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couples profile with photos of only the female
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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why is it so many couples profiles on here only have photos of the female ??? we are a couple looking for couples we are genuine and verified like so many others on here but why do so few profiles have decent photos of the guy ?? we have photos of both of us on our profile because we want any one looking at our profile to be able to get a first impression from our photos and see from the start who they are talking too. we are not shallow and only go for looks but lets be real there has to be some attraction there on all parts. so why dont more couples have photos of the guy as well as the lady and not just cock shot either.
basically this is a site for swingers to meet other swingers so why not if you have a photo of one of you on your profile why not have photos of both of you ?? |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Because they prefer that way...they have their reasons....:D...Just because some do it...doesn't mean everyone should follow suit....do what is comfortable to you and so do they...:D"
we understand that and respect others choice to do that but as a couple looking for a couple it would be nice for us to see who we are talking to before wasting each others time after all it would be nice to see who we are sending a message too.
just find it weird and sometimes frustrating when a couple have only photos of the female when both want to swing. after all if ppl want privacy then why have photos of the female half in public view ?? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Its obvious silly... you only go fishing with the right bait...
When you catch the fish.. its then you add the sauce lol...
Its a pet hate of ours too!!   |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Or even worst, couples with self photos (taken at arms length or using a mirror of each other )"
althou the quality of photos is not what we started this thread about that is a good point its not hard to take a decent photo these days |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"we have pics of male in private , but because of his tattoo's we are unable to put any in profile cos of regognition  "
thats fair enough and we totally respect that but at least you both have photos you can show ppl its the profiles where the female can be clearly seen in photos and they have no photos of the guy at all that we are talking about here |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Or even worst, couples with self photos (taken at arms length or using a mirror of each other )
althou the quality of photos is not what we started this thread about that is a good point its not hard to take a decent photo these days "
I don't think I explained what I meant well enough. The pics, on some couples profile are self photos, why do you need a self photo if you are a couple. Surely the other will take a nice photo of the other. If you see what I mean... |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"we have pics of male in private , but because of his tattoo's we are unable to put any in profile cos of recognition "
So people will recognise him by his tattoos but not you with your face photo as appears in the forum????????? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"we have pics of male in private , but because of his tattoo's we are unable to put any in profile cos of recognition
So people will recognise him by his tattoos but not you with your face photo as appears in the forum?????????"
Each to their own eh,..... |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"we have pics of male in private , but because of his tattoo's we are unable to put any in profile cos of recognition
So people will recognise him by his tattoos but not you with your face photo as appears in the forum?????????
Each to their own eh,..... "
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"we have pics of male in private , but because of his tattoo's we are unable to put any in profile cos of recognition
So people will recognise him by his tattoos but not you with your face photo as appears in the forum?????????"
thats a decision we have made , due to his work and being quite well known we choose not to show him , and to be honest our profile pic is hardly huge is it ? , would you regognise me on the street?? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"we have pics of male in private , but because of his tattoo's we are unable to put any in profile cos of regognition
thats fair enough and we totally respect that but at least you both have photos you can show ppl its the profiles where the female can be clearly seen in photos and they have no photos of the guy at all that we are talking about here "
To be fair though, you only discover that there are no male photos after contact has been made and a dialogue established, so that in itself must mean that something on their profile caught your eye or their message appealed to you in some way.
I'm sure that you have your own vetting procedures in place before meeting anyone so that is the point where you insist on seeing the guy, either on cam or a recent photograph.
However, in this day and age I'd find it very surprising if there were no electronic photos of the guy AT ALL, and that's where my bullshit radar would come into scope and them out as a married fantasist. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"we have pics of male in private , but because of his tattoo's we are unable to put any in profile cos of recognition
So people will recognise him by his tattoos but not you with your face photo as appears in the forum?????????"
It's for that precise reason that I don't display photos of my face. Siren would be recognised by association and if her family discovered she was a swinger... well,... it would be disastrous to say the least. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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" would you regognise me on the street??
I'd try..........
gladly , but you seen our private pics too lol x "
true....... but then we'd never tell ya mum anyway lol.. xx |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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" would you regognise me on the street??
I'd try..........
gladly , but you seen our private pics too lol x
true....... but then we'd never tell ya mum anyway lol.. xx "
oh ggod , dont think she would take it well pmsl x |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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" would you regognise me on the street??
