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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Yep i am now 100% sure that you must look like a male model..not just your normal male models but tall...tanned..muscles....slim...sexy smile. If you do not tick any of above sadly non of the women here be interested. So if you single and non of above then you have zero chance on here. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"A single man can do well here, despite the overwhelming odds.
Be yourself, be presentable, be non-rapey and displays of humour are good.  "
Non-rapey is always good  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"A single man can do well here, despite the overwhelming odds.
Be yourself, be presentable, be non-rapey and displays of humour are good. "
Yes - especially the non-rapey bit |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Not true at all, I don't consider myself a model but I've met some stunning women off here and from other sites and had a great times, it's about being friendly, some banter, not coming across as an idiot and stalker like, the odds are against single men here due to the numbers but be yourself and ypu never know what could happen |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"A single man can do well here, despite the overwhelming odds.
Be yourself, be presentable, be non-rapey and displays of humour are good.
Yes - especially the non-rapey bit "
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Seriously not true. I understand fab can frustrate the fuck out of you if it feels like nobody is interested but sometimes you have to put your self out there. Good way is to put a meet up to say you're going to a club then do some socialising and not expect to get your leg over straight away but first of all get chatting and drop a few messages on here.
Only my opinion and how I've found to use fab and get to meet people not just for a fuck but to make new friends too |
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"No mate.
Plenty of average looking guys on here doing really well as well.
Mainly because they have a good personality!"
'Personality goes a long way' Pulp Fiction Scene
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=61g2-EVJ-mo |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"If anything I avoid the extra hot ones so I don't feel like a potato next to them.
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Brilliant, glad to hear. Means my odds have just gone up slightly.
Just need to remove that ' sometimes a bit rapey' statement from my profile first though.  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"If anything I avoid the extra hot ones so I don't feel like a potato next to them.
What is it with you and potatoes!"
If I had a pound for every time I'd been asked that... I could buy so many potatoes  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Yep i am now 100% sure that you must look like a male model..not just your normal male models but tall...tanned..muscles....slim...sexy smile. If you do not tick any of above sadly non of the women here be interested. So if you single and non of above then you have zero chance on here. "
None of the above and definitely non-rapey....I'm doing alright. Just chill, it'll happen.  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Yep i am now 100% sure that you must look like a male model..not just your normal male models but tall...tanned..muscles....slim...sexy smile. If you do not tick any of above sadly non of the women here be interested. So if you single and non of above then you have zero chance on here. "
Whining will not help.  |
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"Yep i am now 100% sure that you must look like a male model..not just your normal male models but tall...tanned..muscles....slim...sexy smile. If you do not tick any of above sadly non of the women here be interested. So if you single and non of above then you have zero chance on here. "
OP maybe if you put as much effort into your profile and messages as you do into moaning about others (judging by your forum posts) you would be a bit more successful.
I am definitely not looking for a hot model, in all honesty i would find it intimidating to meet someone like that, I want Mr ordinary. What i do want is someone who is happy with who they are and comfortable in their own skin. I don't want a constant whiner, i want to meet people who are good company |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"If anything I avoid the extra hot ones so I don't feel like a potato next to them.
What is it with you and potatoes!"
I like potatoes!
Baked - with tuna, mayo and salad!
Can someone get me a potato - please??  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"If anything I avoid the extra hot ones so I don't feel like a potato next to them.
What is it with you and potatoes!
I like potatoes!
Baked - with tuna, mayo and salad!
Can someone get me a potato - please?? "
I've got a couple of spuds you can have |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Yep i am now 100% sure that you must look like a male model..not just your normal male models but tall...tanned..muscles....slim...sexy smile. If you do not tick any of above sadly non of the women here be interested. So if you single and non of above then you have zero chance on here. "
And you know this because? |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"If anything I avoid the extra hot ones so I don't feel like a potato next to them.
What is it with you and potatoes!
If I had a pound for every time I'd been asked that... I could buy so many potatoes "
Hahaha |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"If anything I avoid the extra hot ones so I don't feel like a potato next to them.
What is it with you and potatoes!
I like potatoes!
Baked - with tuna, mayo and salad!
Can someone get me a potato - please??
I've got a couple of spuds you can have "
Ooh how kind!
King Edwards? |
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"Seriously not true. I understand fab can frustrate the fuck out of you if it feels like nobody is interested but sometimes you have to put your self out there. Good way is to put a meet up to say you're going to a club then do some socialising and not expect to get your leg over straight away but first of all get chatting and drop a few messages on here.
Only my opinion and how I've found to use fab and get to meet people not just for a fuck but to make new friends too"
All of the above! X |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"If anything I avoid the extra hot ones so I don't feel like a potato next to them.
What is it with you and potatoes!
I like potatoes!
Baked - with tuna, mayo and salad!
Can someone get me a potato - please??
I've got a couple of spuds you can have
Ooh how kind!
