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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Have my first social meet tomorrow a bit nervous. Hope I don't appear too eager too play but cannot read the signs "
Is it a social with a possibility of play immediately after? If not then my advice would be go with no expectation of playing. Go, hopefully have an enjoyable time, get to know each other, then worry about playing another time.
Even if there IS a possibility of play immediately after, still go with the expectation of no play - then anything that does happen will be a bonus rather than a disappointment of you don't connect.
Remember they're probably as equally nervous as you! Good luck fella! |
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"Have my first social meet tomorrow a bit nervous. Hope I don't appear too eager too play but cannot read the signs
Is it a social with a possibility of play immediately after? If not then my advice would be go with no expectation of playing. Go, hopefully have an enjoyable time, get to know each other, then worry about playing another time.
Even if there IS a possibility of play immediately after, still go with the expectation of no play - then anything that does happen will be a bonus rather than a disappointment of you don't connect.
Remember they're probably as equally nervous as you! Good luck fella! "
This is the perfect advice. Have fun.  |
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By *izzy.Woman
over a year ago
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It's a social. Relax. Chat. Get to know the person. Talk about normal everyday stuff and only chat about sexual likes, dislikes etc if the atmosphere is relaxed/smiley/flirty.
Keep it light hearted and friendly.
Smile. Genuine compliments.
Enjoy meeting them and don't think of it as a prelude to playing.
Hope it goes well.  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"years into this and we still get pre meet nerves - we think they are a good thing and if we ever lost that edge it wouldnt be the same
You know I wanna get nervous with you  "
do ya ? |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"years into this and we still get pre meet nerves - we think they are a good thing and if we ever lost that edge it wouldnt be the same
You know I wanna get nervous with you
do ya ?
Of course  "
smooth |
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By *anky_PankyWoman
over a year ago
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"years into this and we still get pre meet nerves - we think they are a good thing and if we ever lost that edge it wouldnt be the same
You know I wanna get nervous with you
do ya ?"
Avoid Ace - he's like Charles Bronson crossed with Jeremy Beadle!!! |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"years into this and we still get pre meet nerves - we think they are a good thing and if we ever lost that edge it wouldnt be the same
You know I wanna get nervous with you
do ya ?
Avoid Ace - he's like Charles Bronson crossed with Jeremy Beadle!!! "
That's cruel |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"years into this and we still get pre meet nerves - we think they are a good thing and if we ever lost that edge it wouldnt be the same
You know I wanna get nervous with you
do ya ?
Avoid Ace - he's like Charles Bronson crossed with Jeremy Beadle!!! "
haha - no single men at all here atm - |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"years into this and we still get pre meet nerves - we think they are a good thing and if we ever lost that edge it wouldnt be the same
You know I wanna get nervous with you
do ya ?
Avoid Ace - he's like Charles Bronson crossed with Jeremy Beadle!!!
haha - no single men at all here atm - "
I'm not single |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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Meet update I had a fantastic time we seemed to get on from the first minute to the last. We were together for 3 hours which unfortunately went so quickly. We parted with a couple of kisses this was the only physical contact that there was between us, maybe I should have done something more but we were in Costa and didn't want to go too far too soon. Afterwards she sent me a nice message. I have indicated that I would love to see her again, and I'm hopeful that this will happen. The ball is in her court now |
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"years into this and we still get pre meet nerves - we think they are a good thing and if we ever lost that edge it wouldnt be the same
You know I wanna get nervous with you
do ya ?
Of course
smooth "
Now I seemed to have frightened her off site ffs  |
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