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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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They are for everyone, lots of arseholes in the forums i admit, but they make it addictive and fun, with their weird and wonderful threads. I've not been swinging for 3 months now, but I miss the madness on the forums so much........have to have a sneaky peek each day. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Stay on fella - post within the rules of the forum but don't let the buggers get you down.
Ignore the clique (that will vociferously deny that they don't exist) and carry on doing your thing!  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Stay on fella - post within the rules of the forum but don't let the buggers get you down.
Ignore the clique (that will vociferously deny that they don't exist) and carry on doing your thing! "
Or vociferously deny that they DO exist rather .. You know what I meant!  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I'll tell you why, it's because you only give snippets of information. You'll say a statement but not give specifics, kind of makes your statement sound like you're not really passionate about it or you're just saying it for effect, when people think you're just a saying things for a reaction they won't answer you seriously or they'll just write half arsed responses.
I've got a couple of niche things that I like that I'd write about and people would answer me in a piss taking way because they thought I was taking the piss, but I had courage in my beliefs and passion and in time people thought umm ok she's actually serious about these things.
Give more details, and be more passionate. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I'll tell you why, it's because you only give snippets of information. You'll say a statement but not give specifics, kind of makes your statement sound like you're not really passionate about it or you're just saying it for effect, when people think you're just a saying things for a reaction they won't answer you seriously or they'll just write half arsed responses.
I've got a couple of niche things that I like that I'd write about and people would answer me in a piss taking way because they thought I was taking the piss, but I had courage in my beliefs and passion and in time people thought umm ok she's actually serious about these things.
Give more details, and be more passionate. "
This
I stayed quiet overnight with your postings OP but you didn't really help your own cause.
New day, fresh start  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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You have only one thing you post about,or join in on. You won't get as many responses because sticking to one theme. People will get bored talking about the same thing over and over,unless it's a who has the best something or other,where they can get attention,or kiss,pass,lick threads where they can show people they fancy them by saying fuck every time. |
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"I'll tell you why, it's because you only give snippets of information. You'll say a statement but not give specifics, kind of makes your statement sound like you're not really passionate about it or you're just saying it for effect, when people think you're just a saying things for a reaction they won't answer you seriously or they'll just write half arsed responses.
I've got a couple of niche things that I like that I'd write about and people would answer me in a piss taking way because they thought I was taking the piss, but I had courage in my beliefs and passion and in time people thought umm ok she's actually serious about these things.
Give more details, and be more passionate.
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I stayed quiet overnight with your postings OP but you didn't really help your own cause.
New day, fresh start "
No wonder he doesnt feel welcome
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"It's simple You want one thing and that's all you'll talk about so people get bored with it quick.
Not to mention the ones that won't bother with you because you seem to be sexually selfish
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And slightly misogynistic |
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Everyone is welcome on the forums.
It's entirely up to you how you conduct yourself.
If you manage to keep yourself within the rules of the site then you can please yourself with what you post.
The little green arrow beside your name allows everyone to see what you've posted previously so if you want to please other people at any point in your time here, you should bear that in mind.
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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I have stayed within the rules to my knowledge... Never been rude to anyone even when they were blatantly rude to me.
I just posted that am looking to meet some filthy women...
Luckily a few nice people inboxed me to tell me that the forums arnt as bad as they seem.
Time will tell I guess. |
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"I think these here forums are for people not like me lol... Which is cool.. Just thought I'd try them.
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You know what, I like that you are exactly who YOU are, you're not trying to come across as something/someone you're not.
Your likes and preferences are as valid as anyone else's. The forums are for everyone and you might not feel they're for you, but I like that you throw something else into the mix. Don't let how some people have perceived you make you feel like you shouldn't be here. |
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"I have stayed within the rules to my knowledge... Never been rude to anyone even when they were blatantly rude to me.
I just posted that am looking to meet some filthy women...
Luckily a few nice people inboxed me to tell me that the forums arnt as bad as they seem.
Time will tell I guess."
They really aren't. Most of us spend way too much time on them. Stick around... some of us are even quite witty on occasion.
I've not looked at your little green arrow so I've no idea what you've said. I'm not that easily offended. If you behave like a chump, people will be sure to tell you.  |
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By *ugby 123Couple
over a year ago
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"I have stayed within the rules to my knowledge... Never been rude to anyone even when they were blatantly rude to me.
I just posted that am looking to meet some filthy women...
Luckily a few nice people inboxed me to tell me that the forums arnt as bad as they seem.
Time will tell I guess."
I wouldn't change for other people, carry on as you are. If someone else breaks forum rules while answering you that isn't down to you. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I've never thought of this place as having a clique. I've found that if you post things that come over well, then you are welcomed. "
yea cant say I noticed these so called cliques.
think the forum is pretty friendly lots of nice folk and its a giggle |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I would say that there are certain people who suck up to other people,one or two think they are king and queen of the forum as people put them on a pedestal.....dont believe the hype
Live long and prosper |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I would say that there are certain people who suck up to other people,one or two think they are king and queen of the forum as people put them on a pedestal.....dont believe the hype
Live long and prosper"
spot on x |
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By *ENDAROOSCouple
over a year ago
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"I think these here forums are for people not like me lol... Which is cool.. Just thought I'd try them.
