point.
Its not a moan as i have been giggling througout.
It was merely to say. . I see you guys and see what your doing.
I sometimes think the 'cool' people.as they see it assume no one notices.
You're right I am missing your point please accept my apologies. What was your point again?! I'm poorly in bed so my concentration isn't as it should be. Do you really think though that the 'cool' people are in the least bit interested in whether you notice whatever it is you're going on about rather than having their own private conversation?!
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"in defence of the OP i actually do get what they are saying.... sometimes the "in jokes get too bad where a new person doesn't always get them... and it can look like a small group mentality... and sometimes the flirting, whoever is the new flavor of the month is, get so bad it does make me cringe and i think "that should be taken to pm"... its almost territory marking.... sometimes i think it would just take a couple of seconds just to understand what you are writing, people don't need to change it drastically.... but it is just an awareness.... " A wise few sentiments sir. I thank thee. | |||
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"Haha I've only been actively using the forums for a few weeks. Just post, have a giggle and don't worry about whether your post is getting replies or if others have gone into a tangent! Red xx
Sound advice,it's much better to have that attitude rather than having a moan and still be using the forums,now that doesn't make sense to me!
Again you are missing the point.
Its not a moan as i have been giggling througout.
It was merely to say. . I see you guys and see what your doing.
I sometimes think the 'cool' people.as they see it assume no one notices.
You're right I am missing your point please accept my apologies. What was your point again?! I'm poorly in bed so my concentration isn't as it should be. Do you really think though that the 'cool' people are in the least bit interested in whether you notice whatever it is you're going on about rather than having their own private conversation?!
Ahh my work here is done.
You are now pissed off cos ive called you out on not reading posts correctly and giving condesending replies.
. . .and now your getting pissy.
Boom!
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"Haha I've only been actively using the forums for a few weeks. Just post, have a giggle and don't worry about whether your post is getting replies or if others have gone into a tangent! Red xx
Sound advice,it's much better to have that attitude rather than having a moan and still be using the forums,now that doesn't make sense to me!
Again you are missing the point.
Its not a moan as i have been giggling througout.
It was merely to say. . I see you guys and see what your doing.
I sometimes think the 'cool' people.as they see it assume no one notices.
You're right I am missing your point please accept my apologies. What was your point again?! I'm poorly in bed so my concentration isn't as it should be. Do you really think though that the 'cool' people are in the least bit interested in whether you notice whatever it is you're going on about rather than having their own private conversation?!
Ahh my work here is done.
You are now pissed off cos ive called you out on not reading posts correctly and giving condesending replies.
. . .and now your getting pissy.
Boom!
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"in defence of the OP i actually do get what they are saying.... sometimes the "in jokes get too bad where a new person doesn't always get them... and it can look like a small group mentality... and sometimes the flirting, whoever is the new flavor of the month is, get so bad it does make me cringe and i think "that should be taken to pm"... its almost territory marking.... sometimes i think it would just take a couple of seconds just to understand what you are writing, people don't need to change it drastically.... but it is just an awareness.... " I think you may have a point. I'm an outrageous forum flirt.... But I wouldn't say it's like pissing up a lamppost to mark a territory...I just enjoy flirting. However to an observer I can imagine that is exactly how it could come across . | |||
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So you are just trolling ?"Trolling would be annoying someone that doesnt deserve it. Winding someone up that gives purposefully condesending 'look at me im so popular and special' comments especially when they dont read the posts and reply to something that hasnt been said. I think its fine to knock them off their high horse. | |||
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" Ahh my work here is done. You are now pissed off cos ive called you out on not reading posts correctly and giving condesending replies. . . .and now your getting pissy. Boom! A good sunday morning.
So you are just trolling ?
Trolling would be annoying someone that doesnt deserve it.
Winding someone up that gives purposefully condesending 'look at me im so popular and special' comments especially when they dont read the posts and reply to something that hasnt been said.
I think its fine to knock them off their high horse. "
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"in defence of the OP i actually do get what they are saying.... sometimes the "in jokes get too bad where a new person doesn't always get them... and it can look like a small group mentality... and sometimes the flirting, whoever is the new flavor of the month is, get so bad it does make me cringe and i think "that should be taken to pm"... its almost territory marking.... sometimes i think it would just take a couple of seconds just to understand what you are writing, people don't need to change it drastically.... but it is just an awareness.... A wise few sentiments sir. I thank thee." | |||
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"I'm still curious as to who is in the "clique" nobody ever answers me. I don't take much notice tho tbh I just respond to the thread/post of it interests me irrespective of who wrote it. Mrs A little while a go someone did name who they thought was in the 'clique', interesting responses to say the very least
I missed that
Damn it so did I
So did I. Ah well, I guess I'll never know who the cool kids are and can carry on blithely in my own oblivious way.
it was a very brief mention by a newer poster 1/2 way down a thread a few months back, he spent the next 1/2 apologising....
