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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

0 over here, took me 10 minutes to read through mine today but I've managed to get it done

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

0 the joys of being a single male!

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By *randMrs Spanish BrunetteCouple over a year ago

home sweet home

"0 over here, took me 10 minutes to read through mine today but I've managed to get it done

Show off

I can't stand having unread messages. I'm crazy like that

MrsSB

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By *icketysplitsWoman over a year ago

Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound

0 - the joys being a hidden female.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

0, it takes me 1 second to check my inbox lol.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

85. I'll get around to deleting them soon. They mount up when you're having conversations

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By *ENDAROOSCouple over a year ago

South West London / Surrey

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

none...I read all my messages

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

It is now at 100...after 2 months of not playing

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By *i1971Man over a year ago

Cornwall

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I had 2

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"0 over here, took me 10 minutes to read through mine today but I've managed to get it done

Show off

I can't stand having unread messages. I'm crazy like that

MrsSB

I'm going to send you one in another language so you can't read it

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

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By *rightonsteveMan over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

None. Zero. Nadda.

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By *uxom redCouple over a year ago

Shrewsbury

None

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

47 but I'm working my way through them

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By *randMrs Spanish BrunetteCouple over a year ago

home sweet home

"0 over here, took me 10 minutes to read through mine today but I've managed to get it done

Show off

I can't stand having unread messages. I'm crazy like that

MrsSB

I'm going to send you one in another language so you can't read it

Go on then

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"None. Zero. Nadda. "

Now you have one

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Hardly any. All my filters are set high.

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By *ammykingMan over a year ago

Lisburn

0 but then that's the norm for me and most single guys on here I think

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"Hardly any. All my filters are set high.

I can confirm

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"0 over here, took me 10 minutes to read through mine today but I've managed to get it done

Show off

I can't stand having unread messages. I'm crazy like that

MrsSB

I'm going to send you one in another language so you can't read it

Go on then

The message did not pan out as intended

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

245 unread... one day i recd 700 mssgs in one day! Im away to do a bulk delete.. i will never get thru them

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By *randMrs Spanish BrunetteCouple over a year ago

home sweet home

"0 over here, took me 10 minutes to read through mine today but I've managed to get it done

Show off

I can't stand having unread messages. I'm crazy like that

MrsSB

I'm going to send you one in another language so you can't read it

Go on then

The message did not pan out as intended

You made of sense

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

No messages too read

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

1028. It sort of becomes a full time job. Especially as at least 90% don't meet my wishes and haven't read my profile. The ones that just say "hi" are a complete waste of time!

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By *B9 QueenWoman over a year ago

Over the rainbow, under the bridge

None. I'm hidden so don't get messages.

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By *B9 QueenWoman over a year ago

Over the rainbow, under the bridge

"1028. It sort of becomes a full time job. Especially as at least 90% don't meet my wishes and haven't read my profile. The ones that just say "hi" are a complete waste of time! "

Have you set all your filters?

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By *umpPumpyMan over a year ago

London

Must of been on a d*unken got streak last night. Just logged on to see 3. Took me about 45 minutes to read them. 15 of those minutes to actually be able to focus.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"1028. It sort of becomes a full time job. Especially as at least 90% don't meet my wishes and haven't read my profile. The ones that just say "hi" are a complete waste of time!

Have you set all your filters? "

Yes. Unfortunately they don't have a minimum height filter!!

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

199 my bad

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"1028. It sort of becomes a full time job. Especially as at least 90% don't meet my wishes and haven't read my profile. The ones that just say "hi" are a complete waste of time! "

That's a lot!

Hmmm I'm between 18-50, just missing a few inches in height, don't have any wine and my sense of humour is rather eccentric

. But I have cheese, lots of it

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

45 unread messages make that 46

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

0. But that's cool...having no expectations means getting one is a surprise and not a chore like some seem to be experiencing?

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Messages what are they

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By *arksidesubCouple over a year ago

not far from you..

There is many..I just see the first part of the message then think nah!...

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

0 today, I had about 25 messages last night tho but they were only off two lovely ladies, not 25 different ones x

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

314.

