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It's not me, it's you.
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over a year ago
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"Its never me, even during sex if i cum really quick, its not my fault...its the females fault for having such sweet vaginal cushioning 
Choose less cushiony ones in future. "
I like a nice warm cushiony one tho its what dreams are made of |
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"It's always me and I'm never shy about sharing that fact with them  hahaaaaa
thats why its never me as its always you "
But if it's always you and never me, surely that means if it's you but you're you and I'm me then I can't be you. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"It's always me and I'm never shy about sharing that fact with them hahaaaaa
thats why its never me as its always you
But if it's always you and never me, surely that means if it's you but you're you and I'm me then I can't be you."
oh gawd !!! shall we sort this out over a bottle of wine at ours |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"It's always me and I'm never shy about sharing that fact with them hahaaaaa
thats why its never me as its always you
But if it's always you and never me, surely that means if it's you but you're you and I'm me then I can't be you.
oh gawd !!! shall we sort this out over a bottle of wine at ours "
Now that's an offer I can't refuse  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Well I was speaking to a dude Sunday to yesterday on whatsapp, back and forth back and forth and then yesterday he just stopped. I dunno what I said cos it was the same way I'd been answering the previous days. Was supposed to meet this coming Friday and nothing. I must've done something to put him off. Maybe he read some of my shit on here! Maybe it's time for a new profile again to wipe all my previous shit! |
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By *icketysplits OP Woman
over a year ago
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"Well I was speaking to a dude Sunday to yesterday on whatsapp, back and forth back and forth and then yesterday he just stopped. I dunno what I said cos it was the same way I'd been answering the previous days. Was supposed to meet this coming Friday and nothing. I must've done something to put him off. Maybe he read some of my shit on here! Maybe it's time for a new profile again to wipe all my previous shit!"
Same shit different profile won't change anything. Sort the shit.
Anyway, it's probably him.
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By (user no longer on site)
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Same shit different profile won't change anything. Sort the shit.
Anyway, it's probably him.
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It will wipe all the crazy shit I've written on my green arrow and if they come across any stuff I've written that would put them off it won't say my username just unlos. In future I'll have to just not write about any personal things. Orr keep my teabags for the weird shit that I write and have another profile where I don't use the forum, just use that for meeting. Is that allowed now before I make one? |
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By *icketysplits OP Woman
over a year ago
Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound |
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Same shit different profile won't change anything. Sort the shit.
Anyway, it's probably him.
It will wipe all the crazy shit I've written on my green arrow and if they come across any stuff I've written that would put them off it won't say my username just unlos. In future I'll have to just not write about any personal things. Orr keep my teabags for the weird shit that I write and have another profile where I don't use the forum, just use that for meeting. Is that allowed now before I make one?"
I don't know if it's allowed but I know plenty that have more than one profile.  |
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Same shit different profile won't change anything. Sort the shit.
Anyway, it's probably him.
It will wipe all the crazy shit I've written on my green arrow and if they come across any stuff I've written that would put them off it won't say my username just unlos. In future I'll have to just not write about any personal things. Orr keep my teabags for the weird shit that I write and have another profile where I don't use the forum, just use that for meeting. Is that allowed now before I make one?"
you have a very distint way of typing that would be easy recognisable, so incase they used/browsed the forums you would have to take on a whole new identity |
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By (user no longer on site)
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Same shit different profile won't change anything. Sort the shit.
Anyway, it's probably him.
It will wipe all the crazy shit I've written on my green arrow and if they come across any stuff I've written that would put them off it won't say my username just unlos. In future I'll have to just not write about any personal things. Orr keep my teabags for the weird shit that I write and have another profile where I don't use the forum, just use that for meeting. Is that allowed now before I make one?"
Personally I wouldn't - you are who you are, and if that's not to his liking, it's his loss. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"It's always me and I'm never shy about sharing that fact with them hahaaaaa
thats why its never me as its always you
But if it's always you and never me, surely that means if it's you but you're you and I'm me then I can't be you.
oh gawd !!! shall we sort this out over a bottle of wine at ours
Now that's an offer I can't refuse "
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"No, you are all incorrect..
It's most definitely me, so please pass it over here"
Ok i tried to be nice but....its you. Its always you, always been you and always will be you...  |
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"All the time!
Do you ever give the usual line though?
To whom?! 
It's not you, it's me - to whomever you're really thinking the opposite.
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No. I'm painfully honest. Not that I've been in that position for quite some time but I tell it how it is. My view is that 'it's not you, it's me' line is a copout. There's always a way to tell the truth without being unkind. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"All the time!
Do you ever give the usual line though?
To whom?!
It's not you, it's me - to whomever you're really thinking the opposite.
No. I'm painfully honest. Not that I've been in that position for quite some time but I tell it how it is. My view is that 'it's not you, it's me' line is a copout. There's always a way to tell the truth without being unkind. "
I wish people would say exactly what it is that puts them off or a specific thing, how else are you supposed to learn from it and not do it again in the future? I'd have no problem saying exactly what's on my mind, like someone will talk about food or try sending a food picture I'm like nope conversation is boring me talk about something else, just wish people would be honest. |
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By *icketysplits OP Woman
over a year ago
Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound |
"I've used that line before & then had it used on me ~ made me realise what a shit line it is when you're on the receiving end!"
It is. I think it's why I used to go psycho with some break-ups as I wanted to dig down to find out what it was that meant 'they' had suddenly changed. Then I realised it was 'me' in the sense that I wasn't what they wanted or needed in their life at that time. |
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It was always them.
One was abusive and controlling, the other was a lazy piece of shit.
I wish I had had the confidemce to tell the first one that but I settled with "I don't feel the same way about you anymore". 
- Amy. x |
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By *icketysplits OP Woman
over a year ago
Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound |
"It was always them.
One was abusive and controlling, the other was a lazy piece of shit.
I wish I had had the confidemce to tell the first one that but I settled with "I don't feel the same way about you anymore".
- Amy. x"
Wasn't that accurate, though? You realised what was going on and decided you didn't feel the same way anymore.
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The previous was definitely me. 