King Edwards? "
No,jersey royals but I have a couple of bags full |
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"Yep i am now 100% sure that you must look like a male model..not just your normal male models but tall...tanned..muscles....slim...sexy smile. If you do not tick any of above sadly non of the women here be interested. So if you single and non of above then you have zero chance on here. "
Not true mate, I'm no model & definitely not slim more bouncer size & over 50 & do ok.
Its personality that makes a person sexy not always looks, if you think negative you'll stay negative.
Change your profile and come back reinventing yourself into someone you like & others might like you too. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Yep i am now 100% sure that you must look like a male model..not just your normal male models but tall...tanned..muscles....slim...sexy smile. If you do not tick any of above sadly non of the women here be interested. So if you single and non of above then you have zero chance on here. "
Bollocks |
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"Yep i am now 100% sure that you must look like a male model..not just your normal male models but tall...tanned..muscles....slim...sexy smile. If you do not tick any of above sadly non of the women here be interested. "
Forget any of those, more important is personality, positivity, sexy eyes and a lovely smile.. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Pfft, I look like a woman from most angles and not a pretty one. And I do okay.
I just meander in flipping my hair about and offering tea. Seems to work. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Pfft, I look like a woman from most angles and not a pretty one. And I do okay.
I just meander in flipping my hair about and offering tea. Seems to work."
You serenity hugging soul.
Seem like a good person.
This can get you laid. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"A single man can do well here, despite the overwhelming odds.
Be yourself, be presentable, be non-rapey and displays of humour are good. "
Non-rapey?
Ah shit, so THAT'S where I've been going wrong!  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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ive been on this site about 8 yrs and not seen many men that fit that description OP I'm sure a lot of fun goes off with "AVERAGE" men which encompasses the vast majority of men on here |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Pfft, I look like a woman from most angles and not a pretty one. And I do okay.
I just meander in flipping my hair about and offering tea. Seems to work.
You serenity hugging soul.
Seem like a good person.
This can get you laid."
Aww thank you
I'd actually also like to add that the picture of ribbons in my hair got more fabs in a day than my torso did. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Yep i am now 100% sure that you must look like a male model..not just your normal male models but tall...tanned..muscles....slim...sexy smile. If you do not tick any of above sadly non of the women here be interested. So if you single and non of above then you have zero chance on here. "
Then go get off your ass and go work out in the sun.
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Yep i am now 100% sure that you must look like a male model..not just your normal male models but tall...tanned..muscles....slim...sexy smile. If you do not tick any of above sadly non of the women here be interested. So if you single and non of above then you have zero chance on here.
Then go get off your ass and go work out in the sun.
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And smile |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Tbh I'm not convinced that even being a male model will get you there. You can't meet someone who isn't there, and the fakes outnumber the genuine people on here in excess of 20 to 1.
Some of the couples are real, if that's your thing set your sights there, but don't bother with single females. Some of them might be female, but very few are actually swingers. Most are just fantasists. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"If anything I avoid the extra hot ones so I don't feel like a potato next to them.
What is it with you and potatoes!
I like potatoes!
Baked - with tuna, mayo and salad!
Can someone get me a potato - please??
I've got a couple of spuds you can have
Ooh how kind!
King Edwards?
No,jersey royals but I have a couple of bags full "
Oooooh! Now I'm tempted!  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Yep i am now 100% sure that you must look like a male model..not just your normal male models but tall...tanned..muscles....slim...sexy smile. If you do not tick any of above sadly non of the women here be interested. So if you single and non of above then you have zero chance on here. "
Have you tried smiling? |
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"Tbh I'm not convinced that even being a male model will get you there. You can't meet someone who isn't there, and the fakes outnumber the genuine people on here in excess of 20 to 1.
Some of the couples are real, if that's your thing set your sights there, but don't bother with single females. Some of them might be female, but very few are actually swingers. Most are just fantasists. "
This is not true about fakes as there are plenty of single ladies & couples i have met on Fab & have never experienced any fakes.
Again on my couples profile we meet single ladies & couples & again no fakes...are we on the same Fab site as you ? |
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That's not exactly true OP  Sure, having the fit body and the handsome looks will help somewhat in creating some initial interest...sometimes. As ever though, that'll all be in the eye of the beholder. After that though your personality will be the thing that women will be looking at. That's where the real connections are made. Isn't that always the case?
I can understand your frustrations though OP. When you haven't been on here long the place can initially seem like total garbage, but it really isn't. There are so many guys on here and so few women that it can sometimes feel impossible, but again it's really not. Being a straight guy looking for women isn't easy for ANY guy. But it's not really that easy in real life is it? Fab isn't too dissimilar to that. No man on here is ever beating the women off with a stick, as much as we may want that. So the first thing to do is lower your expectations. What women look for and like in a guy in real life they look for on here. Secondly, don't try just running along with the flock. You'll be invisible and swept away in the tide.
Work on yourself. Look inwards to what you can do better. If some straight guys have success on here (and they do) and you're not, then you have to start asking yourself why that is. Work out where you're going wrong. Criticising the site won't help you any. It took me ages to find my place on here. I've had ups and downs. I've had my doubts. I've wondered where I was going wrong so many times. But through it all I never blamed anyone for the problems I was having other than myself. It was always my fault if something wasn't working and I worked on myself to overcome those problems. There's good times to be found on here and some wonderful women too for everybody. It can sometimes just take a little time for some of us to find our place on here.
