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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Got told today that guys don't have time to read profiles as they have to send so many messages a day to just get one reply off a women....
I said you will get more if you bothered to read..
So is this true do guys just not really care n just message anyone going by there pics?
Or is that just more of the guys that don't really use the forums etc? Xx |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Simple answer to that question. He is talking bollocks."
LOL I guessed that just was wondering if and do,do that or some times think it... was very clear he hadn't read mine even from the heading of the message lol xx |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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A lot of guys do read profiles then they adjust their cut and paste message to suit...
Most don't bother though, especially if they are sending the same message to 20 women in a kind if scatter gun approach  |
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"Got told today that guys don't have time to read profiles as they have to send so many messages a day to just get one reply off a women....
I said you will get more if you bothered to read..
So is this true do guys just not really care n just message anyone going by there pics?
Or is that just more of the guys that don't really use the forums etc? Xx"
i always read a profile before messaging mainly to see if i think im suitable and what they are looking for.. every message i send is always wrote for that person never a copy and paste always try and make it stand out |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Ah if you're gonna use the scattergun approach then of course you're not going to invest proper time reading profiles.
I can't remember the last time I properly approached someone new with an intention to meet - it was a good 6 months ago properly.
My advice to the guys : less is more. Properly research for (potential) compatibility and tailor a proper message just for them after properly reading their profile. One or two a day. Three max. Don't copy and paste.
But what do I know?  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I had a jolly chat with a chum about the very same subject.
Ots not just chaps , but women and couples too.
I like a jolly good read then if i like the profile I can write a nice message |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I see can see that there are many different approaches to messaging others.
On one hand why waste time crafting a beautifully written message that 9/10 goes unanswered, on the other hand why waste time writing 10 times as many knowing that compatibility will be an issue for the same number?!
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Sorry OP, couldn't resist x