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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Hi
I find quite a few people requesting bare back fun with complete strangers. Sounds bonkers and a silly health risk. Especially on fab. Anyone else feel the same |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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It's not a risk if you have sex with people that don't have diseases. If you can talk about having sex and arranging to meet then I think you can also discuss how you want to be fucked and arrange for you both to have tests beforehand to make sure you're both ok to go ahead. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Yeah it blew my mind, especially when then started messaging me! Not down for stuff like that. Very selfish thing to be doing, and ridiculously irresponsible. They were a 35-40yr old couple as well, not a pair of 18yr olds. Crazy |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"It's not a risk if you have sex with people that don't have diseases. If you can talk about having sex and arranging to meet then I think you can also discuss how you want to be fucked and arrange for you both to have tests beforehand to make sure you're both ok to go ahead. "
yes but not everyone's that honest or trustworthy,,,,,so be careful |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"It's not a risk if you have sex with people that don't have diseases. If you can talk about having sex and arranging to meet then I think you can also discuss how you want to be fucked and arrange for you both to have tests beforehand to make sure you're both ok to go ahead. "
what random stranger is going to get tested just to bareback you ?
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By (user no longer on site)
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"It's not a risk if you have sex with people that don't have diseases. If you can talk about having sex and arranging to meet then I think you can also discuss how you want to be fucked and arrange for you both to have tests beforehand to make sure you're both ok to go ahead. what random stranger is going to get tested just to bareback you ? "
exactly,,why risk it |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"It's not a risk if you have sex with people that don't have diseases. If you can talk about having sex and arranging to meet then I think you can also discuss how you want to be fucked and arrange for you both to have tests beforehand to make sure you're both ok to go ahead. what random stranger is going to get tested just to bareback you ?
exactly,,why risk it"
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"No. I assume everyone is barebacking and adjust my behaviour accordingly, because I can't control anyone else's.  better to play it safe I think"
So no sex ever. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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seriously,,when I was younger did some really stupid things,fuck knows how I never caught anything but sadly know folk that did.
nah,,id rather play safe |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Yeah I find it really odd! I've even seen a couple requesting bareback only and claiming they want to be made pregnant by someone! Like wtf  "
I've had two such requests.....that's what the block button is for! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Yeah I find it really odd! I've even seen a couple requesting bareback only and claiming they want to be made pregnant by someone! Like wtf
I've had two such requests.....that's what the block button is for!"
Where is the block button?!? I need this in my life!  |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"No. I assume everyone is barebacking and adjust my behaviour accordingly, because I can't control anyone else's. better to play it safe I think
So no sex ever. "
just get a condom |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"No. I assume everyone is barebacking and adjust my behaviour accordingly, because I can't control anyone else's. better to play it safe I think
So no sex ever. just get a condom"
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Yeah I find it really odd! I've even seen a couple requesting bareback only and claiming they want to be made pregnant by someone! Like wtf
I've had two such requests.....that's what the block button is for!
Where is the block button?!? I need this in my life! "
Dude it's the stuff of legends. Awesome |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"No. I assume everyone is barebacking and adjust my behaviour accordingly, because I can't control anyone else's. better to play it safe I think
So no sex ever. "
have you heard of condoms  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"It's not a risk if you have sex with people that don't have diseases. If you can talk about having sex and arranging to meet then I think you can also discuss how you want to be fucked and arrange for you both to have tests beforehand to make sure you're both ok to go ahead. what random stranger is going to get tested just to bareback you ? "
I don't fuck random strangers. In 6 years on here I've had sex with 4 people. One of those I was in a relationship with for 16 months. I'd make sure I was fine before I shagged anyone and I'd be in contact with that person leading up to them having the test and results and then I'd proceed. I only want one guy to be exclusive with whilst we are shagging and so far I believe he is. If he wanted to shag anyone else then I feel he's brave enough to tell me and he would know the sun has set on our time of shagging. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"yes its dumb
So you can't hear an unprotected cock up yer bum then Mikki  
might look like a bimbo but I'm not stupid
Way to go sis, you look more and more beautiful each and every day  "
yes,,im 53.7% more gorgeous than yesterday |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"No. I assume everyone is barebacking and adjust my behaviour accordingly, because I can't control anyone else's. better to play it safe I think
So no sex ever. just get a condom"
Condoms don't make sex 'safe'. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Wow ! You just wouldn't even consider it would you.