I'd try..........
gladly , but you seen our private pics too lol x
true....... but then we'd never tell ya mum anyway lol.. xx
oh ggod , dont think she would take it well pmsl x"
What about the telling her though??? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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" would you regognise me on the street??
I'd try..........
gladly , but you seen our private pics too lol x
true....... but then we'd never tell ya mum anyway lol.. xx
oh ggod , dont think she would take it well pmsl x
What about the telling her though??? "
lol nooooooooooooooooooooooooo x |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"we have pics of male in private , but because of his tattoo's we are unable to put any in profile cos of recognition
So people will recognise him by his tattoos but not you with your face photo as appears in the forum?????????
thats a decision we have made , due to his work and being quite well known we choose not to show him , and to be honest our profile pic is hardly huge is it ? , would you regognise me on the street?? "
I would if I knew you. But then I don't go round looking at tattoos, like the ones I can see in the pic of him and the rabbit in you...But anyway, I know what I mean, and i'm sure you do too |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"we have pics of male in private , but because of his tattoo's we are unable to put any in profile cos of recognition
So people will recognise him by his tattoos but not you with your face photo as appears in the forum?????????
thats a decision we have made , due to his work and being quite well known we choose not to show him , and to be honest our profile pic is hardly huge is it ? , would you regognise me on the street??
I would if I knew you. But then I don't go round looking at tattoos, like the ones I can see in the pic of him and the rabbit in you...But anyway, I know what I mean, and i'm sure you do too"
lol thats another guys arm sorry , understand what you mean , but its our choice , and the main reason is cos of his career x |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"we have pics of male in private , but because of his tattoo's we are unable to put any in profile cos of regognition
thats fair enough and we totally respect that but at least you both have photos you can show ppl its the profiles where the female can be clearly seen in photos and they have no photos of the guy at all that we are talking about here
To be fair though, you only discover that there are no male photos after contact has been made and a dialogue established, so that in itself must mean that something on their profile caught your eye or their message appealed to you in some way.
I'm sure that you have your own vetting procedures in place before meeting anyone so that is the point where you insist on seeing the guy, either on cam or a recent photograph.
However, in this day and age I'd find it very surprising if there were no electronic photos of the guy AT ALL, and that's where my bullshit radar would come into scope and them out as a married fantasist."
have to disagree with you here one of the first things we do is look at a profile if we have been emailed to read their profile and look at any photos before we reply. and we dont mail others first unless we have seen photos of both
as we said we are not being shallow and only looks driven in our search of couples to swing with for us personalty is more important then looks but there does need to be some attraction which is why it would be nice for us if more couples had photos of both rather then just the female. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Reading all this and mostly think fair play.. whatever makes you feel comfy etc.
However.. we have met and become friends with people who have no photo's at all on.. Mostly good reasons too.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Reading all this and mostly think fair play.. whatever makes you feel comfy etc.
However.. we have met and become friends with people who have no photo's at all on.. Mostly good reasons too.
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we met and still play with a couple off another site who had no pics at all on their profile , they had good reason and were more than happy to send them once we had verified who we were etc , not a problem for us as long as people are honest with their profiles x |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Reading all this and mostly think fair play.. whatever makes you feel comfy etc.
However.. we have met and become friends with people who have no photo's at all on.. Mostly good reasons too.
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Yep and we have met peeps whos photos are nothing like them either (old photos or not even them)
So i dont work that way all the time either x  |
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By *andKCouple
over a year ago
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Have to say we only really have pics of K in the public section but if we approach a couple we always attach a face pic of us both (together) to show, we hope, that we are genuine.
On another site where only paying members can see the pics we have face pics of us for all to see.
Unfortunately this site is free and does attract more than its fair share of weirdo's and pic collectors |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Have to say we only really have pics of K in the public section but if we approach a couple we always attach a face pic of us both (together) to show, we hope, that we are genuine.
On another site where only paying members can see the pics we have face pics of us for all to see.
Unfortunately this site is free and does attract more than its fair share of weirdo's and pic collectors"
Good evening you two been to any good parties latley xx |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Unfortunately not, our wings have been clipped (we should have been in worcester tonight) as our daughter is very pregers and wants her mummy close by "
Oh dear we babysitting tonight too lol xx |
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