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" Ahh my work here is done. You are now pissed off cos ive called you out on not reading posts correctly and giving condesending replies. . . .and now your getting pissy. Boom! A good sunday morning.
So you are just trolling ?
Trolling would be annoying someone that doesnt deserve it.
Winding someone up that gives purposefully condesending 'look at me im so popular and special' comments especially when they dont read the posts and reply to something that hasnt been said.
I think its fine to knock them off their high horse. "To be fair OP you've deleted your original post so if someone asks what the original point was I hardly think that's them being condescending or being on a high horse | |||
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" Ahh my work here is done. You are now pissed off cos ive called you out on not reading posts correctly and giving condesending replies. . . .and now your getting pissy. Boom! A good sunday morning.
So you are just trolling ?
Trolling would be annoying someone that doesnt deserve it.
Winding someone up that gives purposefully condesending 'look at me im so popular and special' comments especially when they dont read the posts and reply to something that hasnt been said.
I think its fine to knock them off their high horse.
No one was being condescending. You are just rude. "Maybe at times. . In response to condesending remarks that had nothing to do with any points made. Maybe you shud read posts instead of scanning them quickly like most do. | |||
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" Ahh my work here is done. You are now pissed off cos ive called you out on not reading posts correctly and giving condesending replies. . . .and now your getting pissy. Boom! A good sunday morning.
So you are just trolling ?
Trolling would be annoying someone that doesnt deserve it.
Winding someone up that gives purposefully condesending 'look at me im so popular and special' comments especially when they dont read the posts and reply to something that hasnt been said.
I think its fine to knock them off their high horse.
To be fair OP you've deleted your original post so if someone asks what the original point was I hardly think that's them being condescending or being on a high horse "It had typos, thats all. Theres no conspiracy about the deleted post. | |||
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" Ahh my work here is done. You are now pissed off cos ive called you out on not reading posts correctly and giving condesending replies. . . .and now your getting pissy. Boom! A good sunday morning.
So you are just trolling ?
Trolling would be annoying someone that doesnt deserve it.
Winding someone up that gives purposefully condesending 'look at me im so popular and special' comments especially when they dont read the posts and reply to something that hasnt been said.
I think its fine to knock them off their high horse. "It looks to me me like you searched for a victim then picked on them for your amusement. | |||
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" Ahh my work here is done. You are now pissed off cos ive called you out on not reading posts correctly and giving condesending replies. . . .and now your getting pissy. Boom! A good sunday morning.
So you are just trolling ?
Trolling would be annoying someone that doesnt deserve it.
Winding someone up that gives purposefully condesending 'look at me im so popular and special' comments especially when they dont read the posts and reply to something that hasnt been said.
I think its fine to knock them off their high horse.
It looks to me me like you searched for a victim then picked on them for your amusement. "Thankyou,this is exactly how it is! | |||
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Keep posting sensible/logical posts like that and you'll be fastracked to the clique, pronto! You'll be done for then, talked about no end. "Lol sensible posts? Being condesending and saying 'dont worry if your post doesnt get replies' Haha thats wasnt even mentioned as an issue. Merely inserted by user to make them sound good against the person they are replying to. Embarrassing. | |||
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"Haha I've only been actively using the forums for a few weeks. Just post, have a giggle and don't worry about whether your post is getting replies or if others have gone into a tangent! Red xx
Keep posting sensible/logical posts like that and you'll be fastracked to the clique, pronto! You'll be done for then, talked about no end. "A clique fastrack? Is that like dhl versus yodel? | |||
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"Haha I've only been actively using the forums for a few weeks. Just post, have a giggle and don't worry about whether your post is getting replies or if others have gone into a tangent! Red xx
Keep posting sensible/logical posts like that and you'll be fastracked to the clique, pronto! You'll be done for then, talked about no end.
Lol sensible posts?