I had them down to 0 but they've crept up again over the last week.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

648

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By *he girl with dreadlocksWoman over a year ago

need to know basis in Wolverhampton

244 I mean to go through them but I come to the forums instead lol

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"0 today, I had about 25 messages last night tho but they were only off two lovely ladies, not 25 different ones x"

25 messages in conversations are better than 25 "no thanks" messages

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By *odareyouMan over a year ago

not far from iceland,,,,,, tescos is nearer though :-) (near leeds)

7 at the moment, I've been busy for a couple of hours ..

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"0 today, I had about 25 messages last night tho but they were only off two lovely ladies, not 25 different ones x

25 messages in conversations are better than 25 "no thanks" messages

Yeah I'm not complaining, I had a couple of nice conversations that miraculously were started by the ladies.

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"648"

I'm sure they will read at some point

. And now, how many unread do you have in your inbox

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By *ikeC81Man over a year ago

harrow

0 I did have 1 a few secs Ago lol

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By *ikeC81Man over a year ago

harrow

"199 my bad

Wow how do you get through them all lol

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"648

I'm sure they will read at some point

. And now, how many unread do you have in your inbox

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By *elloWoman over a year ago

alpha centauri

Zero

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

7! Due to status shuffle yesterday and me having to change my status to, "so hungry for cock right now"

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

3 atm

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Zero. I always read them. I like to think I have a new pen pal.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"199 my bad

Wow how do you get through them all lol"

I don't Mike that's just it I get distracted reading these,I get to a point where I clear them as don't have time to read them all then they just fill up again.

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By *olden RatioWoman over a year ago

Buckinghamshire

Absolutely none.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Hardly any. All my filters are set high.

That explains it!

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

0 now short and sweet.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

7 But only because we have been away this weekend and I haven't had time to answer them. I try to keep our inbox at 0

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

0 messages here lol

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By *tephanie19631TV/TS over a year ago

oxford

None I always read and reply or block if there just fools

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

327 at the minute. The site deletes more messages than I do

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Very few answer mine...but such is fab.

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By *earl888take2Woman over a year ago

marton

None, doesn't take long to read 5 messages

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By *emplarWarriorMan over a year ago

Nottingham

Is there a minus option? hahahaha

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By *onbons_xxMan over a year ago

Bolton

None at the moment

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By *oward1978Man over a year ago

Rotherham

Much to my surprise, I've just logged on and I found I'd got a message! That was a most welcome surprise.

Anyway, I was feeling a bit overwhelmed...and sure it was tough going but I've now dealt with it. Back down to the usual zero now. Phew!!

*sits back and puts feet up*

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Is there a minus option? hahahaha"

I've had 45 today, I set up a woman's profile to keep up my self esteem. Apparently I'm the sexiest mofo in the universe!

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

85. And I answer a lot of mails. Just not all of them.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

zero here, which is pretty much the norm

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Too many. Then more people write to you.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

2 - the joys of being an popular female

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By *erdita Von TeaseWoman over a year ago

nottingham

194, Im rubbish at reading them unless they are from friends

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By *oul BrothaMan over a year ago

A Galaxy far far away

Now I understand that getting even a message is the equivalent of a Nobel prize. Fierce competition.

Oh and I have 1

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Non... don't get many..

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Non, not since we blocked men!!

G x

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By *eedsbig9inMan over a year ago

leeds

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

77,,unread

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

0 I've responded to all that were worth responding to !

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

399

just noticed i have finally hit 1000 winks. yay.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

0 as per usual

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

64.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Woke up this morning to 6, just logged in after an afternoon out to 2 woohoo!

In a minute I'll be back to nil

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"399

just noticed i have finally hit 1000 winks. yay. "

Where dose it say how many winks you get? X

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"399

just noticed i have finally hit 1000 winks. yay.

Where dose it say how many winks you get? X"

Home screen on the phone, or my account tab on web browser. (It shows new winks how, not how many you've got)

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By *ENDAROOSCouple over a year ago

South West London / Surrey

Wow, we went to 2 for a bit there. Now back to 0.

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By *am-RaiderMan over a year ago

Corby

Bugger all.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"194, Im rubbish at reading them unless they are from friends "

yea but 192 of em is from me

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Zero unread for me... I don't get that many, so I'm on it like sonic when they occatinaly come in... lol

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By *ittle missnaughtyWoman over a year ago

Doncaster

None

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By *r Greys AnatomyMan over a year ago

Llandudno

I've never had one read, and never get replies. Waste of time.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

None am male don't get that many

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"64. "

If only you had 5more, that would make me snigger!

