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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Would you ask a meet to chip in regarding petrol money? I have been asked and declined. The guy told me it would take an hour to get here.So guys what would you do if you had to travel a distance? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Hmmm. No, I don't think I would ask for any.
Reason being, it's my choice to travel down that far. No one's forcing me to so I don't see why I should ask someone to compensate me.  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Would you ask a meet to chip in regarding petrol money? I have been asked and declined. The guy told me it would take an hour to get here.So guys what would you do if you had to travel a distance?"
I hope you told him in a nice way 
The tight bastard |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I would only ask someone to chip in for petrol if I was giving them a lift somewhere.
Just my opinion but I reckon it's a bit brass necked to ask for petrol money so you can get to a meet.
If it was a big distance (100+ miles) and they offered,then I'd accept.I wouldn't ask though. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I would be shocked if someone asked me for fuel money. Or to validate their parking *laughs* If I was travelling to meet them, I wouldn't dream of asking them to cover half my train fare! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I went to meet a guy recently (not off this site, I already knew him)...He offered me petrol money, I told him not to be daft (it was only about 9 miles) and he gave me two big bars of galaxy....I felt like a winner that night.  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I went to meet a guy recently (not off this site, I already knew him)...He offered me petrol money, I told him not to be daft (it was only about 9 miles) and he gave me two big bars of galaxy....I felt like a winner that night. "
That is awesome. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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To be honest if I was asking for help towards travel costs I would seriously have a good look at my life and try and fix that before looking for long distance meets |
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By *urvyKattWoman
over a year ago
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I drove an hour ish at the weekend to get to a social night and don't expect everyone there to chip in for my petrol costs  it cost me around £10 for about 110 mile round trip, what the hell is he driving that he can't cover the costs on his own?? |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Would you ask a meet to chip in regarding petrol money? I have been asked and declined. The guy told me it would take an hour to get here.So guys what would you do if you had to travel a distance?
I hope you told him in a nice way
The tight bastard"
would take bout 45 mins to get to mine |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Would you ask a meet to chip in regarding petrol money? I have been asked and declined. The guy told me it would take an hour to get here.So guys what would you do if you had to travel a distance?"
The cheeky sod. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"I drove an hour ish at the weekend to get to a social night and don't expect everyone there to chip in for my petrol costs it cost me around £10 for about 110 mile round trip, what the hell is he driving that he can't cover the costs on his own?? "
45 min to mine |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"To be honest if I was asking for help towards travel costs I would seriously have a good look at my life and try and fix that before looking for long distance meets"
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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if you're hosting then i think it's fair to assume they would pay travel costs.
i only offer petrol money if someone is giving me a lift. and probably then i forgt most of the time. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Would you ask a meet to chip in regarding petrol money? I have been asked and declined. The guy told me it would take an hour to get here.So guys what would you do if you had to travel a distance?
I hope you told him in a nice way
The tight bastardwould take bout 45 mins to get to mine "
Omg...I would never ask that, its so crass and you should seriously take a look at yourself if you'd even consider it. . |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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So he wants sex, petrol money and being received at yours I presume?
Would I even carry on chatting to someone who would suggest me chipping in with petrol money? Let me think..... Nope! Ffs the cheek!  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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If a meet travelled to me I'd feed him but wouldn't pay his petrol money! I've met at least 50 people over the last 5 years that are adamant I'm fake and I've said right I'll meet you by KFC by the pines (it's right next to the m4) I say when I get there and prove I'm the person in the pictures you can buy me a fully loaded box meal. It's a good way to get a free KFC! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"To be honest if I was asking for help towards travel costs I would seriously have a good look at my life and try and fix that before looking for long distance meets"
Totally agree!! I'm shocked tbh at the meer thought |
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By *andsonjohnMan
over a year ago
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"Would you ask a meet to chip in regarding petrol money? I have been asked and declined. The guy told me it would take an hour to get here.So guys what would you do if you had to travel a distance?"
No way it would be my choice to travel to you so my responsibility to make sure I can afford the trip .same with drinks on a social I pay hotels I pay to but I have gone Dutch on a few occasion when the woman involved insisted. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"If a meet travelled to me I'd feed him but wouldn't pay his petrol money! I've met at least 50 people over the last 5 years that are adamant I'm fake and I've said right I'll meet you by KFC by the pines (it's right next to the m4) I say when I get there and prove I'm the person in the pictures you can buy me a fully loaded box meal. It's a good way to get a free KFC! "
Haha. I think I might try that |
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"Would you ask a meet to chip in regarding petrol money? I have been asked and declined. The guy told me it would take an hour to get here.So guys what would you do if you had to travel a distance?"
No |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I always offer and alway get declined. Wouldn't be impressed if a guy asked though you offer petrol money?"
As I don't drive the guy I've been seeing for months tends to pick me up half way. Offered petrol money so many so many times and he would never except.
I'm a single mum who likes to earn money and pay her way, I understand I don't earn a huge amount but I'm so used to paying for everything. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I'd say 'I'll give you £20 for petroleum but if you cum during the meet you owe me £50!' . Cheeky bugger!