Being condesending and saying 'dont worry if your post doesnt get replies'
Haha thats wasnt even mentioned as an issue. Merely inserted by user to make them sound good against the person they are replying to.
Embarrassing."Waay too serious OP, this is an hilarious thread, belly laughs galore. | |||
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"Haha I've only been actively using the forums for a few weeks. Just post, have a giggle and don't worry about whether your post is getting replies or if others have gone into a tangent! Red xx
Keep posting sensible/logical posts like that and you'll be fastracked to the clique, pronto! You'll be done for then, talked about no end.
Lol sensible posts?
Being condesending and saying 'dont worry if your post doesnt get replies'
Haha thats wasnt even mentioned as an issue. Merely inserted by user to make them sound good against the person they are replying to.
Embarrassing.
Waay too serious OP, this is an hilarious thread, belly laughs galore. "Haha me too! I dont know why anyone would take offence or take seriously what ive said. . . Its only a forum with opinions. | |||
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"We understand what your saying' some times a person will make a post then the forum police jump in for his spelling etc' and bully him' a few on here are so far up each otheres arses on the forums its unreal' yet when looking at there profiles its lol i can see why you all post about cake hehe" | |||
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"We understand what your saying' some times a person will make a post then the forum police jump in for his spelling etc' and bully him' a few on here are so far up each otheres arses on the forums its unreal' yet when looking at there profiles its lol i can see why you all post about cake hehe "Fat people? | |||
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"Cliques are percived by people on the outside wanting to get in. Once inside they relise there wasn't a clique at all. Just a lot of folk who get on well with each other. xxx
Not necessarily get on well but have the same outlook on life and post on the same threads a lot. I have seen people make snipey,sarcastic comments to people they haven't met,yet treat the people they have met with nothing but sweetness and light;even though the two people said very similar things. I'd hate for someone to feel they couldn't put me in my place just because we have met,or are online "friends". "Exactly what i have seen. A random says something and gets shot down. . Then someone from self obsessed 'cool' group agrees woth the random. . .suddenly all the sheep in 'cool' group stary also agreeing. Its embarrassing tknwat h  | |||
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" Ahh my work here is done. You are now pissed off cos ive called you out on not reading posts correctly and giving condesending replies. . . .and now your getting pissy. Boom! A good sunday morning.
So you are just trolling ?
Trolling would be annoying someone that doesnt deserve it.
Winding someone up that gives purposefully condesending 'look at me im so popular and special' comments especially when they dont read the posts and reply to something that hasnt been said.
I think its fine to knock them off their high horse.
No one was being condescending. You are just rude.
Maybe at times. . In response to condesending remarks that had nothing to do with any points made.
Maybe you shud read posts instead of scanning them quickly like most do."ahhh so it must be that I've read it wrong. | |||
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"Haha I've only been actively using the forums for a few weeks. Just post, have a giggle and don't worry about whether your post is getting replies or if others have gone into a tangent! Red xx
Keep posting sensible/logical posts like that and you'll be fastracked to the clique, pronto! You'll be done for then, talked about no end.
Lol sensible posts?
Being condesending and saying 'dont worry if your post doesnt get replies'
Haha thats wasnt even mentioned as an issue. Merely inserted by user to make them sound good against the person they are replying to.
Embarrassing.
Waay too serious OP, this is an hilarious thread, belly laughs galore.
Haha me too!
I dont know why anyone would take offence or take seriously what ive said.
. . Its only a forum with opinions.
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"We understand what your saying' some times a person will make a post then the forum police jump in for his spelling etc' and bully him' a few on here are so far up each otheres arses on the forums its unreal' yet when looking at there profiles its lol i can see why you all post about cake hehe "That made me spit out my salad .... | |||
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"Haha I've only been actively using the forums for a few weeks. Just post, have a giggle and don't worry about whether your post is getting replies or if others have gone into a tangent! Red xx
Keep posting sensible/logical posts like that and you'll be fastracked to the clique, pronto! You'll be done for then, talked about no end.
Lol sensible posts?
Being condesending and saying 'dont worry if your post doesnt get replies'
Haha thats wasnt even mentioned as an issue. Merely inserted by user to make them sound good against the person they are replying to.
Embarrassing.
Waay too serious OP, this is an hilarious thread, belly laughs galore.
Haha me too!
I dont know why anyone would take offence or take seriously what ive said.
. . Its only a forum with opinions.
