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By *icketysplits OP Woman
over a year ago
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No forking involved, but do any of you straight men hug, cuddle or spoon with your straight mates?
I was reading a report suggesting this is now more acceptable (and happening) with (some) younger straight men.
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"No forking involved, but do any of you straight men hug, cuddle or spoon with your straight mates?
I was reading a report suggesting this is now more acceptable (and happening) with (some) younger straight men.
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Was the 'report' commissioned by gay times magazine?
The only time it's acceptable to hug another man is during a sporting celebration or whilst singing Robbie Williams "angels" |
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From YouGov:
'1 in 2 young people say they are not 100% heterosexual'
My uni straight male friends get up to all kinds of stuff, including cuddling in bed. I think the older generations are a bit less uninhibited. |
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By *icketysplits OP Woman
over a year ago
Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound |
"No forking involved, but do any of you straight men hug, cuddle or spoon with your straight mates?
I was reading a report suggesting this is now more acceptable (and happening) with (some) younger straight men.
Was the 'report' commissioned by gay times magazine?
The only time it's acceptable to hug another man is during a sporting celebration or whilst singing Robbie Williams "angels" "
It's an academic report but it is slanted to being pro gender neutrality about sex.
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By *icketysplits OP Woman
over a year ago
Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound |
"From YouGov:
'1 in 2 young people say they are not 100% heterosexual'
My uni straight male friends get up to all kinds of stuff, including cuddling in bed. I think the older generations are a bit less uninhibited."
They are happy to share this information with you and others? Are your uni friends younger? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"No forking involved, but do any of you straight men hug, cuddle or spoon with your straight mates?
I was reading a report suggesting this is now more acceptable (and happening) with (some) younger straight men.
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I gave a friend I'd not seen for 15 years a manhug at a funeral.
I've been known to shoulder punch.
I've shared the occasional fist pump.
I've even chest bumped.
All with clothes on.
There has never been spooning, dressed or otherwise with another man.
Nor will there be.
Someone did put ribbons in my hair at the tea party though.  |
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By *icketysplits OP Woman
over a year ago
Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound |
"No forking involved, but do any of you straight men hug, cuddle or spoon with your straight mates?
I was reading a report suggesting this is now more acceptable (and happening) with (some) younger straight men.
I gave a friend I'd not seen for 15 years a manhug at a funeral.
I've been known to shoulder punch.
I've shared the occasional fist pump.
I've even chest bumped.
All with clothes on.
There has never been spooning, dressed or otherwise with another man.
Nor will there be.
Someone did put ribbons in my hair at the tea party though. "
AS I know you don't have any hair on your head, as I removed the last one, I feel the tea party moved on, quite considerably, after I left. |
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"No forking involved, but do any of you straight men hug, cuddle or spoon with your straight mates?
I was reading a report suggesting this is now more acceptable (and happening) with (some) younger straight men.
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No
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By *icketysplits OP Woman
over a year ago
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"Man hugs are acceptable but spooning is just laying yourself open for a reach around!  No OP, it wouldn't happen amongst me and my circle of friends  "
A circle of spooning men sounds so lovely. I can just picture it.  |
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"No forking involved, but do any of you straight men hug, cuddle or spoon with your straight mates?
I was reading a report suggesting this is now more acceptable (and happening) with (some) younger straight men.
No
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And I'm not even straight.
Maybe if I were particularly d*unk, perhaps, but an old-fashioned handshake is just fine |
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"From YouGov:
'1 in 2 young people say they are not 100% heterosexual'
My uni straight male friends get up to all kinds of stuff, including cuddling in bed. I think the older generations are a bit less uninhibited.
They are happy to share this information with you and others? Are your uni friends younger?"
Most of my uni friends are younger and they're fairldy open about what they get up to, or I see it for myself - plus others are always talking. We have a lot of discussions about sex and sexuality - obviously things that I know very little about. |
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By *icketysplits OP Woman
over a year ago
Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound |
"No forking involved, but do any of you straight men hug, cuddle or spoon with your straight mates?
I was reading a report suggesting this is now more acceptable (and happening) with (some) younger straight men.
No
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I see you as spooning with only one person. You're remarkably self contained, non-touchy for the raving sex maniac that you are. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Man hugs are acceptable but spooning is just laying yourself open for a reach around! No OP, it wouldn't happen amongst me and my circle of friends
A circle of spooning men sounds so lovely. I can just picture it. "
Ha! I'm glad I planted a lovely thought  |
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By *icketysplits OP Woman
over a year ago
Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound |
"From YouGov:
'1 in 2 young people say they are not 100% heterosexual'
My uni straight male friends get up to all kinds of stuff, including cuddling in bed. I think the older generations are a bit less uninhibited.
