We have always wondered do winks serve any purpose, does anyone actually respond to them, we get about 10 or so most days and have to be honest have only ever replied to one.
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"Depends on:-
1/ whether I notice a new wink
2/ if I do, if yr fit enough
^^ this ^^ x
Does it not just smart of someone being a little lazy though? "
If you go to the last thread about winks, you'll discover it's the couples and women who are lazy   |
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"Depends on:-
1/ whether I notice a new wink
2/ if I do, if yr fit enough
^^ this ^^ x
Does it not just smart of someone being a little lazy though? "
Not at all. Why would it be lazy?
From a single blokes perspective they (very) rarely bear fruit however i still use them as they have done... I use them mainly because i didn't have the time to write a long(ish) personalised messages which is what is usually demanded of us.
When i come across the profile again i would then send a message once have the time xx |
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"Depends on:-
1/ whether I notice a new wink
2/ if I do, if yr fit enough
^^ this ^^ x
Does it not just smart of someone being a little lazy though?
Not at all. Why would it be lazy?
From a single blokes perspective they (very) rarely bear fruit however i still use them as they have done... I use them mainly because i didn't have the time to write a long(ish) personalised messages which is what is usually demanded of us.
When i come across the profile again i would then send a message once have the time xx "
Interesting point well made |
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"Depends on:-
1/ whether I notice a new wink
2/ if I do, if yr fit enough
^^ this ^^ x
Does it not just smart of someone being a little lazy though?
Not at all. Why would it be lazy?
From a single blokes perspective they (very) rarely bear fruit however i still use them as they have done... I use them mainly because i didn't have the time to write a long(ish) personalised messages which is what is usually demanded of us.
When i come across the profile again i would then send a message once have the time xx
Interesting point well made "
Thanks I do try lol I can see why they are so mistrusted or have a bad rep but there are some of us who use them as intended. Sadly i think as the number of single men on here has sky rocketted they have lost their worth... Shame as it's in essence quite a nice idea |
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"We send them, receive them, use them, are pleased to receive them, are terrified to receive them.
Um....a little bit of all the above really. X  "
I can vouch for this as its how we got chatting |
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We use the wink option when looking at profiles that catches our eye. If they wink back we will follow that up with a message and usually swap some face pics to see if there is any attraction and take it from where.
Same if we receive a wink and we like the look of their profile we will wink back and usually then start messaging.
Should we receice a wink and don't think they are for us, we will simply ignore and it happens the other way around too.
So a very useful tool in our opinion. |
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"We send them, receive them, use them, are pleased to receive them, are terrified to receive them.
Um....a little bit of all the above really. X
I can vouch for this as its how we got chatting "
Mind you we were terrified of your wink |
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I've never had a response from a wink, so i stopped a while ago, but I'm sure women find them useful. If they see a guy they fancy then they can just send him a wink and he's likely to reply if he finds her attractive. A guy winks a girl, on the other hand, despite physical attraction, 9/10 she'll see it as laziness and/or arrogance |
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"We send them, receive them, use them, are pleased to receive them, are terrified to receive them.
Um....a little bit of all the above really. X
I can vouch for this as its how we got chatting
Mind you we were terrified of your wink "
It was an overly intense wink. Thats what happens when you wink with the wrong eye  |
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"We send them, receive them, use them, are pleased to receive them, are terrified to receive them.
Um....a little bit of all the above really. X
I can vouch for this as its how we got chatting
Mind you we were terrified of your wink
It was an overly intense wink. Thats what happens when you wink with the wrong eye "
We thought it was some kind of tourettes to be honest. |
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