A guy I was planning on meeting told me there was no need to use a condom for anal because "it's not the same" I hit the block button |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"It's not a risk if you have sex with people that don't have diseases. If you can talk about having sex and arranging to meet then I think you can also discuss how you want to be fucked and arrange for you both to have tests beforehand to make sure you're both ok to go ahead. what random stranger is going to get tested just to bareback you ?
I don't fuck random strangers. In 6 years on here I've had sex with 4 people. One of those I was in a relationship with for 16 months. I'd make sure I was fine before I shagged anyone and I'd be in contact with that person leading up to them having the test and results and then I'd proceed. I only want one guy to be exclusive with whilst we are shagging and so far I believe he is. If he wanted to shag anyone else then I feel he's brave enough to tell me and he would know the sun has set on our time of shagging. "
An exclusive partner on the swinging scene? Does that not defeat the whole purpose of swinging? I could understand if you were a couple |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Wow ! You just wouldn't even consider it would you.
A guy I was planning on meeting told me there was no need to use a condom for anal because "it's not the same" I hit the block button "
That was the right call hun |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"No. I assume everyone is barebacking and adjust my behaviour accordingly, because I can't control anyone else's. better to play it safe I think
So no sex ever. just get a condom
Condoms don't make sex 'safe'. "
Huh? |
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"No. I assume everyone is barebacking and adjust my behaviour accordingly, because I can't control anyone else's. "
this..
same as when I cycled or rode a motorbike, would assume that every vehicle driver was out to get me..
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By (user no longer on site)
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"It's not a risk if you have sex with people that don't have diseases. If you can talk about having sex and arranging to meet then I think you can also discuss how you want to be fucked and arrange for you both to have tests beforehand to make sure you're both ok to go ahead. what random stranger is going to get tested just to bareback you ?
I don't fuck random strangers. In 6 years on here I've had sex with 4 people. One of those I was in a relationship with for 16 months. I'd make sure I was fine before I shagged anyone and I'd be in contact with that person leading up to them having the test and results and then I'd proceed. I only want one guy to be exclusive with whilst we are shagging and so far I believe he is. If he wanted to shag anyone else then I feel he's brave enough to tell me and he would know the sun has set on our time of shagging.
An exclusive partner on the swinging scene? Does that not defeat the whole purpose of swinging? I could understand if you were a couple "
I'm not on here to swing though. I'm not a swinger at all by any means and neither are the guys I meet. Guys I speak to want one regular bird to shag. I only need one regular guy to shag. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Wow ! You just wouldn't even consider it would you.
A guy I was planning on meeting told me there was no need to use a condom for anal because "it's not the same" I hit the block button
That was the right call hun"
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"yes its dumb
So you can't hear an unprotected cock up yer bum then Mikki
might look like a bimbo but I'm not stupid
Way to go sis, you look more and more beautiful each and every day
yes,,im 53.7% more gorgeous than yesterday "
OMG,,,im 74.8% more gorgeous than 20 mins ago |
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"You can consider medication that is as effective as condoms.
try telling people that have died from aids that "
I lost a close friend and partner to Aids, but new treatments today are cutting infection rates dramatically. Eg,useable if one partner is infected by their partner. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"You can consider medication that is as effective as condoms.
try telling people that have died from aids that
I lost a close friend and partner to Aids, but new treatments today are cutting infection rates dramatically. Eg,useable if one partner is infected by their partner. "
People can simple avoid that by having protected sex. It's not 100% but it's better than 0 |
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"You can consider medication that is as effective as condoms.
try telling people that have died from aids that
I lost a close friend and partner to Aids, but new treatments today are cutting infection rates dramatically. Eg,useable if one partner is infected by their partner.
People can simple avoid that by having protected sex. It's not 100% but it's better than 0"
It's an alternative protection that is seeing rates decrease, whilst condom use before had seen rates increasing.
Losing my friend and his partner is something that I'd love to never see again for anyone.
If people are exposed to risk there is also medication that can help after potential exposure. I think it's good for us all to be well informed about things as well as possible. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Wow ! You just wouldn't even consider it would you.
A guy I was planning on meeting told me there was no need to use a condom for anal because "it's not the same" I hit the block button "
I saw a profile that said "not on the pill so condoms are a must, bare anal is fine"  |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Wow ! You just wouldn't even consider it would you.