They are happy to share this information with you and others? Are your uni friends younger?
Most of my uni friends are younger and they're fairldy open about what they get up to, or I see it for myself - plus others are always talking. We have a lot of discussions about sex and sexuality - obviously things that I know very little about. "
The report is about younger men so thank you for confirming that you have some experience of this. |
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By *icketysplits OP Woman
over a year ago
Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound |
"Man hugs are acceptable but spooning is just laying yourself open for a reach around! No OP, it wouldn't happen amongst me and my circle of friends
A circle of spooning men sounds so lovely. I can just picture it.
Ha! I'm glad I planted a lovely thought "
I'm planting myself in the middle now, like the stamen in a flower.  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Man hugs are acceptable but spooning is just laying yourself open for a reach around! No OP, it wouldn't happen amongst me and my circle of friends
A circle of spooning men sounds so lovely. I can just picture it.
Ha! I'm glad I planted a lovely thought
I'm planting myself in the middle now, like the stamen in a flower. "
A rose between the thorns.
Can I spoon too. |
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I must admit that I am an automatic cuddler. When I've been on champions league away trips with the boys and sharing a bed then they get cuddles. The upshot is than when we're away I now get the twin/single room |
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By *icketysplits OP Woman
over a year ago
Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound |
"Man hugs are acceptable but spooning is just laying yourself open for a reach around! No OP, it wouldn't happen amongst me and my circle of friends
A circle of spooning men sounds so lovely. I can just picture it.
Ha! I'm glad I planted a lovely thought
I'm planting myself in the middle now, like the stamen in a flower.
A rose between the thorns.
Can I spoon too. "
I don't think their thorns are out. They're all straight. |
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By *icketysplits OP Woman
over a year ago
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"I must admit that I am an automatic cuddler. When I've been on champions league away trips with the boys and sharing a bed then they get cuddles. The upshot is than when we're away I now get the twin/single room"
Thank you for sharing. Do they push you away or just accept and then make sure you can't do it again by giving you the single room?
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"No forking involved, but do any of you straight men hug, cuddle or spoon with your straight mates?
I was reading a report suggesting this is now more acceptable (and happening) with (some) younger straight men.
I gave a friend I'd not seen for 15 years a manhug at a funeral.
I've been known to shoulder punch.
I've shared the occasional fist pump.
I've even chest bumped.
All with clothes on.
There has never been spooning, dressed or otherwise with another man.
Nor will there be.
Someone did put ribbons in my hair at the tea party though.
AS I know you don't have any hair on your head, as I removed the last one, I feel the tea party moved on, quite considerably, after I left."
No hair?????
I refer you to a recent post;
https://m.fabswingers.com/forum/lounge/515703
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By *icketysplits OP Woman
over a year ago
Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound |
"No forking involved, but do any of you straight men hug, cuddle or spoon with your straight mates?
I was reading a report suggesting this is now more acceptable (and happening) with (some) younger straight men.
I gave a friend I'd not seen for 15 years a manhug at a funeral.
I've been known to shoulder punch.
I've shared the occasional fist pump.
I've even chest bumped.
All with clothes on.
There has never been spooning, dressed or otherwise with another man.
Nor will there be.
Someone did put ribbons in my hair at the tea party though.
AS I know you don't have any hair on your head, as I removed the last one, I feel the tea party moved on, quite considerably, after I left.
No hair?????
I refer you to a recent post;
https://m.fabswingers.com/forum/lounge/515703
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Possession is 9/10th stuff here, methinks.
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I often work away from home, staying in hotels with colleagues. This usually means sharing a room with another man. Trust me, 99% of straight men practically beg for separate rooms because of the "snoring" and 100% of proper straight men do NOT push the beds together.
Don't believe everything that you see in surveys or reports. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"No forking involved, but do any of you straight men hug, cuddle or spoon with your straight mates?
I was reading a report suggesting this is now more acceptable (and happening) with (some) younger straight men.
I gave a friend I'd not seen for 15 years a manhug at a funeral.
I've been known to shoulder punch.
I've shared the occasional fist pump.
I've even chest bumped.
All with clothes on.
There has never been spooning, dressed or otherwise with another man.
Nor will there be.
Someone did put ribbons in my hair at the tea party though.
AS I know you don't have any hair on your head, as I removed the last one, I feel the tea party moved on, quite considerably, after I left.
No hair?????
I refer you to a recent post;
https://m.fabswingers.com/forum/lounge/515703
Possession is 9/10th stuff here, methinks.
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He seems think so too. |
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By *ficouldMan
over a year ago
a quandary, could you change my mind? |
"No forking involved, but do any of you straight men hug, cuddle or spoon with your straight mates?