As Cass Elliot put it...
You're gonna be nowhere
The loneliest kind of lonely
It may be rough going
Just to do your thing's the hardest thing to do
But you've gotta make your own kind of music
Sing your own special song
Make your own kind of music
Even if nobody else sings along |
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"That's not exactly true OP Sure, having the fit body and the handsome looks will help somewhat in creating some initial interest...sometimes. As ever though, that'll all be in the eye of the beholder. After that though your personality will be the thing that women will be looking at. That's where the real connections are made. Isn't that always the case?
I can understand your frustrations though OP. When you haven't been on here long the place can initially seem like total garbage, but it really isn't. There are so many guys on here and so few women that it can sometimes feel impossible, but again it's really not. Being a straight guy looking for women isn't easy for ANY guy. But it's not really that easy in real life is it? Fab isn't too dissimilar to that. No man on here is ever beating the women off with a stick, as much as we may want that. So the first thing to do is lower your expectations. What women look for and like in a guy in real life they look for on here. Secondly, don't try just running along with the flock. You'll be invisible and swept away in the tide.
Work on yourself. Look inwards to what you can do better. If some straight guys have success on here (and they do) and you're not, then you have to start asking yourself why that is. Work out where you're going wrong. Criticising the site won't help you any. It took me ages to find my place on here. I've had ups and downs. I've had my doubts. I've wondered where I was going wrong so many times. But through it all I never blamed anyone for the problems I was having other than myself. It was always my fault if something wasn't working and I worked on myself to overcome those problems. There's good times to be found on here and some wonderful women too for everybody. It can sometimes just take a little time for some of us to find our place on here.
As Cass Elliot put it...
You're gonna be nowhere
The loneliest kind of lonely
It may be rough going
Just to do your thing's the hardest thing to do
But you've gotta make your own kind of music
Sing your own special song
Make your own kind of music
Even if nobody else sings along"
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Pfft, I look like a woman from most angles and not a pretty one. And I do okay.
I just meander in flipping my hair about and offering tea. Seems to work.
You serenity hugging soul.
Seem like a good person.
This can get you laid.
Aww thank you
I'd actually also like to add that the picture of ribbons in my hair got more fabs in a day than my torso did."
That's because the wider world of webbers can't resist a bit of bondage.... |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Yep i am now 100% sure that you must look like a male model..not just your normal male models but tall...tanned..muscles....slim...sexy smile. If you do not tick any of above sadly non of the women here be interested. So if you single and non of above then you have zero chance on here. "
Load of rubbish. A personality, whit humour non arrogance. Self respect and respect for woman are usually deal breaker along |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"If anything I avoid the extra hot ones so I don't feel like a potato next to them.
What is it with you and potatoes!
I like potatoes!
Baked - with tuna, mayo and salad!
Can someone get me a potato - please??
I've got a couple of spuds you can have
Ooh how kind!
King Edwards?
No,jersey royals but I have a couple of bags full
Oooooh! Now I'm tempted! "
Aren't my taters a little old for you?  |
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By *odareyouMan
over a year ago
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"Yep i am now 100% sure that you must look like a male model..not just your normal male models but tall...tanned..muscles....slim...sexy smile. If you do not tick any of above sadly non of the women here be interested. So if you single and non of above then you have zero chance on here. "
Keep believing that fella...a negative attitude is always a good starting point...
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Pfft, I look like a woman from most angles and not a pretty one. And I do okay.
I just meander in flipping my hair about and offering tea. Seems to work.
You serenity hugging soul.
Seem like a good person.
This can get you laid.
Aww thank you
I'd actually also like to add that the picture of ribbons in my hair got more fabs in a day than my torso did.
That's because the wider world of webbers can't resist a bit of bondage.... "
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I like men who look happy and smile in their pics 
My smile frightens everyone away. yes but those dimples you show lure them in xx "
You haven't seen my dimples.... have you? |
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By (user no longer on site)
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OP thanks for the compliment, I must be a bloody stunner based on your description... Who knew?! I always thought I was a bit average but not anymore
As an aside before logging in maybe have a wank and release all the pent up frustration...? Then once the desire to get your leg over has diminished you can start to interact with people in a normal way and then doors (front, back and sometimes car) start to open...
For a single bloke this site can be hard at times but most of the time being a cheeky sod and putting yourself out there does reap rewards
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Yep i am now 100% sure that you must look like a male model..not just your normal male models but tall...tanned..muscles....slim...sexy smile. If you do not tick any of above sadly non of the women here be interested. So if you single and non of above then you have zero chance on here. "
I actually prefer men with a bit of padding on them
Can't speak for anybody else but what you have written above does not apply to me |
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By *uzy444Woman
over a year ago
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"I like men who look happy and smile in their pics
My smile frightens everyone away. yes but those dimples you show lure them in xx
You haven't seen my dimples.... have you? "
your bottom dimples are on show |
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