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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Ok so just thought I'd ask people's opinions on this.
I've spoke to many guys on here some straight some gay an some gay but it's straight guys that confuse me. I understand guys may be curious but when I talk the them they want to suck cock but not that their cock sucked or they want to be fucked but don't want to fuck. This confuses me like I say as I don't know why they'd want to suck cock but won't let a guy suck them. An when u ask them they say their 100% straight. I'm bi so I like it all but just thought I'd ask to see if others have had the same or if a straight guy can explain it in anyway. Thanks all xxx
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"That's what I think too so why not admit it. "
Maybe they're just not comfortable admitting it, to themselves or to others. I was 19 when I realised I was bisexual, buried it until I was 32 and was 35 when I felt comfortable telling people. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Ok so just thought I'd ask people's opinions on this.
I've spoke to many guys on here some straight some gay an some gay but it's straight guys that confuse me. I understand guys may be curious but when I talk the them they want to suck cock but not that their cock sucked or they want to be fucked but don't want to fuck. This confuses me like I say as I don't know why they'd want to suck cock but won't let a guy suck them. An when u ask them they say their 100% straight. I'm bi so I like it all but just thought I'd ask to see if others have had the same or if a straight guy can explain it in anyway. Thanks all xxx
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If they are doing any of the things you desire they are Bi to a degree XXX |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"That's what I think too so why not admit it.
Maybe they're just not comfortable admitting it, to themselves or to others. I was 19 when I realised I was bisexual, buried it until I was 32 and was 35 when I felt comfortable telling people. "
Yes true I can understand that. I was 14 when I knew I was bi an I came out straight away but I guess some guys don't have the confidence. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Ok I'm straight. I'll explain it the best I can.
These guys you're speaking to? They're not straight.
Hope that helps to clarify things.  "
Nail on the head there haha
I think these guys are just lying to themselves |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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From the word go I truly believed I was a lesbian and only ever slept with women, then at 21 I met a guy by the time I was 22 he was my fuck buddy I've been fking him ever since that makes me bi as I still love pussy but I don't believe I'll ever let another guy actually fuck me! I don't mind foreplay with guys and I love sucking cock but to actually let another guy fuck me scares the crap out of me,  |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"From the word go I truly believed I was a lesbian and only ever slept with women, then at 21 I met a guy by the time I was 22 he was my fuck buddy I've been fking him ever since that makes me bi as I still love pussy but I don't believe I'll ever let another guy actually fuck me! I don't mind foreplay with guys and I love sucking cock but to actually let another guy fuck me scares the crap out of me, "
I can relate to that. I'm bi but more into guys. I love giving ladies oral and receive oral from ladies but I can't fuck pussy. I just don't know why. I go soft. But yet I love to eat it. I love to get fucked an fuck a guy we are all strange really when it comes to sex lol. Xx |
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"Ok so just thought I'd ask people's opinions on this.
I've spoke to many guys on here some straight some gay an some gay but it's straight guys that confuse me. I understand guys may be curious but when I talk the them they want to suck cock but not that their cock sucked or they want to be fucked but don't want to fuck. This confuses me like I say as I don't know why they'd want to suck cock but won't let a guy suck them. An when u ask them they say their 100% straight. I'm bi so I like it all but just thought I'd ask to see if others have had the same or if a straight guy can explain it in anyway. Thanks all xxx
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Ok I'll explain it......you've not been talking to straight guys. End of. |
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By *ficouldMan
over a year ago
a quandary, could you change my mind? |
"Ok I'm straight. I'll explain it the best I can.
These guys you're speaking to? They're not straight.
Hope that helps to clarify things.
^^^ this"
They are in denial about being Fab Straight!! |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"From the word go I truly believed I was a lesbian and only ever slept with women, then at 21 I met a guy by the time I was 22 he was my fuck buddy I've been fking him ever since that makes me bi as I still love pussy but I don't believe I'll ever let another guy actually fuck me! I don't mind foreplay with guys and I love sucking cock but to actually let another guy fuck me scares the crap out of me,
I can relate to that. I'm bi but more into guys. I love giving ladies oral and receive oral from ladies but I can't fuck pussy. I just don't know why. I go soft. But yet I love to eat it. I love to get fucked an fuck a guy we are all strange really when it comes to sex lol. Xx "
See you I could play with lol  then rather than you fking me I could possibly fuck you???  after I've sucked your cock of course!!  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Wikipedia says :
"innate bisexuality (or predisposition to bisexuality) is a term introduced by Sigmund Freud (based on work by his associate Wilhelm Fliess), that expounds all humans are born bisexual but through psychological development (which includes both external and internal factors) most become monosexual while the bisexuality remains in a latent state.[1][2]
There is no modern scientific consensus as to how biology influences sexual orientation"
I personally believe that there is still too much stigma attached to "none straight" acts especially male.
So being sub in the situation is taking away some responsbility of actions and justifying it to our selves.
Saying that I find this incredibly strange.
When I was living on my own I found 2 very good friends both of who are gay.
They do not find females attractive.
I really liked one especially and wondered if I could have a relationship.
As a t-girl I really like men, sexually I am totally 100% bi.
But in male mode I just (sadly) could not enjoy, it did not feel right.
Maybe social conditioning? not sure.
