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over a year ago
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You know you do.
Tell them how you feel, I they don't feel the same and they're a decent person they will stop seeing you.
If they're an asshole they'll continue to get what they want from you regardless of the damage they cause.
It's hard to cut someone out that you have feelings for and it might take you a while but for you own sanity you have to do it. X |
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over a year ago
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"You could tell them and then you'd know for sure... If they don't reciprocate your feelings then hit the road pet. x"
Tell then its much worse to not know if she doesnt then yes id say |
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"I think I'm falling for someone I regularly meet on this site. I'm pretty sure they don't feel the same. Should I stop seeing them before I get hurt. ?"
You'll feel hurt whenever you stop seeing them so the choice is yours. If they read the forum they've probably guessed its them anyway but the decision whether to stop seeing them for this reason is yours. Also there are a lot of "I thinks" in your post.
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Yep, you're only setting yourself up for pain and heartache. Tell them how you're feeling then at you'll know if they do feel the same, if you don't tell them you'll spend your life wondering what if. But I'd stop seeing them if they don't feel the same way. Good luck x |
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Be honest and open with them .Tell them how you feel. It will drive you dashed crazy if you don't.
Be prepared to be hurt, nothing ventured nothing gained.
I wish you all the best bud. I have been there so I k ow how your feeling  |
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If you love this person then maybe love him or her for who he or she is and for what you have with that person now.
If you feel that you need more or change, be honest and specific with yourself as to what that 'more or change' is, then you have to take the risk to find out if they want the changes you want.
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"Yep, you're only setting yourself up for pain and heartache. Tell them how you're feeling then at you'll know if they do feel the same, if you don't tell them you'll spend your life wondering what if. But I'd stop seeing them if they don't feel the same way. Good luck x"
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Awkward...
If you had hooked up for mutual play, then yes it would be unfair to the other.
Though b4 bold and honest with other.....
You never know they may be harbouring similar feelings.
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