A guy I was planning on meeting told me there was no need to use a condom for anal because "it's not the same" I hit the block button
I saw a profile that said "not on the pill so condoms are a must, bare anal is fine" "
Hahaha just leaves you speechless |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"No. I assume everyone is barebacking and adjust my behaviour accordingly, because I can't control anyone else's. better to play it safe I think
So no sex ever. just get a condom
Condoms don't make sex 'safe'.
Huh? "
Condoms don't prevent all sexually transmitted diseases, Google it x |
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I'm trying to muster up some righteous indignation about how other adults choose to conduct their sex lives.
Unfortunately, I've fallen off my moral high horse. Hmmm...I'm on a sex site, indulging in high risk activity, but because I use a condom that allows me to condemn those taking higher risk than me?!!
Alrighty then...I'm appalled at the shenanigans going on in here. May I recommend my website, hazmatwearforboudoir.com.  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"It's not a risk if you have sex with people that don't have diseases. If you can talk about having sex and arranging to meet then I think you can also discuss how you want to be fucked and arrange for you both to have tests beforehand to make sure you're both ok to go ahead.
yes but not everyone's that honest or trustworthy,,,,,so be careful"
And your test is only as good as the day it's done....doesit pick up dormant STIs? Some reveal themselves 3 to 6 weeks later. |
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Sorry, no bareback here! Any test is only as good as the day it is done; 2 mins after test is done, could shag bare and catch whatever so, like anything, can only reduce risk slightly. Condoms are much better at reducing that risk and whether your balls are wet is irrelevant as it ain't crossing the mucosal barrier (unless there is a cut that allows entry to the body). Why take that risk? Their choice - won't be going near us though and that's our choice |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"No. I assume everyone is barebacking and adjust my behaviour accordingly, because I can't control anyone else's. better to play it safe I think
So no sex ever. just get a condom
Condoms don't make sex 'safe'.
Huh?
Condoms don't prevent all sexually transmitted diseases, Google it x"
WHAT? They don't!? They should put that on the box!!! |
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"No. I assume everyone is barebacking and adjust my behaviour accordingly, because I can't control anyone else's. better to play it safe I think
So no sex ever. just get a condom
Condoms don't make sex 'safe'.
Huh?
Condoms don't prevent all sexually transmitted diseases, Google it x
WHAT? They don't!? They should put that on the box!!! "
Blimey, I should watch Friends, not seen it in ages lol |
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"No. I assume everyone is barebacking and adjust my behaviour accordingly, because I can't control anyone else's. better to play it safe I think
So no sex ever. just get a condom
Condoms don't make sex 'safe'.
Huh?
Condoms don't prevent all sexually transmitted diseases, Google it x
WHAT? They don't!? They should put that on the box!!! "
I'm guessing that they're very careful to not promote any guarantees with their condoms.
Condoms and other options, including medication as prophylaxis treatment, can make sex safer - based on large population studies. A single virgin could have sex one time and catch many different infections, whilst using protection - it's statistically very unlikely though.
Younger people are now receiving more prophylactic treatments, compared to us of other generations, where there remains a high prevalence of various infections that we've been exposed to.
STI clinics do not test for everything, so you will likely not know what has infected you with honesty.
Other countries are doing better than here, where greater steps are being taken to reduce new hiv infection rates - and they're successful.
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By (user no longer on site)
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"No. I assume everyone is barebacking and adjust my behaviour accordingly, because I can't control anyone else's. better to play it safe I think
So no sex ever. just get a condom
Condoms don't make sex 'safe'.
Huh?
Condoms don't prevent all sexually transmitted diseases, Google it x
WHAT? They don't!? They should put that on the box!!!
Blimey, I should watch Friends, not seen it in ages lol"
When friends was at its peak, the vast majority of people had a choice of 4 channels so shows had huge viewer figures.
The curse of today's choice of 1,000's of channels is that you'll never get the same critical mass who share the same cultural references.
Game of Thrones is considered a smash hit today, but Friends had 3-4x more viewers. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"It will go with the other top lies
I love you
Of course I won't cum in your mouth
The cheque is in the post
Of course I am clean"
Hahah off course I took a test too and I'm all clean |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"It's not a risk if you have sex with people that don't have diseases. If you can talk about having sex and arranging to meet then I think you can also discuss how you want to be fucked and arrange for you both to have tests beforehand to make sure you're both ok to go ahead. what random stranger is going to get tested just to bareback you ?