Yet you're taking offence at what the 'cool' people say..... enough to start a whole thread about it? Well now I'm confused "Its a forum, im allowed to have a point of _iew on something and start a thread. Doesnt mean we all get pissy about it. Im still in a Good mood. Are you not? Why do people assume because someone points out other peoples moodyness or rudeness . they they are also being moody? Hahah Funny as hell really. | |||
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"Ah you shouldn't have removed it or maybe re write it in a slightly different way & re post it. I've said on numerous occasions I think the forums can be clicky & the bloody cake reference thing that was banded around a while ago used to make me want to....aaarrggggh!!! I think it comes & go, at the moment with regular posters away it feels different & it's nice to see some new people that otherwise would possibly go un noticed
Its not essentially the clickyness. . Thats bound to happen.
Its the being rude to people and having their crony mate team up on someone. . Both of them are losers with loser jobs. No doubt why they attempt to look 'tough' on a forum.
Feel sorry for them really. . .this is all they have lol
I don't agree with the pack of baying wolves mentality that's wrong but so is using a forum thread to ger back at someone, is that what this is about OP?
No i havent been attacked or anything. . Just twice in last week i was reading some posts and saw on 2 occasions this happen.
What annoyed me was that the clicky people thought they were so cool demeaning someone.
I just hate to see horrible people enjoying themselves at other peoples expense.
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"To be fair it is always the same people who respond to every forum I ever look at. Maybe you should all start a whatsapp group chat...laugh a minute then! " that's too easy, and does not gain them the attention they so desperately want and need! | |||
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"Haha I've only been actively using the forums for a few weeks. Just post, have a giggle and don't worry about whether your post is getting replies or if others have gone into a tangent! Red xx
Keep posting sensible/logical posts like that and you'll be fastracked to the clique, pronto! You'll be done for then, talked about no end.
Lol sensible posts?
Being condesending and saying 'dont worry if your post doesnt get replies'
Haha thats wasnt even mentioned as an issue. Merely inserted by user to make them sound good against the person they are replying to.
Embarrassing.
Waay too serious OP, this is an hilarious thread, belly laughs galore.
Haha me too!
I dont know why anyone would take offence or take seriously what ive said.
. . Its only a forum with opinions.
Yet you're taking offence at what the 'cool' people say..... enough to start a whole thread about it? Well now I'm confused
Its a forum, im allowed to have a point of _iew on something and start a thread.
Doesnt mean we all get pissy about it. Im still in a Good mood.
Are you not?
Why do people assume because someone points out other peoples moodyness or rudeness . they they are also being moody?
Hahah
Funny as hell really.
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"Haha I've only been actively using the forums for a few weeks. Just post, have a giggle and don't worry about whether your post is getting replies or if others have gone into a tangent! Red xx
Keep posting sensible/logical posts like that and you'll be fastracked to the clique, pronto! You'll be done for then, talked about no end.
Lol sensible posts?
Being condesending and saying 'dont worry if your post doesnt get replies'
Haha thats wasnt even mentioned as an issue. Merely inserted by user to make them sound good against the person they are replying to.
Embarrassing.
Waay too serious OP, this is an hilarious thread, belly laughs galore.
Haha me too!
I dont know why anyone would take offence or take seriously what ive said.
. . Its only a forum with opinions.
Yet you're taking offence at what the 'cool' people say..... enough to start a whole thread about it? Well now I'm confused
Its a forum, im allowed to have a point of _iew on something and start a thread.
Doesnt mean we all get pissy about it. Im still in a Good mood.
Are you not?
Why do people assume because someone points out other peoples moodyness or rudeness . they they are also being moody?
Hahah
Funny as hell really.
