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I think anyone joining fab cant message anyone until 4 month or are verified - Gets rid o timewaster
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"get back in your box ya faaaaannnnnaaaaayyyyy. is someone not been getting any recently!!!! xxxx" Yerrrrrr........ME   | |||
"get back in your box ya faaaaannnnnaaaaayyyyy. is someone not been getting any recently!!!! xxxx Yerrrrrr........ME "away and clean your cobwebs, ya clart!!!  | |||
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"get back in your box ya faaaaannnnnaaaaayyyyy. is someone not been getting any recently!!!! xxxx Yerrrrrr........ME
away and clean your cobwebs, ya clart!!! "I done um. ner ner and it was only a little un | |||
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"But if they can't message people, how are they supposed to get a meet to get verified?!?!?!? Gee people complain if they haven't had a meet in a week, let alone having to wait 4 whole months!!!! " Here here, you took the words out of my mouth  | |||
As always, just my point of _iew! | |||
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"There are filters to cut down on unwanted messages. Unless you really will shag anyone 18 to 90 and travel from Lands End to John O'Groats then messages from people outwith your age and location range can be deleted! It's hardly rocket science now, but it's not the woman complaining is it? No: it appears to me that another of "God's gifts" can't believe his message has been deleted/advances turned down. Naturally, it's not because SHOCK!! HORROR!! he doesn't appeal: no, it's the fault of the other 101 men that messaged her the moment her profile went live!
As always, just my point of _iew!"Message filters, men using the message filters: are you mad sassy ? On visiting my people filters it immediately struck me that by applying any of these fanny filters my chances would drop dramatically, instantly. So for even suggesting such a thing I am now personally adding you to my fofo filter  | |||
"Whenever there is a new girl joining fab, she is inundated with messages from guys, a lot of them new. This puts the girl off and then she doesn’t wanna guy on here for a while. Think there are too many idiots on here that just join and then message people straight away. I think anyone joining fab should not be allowed to message anyone until 4 month or are they are verified -This might get rid of some of the timewasters on here
"I think you farted too hard and lost a bit of brain matter. | |||
"I don't think it's a great idea to be honest. How can people arrange meets if they're not allowed to contact people - I rarely search profiles myself because I get enough emails - just by the pure fact of being a single female on here. If the other women do the same as me, single men wouldn't get a chance. I'm not a fan of this kind of idea - I like that fact that this site is relaxed with few rules beyond the ones about being respectful etc I'm not keen on idea of you must do this to be a member and you mustn't do that. " Absolutely, if we have too many rules, it just smacks of paying websites | |||
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" We need THOUSANDS of new members every week. Specially in Liverpool. Admin ....... get me some locals .. BUT decent ones pls!" Need a few in Derby as well please, and not blokes either... | |||
"Whenever there is a new girl joining fab, she is inundated with messages from guys, a lot of them new. This puts the girl off and then she doesn’t wanna guy on here for a while. " Ooops, I just reread this and can see a possible problem now.... do you mean the girlies get a queue and you're not getting a look in? I am confused by the fact you seem to be complaining that the sudden influx of messages puts women off meeting men for a while... yet you are then suggesting these women shouldn't be able to message anyone for 4 months.... hmmmm... your suggestion seems to be adding to the problem you are complaining about rather than solving it. I am going back to the fart theory. | |||
The availability of these filters are mentioned in the getting started thread, so there is hope that newbies would use them soon after they join the site! | |||
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"To the OP, have you tried putting some cock pics up? Think of it as a queue jumper ticket. The more cock pics you have the higher you get up the list for all of the new chicks! I don't know why I'm telling you guys this but the golden ticket to get to the number one slot (and in her slot) is to take a pic of your cock over a toilet preferably with your faeces still in the pot. To add that finishing touch try and get your brown Y fronts hanging round your ankles in the pic. Works every time "You forgot to mention the skid marks... added bonus! | |||
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"Whenever there is a new girl joining fab, she is inundated with messages from guys, a lot of them new. This puts the girl off and then she doesn’t wanna guy on here for a while. Think there are too many idiots on here that just join and then message people straight away. I think anyone joining fab should not be allowed to message anyone until 4 month or are they are verified -This might get rid of some of the timewasters on here
"That will get rid of a lot of decent people too  | |||