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The forums are for everyone,they don't belong to a select few.
Don't stop posting or change to suit others. Long as your posting within the site rules, crack on doing your own thing.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I have stayed within the rules to my knowledge... Never been rude to anyone even when they were blatantly rude to me.
I just posted that am looking to meet some filthy women...
Luckily a few nice people inboxed me to tell me that the forums arnt as bad as they seem.
Time will tell I guess."
You're using the forums to meet filthy women,which is fine,but that will exclude everyone else who doesn't fit your criteria. You've had some inbox response,so it's working. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Ive met and and meeting some lovely people of the forums. I tend to chat to people that have similar interests and there are never any expectations.
If people have no interest in me or dont want to take the time to get to know me thats up to them.
There are some lovely people here |
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By *ucyfur77Woman
over a year ago
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"I would say that there are certain people who suck up to other people,one or two think they are king and queen of the forum as people put them on a pedestal.....dont believe the hype
Live long and prosper"
Tru dat |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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They can be intimidating when the regulars (or clique) are all together, but most of the time it's a lot of fun, I ignore the daily threads, but you do get some good topics occasionally. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"They can be intimidating when the regulars (or clique) are all together, but most of the time it's a lot of fun, I ignore the daily threads, but you do get some good topics occasionally. "
can't say I've ever found them intiminating. Yes there seems to be a clique but I never feel intimidated by them x
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"They can be intimidating when the regulars (or clique) are all together, but most of the time it's a lot of fun, I ignore the daily threads, but you do get some good topics occasionally. can't say I've ever found them intiminating. Yes there seems to be a clique but I never feel intimidated by them x"
Wait till they gang up on you X |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"They can be intimidating when the regulars (or clique) are all together, but most of the time it's a lot of fun, I ignore the daily threads, but you do get some good topics occasionally. can't say I've ever found them intiminating. Yes there seems to be a clique but I never feel intimidated by them x"
Start a thread where you mention you shagged someone without a comdom! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"They can be intimidating when the regulars (or clique) are all together, but most of the time it's a lot of fun, I ignore the daily threads, but you do get some good topics occasionally. can't say I've ever found them intiminating. Yes there seems to be a clique but I never feel intimidated by them x
Start a thread where you mention you shagged someone without a comdom!"
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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OP, green arrow indicates you are a significant part of the forums, lots of topics started and threads contributed to.
So this is a bit of an odd thread to post.. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"They can be intimidating when the regulars (or clique) are all together, but most of the time it's a lot of fun, I ignore the daily threads, but you do get some good topics occasionally. "
I don't believe in the 'clique', it gets thrown around a lot a bit like Santa clause or the boggyman but they are not real either.  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"You have only one thing you post about,or join in on. You won't get as many responses because sticking to one theme. People will get bored talking about the same thing over and over,unless it's a who has the best something or other,where they can get attention,or kiss,pass,lick threads where they can show people they fancy them by saying fuck every time. "
Is this about beards and tattoos again?
It is isn't it.....
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Been roasted by a lady clique determined to argue before...but I never backed down.
It's better not to rise to the bait in the first place...but easier said thab done.
Besided I realised that the majority of peeps on here are cool and up for a laugh.
So talk to the good uns and ignore the clunges. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I'll tell you why, it's because you only give snippets of information. You'll say a statement but not give specifics, kind of makes your statement sound like you're not really passionate about it or you're just saying it for effect, when people think you're just a saying things for a reaction they won't answer you seriously or they'll just write half arsed responses.
I've got a couple of niche things that I like that I'd write about and people would answer me in a piss taking way because they thought I was taking the piss, but I had courage in my beliefs and passion and in time people thought umm ok she's actually serious about these things.
Give more details, and be more passionate.
This
I stayed quiet overnight with your postings OP but you didn't really help your own cause.
New day, fresh start
No wonder he doesnt feel welcome
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I know the feeling op.....I once posted a thread to wake people up...."simon cowell found dead" feels like I got blackballed since..hardly bother now"
Only because I realised you weren't telling the truth  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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It's an open forum post whatever you like....as long as it's not personal if people don't like what you say they can do one.....if your looking for a slut meet you will always get a few people that will get on their high horse....I personally think you have conducted yourself very well and yeah there has been a few times (more lately) when I think what the fuck am I doing on this site I'm too normal lol x |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Been roasted by a lady clique determined to argue before...but I never backed down.
It's better not to rise to the bait in the first place...but easier said thab done.
Besided I realised that the majority of peeps on here are cool and up for a laugh.
So talk to the good uns and ignore the clunges. "
"clunges" I love that word!
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By *aucy3Couple
over a year ago
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"Stay on fella - post within the rules of the forum but don't let the buggers get you down.
Ignore the clique (that will vociferously deny that they don't exist) and carry on doing your thing! "
Embrace the clique,they guarantee an agreeable response,
Even if your posting piss.
And always remember,sychofancy is a two way Street.
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"I think these here forums are for people not like me lol... Which is cool.. Just thought I'd try them.
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You seem less aggressive in this thread and much more attractive. You are too young for me but, I thought I would say hi anyway. K xx |
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