I don't fuck random strangers. In 6 years on here I've had sex with 4 people. One of those I was in a relationship with for 16 months. I'd make sure I was fine before I shagged anyone and I'd be in contact with that person leading up to them having the test and results and then I'd proceed. I only want one guy to be exclusive with whilst we are shagging and so far I believe he is. If he wanted to shag anyone else then I feel he's brave enough to tell me and he would know the sun has set on our time of shagging. "
Sorry but are you really That naive after 6 years on here? |
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By *arry247Couple
over a year ago
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Condoms don't make sex 'safe'. "
It is surprising how many on this forum do not understand this basic fact about safety.
There is no such thing as safe sex, people can make sex less risky but they can never remove the risk completely. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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Condoms don't make sex 'safe'.
It is surprising how many on this forum do not understand this basic fact about safety.
There is no such thing as safe sex, people can make sex less risky but they can never remove the risk completely."
Well at least with condoms the risk is reduced by a large % |
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"Yeah it blew my mind, especially when then started messaging me! Not down for stuff like that. Very selfish thing to be doing, and ridiculously irresponsible. They were a 35-40yr old couple as well, not a pair of 18yr olds. Crazy"
It's not selfish or irresponsible if they are being open and tell you about it .
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By *ficouldMan
over a year ago
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"Hi
I find quite a few people requesting bare back fun with complete strangers. Sounds bonkers and a silly health risk. Especially on fab. Anyone else feel the same "
"Especially on fab" is it really any different to any other site / meeting people for sex. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I've had a few meets where the guys haven't even brought a condom Are they hoping that I wouldn't have any and just say yeah go on just this once."
Jeez I said I'd pull out |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I've had a few meets where the guys haven't even brought a condom Are they hoping that I wouldn't have any and just say yeah go on just this once.
Jeez I said I'd pull out "
Or biscuit tin method
He stands on a biscuit tin and make love to you, when you see him cumming you kick the biscuit tin away |
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Of course statically you more likely to die in a car crash on way to the meet, but then that's why we reduce the risk by wearing seat belt...life is a risk, and it will always result in death, enjoy it while you can and moderate the risk vs the living it....
As a famous song says, where sunscreen  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"It's not a risk if you have sex with people that don't have diseases. If you can talk about having sex and arranging to meet then I think you can also discuss how you want to be fucked and arrange for you both to have tests beforehand to make sure you're both ok to go ahead. what random stranger is going to get tested just to bareback you ?
I don't fuck random strangers. In 6 years on here I've had sex with 4 people. One of those I was in a relationship with for 16 months. I'd make sure I was fine before I shagged anyone and I'd be in contact with that person leading up to them having the test and results and then I'd proceed. I only want one guy to be exclusive with whilst we are shagging and so far I believe he is. If he wanted to shag anyone else then I feel he's brave enough to tell me and he would know the sun has set on our time of shagging.
An exclusive partner on the swinging scene? Does that not defeat the whole purpose of swinging? I could understand if you were a couple "
And this is why - despite certain individuals who say its a swingers site only - Fab, in reality is a sex site used as a sex site should be. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"It's not a risk if you have sex with people that don't have diseases. If you can talk about having sex and arranging to meet then I think you can also discuss how you want to be fucked and arrange for you both to have tests beforehand to make sure you're both ok to go ahead. what random stranger is going to get tested just to bareback you ?
I don't fuck random strangers. In 6 years on here I've had sex with 4 people. One of those I was in a relationship with for 16 months. I'd make sure I was fine before I shagged anyone and I'd be in contact with that person leading up to them having the test and results and then I'd proceed. I only want one guy to be exclusive with whilst we are shagging and so far I believe he is. If he wanted to shag anyone else then I feel he's brave enough to tell me and he would know the sun has set on our time of shagging.
An exclusive partner on the swinging scene? Does that not defeat the whole purpose of swinging? I could understand if you were a couple
And this is why - despite certain individuals who say its a swingers site only - Fab, in reality is a sex site used as a sex site should be. "
You got a valid point but you seem to forget that sex is part of swinging but swinging goes way beyond just having sex. It encompasses fantasies, groups, friendship and loads more |
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"I've had a few meets where the guys haven't even brought a condom Are they hoping that I wouldn't have any and just say yeah go on just this once.
