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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Think it would be good to have a "reason for blocking" when you block someone/or get blocked,I have been blocked,and have no idea why,after exchanging some great messages,even pics,and then all of a sudden "whallop" seems I'm blocked by user,strange..
Would rather know why,no matter how harsh,just so I don't make the same mistake again,even if I didn't in my eyes...  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Maybe they get bored of the conversation and aren't brave enough to say so they block instead.
I block people for loads of reasons - they're in my local updates & I'd rather avoid them, they can't read my profile, they can't take a no for an answer, I don't like their attitude on the forums. Don't question it, it's just Fab.  |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Maybe,but I've had people say "your not my type" etc and that's cool...why block? Just seems clinical lol
The messages were fine,good banter etc,I'm no Brad Pitt but certainly wouldn't say I'm Arm Pitt
Just be good to have a reason for block I think,I've blocked people too,so it works both ways.. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Maybe,but I've had people say "your not my type" etc and that's cool...why block? Just seems clinical lol
The messages were fine,good banter etc,I'm no Brad Pitt but certainly wouldn't say I'm Arm Pitt
Just be good to have a reason for block I think,I've blocked people too,so it works both ways.."
Blocking stops you from messaging again when they're not interested.
Some men - not all - will just push if you don't nip it in the bud. |
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"Just silly little twats that do it TVs trannies are the worst before you start with messages back don't have a problem with TVs or trannies had my fair share over the years just saying "
Could have fooled me. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I'd like it purely so I knew if I'd done something wrong,as someone said earlier,if it's just a case of your not my type,fine  "
If you use 'reply + quote' we know who you are replying to.
Just see block as meaning they don't want to talk to you anymore. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"I'd like it purely so I knew if I'd done something wrong,as someone said earlier,if it's just a case of your not my type,fine
If you use 'reply + quote' we know who you are replying to.
Just see block as meaning they don't want to talk to you anymore. "
Whoops! Cheers! First time in forum,well,initiating it,thank you |
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"Blocking stops you from messaging again when they're not interested.
Some men - not all - will just push if you don't nip it in the bud."
This is why I block my no thanks guys. They mostly come back if you don't.
OP don't worry about and it's probably not personal |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I'd like it purely so I knew if I'd done something wrong,as someone said earlier,if it's just a case of your not my type,fine
If you use 'reply + quote' we know who you are replying to.
Just see block as meaning they don't want to talk to you anymore.
Whoops! Cheers! First time in forum,well,initiating it,thank you "
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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There is always a reason for blocking.
If youve been blocked, even after chatting and good banter, then it means they don't want any further contact. They obviously viewed the exchanges differently than you did.
Don't be offended by it, it's simply a tool of the site.  |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"There is always a reason for blocking.
If youve been blocked, even after chatting and good banter, then it means they don't want any further contact. They obviously viewed the exchanges differently than you did.
Don't be offended by it, it's simply a tool of the site. "
Cheers
I'm seeing it that way now,it's just an ignorant way of no thanks I guess...
Just thought I'd see if it was an occurrence others found annoying...
Thank you though |
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"There is always a reason for blocking.
If youve been blocked, even after chatting and good banter, then it means they don't want any further contact. They obviously viewed the exchanges differently than you did.
Don't be offended by it, it's simply a tool of the site.
Cheers
I'm seeing it that way now,it's just an ignorant way of no thanks I guess...
Just thought I'd see if it was an occurrence others found annoying...
Thank you though "
I think you'd need to experience some of the reactions women get to a simple "no thanks" before you assume it's ignorance. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"There is always a reason for blocking.
If youve been blocked, even after chatting and good banter, then it means they don't want any further contact. They obviously viewed the exchanges differently than you did.
Don't be offended by it, it's simply a tool of the site.
Cheers
I'm seeing it that way now,it's just an ignorant way of no thanks I guess...
Just thought I'd see if it was an occurrence others found annoying...
Thank you though
I think you'd need to experience some of the reactions women get to a simple "no thanks" before you assume it's ignorance."
Well yes,I can only imagine,but then that's just pure obnoxious behaviour on the respondents behalf,but yes,I can imagine it's just not worth the hassle with some,so an instant block is quicker and cleaner..
This,I can safely say,was not the case from me,but thank you |
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By *ee VianteWoman
over a year ago
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"Think it would be good to have a "reason for blocking" when you block someone/or get blocked,I have been blocked,and have no idea why,after exchanging some great messages,even pics,and then all of a sudden "whallop" seems I'm blocked by user,strange..