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"Whenever there is a new girl joining fab, she is inundated with messages from guys, a lot of them new. This puts the girl off and then she doesn’t wanna guy on here for a while. Think there are too many idiots on here that just join and then message people straight away. I think anyone joining fab should not be allowed to message anyone until 4 month or are they are verified -This might get rid of some of the timewasters on here
That will get rid of a lot of decent people too "i think its a pile of croc | |||
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"Whenever there is a new girl joining fab, she is inundated with messages from guys, a lot of them new. This puts the girl off and then she doesn’t wanna guy on here for a while. Think there are too many idiots on here that just join and then message people straight away. I think anyone joining fab should not be allowed to message anyone until 4 month or are they are verified -This might get rid of some of the timewasters on here
"so obviously you practiced what you preached.... and you didn't contact anyone for the 4 months... or were verifed... I wouldn't like to accuse you of being hypocritial now.... hmmmmmmm (pssst... the last person that verified you has only been here by my maths 6 weeks when they met you... so aren't you doing what you accuse others of doing... pounces on newbies! oh the irony!)
in fact... how can you get verified in the first months if you are not allowed to talk to people or you just trying to eliminate others from talking to the same people as you......
actually the more i think about it, the more selfish your proposal looks...... | |||
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"Whenever there is a new girl joining fab, she is inundated with messages from guys, a lot of them new. This puts the girl off and then she doesn’t wanna guy on here for a while. Think there are too many idiots on here that just join and then message people straight away. I think anyone joining fab should not be allowed to message anyone until 4 month or are they are verified -This might get rid of some of the timewasters on here
"How would anyone get verified if they cant mail anyone for 4 months | |||
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"To the OP, have you tried putting some cock pics up? Think of it as a queue jumper ticket. The more cock pics you have the higher you get up the list for all of the new chicks! I don't know why I'm telling you guys this but the golden ticket to get to the number one slot (and in her slot) is to take a pic of your cock over a toilet preferably with your faeces still in the pot. To add that finishing touch try and get your brown Y fronts hanging round your ankles in the pic. Works every time "FFS!!!!! Now he tells me!!!! That's where I've been going wrong! Quick where's me camera??? | |||
"To the OP, have you tried putting some cock pics up? Think of it as a queue jumper ticket. The more cock pics you have the higher you get up the list for all of the new chicks! I don't know why I'm telling you guys this but the golden ticket to get to the number one slot (and in her slot) is to take a pic of your cock over a toilet preferably with your faeces still in the pot. To add that finishing touch try and get your brown Y fronts hanging round your ankles in the pic. Works every time
FFS!!!!! Now he tells me!!!! That's where I've been going wrong!
Quick where's me camera??? "Your not seriously going to listen to anything the monkey has to say are you?! | |||
"To the OP, have you tried putting some cock pics up? Think of it as a queue jumper ticket. The more cock pics you have the higher you get up the list for all of the new chicks! I don't know why I'm telling you guys this but the golden ticket to get to the number one slot (and in her slot) is to take a pic of your cock over a toilet preferably with your faeces still in the pot. To add that finishing touch try and get your brown Y fronts hanging round your ankles in the pic. Works every time "oh dear the toliet jokes have started your starting to show signs of your anal retentive coming back think its time you came back to the unit witch cell would you like this weekend  | |||
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"Peppa Pig is back! Yayyyyy "OMG!! I just got what you mean by that!!! | |||
"But if they can't message people, how are they supposed to get a meet to get verified?!?!?!? Gee people complain if they haven't had a meet in a week, let alone having to wait 4 whole months!!!! " was thinking the same thing lol | |||
"oh dear the toliet jokes have started your starting to show signs of your anal retentive coming back think its time you came back to the unit witch cell would you like this weekend "I've got waaaaay further to 'sink' yet. | |||
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"There are filters to cut down on unwanted messages. Unless you really will shag anyone 18 to 90 and travel from Lands End to John O'Groats then messages from people outwith your age and location range can be deleted! It's hardly rocket science now, but it's not the woman complaining is it? No: it appears to me that another of "God's gifts" can't believe his message has been deleted/advances turned down. Naturally, it's not because SHOCK!! HORROR!! he doesn't appeal: no, it's the fault of the other 101 men that messaged her the moment her profile went live!