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

1505

It's not dissimilar to my email account.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

0. My mail box resembles a single males on a daily basis

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By *osmicplusMan over a year ago

Birmingham

"0 - the joys being a hidden female.

0 - the joys of being fugly

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"0. My mail box resembles a single males on a daily basis

How do you keep up?!

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Only 506 I've cleared a lot out I usually have more than that

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By *pice of life 79Man over a year ago

lincoln, sleaford , grantham , nottingham

None I think I might be an ugly fucker or shit in bed lol

Not even my friends message me that often ha ha

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"0. My mail box resembles a single males on a daily basis

How do you keep up?! "

I seriously struggle tbh

just not enough hours in the day

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By *pice of life 79Man over a year ago

lincoln, sleaford , grantham , nottingham

"0. My mail box resembles a single males on a daily basis

Pull the other one lol

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By *iSTARessWoman over a year ago

London

Oh look, single women with hundreds of unread messages.

Enough moan that single chaps don't read their profile or use the magic word. What if some being ignored are fulfilling all requirements and are a perfect match?

If you aren't interested, pop your filters on.

I've 5. I like a tidy box

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

When I see the messages button light up yellow it's like christmas morning!!! lol happens once a year if I'm lucky : (

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Never despair guys....you can always send a message to yourself

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Oh look, single women with hundreds of unread messages.

Enough moan that single chaps don't read their profile or use the magic word. What if some being ignored are fulfilling all requirements and are a perfect match?

If you aren't interested, pop your filters on.

I've 5. I like a tidy box

Can you filter individual people

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Never despair guys....you can always send a message to yourself

I did that once to see if it could be done

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"Never despair guys....you can always send a message to yourself

I did that once to see if it could be done

Lol, I can't do it. I blocked single males

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I have a big fat zero.... I couldn't cope if I got one... Wouldn't know what the fuck to do... It would be headless chicken mode

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"1505

It's not dissimilar to my email account. "

i have 13,000+ in my email. none of it is spam would you believe.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"0. My mail box resembles a single males on a daily basis

Pull the other one lol

Nope I'm not pulling anything. I very rarely get mail and I'm happy with that

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By *andsonjohnMan over a year ago

in the eye of the storm

"0 over here, took me 10 minutes to read through mine today but I've managed to get it done

One that I logged onto this morning two during the day two more this evening due to discussing a forum post and topic so what's that 5 .

So my answers five .

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By *angtidy42Couple over a year ago

Redditch

None as we open them all. And reply thanks but it's a no or yes and chat.

Let's see

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By *essnervousnellyWoman over a year ago

london

753 though I'm new so will calm down I hope

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By *yldstyleWoman over a year ago

A world of my own

Only 118

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By *eliz NelsonMan over a year ago

The Tantric Tea Shop

3 when I got back from work

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"0. My mail box resembles a single males on a daily basis

Really, I'm shocked unless it's your filters...

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

140 today I really must get thro them all. Xxx

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Oh look, single women with hundreds of unread messages.

Enough moan that single chaps don't read their profile or use the magic word. What if some being ignored are fulfilling all requirements and are a perfect match?

If you aren't interested, pop your filters on.

I've 5. I like a tidy box

Yup, and moaning that well veri'd men didn't turn up, while refusing to meet unveri'd!

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"140 today I really must get thro them all. Xxx"

Do you need some help?

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"244 I mean to go through them but I come to the forums instead lol "

Hahaha that's me I just scan for the ones relating to my socials. Xxx

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"1505

It's not dissimilar to my email account.

i have 13,000+ in my email. none of it is spam would you believe.

I'm guessing you don't read your emails either.

I had to get a new email address at 46000....

It's become a problem at work. X

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"1505

It's not dissimilar to my email account.

i have 13,000+ in my email. none of it is spam would you believe.

I'm guessing you don't read your emails either.

I had to get a new email address at 46000....

It's become a problem at work. X"

I'm guessing the two of you don't have an Gmail account. Gmail sorts out the spam, promotions etc. from the rest.

