So...youve been talking to someone for 9 weeks; had a couple of social meets, plan a weekend of fun and then they go quiet- suddenly-is conversation
Im a worrier by nature...what does one do??
Man up and call or?? |
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over a year ago
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"I hate when this happens! 
Ask him straight up. 
I've messaged on here... not been opened,
And sent a message on whatsapp- also unread "
Then block and arrange something else, block on whatsapp too.
Plenty of decent guys on here. Don't waste your time on the numbnuts!  |
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"I hate when this happens!
Ask him straight up.
I've messaged on here... not been opened,
And sent a message on whatsapp- also unread "
I'd say he's chickened out sadly, may be married all along. Sorry, but you need to start arranging your next meet  |
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Oh this happens to me all the time.
They go from literally proposing marriage and absolute adoration ....to zero contact!
Even after meeting and great sex... and more great sex.....and then one day out of the blue without warning..... they ignore you completely.
Get it on FAB
Get it on dating sites.
Suck it up buttercup! Although it is a tad annoying when guts simply lack the balls to let you know... so nowadays my attitude is LIVE FOR THE MOMENT for tomorrow you may simply be chip paper ! |
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"Oh this happens to me all the time.
They go from literally proposing marriage and absolute adoration ....to zero contact!
Even after meeting and great sex... and more great sex.....and then one day out of the blue without warning..... they ignore you completely.
Get it on FAB
Get it on dating sites.
Suck it up buttercup! Although it is a tad annoying when guts simply lack the balls to let you know... so nowadays my attitude is LIVE FOR THE MOMENT for tomorrow you may simply be chip paper ! "
Men with no balls are the bane of my life! |
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"Oh this happens to me all the time.
They go from literally proposing marriage and absolute adoration ....to zero contact!
Even after meeting and great sex... and more great sex.....and then one day out of the blue without warning..... they ignore you completely.
Get it on FAB
Get it on dating sites.
Suck it up buttercup! Although it is a tad annoying when guts simply lack the balls to let you know... so nowadays my attitude is LIVE FOR THE MOMENT for tomorrow you may simply be chip paper ! "
'Suck it up buttercup' thats what i had planned to do 
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Nobody's that busy that they can't open a Whatsapp message, it's like a text message. Unless they drop their phone down the loo.
Just put it down to experience and move on. |
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"Nobody's that busy that they can't open a Whatsapp message, it's like a text message. Unless they drop their phone down the loo.
Just put it down to experience and move on."
Totally true! I love the banal excuses offered!! Especially the 'I've been so busy' excuse!!!
My response? 'But of course you are sweetie! 
Followed by 'Close the door behind you!'
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"Sometimes I go quiet because I am busy with football or real life
It's the way it is 
I know....thing is I am actually worried something has gone tits up in "real life" "
And if it has ..... It's not your worry is it ?
Move on , he would have got in touch if he had wanted to . |
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"Nobody's that busy that they can't open a Whatsapp message, it's like a text message. Unless they drop their phone down the loo.
Just put it down to experience and move on.
Totally true! I love the banal excuses offered!! Especially the 'I've been so busy' excuse!!!
My response? 'But of course you are sweetie!
Followed by 'Close the door behind you!'
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Ok girls...advice taken  |
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"Sometimes I go quiet because I am busy with football or real life
It's the way it is
I know....thing is I am actually worried something has gone tits up in "real life"
And if it has ..... It's not your worry is it ?
Move on , he would have got in touch if he had wanted to ."
Moving swiftly on....  |
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"Sometimes I go quiet because I am busy with football or real life
It's the way it is
I know....thing is I am actually worried something has gone tits up in "real life" "
Oh waste your energy going down THAT road! I am sure he has friends and family to deal with that IF that were even remotely true.
He just isn't into you anymore! Harsh I know.... but 99% likely to be the case. Put your energy into someone else x |
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"So...youve been talking to someone for 9 weeks; had a couple of social meets, plan a weekend of fun and then they go quiet- suddenly-is conversation
Im a worrier by nature...what does one do??
Man up and call or??"
Sounds like a fantasist after wank-fodder!
Ask his wife |
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"Sometimes I go quiet because I am busy with football or real life
It's the way it is
I know....thing is I am actually worried something has gone tits up in "real life"
Oh waste your energy going down THAT road! I am sure he has friends and family to deal with that IF that were even remotely true.
He just isn't into you anymore! Harsh I know.... but 99% likely to be the case. Put your energy into someone else x"
Nothing like a slap around the chops to sort you out, thanks Kitty
Terrible habit of mine this worry malarkey |
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"So...youve been talking to someone for 9 weeks; had a couple of social meets, plan a weekend of fun and then they go quiet- suddenly-is conversation
Im a worrier by nature...what does one do??
Man up and call or??"
He's obviously mental as you are stunning. He could be married and his wife found out? Or he's got cold feet. |
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I've messaged on here... not been opened,
And sent a message on whatsapp- also unread "
Delete the sent message here
Delete the chat on WhatsApp
(Just so you don't keep checking )
And plan on spoiling yourself this weekend
May sound harsh but I am the same and end up tying myself in knots. . Was it me... are they ok
Plan something else x you are worth more xx
If they come back after the weekend your choice if you respond |
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over a year ago
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"I hate when this happens!
Ask him straight up.
I've messaged on here... not been opened,
And sent a message on whatsapp- also unread "
I see it as poor manners if they have left a message unread after some time and it's clear that they've been back online a number of times.
They then get blocked and I move on. |
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I've messaged on here... not been opened,
And sent a message on whatsapp- also unread
Delete the sent message here
Delete the chat on WhatsApp
(Just so you don't keep checking )
And plan on spoiling yourself this weekend
May sound harsh but I am the same and end up tying myself in knots. . Was it me... are they ok
Plan something else x you are worth more xx
If they come back after the weekend your choice if you respond "
Absolutely right x |
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"Nobody's that busy that they can't open a Whatsapp message, it's like a text message. Unless they drop their phone down the loo.
Just put it down to experience and move on.
Totally true! I love the banal excuses offered!! Especially the 'I've been so busy' excuse!!!
My response? 'But of course you are sweetie!
Followed by 'Close the door behind you!'
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I'm nicking that... It's perfect right now |
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Did you ever meet him at his house or socially somewhere near his house? If not id go with the not single and been found out, or found someone else, either way I'm almost certain it's his losses |
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From what I can see, you haven't said how long he's "gone quiet" for (apologies if you have and I've missed it).
If it's just a few hours to a day or two thwn I'd say it's probably just real life getting in the way, if it's longer then I'd start wondering if it was intentional, especially if they have logged onto here and not read or replied to your message during their "quiet time" |
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One stops worrying. More than anything else.
Worrying is just not healthy for you and is destructive. If there's a great habit to dev, it's to feel relaxed and confident, rather than anxious or worried - especially about possible meet partners.
People have other stuff that occurs in their lives that will detract from swinging. You can be important but they have to do other stuff.
If you're leaning towards a little more than no strings attached action then this issue may be a wake up call to not get attached or emotionally affected. |
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"One stops worrying. More than anything else.
Worrying is just not healthy for you and is destructive. If there's a great habit to dev, it's to feel relaxed and confident, rather than anxious or worried - especially about possible meet partners.
People have other stuff that occurs in their lives that will detract from swinging. You can be important but they have to do other stuff.
If you're leaning towards a little more than no strings attached action then this issue may be a wake up call to not get attached or emotionally affected. "
Ive been told i dont have emotions... |
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