As always, just my point of _iew!"It's probly my fault sassy. Apparently every other fecking thing is. I apologise to everyone for everything. ***slips back into trough of self pitying melancholy for at least another hour*** | |||
"To the OP, have you tried putting some cock pics up? Think of it as a queue jumper ticket. The more cock pics you have the higher you get up the list for all of the new chicks! I don't know why I'm telling you guys this but the golden ticket to get to the number one slot (and in her slot) is to take a pic of your cock over a toilet preferably with your faeces still in the pot. To add that finishing touch try and get your brown Y fronts hanging round your ankles in the pic. Works every time "Superb | |||
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"To the OP, have you tried putting some cock pics up? Think of it as a queue jumper ticket. The more cock pics you have the higher you get up the list for all of the new chicks! I don't know why I'm telling you guys this but the golden ticket to get to the number one slot (and in her slot) is to take a pic of your cock over a toilet preferably with your faeces still in the pot. To add that finishing touch try and get your brown Y fronts hanging round your ankles in the pic. Works every time
FFS!!!!! Now he tells me!!!! That's where I've been going wrong!
Quick where's me camera???
Your not seriously going to listen to anything the monkey has to say are you?! "Well have a peek and tell me if my pics need upgrading monkey style I'm always keen to take advice! | |||
"To the OP, have you tried putting some cock pics up? Think of it as a queue jumper ticket. The more cock pics you have the higher you get up the list for all of the new chicks! I don't know why I'm telling you guys this but the golden ticket to get to the number one slot (and in her slot) is to take a pic of your cock over a toilet preferably with your faeces still in the pot. To add that finishing touch try and get your brown Y fronts hanging round your ankles in the pic. Works every time
FFS!!!!! Now he tells me!!!! That's where I've been going wrong!
Quick where's me camera???
Your not seriously going to listen to anything the monkey has to say are you?!
Well have a peek and tell me if my pics need upgrading monkey style I'm always keen to take advice! "They look pretty okay to me | |||
"To the OP, have you tried putting some cock pics up? Think of it as a queue jumper ticket. The more cock pics you have the higher you get up the list for all of the new chicks! I don't know why I'm telling you guys this but the golden ticket to get to the number one slot (and in her slot) is to take a pic of your cock over a toilet preferably with your faeces still in the pot. To add that finishing touch try and get your brown Y fronts hanging round your ankles in the pic. Works every time
FFS!!!!! Now he tells me!!!! That's where I've been going wrong!
Quick where's me camera???
Your not seriously going to listen to anything the monkey has to say are you?!
Well have a peek and tell me if my pics need upgrading monkey style I'm always keen to take advice!
