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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Why do some men state that they are athletic when they're clearly not? In fact I've seen more meat on a butcher's apron??
I'm not knocking men that don't have the athletic look but surely we will see in your pics that that's a lie?
I'm not slim and neither am I large so I would describe myself as average
Come on guys get real |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Why do some men state that they are athletic when they're clearly not? In fact I've seen more meat on a butcher's apron??
I'm not knocking men that don't have the athletic look but surely we will see in your pics that that's a lie?
I'm not slim and neither am I large so I would describe myself as average
Come on guys get real"
Possibly for the same reason as some women state they are curvy when theyre clearly large or ample |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Why do some men state that they are athletic when they're clearly not? In fact I've seen more meat on a butcher's apron??
I'm not knocking men that don't have the athletic look but surely we will see in your pics that that's a lie?
I'm not slim and neither am I large so I would describe myself as average
Come on guys get real"
There are many types of athletics. |
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"Why do some men state that they are athletic when they're clearly not? In fact I've seen more meat on a butcher's apron??
I'm not knocking men that don't have the athletic look but surely we will see in your pics that that's a lie?
I'm not slim and neither am I large so I would describe myself as average
Come on guys get real
There are many types of athletics."
I'm an athletic chocolate eater!  |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Why do some men state that they are athletic when they're clearly not? In fact I've seen more meat on a butcher's apron??
I'm not knocking men that don't have the athletic look but surely we will see in your pics that that's a lie?
I'm not slim and neither am I large so I would describe myself as average
Come on guys get real
There are many types of athletics."
Just thought athletic meant you looked fit...sorry my bad  |
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By *manda63Woman
over a year ago
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"Why do some men state that they are athletic when they're clearly not? In fact I've seen more meat on a butcher's apron??
I'm not knocking men that don't have the athletic look but surely we will see in your pics that that's a lie?
I'm not slim and neither am I large so I would describe myself as average
Come on guys get real"
I'm listed as large and Grey is slim. What you see is what you get with us |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I'm down as fabulous!
Why should only the big girls be described so!? 
Fabulous was the only descriptive i felt happy with  "
Even fabulous as the negative so you love your body then on here |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Define athletic? I'd say I was athletic in its truest sense. I'm big. I've got muscles in all the right places. But I'm a tight head prop for a London 1 rugby team.
I still pass fitness tests for work and club, definitely stronger and fitter than some of the skinny Minnies who class themselves as athletic. Just there's a little paunch below the pectorals.
In other words I don't do bad for someone who's 120kg. But I can't class myself athletic as I don't look athletic. That's fair!  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I'm down as fabulous!
Why should only the big girls be described so!?
Fabulous was the only descriptive i felt happy with
Even fabulous as the negative so you love your body then on here "
Why wouldn't i love my body? If i hated it i wouldn't post pictures of it and would do something about changing it. |
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"I'm down as fabulous!
Why should only the big girls be described so!?
Fabulous was the only descriptive i felt happy with
Even fabulous as the negative so you love your body then on here
Why wouldn't i love my body? If i hated it i wouldn't post pictures of it and would do something about changing it."
I love your body
MrsSB |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I'm down as fabulous!
Why should only the big girls be described so!?
Fabulous was the only descriptive i felt happy with
Even fabulous as the negative so you love your body then on here
Why wouldn't i love my body? If i hated it i wouldn't post pictures of it and would do something about changing it."
Your ok you have boobs 
Ive put slim,average, and now fab as it is now and everyone as attracted the confidence bashers on here |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Why do some men state that they are athletic when they're clearly not? In fact I've seen more meat on a butcher's apron??
I'm not knocking men that don't have the athletic look but surely we will see in your pics that that's a lie?
I'm not slim and neither am I large so I would describe myself as average
Come on guys get real"
Depends on whether we are talking marathon runner or sprinter.
Categories are not literal. Curvy is one that's been overstretched for years.
What the hell is fabulous? Surely that describes personality. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"I'm down as fabulous!
Why should only the big girls be described so!?
Fabulous was the only descriptive i felt happy with
Even fabulous as the negative so you love your body then on here
Why wouldn't i love my body? If i hated it i wouldn't post pictures of it and would do something about changing it.