Jeez I said I'd pull out
Or biscuit tin method
He stands on a biscuit tin and make love to you, when you see him cumming you kick the biscuit tin away "
Hahahaha that's a new one to me |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"It's not a risk if you have sex with people that don't have diseases. If you can talk about having sex and arranging to meet then I think you can also discuss how you want to be fucked and arrange for you both to have tests beforehand to make sure you're both ok to go ahead. "
And wait for, is it three months? For the hiv test result? I doubt many would.
Use a condom, all the time, and don't suck or have penetrative sex until you know the person better and what his or her lifestyle choices entail. |
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[Or biscuit tin method
He stands on a biscuit tin and make love to you, when you see him cumming you kick the biscuit tin away]
I usually stay well away from these threads, but this just made me laugh! |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"[Or biscuit tin method
He stands on a biscuit tin and make love to you, when you see him cumming you kick the biscuit tin away]
I usually stay well away from these threads, but this just made me laugh! "
It's too hilarious |
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By *arry247Couple
over a year ago
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The evidence based proof starts with the forums where those who shave complain of in growing hair and abscesses after shaving, both examples of entry points for STIs.
There is also the article below
"As director of the health centre at Western University in Washington State, US, she has seen the consequences. 'Pubic hair removal naturally irritates and inflames the hair follicles, leaving microscopic open wounds. Frequent hair removal is necessary to stay smooth, causing regular irritation of the shaved or waxed area. When that is combined with the warm, moist environment of the genitals, it becomes a happy culture media for some of the nastiest bacterial pathogens.'...
In her practice it is not unusual to find patients with boils and abscesses on their genitals from shaving as well as cellulitis, an infection of the scrotum, labia or penis from shaving or from having sex with someone infected. Herpes is also an increased risk 'due to the microscopic wounds being exposed to virus carried by mouth or genitals.'
We then proceed through current surgical procedure where shaving as been stopped and the recent case study with regards to the STI molluscum contagiosum.
Other skin issues were also noted among the study participants, which may also have been related to the pubic hair removal. These included:
Warts (the researchers suggested shaving your pubic hair may also increase the risk of genital warts caused by the human papillomavirus (HPV))
Bacterial skin infections
Scars
Ingrown hairs
There is plenty online about shaving try googling
does shaving risk sti
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By *urpurseCouple
over a year ago
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I know this will be really controversial but the evidence suggests that hair free isnt as clean and hygenic as a lot of people seem to put on their profiles...............
https://www.theguardian.com/commentisfree/2012/aug/07/pubic-hair-has-job-stop-shaving |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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What business is it of anyone?
If people want to bareback let them everyone on here is a grown adult able to make an informed choice about sexual health and weather to take a risk or not.
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I know this will be really controversial but the evidence suggests that hair free isnt as clean and hygenic as a lot of people seem to put on their profiles...............
https://www.theguardian.com/commentisfree/2012/aug/07/pubic-hair-has-job-stop-shaving"
Yeah but evidence suggests it looks better |
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By *urpurseCouple
over a year ago
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"I know this will be really controversial but the evidence suggests that hair free isnt as clean and hygenic as a lot of people seem to put on their profiles...............
https://www.theguardian.com/commentisfree/2012/aug/07/pubic-hair-has-job-stop-shaving
Yeah but evidence suggests it looks better "
Fair play comment indeed!!! LOL!! just trying to play devils advocate and point out that if anyone is being purely holier than thou about bareback then people need to consider there are many other risks attached to this lifestyle and condom use in isolation will not solve them all!! |
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over a year ago
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"I know this will be really controversial but the evidence suggests that hair free isnt as clean and hygenic as a lot of people seem to put on their profiles...............
https://www.theguardian.com/commentisfree/2012/aug/07/pubic-hair-has-job-stop-shaving
Yeah but evidence suggests it looks better
Fair play comment indeed!!! LOL!! just trying to play devils advocate and point out that if anyone is being purely holier than thou about bareback then people need to consider there are many other risks attached to this lifestyle and condom use in isolation will not solve them all!! "
Lol doing a good job so far |
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By *urpurseCouple
over a year ago
North West |
"I know this will be really controversial but the evidence suggests that hair free isnt as clean and hygenic as a lot of people seem to put on their profiles...............
https://www.theguardian.com/commentisfree/2012/aug/07/pubic-hair-has-job-stop-shaving
Yeah but evidence suggests it looks better
Fair play comment indeed!!! LOL!! just trying to play devils advocate and point out that if anyone is being purely holier than thou about bareback then people need to consider there are many other risks attached to this lifestyle and condom use in isolation will not solve them all!!