Would rather know why,no matter how harsh,just so I don't make the same mistake again,even if I didn't in my eyes... "
It wouldn't make you feel better and a lot of the time it would frustrate you even more, because you'd disagree but not be able to say so.
Let it go. They changed their mind for some reason or they weren't who they claimed from the start. You didn't necessarily do anything wrong. |
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By *ee VianteWoman
over a year ago
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"There is always a reason for blocking.
If youve been blocked, even after chatting and good banter, then it means they don't want any further contact. They obviously viewed the exchanges differently than you did.
Don't be offended by it, it's simply a tool of the site.
Cheers
I'm seeing it that way now,it's just an ignorant way of no thanks I guess...
Just thought I'd see if it was an occurrence others found annoying...
Thank you though
I think you'd need to experience some of the reactions women get to a simple "no thanks" before you assume it's ignorance."
^this. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Think it would be good to have a "reason for blocking" when you block someone/or get blocked,I have been blocked,and have no idea why,after exchanging some great messages,even pics,and then all of a sudden "whallop" seems I'm blocked by user,strange..
Would rather know why,no matter how harsh,just so I don't make the same mistake again,even if I didn't in my eyes...
It wouldn't make you feel better and a lot of the time it would frustrate you even more, because you'd disagree but not be able to say so.
Let it go. They changed their mind for some reason or they weren't who they claimed from the start. You didn't necessarily do anything wrong."
Thank you
Have just accepted it's a way people decide to say "no thanks" even if you haven't asked anything lol
But thank you for input |
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By *ee VianteWoman
over a year ago
Somewhere in North Norfolk |
"Think it would be good to have a "reason for blocking" when you block someone/or get blocked,I have been blocked,and have no idea why,after exchanging some great messages,even pics,and then all of a sudden "whallop" seems I'm blocked by user,strange..
Would rather know why,no matter how harsh,just so I don't make the same mistake again,even if I didn't in my eyes...
It wouldn't make you feel better and a lot of the time it would frustrate you even more, because you'd disagree but not be able to say so.
Let it go. They changed their mind for some reason or they weren't who they claimed from the start. You didn't necessarily do anything wrong.
Thank you
Have just accepted it's a way people decide to say "no thanks" even if you haven't asked anything lol
But thank you for input "
They're saying no thanks to chatting further. There's no need for you to have asked anything before someone can decline to chat further.
I tend to block smokers who message me because I don't want to meet smokers and further messages from them would waste my time and theirs. If they can't read my profile and deduce from it that I'm not interested in chatting with smokers, tough. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"Think it would be good to have a "reason for blocking" when you block someone/or get blocked,I have been blocked,and have no idea why,after exchanging some great messages,even pics,and then all of a sudden "whallop" seems I'm blocked by user,strange..
Would rather know why,no matter how harsh,just so I don't make the same mistake again,even if I didn't in my eyes...
It wouldn't make you feel better and a lot of the time it would frustrate you even more, because you'd disagree but not be able to say so.
Let it go. They changed their mind for some reason or they weren't who they claimed from the start. You didn't necessarily do anything wrong.
Thank you
Have just accepted it's a way people decide to say "no thanks" even if you haven't asked anything lol
But thank you for input
They're saying no thanks to chatting further. There's no need for you to have asked anything before someone can decline to chat further.
I tend to block smokers who message me because I don't want to meet smokers and further messages from them would waste my time and theirs. If they can't read my profile and deduce from it that I'm not interested in chatting with smokers, tough."
Very true,if you've stated a dislike it's crazy they even message you with that as part of their character...seems pointless...
Thank you though for your view on subject |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Think it would be good to have a "reason for blocking" when you block someone/or get blocked,I have been blocked,and have no idea why,after exchanging some great messages,even pics,and then all of a sudden "whallop" seems I'm blocked by user,strange..
Would rather know why,no matter how harsh,just so I don't make the same mistake again,even if I didn't in my eyes... "
Just suck it up and move on.... |
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By *ee VianteWoman
over a year ago
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"But we block for various reason some would make no sense and seem unfair to the person blocked."
I suspect the vast majority would seem unfair to the person blocked. There will never be an explanation that makes people bothered about being blocked feel any better.
The only acceptable answer on here is yes, let's meet and fuck.
If you ignore, you're rude, ignorant and arrogant and they want to know what's wrong with them.
If you say no thanks, they want to know why.
If you actually give a reason they argue, bargain or become abusive.
If you block, they want to know why and what's wrong with them...
Basically, no in any form is simply not a satisfactory answer to some people. |
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