Your ok you have boobs
Ive put slim,average, and now fab as it is now and everyone as attracted the confidence bashers on here "
Now you're contradicting yourself!
I'm in no way a confidence basher yet you claim in a comment 'youre OK you have boobs"??
So if a woman doesn't have boobs they're not OK? Who's the confidence basher now  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I'm down as fabulous!
Why should only the big girls be described so!?
Fabulous was the only descriptive i felt happy with
Even fabulous as the negative so you love your body then on here
Why wouldn't i love my body? If i hated it i wouldn't post pictures of it and would do something about changing it.
Your ok you have boobs
Ive put slim,average, and now fab as it is now and everyone as attracted the confidence bashers on here
Now you're contradicting yourself!
I'm in no way a confidence basher yet you claim in a comment 'youre OK you have boobs"??
So if a woman doesn't have boobs they're not OK? Who's the confidence basher now "
I mean women on here could have 6 heads and 6 boobs and it never gets questioned what ever they wanna class themselves as. Men on the other hand
Now stop trying to twist things and play fair |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Guess it varies for different people.
I wasnt sure whether to choose slim or athletic but went with athletic as I play a lot of sport. But yes, some people are way off  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I'm down as fabulous!
Why should only the big girls be described so!?
Fabulous was the only descriptive i felt happy with
Even fabulous as the negative so you love your body then on here
Why wouldn't i love my body? If i hated it i wouldn't post pictures of it and would do something about changing it.
Your ok you have boobs
Ive put slim,average, and now fab as it is now and everyone as attracted the confidence bashers on here
Now you're contradicting yourself!
I'm in no way a confidence basher yet you claim in a comment 'youre OK you have boobs"??
So if a woman doesn't have boobs they're not OK? Who's the confidence basher now
I mean women on here could have 6 heads and 6 boobs and it never gets questioned what ever they wanna class themselves as. Men on the other hand
Now stop trying to twist things and play fair "
You have read the curvy women threads and bbw threads and the slim women threads??? |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Shit I've put athletic too, should I change it?if so what too? I'm paranoid now 
You better ask op shes the expert on mens body types "
I never claimed to be an expert ffs! Wow have I touched a sensitive nerve |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I'm down as fabulous!
Why should only the big girls be described so!?
Fabulous was the only descriptive i felt happy with
Even fabulous as the negative so you love your body then on here
Why wouldn't i love my body? If i hated it i wouldn't post pictures of it and would do something about changing it.
Your ok you have boobs
Ive put slim,average, and now fab as it is now and everyone as attracted the confidence bashers on here
Now you're contradicting yourself!
I'm in no way a confidence basher yet you claim in a comment 'youre OK you have boobs"??
So if a woman doesn't have boobs they're not OK? Who's the confidence basher now
I mean women on here could have 6 heads and 6 boobs and it never gets questioned what ever they wanna class themselves as. Men on the other hand
Now stop trying to twist things and play fair
You have read the curvy women threads and bbw threads and the slim women threads??? "
I dont mean the threads on forums i mean ppl that inbox you to say you have the wrong body type your not this your that etc. Ie to try and knock your confidence etc. But op as taken the comment the wrong way as usual on here and thought i said shes knocked my confidence and started drama |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I just put slim but....maybe i should go average! Its actually quite difficult as it depends how you see yourself! I see skinny bean pole in the mirror.....damn mirror mirror on the wall....i'm going back for a refund! |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"I'm down as fabulous!
Why should only the big girls be described so!?
Fabulous was the only descriptive i felt happy with
Even fabulous as the negative so you love your body then on here
Why wouldn't i love my body? If i hated it i wouldn't post pictures of it and would do something about changing it.
Your ok you have boobs
Ive put slim,average, and now fab as it is now and everyone as attracted the confidence bashers on here
Now you're contradicting yourself!
I'm in no way a confidence basher yet you claim in a comment 'youre OK you have boobs"??
So if a woman doesn't have boobs they're not OK? Who's the confidence basher now
I mean women on here could have 6 heads and 6 boobs and it never gets questioned what ever they wanna class themselves as. Men on the other hand
Now stop trying to twist things and play fair
You have read the curvy women threads and bbw threads and the slim women threads???