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"OP, i hear you.i would just like to make a few points about the forum, that ive noticed since ive been around... there are several types of threads but ill concentrate on the difference between a hosted thread and a posting thread.. a posting thread is where someone posts an original post, lets people run with it..like a kiss fuck avoid or a fab. occasionally that person may post in the thread again, but not necessary. then there are the hosting threads, the morning thread, for example where the op, does there very best while present to answer each and every comment made by everyone. having for many months been a co host of the nocturnal roll call thread ( i cannot do this any more for various reasons) the thread has the purpose of bringing a group of people together, being inclusive, welcoming new and old alike and getting better acquainted through whatever commonality the posters have. to me the second type of post, the hosted, fosters community if done in a conscientious way. it has led to socials and friendships forming beyond the thread. sometimes these threads can seem like a clique to the forum new people, really its only down to the op whether they are the first type of thread or the second though. depends n the agenda, if its an inclusive one, everyone will be answered, included and made to feel welcome..if they are just after some banter with their buddies they can ignore anyone they wish, and so can anyone else...this is what gives the inside outside vibe. i have withdrawn from hosting threads mainly because i dont have the time for hosting them properly ( to me that means answering and including everyone who posts) i miss the times when i could put in that much effort and see the community/ friendships and connections between people grow. its fun. but guaranteed if i was to start one, with this form of hosting, it would be popular because people like to communicate with others, now to someone who doesnt know me or my intention with the thread, that could look as if it was a clique..but its not..its a friendship group and new people get so well integrated quickly within it, that anyone from the outside, would say they are 'part of' it. it doesnt look as if there are any new people at all posting..although the regular people would know that there are.. the forums can be a mine field but thay are also full of dynamic personal histories all interwoven with a commonality that we all want to interrelate with each other..each individual has the power to decide how to do that..so heres to more happy inclusive times on the forums and may your experience continue to improve and bring you joy x" I always love reading your posts x | |||
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"Ah you shouldn't have removed it or maybe re write it in a slightly different way & re post it. I've said on numerous occasions I think the forums can be clicky & the bloody cake reference thing that was banded around a while ago used to make me want to....aaarrggggh!!! I think it comes & go, at the moment with regular posters away it feels different & it's nice to see some new people that otherwise would possibly go un noticed "Yes what is it with cake ? I didn't get that. It was/is it a secret code? | |||
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"(Usually) single blokes trying to circumvent the filters so hijack threads to flirt. Egos get massaged. Other females get jealous so join in, at times you feel like a voyeur and want to tell them to get a room! All fun and games! sometimes the "in jokes get too bad where a new person doesn't always get them... and it can look like a small group mentality... and sometimes the flirting, whoever is the new flavor of the month is, get so bad it does make me cringe and i think "that should be taken to pm"... its almost territory marking.... sometimes i think it would just take a couple of seconds just to understand what you are writing, people don't need to change it drastically.... but it is just an awareness.... " Both good points | |||
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"Cliques are percived by people on the outside wanting to get in. Once inside they relise there wasn't a clique at all. Just a lot of folk who get on well with each other. xxx
Not necessarily get on well but have the same outlook on life and post on the same threads a lot. I have seen people make snipey,sarcastic comments to people they haven't met,yet treat the people they have met with nothing but sweetness and light;even though the two people said very similar things. I'd hate for someone to feel they couldn't put me in my place just because we have met,or are online "friends". "I treat every post as an individual post because someone my simply be having a bad day doesn't mean they are always snipy although there are a few who seam to enjoy causing trouble. Xxx | |||
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"Ah you shouldn't have removed it or maybe re write it in a slightly different way & re post it. I've said on numerous occasions I think the forums can be clicky & the bloody cake reference thing that was banded around a while ago used to make me want to....aaarrggggh!!! I think it comes & go, at the moment with regular posters away it feels different & it's nice to see some new people that otherwise would possibly go un noticed
Yes what is it with cake ? I didn't get that. It was/is it a secret code? "we used to mess about with cake on the nocturnal thread..no code more of a havent got anything else to say to find a commonality..what kind of cake do you like?..it was a common simple thing that anyone could go..i like this or i like that...although it gets on peoples nerves, cake is a very inclusive thing, even if some people went no i want bacon... ..just a bit of banter xx | |||
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" Anyone noticed how they do that? Private jokes thrown around, ignore what other people say and just flood thread with their private conversations lol Like the group that thinks their cool in the playground at school that all end up working at tescos on the night shift Hahah (no doubt sarky comments will ensue) If any normal forum users want to get something off their chest about the forums on here please go ahead ! Apart from that, im loving fab and meeting loads of awesome people. #FabRulez You're brave
Its not brave to state the truth.
