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Perspective : Do people on sites like this have a higher sex drive?
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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We're on a sex site. We're going to talk about sex a lot, yes? I get that.
But people often say on here they're constantly horny, or seem desperate for sex.
Most of the interactions we have with others on here are about sex, or about meeting for sex.
Lots of Fabbers spend a lot of their social life / free time engaged in sex related activities : regulars at swingers or sex clubs or out dogging every other night.
Some even plan all their holidays around swingers resorts to ensure a plentiful supply of shagging abroad.
So, do we have higher than normal sex drives? Are we hornier and need it more often than Joe Public or does the fact we're on this site mean we naturally talk about sex more so it just *seems* that way?
To be honest - a straight choice between having sex or watching my teams first game of the new season on Saturday? I'll opt for the football please.
A week of sex or a week on a warm clean beach? The holiday please! 
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Tbh i enjoy the social side to fab more then getting down and dirty
And i dnt think of sex 24hours
thats why i just meet every now and then
i crave footy more then sex  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Tbh i enjoy the social side to fab more then getting down and dirty
And i dnt think of sex 24hours
thats why i just meet every now and then
i crave footy more then sex "
I've come to enjoy the social side of things, possibly because of my period of involuntary celibacy but focusing on just talking to people has been a lot of fun.
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Tbh i enjoy the social side to fab more then getting down and dirty
And i dnt think of sex 24hours
thats why i just meet every now and then
i crave footy more then sex
I've come to enjoy the social side of things, possibly because of my period of involuntary celibacy but focusing on just talking to people has been a lot of fun.
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well i can chat for England so a social is right up my street |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I don't revolve my life around swinging and I certainly don't talk about sex all the time. I have the same sex drive now as I had before fab or swinging....my sex life is fantastic and think me and Mr A are just compatable and enjoy the same level of kink if you like. ....I wouldn't go pick a meet or going to a club over going out with friends or the local for karaoke let alone go on a swinging holiday.....that added extra every now and again is good fun tho x |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I'd hate it if my whole life revolved around sex, feeling horny all the time wouldn't be my idea of fun at all.
This site gives me the 'hit' I need & facilitates the opportunity for me to meet like minded people. It's not all about the sex for me & my sex drive isn't any higher for being on here.
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Tbh this site has mostly turned me off sex, so having a break. Just feeling I'm not wanting or needing it.
I think once you get off the hamster wheel of needing to meet or go to a club etc it's easier.
Obviously this is just my experience and I appreciate others are different |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"We're on a sex site. We're going to talk about sex a lot, yes? I get that.
But people often say on here they're constantly horny, or seem desperate for sex.
Most of the interactions we have with others on here are about sex, or about meeting for sex.
Lots of Fabbers spend a lot of their social life / free time engaged in sex related activities : regulars at swingers or sex clubs or out dogging every other night.
Some even plan all their holidays around swingers resorts to ensure a plentiful supply of shagging abroad.
So, do we have higher than normal sex drives? Are we hornier and need it more often than Joe Public or does the fact we're on this site mean we naturally talk about sex more so it just *seems* that way?
To be honest - a straight choice between having sex or watching my teams first game of the new season on Saturday? I'll opt for the football please.
A week of sex or a week on a warm clean beach? The holiday please!
How about you? "
I did because I was constantly having sex with my X until last month now I'm with a different Guy and engaged I and ain't having sex my sex drive is a lot less than few week's ago,when I am horny ain't nothing I can't sort out myself    . |
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"I'd hate it if my whole life revolved around sex, feeling horny all the time wouldn't be my idea of fun at all.
This site gives me the 'hit' I need & facilitates the opportunity for me to meet like minded people. It's not all about the sex for me & my sex drive isn't any higher for being on here.
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I'm not sure that there's a correlation really, between unusually high sex drives and fab users. The users are pretty diverse, ranging from just desperate to fine connoisseurs of all things sexual.
Cutting out the 'just desperate' for any sex lot, then I'm open to the possibility that the remainder potentially have a somewhat keener need. But this may only be that they're great at knowing what they need and how they can make it happen. I don't know. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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I've not had sex since last Seltember. Do I miss it? Yes! Is it the be all and end all? No!
Yes there are some days I could throw down the nearest bloke and ride him to oblivion, but then other days sex is the last thing on my mind.
I don't want to meet men who I'm not attracted to, i can't just shag any man with a pulse. I have to have that zing. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"I'm not sure that there's a correlation really, between unusually high sex drives and fab users. The users are pretty diverse, ranging from just desperate to fine connoisseurs of all things sexual.
Cutting out the 'just desperate' for any sex lot, then I'm open to the possibility that the remainder potentially have a somewhat keener need. But this may only be that they're great at knowing what they need and how they can make it happen. I don't know. "
valid points I think! If you're highly sexed looking for likeminded people, where better to go than to a website full of swingers?
So possibly on average more sexually liberated and active people congregate here |
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