They look pretty okay to me"Phew thought I was going to have to come up with a whole new theme there! | |||
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"Total rubbish idea.What a sexist assumption that us poor itte girlies need protecting from the big bad men out there. " sexist my ass! me pmsl It's the same for both sex Im not putting this on to help you out, far from it. It's on because new people whatever sex get pissed off after one day because of all the messages and then block certain types when genuine people have never dont anything wrong. The standard of Fab has changed in the last 5 years with more and more timewasters on here. Just need someway of ing them out. | |||
" Just need someway of ing them out. "I use my instincts. Not encountered a timewaster yet... I certainly don't need someone else ing out the people I may meet for me... I'm more than capable. | |||
"Total rubbish idea.What a sexist assumption that us poor itte girlies need protecting from the big bad men out there. sexist my ass! me pmsl It's the same for both sex Im not putting this on to help you out, far from it. It's on because new people whatever sex get pissed off after one day because of all the messages and then block certain types when genuine people have never dont anything wrong. The standard of Fab has changed in the last 5 years with more and more timewasters on here. Just need someway of ing them out. "Your own words "Whenever there is a new girl joining fab, she is inundated with messages from guys, a lot of them new. This puts the girl off and then she doesn’t wanna guy on here for a while." Mansplaining,google it. Ohh and i have never met a timewaster either. | |||
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Sorry but if this was to be on here less people would join fab out of all the swingers sites this is far the easiest one I have come across. | |||
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"speaking as a female and as an adult ,i am perfectly capable of using filters provided by the site .also i can hadle any message sent to me ! replie ,delte or report it according to situation ,its perfectly simle lol !! no im not new now but i was at some point lol! just think people are perfectly capable of handling their profiles and messages with the tools already provided on the site . no requirement for further complications that do nothing to stop your complaint of time wasters and women being inundated with messages . if women required it i assure you we have a voice and would ask for it ourselves ! we havent ,and have managed perfectly well with out guys tossing in their 4 penneth to apparently "help" us ." ^^^^^ | |||
"speaking as a female and as an adult ,i am perfectly capable of using filters provided by the site .also i can hadle any message sent to me ! replie ,delte or report it according to situation" . I never said any of you weren't If any girl keeps using this post to think guys are trying to protect them well I'm sorry you haven't a clue, This post is not about that. Not about that at all. ITS ABOUT AN IDEA TO MAKE FAB BETTER FOR ALL, Nothing More | |||
"anyone who joins fab, (male, female, cpls etc...) should not be allowed to contact anyone for the first week" I'm of the opinion, the message filters currently in place are sufficient, for example, not verified / single guys / not site supporter are blocked from contacting us, it's for members to utilise the message filters based on there preference | |||
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"But going back to this no message idea for days/weeks/months would have made us feck off to a rival site. We joined and played within days thanks to being able to receive messages.... after jollying it around our heads for the last 10 years we felt we needed to take the plunge.... and that's exactly what we did with no regrets. It made us hungry for more. Fab is perfect the way it is. " . Great This is a good reply. At least it's positive to what people are thinking regarding to improve the site or the site is great the way it is. Thanks Peter | |||
"There is an option to filter out unverified peeps already. I think it's good enough." Yep, it's already been though of. The term "timewaster" is silly because it's depends on personal _iews. | |||
"There is an option to filter out unverified peeps already. I think it's good enough. Yep, it's already been though of. The term "timewaster" is silly because it's depends on personal _iews." Thanks BK much appreciated regards peter | |||
"Is this a wind up. It isn't about girls on here, its about everyone. speaking as a female and as an adult ,i am perfectly capable of using filters provided by the site .also i can hadle any message sent to me ! replie ,delte or report it according to situation. I never said any of you weren't If any girl keeps using this post to think guys are trying to protect them well I'm sorry you haven't a clue, This post is not about that. Not about that at all. ITS ABOUT AN IDEA TO MAKE FAB BETTER FOR ALL, Nothing More "no not a wind up . its very clearly my opinion and as you read back through the same as meny others . your first sentence is going on about women who join and they get inundated with messages and puts them off . i ponted out ,as others have that filters ect are enough to stop any unwanted messages or time wasting . as for feed back on your idea ...i said it wouldnt work and do nothing to stop the messages and times wasting you talk of . again just as has been said through out the thread . its not a case of people not understanding the idea or way it was put forward its the case that the idea is flawed from the off and it provides nothinng of advantage to the site . | |||
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"i must have missed something as ive never heard of a single guy being inundated with messages lol. from what i hear the complaint is they get no messages . if im wrong then im sure the lucky guy will post and let us know lol " pmsl! I got a 2 messages in the one day. Still havent opened them as it looks great to see I have 2 messages unopened xx peter | |||
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