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I have no qualms about giving 'some' of my mates a hug (some would not like it as they are not tactile people) one or two even a kiss to the cheek (because of culture / upbringing) why not..
I'm straight and I know my sexuality, I hug gay friends (male and female) , I'm not going to become gay by doing so, I hug nephews, some uncles, what is the difference.
Cuddle (just nephews Yes) or Spoons.. Umm no... |
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By *imiUKMan
over a year ago
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"No forking involved, but do any of you straight men hug, cuddle or spoon with your straight mates?
I was reading a report suggesting this is now more acceptable (and happening) with (some) younger straight men.
No
And I'm not even straight.
Maybe if I were particularly d*unk, perhaps, but an old-fashioned handshake is just fine "
I'm with you. Handshake it is. Cuddle a feller?....not so much. |
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By *icketysplits OP Woman
over a year ago
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"Spooning is a bit intimate isn't it? Spooning my straight mates? No it's not the same as shaking hands or patting them on the back. "
I think of it as intimate.
I'm not sure any of the links would be permitted but Google straight men cuddling and spooning and quite a lot comes up.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Nope, spooning is too intimate to do with your straight mates, there's no good reason to spoon unless you are freezing to death in the South Pole, then it's life and death so acceptable. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"No forking involved, but do any of you straight men hug, cuddle or spoon with your straight mates?
I was reading a report suggesting this is now more acceptable (and happening) with (some) younger straight men.
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Sounds gay! I'd suck a dick,but I ain't spooning another man! |
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By *icketysplits OP Woman
over a year ago
Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound |
"No forking involved, but do any of you straight men hug, cuddle or spoon with your straight mates?
I was reading a report suggesting this is now more acceptable (and happening) with (some) younger straight men.
Sounds gay! I'd suck a dick,but I ain't spooning another man! "
Clem, you are so authentic.
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Man hugs are acceptable but spooning is just laying yourself open for a reach around! No OP, it wouldn't happen amongst me and my circle of friends
A circle of spooning men sounds so lovely. I can just picture it. "
Me too....funny thought......a mass man spoonin after the football maybe XXX |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Spooning!? with your straight mates!? You're pulling our plonkers OP, surely!
You've never once placed your plonker anywhere near enough for me to pull it.
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one of my life regrets
Still making me shudder the thought of spooning with my mates |
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By *icentiousCouple
over a year ago
Up on them there hills |
Kind of, ground control to major Tom, to me
Hate the out of the world space cadets.
Every ones different, just Im a man's man who is attracted to women .
Fuck, don't even know why I'm posting.
Have fun. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I hug and kiss my friends quite often. We're quite an affectionate bunch.
Spooning is perhaps a bit too intimate though. "
Fu ckaaaaaf, you didn't even fist pump me at the tea party. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I hug and kiss my friends quite often. We're quite an affectionate bunch.
Spooning is perhaps a bit too intimate though.
Fu ckaaaaaf, you didn't even fist pump me at the tea party. "
Oh that sounds sooooooooo wrong.
Move along everyone, nothing to see here....... |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I hug and kiss my friends quite often. We're quite an affectionate bunch.
Spooning is perhaps a bit too intimate though.
Fu ckaaaaaf, you didn't even fist pump me at the tea party.
Oh that sounds sooooooooo wrong.
Move along everyone, nothing to see here....... "
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=lL4L4Uv5rf0 |
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By *icketysplits OP Woman
over a year ago
Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound |
"I hug and kiss my friends quite often. We're quite an affectionate bunch.
Spooning is perhaps a bit too intimate though.
Fu ckaaaaaf, you didn't even fist pump me at the tea party.
Oh that sounds sooooooooo wrong.
Move along everyone, nothing to see here....... "
I'm not sure how spooning moved on to fisting. |
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By *icketysplits OP Woman
over a year ago
Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound |
"I hug and kiss my friends quite often. We're quite an affectionate bunch.
Spooning is perhaps a bit too intimate though.
Fu ckaaaaaf, you didn't even fist pump me at the tea party.
Oh that sounds sooooooooo wrong.
Move along everyone, nothing to see here.......
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=lL4L4Uv5rf0"
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Well, considering the huge number of men on here who seem to like showing their ass to all and sundry, a bit of spooning doesn't seem too out of the way."
I love a bit of spooning with the opposite sex but not with another hairy arsed man, nooo way thank you. I'd give a good spooning tho |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I hug and kiss my friends quite often. We're quite an affectionate bunch.
Spooning is perhaps a bit too intimate though.
Fu ckaaaaaf, you didn't even fist pump me at the tea party.