You do realise when you've been on for 9 years rather than 9 weeks you will be part of the in jokes,just be patient you'll get there
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"Ok, quite glad the original post had been deleted. OP, seriously, you're being flipping rude. I've been on the forum, what? Three weeks maybe? I haven't seen any evidence of high school style cliques. I've seen people who've known each other years having a laugh and a giggle and, where I understand, I've giggled along. Otherwise, I've just been getting involved. We're like the new guys at work. We're not going to understand the in jokes and dynamics between the older members of staff. We weren't there. We haven't developed the relationships yet. Does that mean you sit in the breakroom, rolling your eyes and complaining loudly and semi-ironically to the other new peeps about how 'lame' the older members of staff are with their jokes no one else understands, their anecdotes you don't get and their light flirting? Naaaw...you go sit down with 'em, have a laugh and at some point you'll be there. You'll be part of the joke. Unless you're a bit of a tool "Well that depends. To run with your workplace analogy, I've been the new guy a lot recently due to fixed term/temp jobs. So yeah, you do have to put the effort. But when people are outright obstructive/rude/condescending to newbies no matter what, it's hard work. I could go a lot further with this. | |||
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" Anyone noticed how they do that? Private jokes thrown around, ignore what other people say and just flood thread with their private conversations lol Like the group that thinks their cool in the playground at school that all end up working at tescos on the night shift Hahah (no doubt sarky comments will ensue) If any normal forum users want to get something off their chest about the forums on here please go ahead ! Apart from that, im loving fab and meeting loads of awesome people. #FabRulez You're brave
Its not brave to state the truth.
You do realise when you've been on for 9 years rather than 9 weeks you will be part of the in jokes,just be patient you'll get there
Nice condescending attitude
I thought the exact same, so in other words tough shit suck it up your not valid unless you've been here as long as US guys!!! Wtf!!
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" Anyone noticed how they do that? Private jokes thrown around, ignore what other people say and just flood thread with their private conversations lol Like the group that thinks their cool in the playground at school that all end up working at tescos on the night shift Hahah (no doubt sarky comments will ensue) If any normal forum users want to get something off their chest about the forums on here please go ahead ! Apart from that, im loving fab and meeting loads of awesome people. #FabRulez You're brave
Its not brave to state the truth.
You do realise when you've been on for 9 years rather than 9 weeks you will be part of the in jokes,just be patient you'll get there
Nice condescending attitude
I thought the exact same, so in other words tough shit suck it up your not valid unless you've been here as long as US guys!!! Wtf!!
"Wft I was joking. Fuck some people just don't get me,I've been here two year's for god sake and met one person from the forums. Well he has a life time ban from the forums actually which we're not allowed to talk about so we won't . Fucking hell I'll shut my mouth...my I have such a potty mouth nowadays,can some big hunk 'cum' and discipline me please | |||
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"Ok, quite glad the original post had been deleted. OP, seriously, you're being flipping rude. I've been on the forum, what? Three weeks maybe? I haven't seen any evidence of high school style cliques. I've seen people who've known each other years having a laugh and a giggle and, where I understand, I've giggled along. Otherwise, I've just been getting involved. We're like the new guys at work. We're not going to understand the in jokes and dynamics between the older members of staff. We weren't there. We haven't developed the relationships yet. Does that mean you sit in the breakroom, rolling your eyes and complaining loudly and semi-ironically to the other new peeps about how 'lame' the older members of staff are with their jokes no one else understands, their anecdotes you don't get and their light flirting? Naaaw...you go sit down with 'em, have a laugh and at some point you'll be there. You'll be part of the joke. Unless you're a bit of a tool
Well that depends. To run with your workplace analogy, I've been the new guy a lot recently due to fixed term/temp jobs. So yeah, you do have to put the effort. But when people are outright obstructive/rude/condescending to newbies no matter what, it's hard work. I could go a lot further with this. "Have you examples of people being outright obstructive/rude/condescending to newbies ? I'm in the forums most days as I enjoy the banter and would be the first to stick up for a newbie if saw bullying and I haven't Plenty of banter and the odd knob that posts to get a reaction but nothing purely aimed at newbies | |||
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"There will always be indignation from people and cliques shouted out. Usually from people who have created threads ranting about the behaviours of others. When their own is pointed out or they can use the site tools to improve their experience, that is deemed clique behaviour. Or they go huffy and say they won't post again"  | |||
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"in defence of the OP i actually do get what they are saying.... sometimes the "in jokes get too bad where a new person doesn't always get them... and it can look like a small group mentality... and sometimes the flirting, whoever is the new flavor of the month is, get so bad it does make me cringe and i think "that should be taken to pm"... its almost territory marking.... sometimes i think it would just take a couple of seconds just to understand what you are writing, people don't need to change it drastically.... but it is just an awareness.... " I'm still relatively new , I read a lot and post a bit , but like Fabio I can see what the OP is saying not sure it's a clique but there are a few who will answer a post with what I consider a downright rude comment that they would probably never say in real life then have that backed up a few posts later by a friend and will giggle about it together a bit further down , which can be a bit off putting for a new poster to the forums | |||
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"Ah you shouldn't have removed it or maybe re write it in a slightly different way & re post it. I've said on numerous occasions I think the forums can be clicky & the bloody cake reference thing that was banded around a while ago used to make me want to....aaarrggggh!!! I think it comes & go, at the moment with regular posters away it feels different & it's nice to see some new people that otherwise would possibly go un noticed
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"Ah you shouldn't have removed it or maybe re write it in a slightly different way & re post it. I've said on numerous occasions I think the forums can be clicky & the bloody cake reference thing that was banded around a while ago used to make me want to....aaarrggggh!!! I think it comes & go, at the moment with regular posters away it feels different & it's nice to see some new people that otherwise would possibly go un noticed
Its not essentially the clickyness. . Thats bound to happen.