I dont mean the threads on forums i mean ppl that inbox you to say you have the wrong body type your not this your that etc. Ie to try and knock your confidence etc. But op as taken the comment the wrong way as usual on here and thought i said shes knocked my confidence and started drama "
OMG if you can't wrangle your way out of something just blame OP |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Shit I've put athletic too, should I change it?if so what too? I'm paranoid now
You better ask op shes the expert on mens body types
I never claimed to be an expert ffs! Wow have I touched a sensitive nerve "
Nah i just dislike ppl trying to dictate how they use fab |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Well, I want a few new categories.
How about - used to be ripped! - as I cannot be arsed to be a gym Nazi anymore.
Or, - never satisfied, room to improvement- by the way please pass the wine and chocolates. X
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Jeezzuss!!... Count me confused now.
I got classed as athletic when assessed. So did another fella that trained on muscle building rather than cardio' (basically bigger than me). I took that as meaning we were both fit in regard to our physical and cardio states and relating to our body shape. Am I wrong then?
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Why do some men state that they are athletic when they're clearly not? In fact I've seen more meat on a butcher's apron??
I'm not knocking men that don't have the athletic look but surely we will see in your pics that that's a lie?
I'm not slim and neither am I large so I would describe myself as average
Come on guys get real"
Athletic is the first on the list the list is done in size order. So really athletic is the one that is the smallest size. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Why do some men state that they are athletic when they're clearly not? In fact I've seen more meat on a butcher's apron??
I'm not knocking men that don't have the athletic look but surely we will see in your pics that that's a lie?
I'm not slim and neither am I large so I would describe myself as average
Come on guys get real"
I don't have a clue what type I am so just put normal |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I'm down as fabulous!
Why should only the big girls be described so!?
Fabulous was the only descriptive i felt happy with
Even fabulous as the negative so you love your body then on here
Why wouldn't i love my body? If i hated it i wouldn't post pictures of it and would do something about changing it."
My thoughts too.
I looked and thought I didn't look too bad. I took pics and posted them. People fabbed and messaged and said nice things.
My confidence is up and I feel FABULOUS |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Shit I've put athletic too, should I change it?if so what too? I'm paranoid now
You better ask op shes the expert on mens body types
I never claimed to be an expert ffs! Wow have I touched a sensitive nerve
Nah i just dislike ppl trying to dictate how they use fab "
I'm not sure why you would take any notice? People have questioned my use of fabulous. I don't care two hoots if they don't agree with me. They are insignificant and what insignificant people say has bugger all impact on my self confidence. They only dictate how you use fab if you let them. So meh...... |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Shit I've put athletic too, should I change it?if so what too? I'm paranoid now
You better ask op shes the expert on mens body types
I never claimed to be an expert ffs! Wow have I touched a sensitive nerve
Nah i just dislike ppl trying to dictate how they use fab "
I ain't dictating about nothing. I made an observation about something and was interested to see the feedback. You seem to think it's a personal attack on you so you obviously have issues or you're just here to caus drama. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Shit I've put athletic too, should I change it?if so what too? I'm paranoid now
You better ask op shes the expert on mens body types
I never claimed to be an expert ffs! Wow have I touched a sensitive nerve
Nah i just dislike ppl trying to dictate how they use fab "
Asking people to be more truthful isn't a bad thing. Lost count with the amount of guys who message me knowing they don't fit my profile. Being honest on here saves time wasting and shows respect. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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It seems as though a lot of men think skinny is athletic, they really should put in a muscular option aswell for guys, just so the skinny people can't choose it |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Shit I've put athletic too, should I change it?if so what too? I'm paranoid now
You better ask op shes the expert on mens body types
I never claimed to be an expert ffs! Wow have I touched a sensitive nerve
Nah i just dislike ppl trying to dictate how they use fab
Asking people to be more truthful isn't a bad thing. Lost count with the amount of guys who message me knowing they don't fit my profile. Being honest on here saves time wasting and shows respect. "
Exactly! Wow at last someone who gets what I'm saying! |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Shit I've put athletic too, should I change it?if so what too? I'm paranoid now
You better ask op shes the expert on mens body types
I never claimed to be an expert ffs! Wow have I touched a sensitive nerve
Nah i just dislike ppl trying to dictate how they use fab
I ain't dictating about nothing. I made an observation about something and was interested to see the feedback. You seem to think it's a personal attack on you so you obviously have issues or you're just here to caus drama."