Either way as long as people are happy and not hurting anybody (without consent) then what does it matter?
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Understanding our sexuality isn't as simple as knowing whether you're human or a different animal. As some people here state, it's taken them years of adult life to be as clear as they are today.
Other people will likely not get the same clarity in their lives.
Some others will lie, even to themselves.
Once you accept that people are complex and not the same as each other, then it removes the need to try to make them be that way.
And internet sex sites will just be used and abused by people to get what they want. It's not the place for assuming honest research material. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"From the word go I truly believed I was a lesbian and only ever slept with women, then at 21 I met a guy by the time I was 22 he was my fuck buddy I've been fking him ever since that makes me bi as I still love pussy but I don't believe I'll ever let another guy actually fuck me! I don't mind foreplay with guys and I love sucking cock but to actually let another guy fuck me scares the crap out of me,
I can relate to that. I'm bi but more into guys. I love giving ladies oral and receive oral from ladies but I can't fuck pussy. I just don't know why. I go soft. But yet I love to eat it. I love to get fucked an fuck a guy we are all strange really when it comes to sex lol. Xx
See you I could play with lol then rather than you fking me I could possibly fuck you??? after I've sucked your cock of course!! "
Now that sounds like a lot of fun. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"It's the ones who are gay but who say they're bi who confuse me 
Pretty sure no one is straight with u around
No, really, it's happened "
I know u have turned many 'straight' men  |
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"It's the ones who are gay but who say they're bi who confuse me
Pretty sure no one is straight with u around
No, really, it's happened
I know u have turned many 'straight' men "
I haven't 'turned' anyone. I think the term is slightly offensive too.
I have enlightened a few virgins, that's all.
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By (user no longer on site)
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"It's the ones who are gay but who say they're bi who confuse me
Pretty sure no one is straight with u around
No, really, it's happened
I know u have turned many 'straight' men
I haven't 'turned' anyone. I think the term is slightly offensive too.
I have enlightened a few virgins, that's all.
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Showed them the righteous path  |
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"It's the ones who are gay but who say they're bi who confuse me
Pretty sure no one is straight with u around
No, really, it's happened
I know u have turned many 'straight' men
I haven't 'turned' anyone. I think the term is slightly offensive too.
I have enlightened a few virgins, that's all.
Showed them the righteous path "
Nah. Just sent them back to their girlfriends and wives
Do what you like. Describe yourself however you please. But don;t lie to yourself. It's pointless to run from who you are. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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I'm straight but often find that I'm attracted to a nice looking cock however I'm not attracted to men and kissing and close touching turns me off I enjoy sucking and being fucked but that's it don't know if anyone else is the same |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"It's the ones who are gay but who say they're bi who confuse me
Pretty sure no one is straight with u around
No, really, it's happened
I know u have turned many 'straight' men
I haven't 'turned' anyone. I think the term is slightly offensive too.
I have enlightened a few virgins, that's all.
Showed them the righteous path
Nah. Just sent them back to their girlfriends and wives
Do what you like. Describe yourself however you please. But don;t lie to yourself. It's pointless to run from who you are. "
So long as they run to you |
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"It's the ones who are gay but who say they're bi who confuse me
Pretty sure no one is straight with u around
No, really, it's happened
I know u have turned many 'straight' men
I haven't 'turned' anyone. I think the term is slightly offensive too.
I have enlightened a few virgins, that's all.
Showed them the righteous path
Nah. Just sent them back to their girlfriends and wives
Do what you like. Describe yourself however you please. But don;t lie to yourself. It's pointless to run from who you are.
So long as they run to you "
I work strictly pro bono, ma'am |
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"I'm straight but often find that I'm attracted to a nice looking cock however I'm not attracted to men and kissing and close touching turns me off I enjoy sucking and being fucked but that's it don't know if anyone else is the same"
I hate to break it to you fella, but that is NOT straight! |
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By *otgirl32Woman
over a year ago
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"Labels labels labels, just enjoy sex. No need for labels  "
I think this is the most apt comment. We don't need labels. I've had sex with girls but I'll say 99% of the time I like to fuck men. Am I bisexual? Not strictly speaking because usually I'm interested in men. But from time to time I enjoy a girl in my bed. So I guess I am bisexual? But most of the time I don't turn my head for a gorgeous woman but I always look at men. So I'm straight? But at a party I will sometimes look at a nice pair of boobs. So I'm bisexual? See what I mean?
One of my very best friends he's a gay man, have known him for years. He's gay for sure, fucks men left right and center. Yet whenever he's in town, he stays at mine and we have sex. I'm the only woman he fucks. So he's bisexual?
Labels, labels. As has been said, no need, just enjoy sex.
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"How many people are 100% straight? I'm gonna go with 0% "
I can't speak for anyone else but I for one regard myself as 100% straight, although the percentage is redundant as far as I'm concerned, as by definition anything less than 100% is not straight. The acid test is what would happen if there were no members of the opposite sex left on earth. In that situation, unless you count wanking as being male-on-male action, I would categorically never have sex again. Whilst I have no problem whatsoever with other people partaking in whatever (legal) activity they choose, the thought of even getting close to another guy in a sexual context makes me feel physically sick. Is that 100% enough for you?! |
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