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By *100Man over a year ago

Essex

I have 0 no body loves me

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

0 but we're filtered up to the eyeballs!

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"1028. It sort of becomes a full time job. Especially as at least 90% don't meet my wishes and haven't read my profile. The ones that just say "hi" are a complete waste of time!

Have you set all your filters?

Yes. Unfortunately they don't have a minimum height filter!!

This!

ILDM and I added new pics today too so our inboxes have gone crazy!!! I'm about to bulk delete because I can't face going through so many!

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"1505

It's not dissimilar to my email account.

i have 13,000+ in my email. none of it is spam would you believe.

I'm guessing you don't read your emails either.

I had to get a new email address at 46000....

It's become a problem at work. X

I'm guessing the two of you don't have an Gmail account. Gmail sorts out the spam, promotions etc. from the rest."

My gmail is 5217.

Gmail ain't helping jack!

I've got a yahoo account

A gmail

A work one

A fab one

Another site (I don't think I'm allowed to say)

I need to learn how to apply filters.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Oh look, single women with hundreds of unread messages.

Enough moan that single chaps don't read their profile or use the magic word. What if some being ignored are fulfilling all requirements and are a perfect match?

If you aren't interested, pop your filters on.

I've 5. I like a tidy box

But I've had 1000 TODAY!! I haven't got time to wade through all of that. The options are block single guys, or allow them to mail me. I don't want to block them because I do meet guys...so yeh.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"1505

It's not dissimilar to my email account.

i have 13,000+ in my email. none of it is spam would you believe.

I'm guessing you don't read your emails either.

I had to get a new email address at 46000....

It's become a problem at work. X"

yeah i tend to read the important ones but can see from the header that most i don't need to open.

i just leave it, gmail seems to have really good spam filters and i haven't seen any spam for well over a year now probably a few years.

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By *iSTARessWoman over a year ago

London

"Oh look, single women with hundreds of unread messages.

Enough moan that single chaps don't read their profile or use the magic word. What if some being ignored are fulfilling all requirements and are a perfect match?

If you aren't interested, pop your filters on.

I've 5. I like a tidy box

But I've had 1000 TODAY!! I haven't got time to wade through all of that. The options are block single guys, or allow them to mail me. I don't want to block them because I do meet guys...so yeh. "

1000 in one day? You're hot but find that hard to believe.

Just clear your inbox and start again.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Oh look, single women with hundreds of unread messages.

Enough moan that single chaps don't read their profile or use the magic word. What if some being ignored are fulfilling all requirements and are a perfect match?

If you aren't interested, pop your filters on.

I've 5. I like a tidy box

But I've had 1000 TODAY!! I haven't got time to wade through all of that. The options are block single guys, or allow them to mail me. I don't want to block them because I do meet guys...so yeh.

1000 in one day? You're hot but find that hard to believe.

Just clear your inbox and start again."

Say it like you see it!

It's like catchphrase.

Love it

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By *pice of life 79Man over a year ago

lincoln, sleaford , grantham , nottingham

"Oh look, single women with hundreds of unread messages.

Enough moan that single chaps don't read their profile or use the magic word. What if some being ignored are fulfilling all requirements and are a perfect match?

If you aren't interested, pop your filters on.

I've 5. I like a tidy box

But I've had 1000 TODAY!! I haven't got time to wade through all of that. The options are block single guys, or allow them to mail me. I don't want to block them because I do meet guys...so yeh.

1000 in one day? You're hot but find that hard to believe.

Just clear your inbox and start again."

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

minus 5 lol

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By *pice of life 79Man over a year ago

lincoln, sleaford , grantham , nottingham

"Oh look, single women with hundreds of unread messages.

Enough moan that single chaps don't read their profile or use the magic word. What if some being ignored are fulfilling all requirements and are a perfect match?

If you aren't interested, pop your filters on.

I've 5. I like a tidy box

Please make my day before I go to bed

Please send me a message lol

But I've had 1000 TODAY!! I haven't got time to wade through all of that. The options are block single guys, or allow them to mail me. I don't want to block them because I do meet guys...so yeh.

1000 in one day? You're hot but find that hard to believe.

Just clear your inbox and start again."

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Oh look, single women with hundreds of unread messages.

