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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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My wife and I have a wonderful relationship and an equally wonderful sex life. Sometimes she has a male who comes to our house and they have sex together, sometimes I join in and sometimes I go out the house and ask her to tell me all about it. This is a massive, massive turn on for me.
But also on occasions I go to a local spot where I meet other guys and usually have a wank or at the most a BJ - this is also with the wifes blessing, provided I tell her all the details because this turns her on in much the same way as she turns me on fucking our mutual friend.
I don't look around and see a guy and think phwooaaarr I fancy him - blokes do not normally turn me on except in the situation to which I refer, or watching a bloke on cam wanking and seeing him cum. Some folks class that as gay and other don't so I'm interested in others' opinions. I don't think I'm gay in the slightest btw  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I would describe you as bisexual.
Whatever the liberals on here say you're not straight if you enjoy popping off to a local spot for a BJ with other guys even if you 'don't fancy them'.
Embrace it - don't be ashamed of the word - if you're bi you're bi - be happy about it and continue to enjoy what you do!  |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Thanks for the replies so far guys - yep we're both perfectly happy with the situation, it has and still works well for us.
I really couldn't give a fig what anyone call me to be honest. Most are probably just jealous at what we have going, whilst they have to sneak about behind their partners back lol
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By (user no longer on site)
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"My wife and I have a wonderful relationship and an equally wonderful sex life. Sometimes she has a male who comes to our house and they have sex together, sometimes I join in and sometimes I go out the house and ask her to tell me all about it. This is a massive, massive turn on for me.
But also on occasions I go to a local spot where I meet other guys and usually have a wank or at the most a BJ - this is also with the wifes blessing, provided I tell her all the details because this turns her on in much the same way as she turns me on fucking our mutual friend.
I don't look around and see a guy and think phwooaaarr I fancy him - blokes do not normally turn me on except in the situation to which I refer, or watching a bloke on cam wanking and seeing him cum. Some folks class that as gay and other don't so I'm interested in others' opinions. I don't think I'm gay in the slightest btw "
You are sexually fluid. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Are you happy ?
Is your wife happy ?
That's all the matters
The opinions of strangers is irrelevant
Couldn't have put it better myself "
Agreed. I am much the same and I categorise myself simply as.......sexual  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Sounds like you're bi but who needs labels really. "
I never get why people always say 'don't worry about labels' - the term is a description of what someone is surely?
If you won't eat meat then you're a vegetarian.
If your hair is naturally brown or black you're a brunette.
If you're looking for carrot in a greengrocers then you don't say 'can I have vegetable of orange colour, with green leaves out the top and kind of long and pointy. I'm sure it has a name but I don't want to give it a label'. You ask for a carrot don't you?
If you like cock AND pussy then you're bisexual aren't you? Simples? Nothing to be ashamed of - as I said earlier embrace it and keep having fun! |
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"Sounds like you're bi but who needs labels really.
I never get why people always say 'don't worry about labels' - the term is a description of what someone is surely?
If you won't eat meat then you're a vegetarian.
If your hair is naturally brown or black you're a brunette.
If you're looking for carrot in a greengrocers then you don't say 'can I have vegetable of orange colour, with green leaves out the top and kind of long and pointy. I'm sure it has a name but I don't want to give it a label'. You ask for a carrot don't you?
If you like cock AND pussy then you're bisexual aren't you? Simples? Nothing to be ashamed of - as I said earlier embrace it and keep having fun! "
....labels are probably more important on here as people are making informed choices about who they want to meet so the clearer you are the better. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Sounds like you're bi but who needs labels really.
I never get why people always say 'don't worry about labels' - the term is a description of what someone is surely?
If you won't eat meat then you're a vegetarian.
If your hair is naturally brown or black you're a brunette.
If you're looking for carrot in a greengrocers then you don't say 'can I have vegetable of orange colour, with green leaves out the top and kind of long and pointy. I'm sure it has a name but I don't want to give it a label'. You ask for a carrot don't you?
If you like cock AND pussy then you're bisexual aren't you? Simples? Nothing to be ashamed of - as I said earlier embrace it and keep having fun! "
Because people get so hung up on them.
I was guilty of that myself when I first got here. If a straight guy messaged I'd get on my high horse about his honesty. Now I don't even look to see what orientation he claims to be. If I find him attractive we play.  |
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