Its the being rude to people and having their crony mate team up on someone. . Both of them are losers with loser jobs. No doubt why they attempt to look 'tough' on a forum.
Feel sorry for them really. . .this is all they have lol
I don't agree with the pack of baying wolves mentality that's wrong but so is using a forum thread to ger back at someone, is that what this is about OP?
No i havent been attacked or anything. . Just twice in last week i was reading some posts and saw on 2 occasions this happen.
What annoyed me was that the clicky people thought they were so cool demeaning someone.
I just hate to see horrible people enjoying themselves at other peoples expense.
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" Anyone noticed how they do that? Private jokes thrown around, ignore what other people say and just flood thread with their private conversations lol Like the group that thinks their cool in the playground at school that all end up working at tescos on the night shift Hahah (no doubt sarky comments will ensue) If any normal forum users want to get something off their chest about the forums on here please go ahead ! Apart from that, im loving fab and meeting loads of awesome people. #FabRulez You're brave
Its not brave to state the truth.
You do realise when you've been on for 9 years rather than 9 weeks you will be part of the in jokes,just be patient you'll get there
Nice condescending attitude
I thought the exact same, so in other words tough shit suck it up your not valid unless you've been here as long as US guys!!! Wtf!!
Wft I was joking. Fuck some people just don't get me,I've been here two year's for god sake and met one person from the forums. Well he has a life time ban from the forums actually which we're not allowed to talk about so we won't . Fucking hell I'll shut my mouth...my I have such a potty mouth nowadays,can some big hunk 'cum' and discipline me please "You rang | |||
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"corking thread...well done OP "Its been a riverting read and too many comments to even think about replying to them all. I understand most people on here are cool as this thread and the god knows amount of people pming me saying they agree. Why they havent posted a reply here probably proves the point that they dont want to argue with 'regulars'. Sad to see really. Next time ill post a more uplifting subject. . Like . . 'who wants to slap me with a wet fish?' | |||
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" Anyone noticed how they do that? Private jokes thrown around, ignore what other people say and just flood thread with their private conversations lol Like the group that thinks their cool in the playground at school that all end up working at tescos on the night shift Hahah (no doubt sarky comments will ensue) If any normal forum users want to get something off their chest about the forums on here please go ahead ! Apart from that, im loving fab and meeting loads of awesome people. #FabRulez You're brave
Its not brave to state the truth.
You do realise when you've been on for 9 years rather than 9 weeks you will be part of the in jokes,just be patient you'll get there
Nice condescending attitude
I thought the exact same, so in other words tough shit suck it up your not valid unless you've been here as long as US guys!!! Wtf!!
Wft I was joking. Fuck some people just don't get me,I've been here two year's for god sake and met one person from the forums. Well he has a life time ban from the forums actually which we're not allowed to talk about so we won't . Fucking hell I'll shut my mouth...my I have such a potty mouth nowadays,can some big hunk 'cum' and discipline me please
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"While we are having a general whinge, can I just deal with something that grates for me: An exclusive group is a 'clique', the adjective of which is 'cliquey' or 'cliquy'. Clicky is the sound high heels make on a hard floor. Sorry we all have our pet peeves." High5 | |||
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"While we are having a general whinge, can I just deal with something that grates for me: An exclusive group is a 'clique', the adjective of which is 'cliquey' or 'cliquy'. Clicky is the sound high heels make on a hard floor. Sorry we all have our pet peeves." Are you in the clique? | |||
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"corking thread...well done OP
Its been a riverting read and too many comments to even think about replying to them all.