Where do i say a personal attack on me?
I simply said what harm does it do to you if a guy on here that your never gonna meet says hes athletic when hes not?
no issues here maybe with ppl that have issues with other ppls bodies yes |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Why do some men state that they are athletic when they're clearly not? In fact I've seen more meat on a butcher's apron??
I'm not knocking men that don't have the athletic look but surely we will see in your pics that that's a lie?
I'm not slim and neither am I large so I would describe myself
as average
Come on guys get real"
You have a lovely figure. Not average at all. X |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Let them think that. Does it harm you in anyway?
It was an observation not a put down!
Wow there's some uptight bitches on here "
All started from this simple comment. I think your find im not the aggresive one |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Shit I've put athletic too, should I change it?if so what too? I'm paranoid now
You better ask op shes the expert on mens body types
I never claimed to be an expert ffs! Wow have I touched a sensitive nerve
Nah i just dislike ppl trying to dictate how they use fab
I ain't dictating about nothing. I made an observation about something and was interested to see the feedback. You seem to think it's a personal attack on you so you obviously have issues or you're just here to caus drama.
Where do i say a personal attack on me?
I simply said what harm does it do to you if a guy on here that your never gonna meet says hes athletic when hes not?
no issues here maybe with ppl that have issues with other ppls bodies yes "
Well you seem to be taking it personal or are you always this argumentative |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Shit I've put athletic too, should I change it?if so what too? I'm paranoid now
You better ask op shes the expert on mens body types
I never claimed to be an expert ffs! Wow have I touched a sensitive nerve
Nah i just dislike ppl trying to dictate how they use fab
I ain't dictating about nothing. I made an observation about something and was interested to see the feedback. You seem to think it's a personal attack on you so you obviously have issues or you're just here to caus drama.
Where do i say a personal attack on me?
I simply said what harm does it do to you if a guy on here that your never gonna meet says hes athletic when hes not?
no issues here maybe with ppl that have issues with other ppls bodies yes
Well you seem to be taking it personal or are you always this argumentative "
Being called a bitch is personal. Maybe thats why |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Shit I've put athletic too, should I change it?if so what too? I'm paranoid now
You better ask op shes the expert on mens body types
I never claimed to be an expert ffs! Wow have I touched a sensitive nerve
Nah i just dislike ppl trying to dictate how they use fab
I ain't dictating about nothing. I made an observation about something and was interested to see the feedback. You seem to think it's a personal attack on you so you obviously have issues or you're just here to caus drama.
Where do i say a personal attack on me?
I simply said what harm does it do to you if a guy on here that your never gonna meet says hes athletic when hes not?
no issues here maybe with ppl that have issues with other ppls bodies yes
Well you seem to be taking it personal or are you always this argumentative
Being called a bitch is personal. Maybe thats why "
I'm sure you've been called alot worse  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Shit I've put athletic too, should I change it?if so what too? I'm paranoid now
You better ask op shes the expert on mens body types
I never claimed to be an expert ffs! Wow have I touched a sensitive nerve
Nah i just dislike ppl trying to dictate how they use fab
I ain't dictating about nothing. I made an observation about something and was interested to see the feedback. You seem to think it's a personal attack on you so you obviously have issues or you're just here to caus drama.
Where do i say a personal attack on me?
I simply said what harm does it do to you if a guy on here that your never gonna meet says hes athletic when hes not?
no issues here maybe with ppl that have issues with other ppls bodies yes
Well you seem to be taking it personal or are you always this argumentative
Being called a bitch is personal. Maybe thats why
I'm sure you've been called alot worse "
Not in public no. It says more about you then me tbh |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I regard athletic as having visible toned muscles. Someone can be athletic at the same time as being slim, average or large build. But some people are slim, but not particularly toned, therefore I would not describe them as athletic. I describe myself as average, because I am of average build, don't have the muscle tone to describe myself as athletic, and don't have the curves (ie bum and boobs) to describe myself as curvy. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I put myself as Athletic...because for 49 I think I am "
I'm not putting you down or anything at all like that. Your body is great. However, I am wondering what age has to do with it? Surely anyone at any age can be athletic....long as they work out. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Shit I've put athletic too, should I change it?if so what too? I'm paranoid now
You better ask op shes the expert on mens body types
I never claimed to be an expert ffs! Wow have I touched a sensitive nerve
Nah i just dislike ppl trying to dictate how they use fab
I ain't dictating about nothing. I made an observation about something and was interested to see the feedback. You seem to think it's a personal attack on you so you obviously have issues or you're just here to caus drama.