Oh that sounds sooooooooo wrong.
Move along everyone, nothing to see here.......
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=lL4L4Uv5rf0
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Fuck that shit. It's a no from me
Are you absolutely sure about that? "
I have no intention or desire to spoon with any man. So yes I am very sure.
With the opposite sex though, bring it on. Nothing better I'd rather do |
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By *icketysplits OP Woman
over a year ago
Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound |
"Fuck that shit. It's a no from me
Are you absolutely sure about that?
I have no intention or desire to spoon with any man. So yes I am very sure.
With the opposite sex though, bring it on. Nothing better I'd rather do "
Nothing better... that seems a bit of a limitation.  |
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By *icketysplits OP Woman
over a year ago
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"I regularly sleep with my best (gay) friend. Love spooning and kissing, but we don't have sex. It is just the intimacy we enjoy. "
Thank you for sharing. Not quite straight but heartwarming all the same.
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Fuck that shit. It's a no from me
Are you absolutely sure about that?
I have no intention or desire to spoon with any man. So yes I am very sure.
With the opposite sex though, bring it on. Nothing better I'd rather do
Nothing better... that seems a bit of a limitation. "
On second thoughts, my last message was a bit rash lol. I'm sure there are few more things I'd rather do haha! |
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By *icketysplits OP Woman
over a year ago
Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound |
"Fuck that shit. It's a no from me
Are you absolutely sure about that?
I have no intention or desire to spoon with any man. So yes I am very sure.
With the opposite sex though, bring it on. Nothing better I'd rather do
Nothing better... that seems a bit of a limitation.
On second thoughts, my last message was a bit rash lol. I'm sure there are few more things I'd rather do haha!"
You could bookend things with a couple of spoons.
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By *icketysplits OP Woman
over a year ago
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"No chance
Not even in the big spooning flower?
Nah....horrid sweaty men "
In my imagination (not in a Kylie way, don't start singing), I see freshly laundered men in peaceful slumber, all looking sweet and comfortable, forming a lovely circle.
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By *icketysplits OP Woman
over a year ago
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"seriously why would a straight guy wanna sppon his pal,,lol like why would a gay gay go near a fanny "
I think the spooning is supposed to be just friendly affection and not sexual. More like brotherly puppies being happy to pile together in sweet, happy sleep.
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By (user no longer on site)
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"seriously why would a straight guy wanna sppon his pal,,lol like why would a gay gay go near a fanny
I think the spooning is supposed to be just friendly affection and not sexual. More like brotherly puppies being happy to pile together in sweet, happy sleep.
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It's strange - the circle of young straight blokes that I mix with get up to cuddles in bed, cuddles out of bed, sleeping together (for sleep) but touching.
There really aren't the hangups amongst the guys who are younger than the blokes in the forum. We've moved on.
I think we've evolved to be touchy, probably from when caucasians and others were in cold climates and huddling together would have been a bonding experience as well as keeping everyone safe and warm. Full circle again. |
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By *icketysplits OP Woman
over a year ago
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"It's strange - the circle of young straight blokes that I mix with get up to cuddles in bed, cuddles out of bed, sleeping together (for sleep) but touching.
There really aren't the hangups amongst the guys who are younger than the blokes in the forum. We've moved on.
I think we've evolved to be touchy, probably from when caucasians and others were in cold climates and huddling together would have been a bonding experience as well as keeping everyone safe and warm. Full circle again."
It is interesting to see the heteronormity assert itself so strongly around something as benign as cuddling and spooning on here.
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"It's strange - the circle of young straight blokes that I mix with get up to cuddles in bed, cuddles out of bed, sleeping together (for sleep) but touching.
There really aren't the hangups amongst the guys who are younger than the blokes in the forum. We've moved on.
I think we've evolved to be touchy, probably from when caucasians and others were in cold climates and huddling together would have been a bonding experience as well as keeping everyone safe and warm. Full circle again.
It is interesting to see the heteronormity assert itself so strongly around something as benign as cuddling and spooning on here.
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I agree! They'll agree to a very formal bed share, minimal hand or shoulder contact, when greeting or anything very straight. I think it's more than just appearing to be even a little bi-leaning on Fab, as is the norm that so many refrain from.
My hockey, rugby, American Football and other sports playing young male friends may as well be from another universe than this lot. |
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"I must admit that I am an automatic cuddler. When I've been on champions league away trips with the boys and sharing a bed then they get cuddles. The upshot is than when we're away I now get the twin/single room
Thank you for sharing. Do they push you away or just accept and then make sure you can't do it again by giving you the single room?
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Room to myself these days  I do also snore like a train after a few beers. |
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