Enough moan that single chaps don't read their profile or use the magic word. What if some being ignored are fulfilling all requirements and are a perfect match?

If you aren't interested, pop your filters on.

I've 5. I like a tidy box

Please make my day before I go to bed

Please send me a message lol

But I've had 1000 TODAY!! I haven't got time to wade through all of that. The options are block single guys, or allow them to mail me. I don't want to block them because I do meet guys...so yeh.

1000 in one day? You're hot but find that hard to believe.

Just clear your inbox and start again."

You having problems there?

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By *iSTARessWoman over a year ago

London

"Oh look, single women with hundreds of unread messages.

Enough moan that single chaps don't read their profile or use the magic word. What if some being ignored are fulfilling all requirements and are a perfect match?

If you aren't interested, pop your filters on.

I've 5. I like a tidy box

But I've had 1000 TODAY!! I haven't got time to wade through all of that. The options are block single guys, or allow them to mail me. I don't want to block them because I do meet guys...so yeh.

1000 in one day? You're hot but find that hard to believe.

Just clear your inbox and start again.

Say it like you see it!

It's like catchphrase.

Love it

Well...y'know....

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Oh look, single women with hundreds of unread messages.

Enough moan that single chaps don't read their profile or use the magic word. What if some being ignored are fulfilling all requirements and are a perfect match?

If you aren't interested, pop your filters on.

I've 5. I like a tidy box

But I've had 1000 TODAY!! I haven't got time to wade through all of that. The options are block single guys, or allow them to mail me. I don't want to block them because I do meet guys...so yeh.

1000 in one day? You're hot but find that hard to believe.

Just clear your inbox and start again."

That's the problem though. We're not asking them to whisper magic words in our ear. Just not clog our inbox with one word messages or read our profiles to work out we have height preferences. I bulk deleted at 3am this morning and am now sat at over 1100 messages. I suppose it depends on what you see as hot because clearly others are seeing different to yourself!

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I have a big fat zero.... I couldn't cope if I got one... Wouldn't know what the fuck to do... It would be headless chicken mode "
lol

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Oh look, single women with hundreds of unread messages.

Enough moan that single chaps don't read their profile or use the magic word. What if some being ignored are fulfilling all requirements and are a perfect match?

If you aren't interested, pop your filters on.

I've 5. I like a tidy box

But I've had 1000 TODAY!! I haven't got time to wade through all of that. The options are block single guys, or allow them to mail me. I don't want to block them because I do meet guys...so yeh.

1000 in one day? You're hot but find that hard to believe.

Just clear your inbox and start again.

Did you just delete all read messages?

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Oh look, single women with hundreds of unread messages.

Enough moan that single chaps don't read their profile or use the magic word. What if some being ignored are fulfilling all requirements and are a perfect match?

If you aren't interested, pop your filters on.

I've 5. I like a tidy box

But I've had 1000 TODAY!! I haven't got time to wade through all of that. The options are block single guys, or allow them to mail me. I don't want to block them because I do meet guys...so yeh.

1000 in one day? You're hot but find that hard to believe.

Just clear your inbox and start again.

Did you just delete all read messages?"

No. I deleted all messages

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Oh look, single women with hundreds of unread messages.

Enough moan that single chaps don't read their profile or use the magic word. What if some being ignored are fulfilling all requirements and are a perfect match?

If you aren't interested, pop your filters on.

I've 5. I like a tidy box

But I've had 1000 TODAY!! I haven't got time to wade through all of that. The options are block single guys, or allow them to mail me. I don't want to block them because I do meet guys...so yeh.

1000 in one day? You're hot but find that hard to believe.

Just clear your inbox and start again.

Best thing to do is hide your profile 1st.

Then go through your inbox, if you think there might be something of interest, skim through.

Then bulk delete.

Unhide profile.

Et voila

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Oh look, single women with hundreds of unread messages.

Enough moan that single chaps don't read their profile or use the magic word. What if some being ignored are fulfilling all requirements and are a perfect match?

If you aren't interested, pop your filters on.

I've 5. I like a tidy box

But I've had 1000 TODAY!! I haven't got time to wade through all of that. The options are block single guys, or allow them to mail me. I don't want to block them because I do meet guys...so yeh.

1000 in one day? You're hot but find that hard to believe.