Lol doing a good job so far "
Indeed I am! naughty me!! |
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over a year ago
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"I know this will be really controversial but the evidence suggests that hair free isnt as clean and hygenic as a lot of people seem to put on their profiles...............
https://www.theguardian.com/commentisfree/2012/aug/07/pubic-hair-has-job-stop-shaving
Yeah but evidence suggests it looks better
Fair play comment indeed!!! LOL!! just trying to play devils advocate and point out that if anyone is being purely holier than thou about bareback then people need to consider there are many other risks attached to this lifestyle and condom use in isolation will not solve them all!!
Lol doing a good job so far
Indeed I am! naughty me!!"
Naughty ladies deserve a good spanking |
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By *urpurseCouple
over a year ago
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"I know this will be really controversial but the evidence suggests that hair free isnt as clean and hygenic as a lot of people seem to put on their profiles...............
https://www.theguardian.com/commentisfree/2012/aug/07/pubic-hair-has-job-stop-shaving
Yeah but evidence suggests it looks better
Fair play comment indeed!!! LOL!! just trying to play devils advocate and point out that if anyone is being purely holier than thou about bareback then people need to consider there are many other risks attached to this lifestyle and condom use in isolation will not solve them all!!
Lol doing a good job so far
Indeed I am! naughty me!!
Naughty ladies deserve a good spanking "
Have you met me Sir, I think you must know me and what I like? Hubby just said "you need a good fucking you look frustrated", you both got it spot on clearly  |
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I can't even bareback with my own husband of 12 years, as hormonal contraception does not suit me and I can't have a coil fitted at the moment. So it's condoms all the way, for both prevention of pregnancy and disease.
Bareback with a stranger is therefore, obviously, an absolute no.
And we both still get tested for STIs. It's just not worth the risk. |
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"I can't even bareback with my own husband of 12 years, as hormonal contraception does not suit me and I can't have a coil fitted at the moment. So it's condoms all the way, for both prevention of pregnancy and disease.
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Eh? What diseases does your husband have?! |
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By *urpurseCouple
over a year ago
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"I can't even bareback with my own husband of 12 years, as hormonal contraception does not suit me and I can't have a coil fitted at the moment. So it's condoms all the way, for both prevention of pregnancy and disease.
Bareback with a stranger is therefore, obviously, an absolute no.
And we both still get tested for STIs. It's just not worth the risk."
I recall working with a man nearly 20 years ago who was in a trial for a male pill..........mmmmmmm where is it?
Sorry hormonal contraception doesnt suit you (me neither!) if at least it existed for men the man could use it in a relationship then not always down to the woman taking it. |
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"I can't even bareback with my own husband of 12 years, as hormonal contraception does not suit me and I can't have a coil fitted at the moment. So it's condoms all the way, for both prevention of pregnancy and disease.
Bareback with a stranger is therefore, obviously, an absolute no.
And we both still get tested for STIs. It's just not worth the risk.
I recall working with a man nearly 20 years ago who was in a trial for a male pill..........mmmmmmm where is it?
Sorry hormonal contraception doesnt suit you (me neither!) if at least it existed for men the man could use it in a relationship then not always down to the woman taking it."
Nah we'll stick with anal instead |
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"Eh? What diseases does your husband have?!
That was messy writing on my part. With my husband it is for prevention of pregnancy, with others it is prevention of pregnancy and disease.
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I know I was just being a tosser |
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By *aucy3Couple
over a year ago
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"Hi
I find quite a few people requesting bare back fun with complete strangers. Sounds bonkers and a silly health risk. Especially on fab. Anyone else feel the same "
Just say no,it's not difficult.