We've travelled well over an hour each way before, paid for the drinks and a nice hotel because it's something we wanted to do and could afford it at the time. If we couldn't afford it we wouldn't have arranged it. |
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A friend was setting up a meet with a single fem, (they were a couple).
First the fem asked for travel money, and they agreed.
Then she asked for food money, or at least a takeaway when she got there.. after a conflab, they agreed.
Then she asked for a specific bottle of drink to be available, and they thought, hey, why not.
Then she asked for babysitting money for the whole night, as she was supposed to be staying over.......... suffice to say they told her not to bother lol! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Would you ask a meet to chip in regarding petrol money? I have been asked and declined. The guy told me it would take an hour to get here.So guys what would you do if you had to travel a distance?"
you might as well ask if they can lend you £20 and nip you to ASDA when they get there. Asking for petrol money = do not meet me.
What happened to decorum??? |
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"A friend was setting up a meet with a single fem, (they were a couple).
First the fem asked for travel money, and they agreed.
Then she asked for food money, or at least a takeaway when she got there.. after a conflab, they agreed.
Then she asked for a specific bottle of drink to be available, and they thought, hey, why not.
Then she asked for babysitting money for the whole night, as she was supposed to be staying over.......... suffice to say they told her not to bother lol! "
ive heard guys say women have actually asked for babysitting money  |
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By *arksidesubCouple
over a year ago
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"A friend was setting up a meet with a single fem, (they were a couple).
First the fem asked for travel money, and they agreed.
Then she asked for food money, or at least a takeaway when she got there.. after a conflab, they agreed.
Then she asked for a specific bottle of drink to be available, and they thought, hey, why not.
Then she asked for babysitting money for the whole night, as she was supposed to be staying over.......... suffice to say they told her not to bother lol! ive heard guys say women have actually asked for babysitting money "
outrageous! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I love how it autocorrected to petroleum, makes me sound ever so posh I am gutted you admitted that was a mistake I thought that was so retro! "
retro is good (as long as you don't just mean old lol) |
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"Would you ask a meet to chip in regarding petrol money? I have been asked and declined. The guy told me it would take an hour to get here.So guys what would you do if you had to travel a distance?"
WTF!!?
No way! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I'd share the cost of a hotel but not the travel. I can't exactly claim fab meets back on expenses. "
Hahaha I would love to read hat justification if you tried! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Would you ask a meet to chip in regarding petrol money? I have been asked and declined. The guy told me it would take an hour to get here.So guys what would you do if you had to travel a distance?"
Have a wank and buy some beer. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I'd be much happier if my meets bought me stuff as well paid for my transport costs. Nothing too flash. Perhaps some new clothes or a weekend away somewhere nice. But no. So far they've all been fairly disrespectful in that respect. Should I block them?
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By *GHertsCouple
over a year ago
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He's effectively asking you to pay for the pleasure of his company, which is actually really insulting. Effectively saying you're otherwise not worth making an effort - or even a small financial sacrifice - for. Can't believe 45 mins drive would be such a big deal.
I drove a three hour round trip the other week, so did the person I was meeting ... and I was very happy to do so because I wanted to be there.
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By *icketysplitsWoman
over a year ago
Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound |
"A friend was setting up a meet with a single fem, (they were a couple).
First the fem asked for travel money, and they agreed.
Then she asked for food money, or at least a takeaway when she got there.. after a conflab, they agreed.
Then she asked for a specific bottle of drink to be available, and they thought, hey, why not.
Then she asked for babysitting money for the whole night, as she was supposed to be staying over.......... suffice to say they told her not to bother lol! "
What is wrong with some people? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Would you ask a meet to chip in regarding petrol money? I have been asked and declined. The guy told me it would take an hour to get here.So guys what would you do if you had to travel a distance?"
he wants you to host him, shag him and put fuel in his car id tell him to stay at home and fuck himself lol |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"If a meet travelled to me I'd feed him but wouldn't pay his petrol money! I've met at least 50 people over the last 5 years that are adamant I'm fake and I've said right I'll meet you by KFC by the pines (it's right next to the m4) I say when I get there and prove I'm the person in the pictures you can buy me a fully loaded box meal. It's a good way to get a free KFC! "
I could go a KFC right now. Ill meet you there, ill cover my own travel costs |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I only chip in for accomadation if in hotel. It was my or their choice to travel to eachother. Would feel like they begrudgenly came if they asked for petrol money |
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By *icketysplitsWoman
over a year ago
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Conflab...
Best slang word on this thread. "
I used it with the children this week and they thought I'd made it up. I had to explain the etymology (confabulation) and then I got confused when they asked, Why is it 'flab' then?
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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That is a somewhat steorotypical slur upon the good folk of Yorkshire. I have often heard that Yorkshiremen anew tightfisted.
I am the opposite of this but perhaps because I am trying to prove the stereotype to be wrong. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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An hours travel in fuel is about 5 quid, maybe tenner both ways, tops £15.