Just clear your inbox and start again.

Best thing to do is hide your profile 1st.

Then go through your inbox, if you think there might be something of interest, skim through.

Then bulk delete.

Unhide profile.

Et voila

good one is to block everyone from messaging as well while you go through what you already have. i don't even get 1000+ a day though so idk if this will actually help...

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By *inky-MinxWoman over a year ago

Grantham

Right now only 2 but I've been working on them

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By *lue NarwhalMan over a year ago

Iceland, but Aldi is closer..

0 here..

Fecking hundreds on my work computer...

Would say it's cos I have my priorities in order.. Unfortunately not.

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By *ficouldMan over a year ago

a quandary, could you change my mind?

No unread.... ALways clear the messages first..

Then it's have a read of the forums

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By *ust RachelTV/TS over a year ago

Horsham

I don't have any unread messages.

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By *eliciousladyWoman over a year ago

Sometimes U.K

but am just sending a couple to forumites as a surprise _ello

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

1 woohoo

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

38 left from when my filters were open

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Does the OP mean messages received that I haven't read? If so its none as I read all three earlier when I logged on.

If they mean ones I've sent that have not been read....just a few. The recipients don't appear to have been online since I sent them so that's no surprise.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

currently 94 after deleting loads.

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By *odareyouMan over a year ago

not far from iceland,,,,,, tescos is nearer though :-) (near leeds)

My inbox this morning after getting my beauty sleep 7..

at this very moment 1...I think it's from my bathroom mirror saying get more sleep ..

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By *iforfun999Man over a year ago

Haverfordwest

Unread messages.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

894

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman over a year ago

The Town by The Cross

About twenty bendy cos ' I like eating a banana like it's a cock' .....

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

What is this thing you call a message?

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Now? Nil. Nada. Zip. Zero.

Deleted all of my inbox and sent box so it's all literally gleaming and clean

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Mine is still 100

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By *ady LickWoman over a year ago

Northampton Somewhere

91 I should delete the lot as I don't have time/can't be bothered to go through them. But my FOMO keeps saying no!!!!

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By *edRidingWolfCouple over a year ago

Lydney

23 unread

Another 25/26 that need replies

Will get on it this afternoon

Red x

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By *ultry SuccubusTV/TS over a year ago

London

"23 unread

Another 25/26 that need replies

Will get on it this afternoon

Red x

Wow..you make swinging sounds like work.

Can I apply to be your secretary??

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Bloody none for me

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By *ife adventurerMan over a year ago

North Essex

Let me just check .... Ahh that will be none then

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By *urvymamaWoman over a year ago

Doncaster

Currently 87 though that will sky rocket tomorrow evening when I advertise I'm looking to meet

Last time I added a meet now I received over 200 messages within the first hour

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By *edRidingWolfCouple over a year ago

Lydney

"23 unread

Another 25/26 that need replies

Will get on it this afternoon

Red x

Wow..you make swinging sounds like work.

Can I apply to be your secretary??

Please do!

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By *r Greys AnatomyMan over a year ago

Llandudno

1000000 sent and zero read or replied to, freakin waste of time .

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By *r Greys AnatomyMan over a year ago

Llandudno

1000000 sent and zero read or replied to, freakin waste of time .

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

None because it's the first thing I sort through when I log in

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

0 i read all my messages x

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Still zero, no messages for a few days nows

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By *ee VianteWoman over a year ago

Somewhere in North Norfolk

It was 70-something when I hid myself. I left them and gradually the site has taken care of them. I feel a bit bad because some of them deserved or were due responses but I wasn't capable of dealing with them at the time.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

1, but in just about to answer it..

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By *ee VianteWoman over a year ago

Somewhere in North Norfolk

"Still zero, no messages for a few days nows"

Meh. I sent you one when you asked.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

0 i think we might be mingers??

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

none.

I don't get many messages

I'm always complaining about this but I've set me own filters....

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By *r Greys AnatomyMan over a year ago

Llandudno

"0 i think we might be mingers??

I know the feeling

zero interest whatsoever from anyone .. Soul destroying

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By *ohn Wilson96Man over a year ago

from inside your wardrobe

If the day I'm checking my inbox ends in a Y then it's usually none surprise surprise.

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