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over a year ago
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"I know this will be really controversial but the evidence suggests that hair free isnt as clean and hygenic as a lot of people seem to put on their profiles...............
https://www.theguardian.com/commentisfree/2012/aug/07/pubic-hair-has-job-stop-shaving
Yeah but evidence suggests it looks better
Fair play comment indeed!!! LOL!! just trying to play devils advocate and point out that if anyone is being purely holier than thou about bareback then people need to consider there are many other risks attached to this lifestyle and condom use in isolation will not solve them all!!
Lol doing a good job so far
Indeed I am! naughty me!!
Naughty ladies deserve a good spanking
Have you met me Sir, I think you must know me and what I like? Hubby just said "you need a good fucking you look frustrated", you both got it spot on clearly "
I can spot a naughty lady miles away lol. It's good to know we both agree on that  |
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"I can't even bareback with my own husband of 12 years, as hormonal contraception does not suit me and I can't have a coil fitted at the moment. So it's condoms all the way, for both prevention of pregnancy and disease.
Bareback with a stranger is therefore, obviously, an absolute no.
And we both still get tested for STIs. It's just not worth the risk."
That is rather very cautious. Interesting |
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over a year ago
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"I can't even bareback with my own husband of 12 years, as hormonal contraception does not suit me and I can't have a coil fitted at the moment. So it's condoms all the way, for both prevention of pregnancy and disease.
Bareback with a stranger is therefore, obviously, an absolute no.
And we both still get tested for STIs. It's just not worth the risk.
I recall working with a man nearly 20 years ago who was in a trial for a male pill..........mmmmmmm where is it?
Sorry hormonal contraception doesnt suit you (me neither!) if at least it existed for men the man could use it in a relationship then not always down to the woman taking it.
Nah we'll stick with anal instead "
Hahahaha that just got me cracking up |
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over a year ago
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"Eh? What diseases does your husband have?!
That was messy writing on my part. With my husband it is for prevention of pregnancy, with others it is prevention of pregnancy and disease.
I know I was just being a tosser "
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Hi
I find quite a few people requesting bare back fun with complete strangers. Sounds bonkers and a silly health risk. Especially on fab. Anyone else feel the same
Just say no,it's not difficult.
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over a year ago
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"It's not a risk if you have sex with people that don't have diseases. If you can talk about having sex and arranging to meet then I think you can also discuss how you want to be fucked and arrange for you both to have tests beforehand to make sure you're both ok to go ahead. "
A test only means nothing was found at the test, some diseases don't show up immediately and the person may have gone straight from the clinic to a bareback gangbang.
It's always a risk, all you can do is decide what level of risk you are willing to accept. |
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By *urpurseCouple
over a year ago
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"I know this will be really controversial but the evidence suggests that hair free isnt as clean and hygenic as a lot of people seem to put on their profiles...............
https://www.theguardian.com/commentisfree/2012/aug/07/pubic-hair-has-job-stop-shaving
Yeah but evidence suggests it looks better
Fair play comment indeed!!! LOL!! just trying to play devils advocate and point out that if anyone is being purely holier than thou about bareback then people need to consider there are many other risks attached to this lifestyle and condom use in isolation will not solve them all!!
Lol doing a good job so far
Indeed I am! naughty me!!
Naughty ladies deserve a good spanking
Have you met me Sir, I think you must know me and what I like? Hubby just said "you need a good fucking you look frustrated", you both got it spot on clearly
I can spot a naughty lady miles away lol. It's good to know we both agree on that "
Early days in the forum and I have already been caught out
. Like to think I have the dirty dar too |
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over a year ago
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"I know this will be really controversial but the evidence suggests that hair free isnt as clean and hygenic as a lot of people seem to put on their profiles...............
https://www.theguardian.com/commentisfree/2012/aug/07/pubic-hair-has-job-stop-shaving
Yeah but evidence suggests it looks better
Fair play comment indeed!!! LOL!! just trying to play devils advocate and point out that if anyone is being purely holier than thou about bareback then people need to consider there are many other risks attached to this lifestyle and condom use in isolation will not solve them all!!
Lol doing a good job so far
Indeed I am! naughty me!!
Naughty ladies deserve a good spanking
Have you met me Sir, I think you must know me and what I like? Hubby just said "you need a good fucking you look frustrated", you both got it spot on clearly
I can spot a naughty lady miles away lol. It's good to know we both agree on that
Early days in the forum and I have already been caught out
. Like to think I have the dirty dar too "
You definitely do need to put that to good use |
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"No. I assume everyone is barebacking and adjust my behaviour accordingly, because I can't control anyone else's. better to play it safe I think
So no sex ever. just get a condom
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Its not like its difficult to get condoms these days |
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Re: HIV. The risk is from people who have HIV but crucially DO NOT KNOW they have it.