I understand most people on here are cool as this thread and the god knows amount of people pming me saying they agree.
Why they havent posted a reply here probably proves the point that they dont want to argue with 'regulars'.
Sad to see really.
Next time ill post a more uplifting subject. .
Like . .
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" I understand most people on here are cool as this thread and the god knows amount of people pming me saying they agree. Why they havent posted a reply here probably proves the point that they dont want to argue with 'regulars'. Sad to see really. " If that's true then people need to grow a pair... | |||
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"corking thread...well done OP
Its been a riverting read and too many comments to even think about replying to them all.
I understand most people on here are cool as this thread and the god knows amount of people pming me saying they agree.
Why they havent posted a reply here probably proves the point that they dont want to argue with 'regulars'.
Sad to see really.
Next time ill post a more uplifting subject. .
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"While we are having a general whinge, can I just deal with something that grates for me: An exclusive group is a 'clique', the adjective of which is 'cliquey' or 'cliquy'. Clicky is the sound high heels make on a hard floor. Sorry we all have our pet peeves." You need to sign off with High Lord of the spelling clique | |||
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" Anyone noticed how they do that? Private jokes thrown around, ignore what other people say and just flood thread with their private conversations lol Like the group that thinks their cool in the playground at school that all end up working at tescos on the night shift Hahah (no doubt sarky comments will ensue) If any normal forum users want to get something off their chest about the forums on here please go ahead ! Apart from that, im loving fab and meeting loads of awesome people. #FabRulez You're brave
Its not brave to state the truth.
You do realise when you've been on for 9 years rather than 9 weeks you will be part of the in jokes,just be patient you'll get there
Nice condescending attitude
I thought the exact same, so in other words tough shit suck it up your not valid unless you've been here as long as US guys!!! Wtf!!
Wft I was joking. Fuck some people just don't get me,I've been here two year's for god sake and met one person from the forums. Well he has a life time ban from the forums actually which we're not allowed to talk about so we won't . Fucking hell I'll shut my mouth...my I have such a potty mouth nowadays,can some big hunk 'cum' and discipline me please
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"Nice penis op. I wonder if I'm considered to be one of the clique, I'm not the most liked person on here and argue a lot so I doubt it. Going back to school I was like a superhero, I was hard so no one ever gave me shit, I was funny so I made people laugh and if someone was getting bullied or made fun of I was the one to to sort it out. So I was above bullies and was in the cool crowd and was known throughout other schools as the one who will have a scrap with you after a netball game or hockey game! " | |||
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" I understand most people on here are cool as this thread and the god knows amount of people pming me saying they agree. Why they havent posted a reply here probably proves the point that they dont want to argue with 'regulars'. Sad to see really. If that's true then people need to grow a pair..." Like you blocking me? Haha is that growing a pair? | |||
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" I understand most people on here are cool as this thread and the god knows amount of people pming me saying they agree. Why they havent posted a reply here probably proves the point that they dont want to argue with 'regulars'. Sad to see really. If that's true then people need to grow a pair..." I'll debate with anyone,even if I would love to fuck them (doubtful though) | |||
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"I know, we should a have clique amnesty where everyone names one person/s they think are in it..... "God no, can you imagine the butthurt where people are/aren't mentioned?! | |||
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God no, can you imagine the butthurt where people are/aren't mentioned?! " | |||
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" I understand most people on here are cool as this thread and the god knows amount of people pming me saying they agree. Why they havent posted a reply here probably proves the point that they dont want to argue with 'regulars'. Sad to see really. If that's true then people need to grow a pair... Like you blocking me? Haha is that growing a pair?" No it's simply me blocking you. There's nothing in my profile that you would be remotely interested in | |||
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" I understand most people on here are cool as this thread and the god knows amount of people pming me saying they agree. Why they havent posted a reply here probably proves the point that they dont want to argue with 'regulars'. Sad to see really. If that's true then people need to grow a pair... Like you blocking me? Haha is that growing a pair?" Maybe she didn't want to correspond with someone who was sending her abusing messages. | |||
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" I understand most people on here are cool as this thread and the god knows amount of people pming me saying they agree. Why they havent posted a reply here probably proves the point that they dont want to argue with 'regulars'. Sad to see really. If that's true then people need to grow a pair... I'll debate with anyone,even if I would love to fuck them (doubtful though)" | |||
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