Is he driving a v8? A tank? Private jet or helicopter?
Is he also asking you to go half on condoms? PPE? Don't forget wear and tear on the tyres.
Doors he get a meal allowance too?
Oh and check he's put admin costs into the mix.
Don't pay by card, I believe there is a charge for card payments too.
And a 15? tip.
If you book on line you do get a discount though.....
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Conflab...
Best slang word on this thread.
I used it with the children this week and they thought I'd made it up. I had to explain the etymology (confabulation) and then I got confused when they asked, Why is it 'flab' then?
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I use it all the time at work! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Out of hours charge?
Just imagine the cost if he came after midnight. ..dear God!
Gimme gimme gimme a man after midnight...
When you say 'came' do you mean arrive or 'arrive'?  "
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Everything has to be negotiated and agreed upfront. I will always listen and always say no, when I don't want to engage with anything that's just not reasonable.
I'm not a subsidiser of others' travel dilemmas or desperation. Men here probably have to learn not to try punching above their weight - sexually and financially.
Likewise I'm not refunding part of the higher fees that guys pay as club admission, if he shags me there. |
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I'm quite happy to travel to meet even just for a social. It's my choice I'd not expect any help towards travel costs and if I was asked for any that would be the end of that conversation. I don't mind chiping in towards a hotel once I'd already met the woman. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I've never been asked to contribute towards travel expenses and I've had guys drive from the other end of the country to meet me.
Equally I always provide an upmarket hotel room for meets and don't ask for any form of payment.
Sounds like you just got a chancer OP  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I've never been asked to contribute towards travel expenses and I've had guys drive from the other end of the country to meet me.
Equally I always provide an upmarket hotel room for meets and don't ask for any form of payment.
Sounds like you just got a chancer OP "
Definitely a chancer and well said. I've never been asked to contribute, however equally bad I had one meet 'clearly state during meet' that he travelled an hour to meet me - which was more than his 20 mile limit, but he said he wanted to meet me - despite me paying willingly for hotel, sitter and driving 45 minutes myself to meeting point.
Needless to say what happened to him, and thinking about it afterwards just made me feel cheap. Lesson learned here too |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I've never been asked to contribute towards travel expenses and I've had guys drive from the other end of the country to meet me.
Equally I always provide an upmarket hotel room for meets and don't ask for any form of payment.
Sounds like you just got a chancer OP
Definitely a chancer and well said. I've never been asked to contribute, however equally bad I had one meet 'clearly state during meet' that he travelled an hour to meet me - which was more than his 20 mile limit, but he said he wanted to meet me - despite me paying willingly for hotel, sitter and driving 45 minutes myself to meeting point.
Needless to say what happened to him, and thinking about it afterwards just made me feel cheap. Lesson learned here too "
Wonder what his take on that evening is? |
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"Would you ask a meet to chip in regarding petrol money? I have been asked and declined. The guy told me it would take an hour to get here.So guys what would you do if you had to travel a distance?"
No way. It would be down to him to cover the costs. Unless you pre-arranged some fancy / swanky / expensive hotel, then maybe !!! Just maybe you should chip in too. I'm a bit old fashioned and I always pay. |
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"To be honest if I was asking for help towards travel costs I would seriously have a good look at my life and try and fix that before looking for long distance meets"
*laughs*. Best answer on here the only person putting money into their car should be only them
They obv cant afford to run the car just one of them people that stay on red light and dont come off it |
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By (user no longer on site)
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I don't drive so it's inevitably the guy who will end up travelling to me. This is why I only meet local guys, 20 miles or so, as I wouldn't expect anyone to travel a long distance for me. Also think it increases the chance of getting stood up if they can't be bothered to drive a long way.
I nearly always provide the drinks and they usually stay at mine so think it's a pretty fair deal. |
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The man has more neck than a cow has foofoo.
Before Butterfly I would drive all over to meet sometimes even go to Lancashire! I would never have the brass neck to ask for Petrol money.
Shocked that someone would ask! |
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By (user no longer on site)
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Ive relutantly accepted money thats been offered to me for giving my meet a lift to a few places she needed to get to after we met another person to play with ....i hated doing it even know i said no a lot. |
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"Would you ask a meet to chip in regarding petrol money? I have been asked and declined. The guy told me it would take an hour to get here.So guys what would you do if you had to travel a distance?
I hope you told him in a nice way
The tight bastard"
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"Yes I would insest, if they had come a long way. Or I'd buy the drinks, personally I think there's gonna be a bit of give and take."
i completly agree with the give and take and sharing. If someone has travelled to me i make it nice for them but if they cant afford to put petrol in the car they shouldnt be travelling. In fact the reason i want to make sure everything is nice and i appreciate they have travelled. Nothing to do with the cost of the petrol
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I've offered people petrol money, and made them take it as I don't drive or accommodate so they pick me up and bring me home but never been asked. "
Exactly what happend with me but still felt bad for taking it |
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