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it depends on your own moral code of what is cheating..
in my mind she isn't cheating... yet!!!! but its easy to cross the line... the question she needs to ask herself is..." if it was my partner i found sending the texts.. how would i feel... even if they say its only harmless fun."""
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ok he found texts on her phone and confronted her she said to him it was a friend and just flirting he came 2 me askin advice
I'm not sure if it is cheatin if I'm honest wot worries me is it coukd progress further |
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"My 2 mates are married but his wife is sex texting she says it's not more than flirting fun
is sex texting unfaithful or harmless fun
I said it cud develop into spmethink more"
I think she is sex texting because she is not satisfied sexually with him - it may be her way of trying to flag that up to him ... |
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To me its quite simple - if she is doing something that would hurt her partner, its wrong.
I would hate it if hubby was sex texting behind my back. If you are doing it behind their back without their knowledge, then its cheating. If its something that would cause emotional turmoil, its cheating.
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If her bloke doesn't know anything about it then its deceitful at the very least. There is something unsavoury about it even if its not technically cheating. |
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I may be wrong here but didn't the OP indicate that she had TOLD her husband?"
Yes he did, hence my post, don't know why he's making it his concern now. |
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"think he means they are a male and female mate that are married to each other
And im also presuming they are Vanilla xx  "
Damn, and there was I thinking this was definitely tutti-frutti  |
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