If you think you are at risk, get tested.
People with HIV and are on meds and have an undetectable viral load for 6 months can NOT pass the virus to anyone. Google PARTNER study.
Also, it is time to stop classifying people as clean/dirty. It is offensive and stigmatising. |
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"Re: HIV. The risk is from people who have HIV but crucially DO NOT KNOW they have it.
If you think you are at risk, get tested.
People with HIV and are on meds and have an undetectable viral load for 6 months can NOT pass the virus to anyone. Google PARTNER study.
Also, it is time to stop classifying people as clean/dirty. It is offensive and stigmatising. "
I think it's more that they don't care. If someone really cared about sexual health then they'd get tested, plain and simple. It doesn't cost anything and it's not hard. Some people are willfully ignorant... |
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I think people are just scared too? It doesn't help when these threads invariably pop up as a lot of people are so vitriolic about it. I am well aware I bang on about it when they do, but I feel like someone needs to be the voice of reason! Boring as I am.
Maybe some people don't care, that is just terrifying, isn't it? IF they do have HIV they will regret not getting tested when they are about to die and could have prevented it. It's so stupid. Like you say, it's SO easy to get a test! Bonkers! |
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"I think people are just scared too? It doesn't help when these threads invariably pop up as a lot of people are so vitriolic about it. I am well aware I bang on about it when they do, but I feel like someone needs to be the voice of reason! Boring as I am.
Maybe some people don't care, that is just terrifying, isn't it? IF they do have HIV they will regret not getting tested when they are about to die and could have prevented it. It's so stupid. Like you say, it's SO easy to get a test! Bonkers! "
I agree with what you said but their fear betrays the charade. If you were confident you didn't have anything then you wouldn't be afraid.
There's a documentary about some 40-ish year old, drug-injecting, Ukrainian prostitutes on Channel 4 who get tested for AIDs and you should see the mental hoops they try to jump through to justify not needing a test. The lady doth protest too much. |
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"It's not a risk if you have sex with people that don't have diseases. If you can talk about having sex and arranging to meet then I think you can also discuss how you want to be fucked and arrange for you both to have tests beforehand to make sure you're both ok to go ahead.
A test only means nothing was found at the test, some diseases don't show up immediately and the person may have gone straight from the clinic to a bareback gangbang.
It's always a risk, all you can do is decide what level of risk you are willing to accept."
..... some don't like the level you decide either and often have a go because it doesn't match theirs. If they don't like it it's their problem. |
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"I think people are just scared too? It doesn't help when these threads invariably pop up as a lot of people are so vitriolic about it. I am well aware I bang on about it when they do, but I feel like someone needs to be the voice of reason! Boring as I am.
Maybe some people don't care, that is just terrifying, isn't it? IF they do have HIV they will regret not getting tested when they are about to die and could have prevented it. It's so stupid. Like you say, it's SO easy to get a test! Bonkers!
I agree with what you said but their fear betrays the charade. If you were confident you didn't have anything then you wouldn't be afraid.
There's a documentary about some 40-ish year old, drug-injecting, Ukrainian prostitutes on Channel 4 who get tested for AIDs and you should see the mental hoops they try to jump through to justify not needing a test. The lady doth protest too much."
That shit cray |
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"I think people are just scared too? It doesn't help when these threads invariably pop up as a lot of people are so vitriolic about it. I am well aware I bang on about it when they do, but I feel like someone needs to be the voice of reason! Boring as I am.
Maybe some people don't care, that is just terrifying, isn't it? IF they do have HIV they will regret not getting tested when they are about to die and could have prevented it. It's so stupid. Like you say, it's SO easy to get a test! Bonkers!
I agree with what you said but their fear betrays the charade. If you were confident you didn't have anything then you wouldn't be afraid.
There's a documentary about some 40-ish year old, drug-injecting, Ukrainian prostitutes on Channel 4 who get tested for AIDs and you should see the mental hoops they try to jump through to justify not needing a test. The lady doth protest too much.
That shit cray"
Yeah, spoiler alert, she is HIV+ |
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