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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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It's just a pointless and overused term to give the recipient of a no the feeling that they are somehow superior .
Which is complete bullshit of course .
The people who say no thanks are in no way , shape or form losing out on anything . Other than a meet with ......Someone they didn't fancy .
So it's no loss at all , dignity and standards intact .
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"It's just a pointless and overused term to give the recipient of a no the feeling that they are somehow superior .
Which is complete bullshit of course .
The people who say no thanks are in no way , shape or form losing out on anything . Other than a meet with ......Someone they didn't fancy .
So it's no loss at all , dignity and standards intact .
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Context is everything so at some point it could be their loss.
Most scenarios posted on here, I agree, are not 'their loss'."
Exactly. A big difference between someone saying "your loss" if you say no to meeting, compared to someone who starts a thread about having a shit time and folk say "their loss" about whoever has upset them.
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Context is everything so at some point it could be their loss.
Most scenarios posted on here, I agree, are not 'their loss'.
Exactly. A big difference between someone saying "your loss" if you say no to meeting, compared to someone who starts a thread about having a shit time and folk say "their loss" about whoever has upset them.
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It's the second one that really gets on my tits  |
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"Context is everything so at some point it could be their loss.
Most scenarios posted on here, I agree, are not 'their loss'.
Exactly. A big difference between someone saying "your loss" if you say no to meeting, compared to someone who starts a thread about having a shit time and folk say "their loss" about whoever has upset them.
It's the second one that really gets on my tits "
I give a toss about maybe never getting onto OP's tits!
My loss!  |
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By *igeiaWoman
over a year ago
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It's an attempt to sweeten the pill when someone gets butthurt. Regardless of the reason for said butthurt, in most circumstances. Not something I think I've ever said; it's pretty patronising in most instances to both the hard done by party (where we only have one side of the story) and the person that had the audacity to turn them down/not turn up/change their mind etc. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Probably one of the most pointless and false things I see posted on the forums
Very true. And if people can't understand just how pointless and false it is well...it's their loss "
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Probably one of the most pointless and false things I see posted on the forums
Very true. And if people can't understand just how pointless and false it is well...it's their loss "
Because nobody gives a toss  |
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"Exactly. A big difference between someone saying "your loss" if you say no to meeting, compared to someone who starts a thread about having a shit time and folk say "their loss" about whoever has upset them."
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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COULD NOT DISSAGREE MORE,,,,,,,,,,,if ya don't adore me its your loss  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"the other day I got told 6 times it was my loss cos I refused to meet people lol
I don't think it was my loss lol "
But bits of your soul could be sucked into another dimension each time you say no?
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