Where do i say a personal attack on me?
I simply said what harm does it do to you if a guy on here that your never gonna meet says hes athletic when hes not?
no issues here maybe with ppl that have issues with other ppls bodies yes
Well you seem to be taking it personal or are you always this argumentative
Being called a bitch is personal. Maybe thats why
I'm sure you've been called alot worse
Not in public no. It says more about you then me tbh "
I know exactly what I'm about and for an individual to take all this so seriously is just hilarious tbh |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"It seems as though a lot of men think skinny is athletic, they really should put in a muscular option aswell for guys, just so the skinny people can't choose it "
Muscular people aren't necessarily athletic. Athletic has more to do with ability rather than looks so in reality the term can be used widely.
What's the point of being 20st of muscle when you can't even do 10 pull ups or run a mile without having a heart attack. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Shit I've put athletic too, should I change it?if so what too? I'm paranoid now
You better ask op shes the expert on mens body types
I never claimed to be an expert ffs! Wow have I touched a sensitive nerve
Nah i just dislike ppl trying to dictate how they use fab
I ain't dictating about nothing. I made an observation about something and was interested to see the feedback. You seem to think it's a personal attack on you so you obviously have issues or you're just here to caus drama.
Where do i say a personal attack on me?
I simply said what harm does it do to you if a guy on here that your never gonna meet says hes athletic when hes not?
no issues here maybe with ppl that have issues with other ppls bodies yes
Well you seem to be taking it personal or are you always this argumentative
Being called a bitch is personal. Maybe thats why
I'm sure you've been called alot worse
Not in public no. It says more about you then me tbh
I know exactly what I'm about and for an individual to take all this so seriously is just hilarious tbh"
The forums are meant to be fun and just because someone disagrees with you dont make them a bitch
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I put myself as Athletic...because for 49 I think I am
I'm not putting you down or anything at all like that. Your body is great. However, I am wondering what age has to do with it? Surely anyone at any age can be athletic....long as they work out. "
I mean that compared to most 49 year olds I am athletic but compared to a lot of the chaps on here I'm probably not. According to you I'm not athletic then as I've never worked out in my life...I bet there are plenty of gym regulars who are anything but athletic...but good for them for having a go. |
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"Shit I've put athletic too, should I change it?if so what too? I'm paranoid now
You better ask op shes the expert on mens body types
I never claimed to be an expert ffs! Wow have I touched a sensitive nerve
Nah i just dislike ppl trying to dictate how they use fab
Asking people to be more truthful isn't a bad thing. Lost count with the amount of guys who message me knowing they don't fit my profile. Being honest on here saves time wasting and shows respect.
Exactly! Wow at last someone who gets what I'm saying!"
We get what you are saying, have made reference to the issue in chapter 8 or 9 of our long winded profile and regularly get positive comments because we have. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Mo Farrah is skinny yet athletic!
No Farrah doesn't look anorexic tho 
You sure about that "
he has them shoulder muscles next to his neck. he looks athleitc from that alone. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Why do some men state that they are athletic when they're clearly not? In fact I've seen more meat on a butcher's apron??
I'm not knocking men that don't have the athletic look but surely we will see in your pics that that's a lie?
I'm not slim and neither am I large so I would describe myself as average
Come on guys get real
Possibly for the same reason as some women state they are curvy when theyre clearly large or ample"
I resemble that remark. xxx |
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The trouble is "athletic" isn't a body shape it's a fitness level. It can mean anything from thin as a rail long distance runner to strong man bulk. It's about as descriptive as "fabulous". |
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"Why do some men state that they are athletic when they're clearly not? In fact I've seen more meat on a butcher's apron??
I'm not knocking men that don't have the athletic look but surely we will see in your pics that that's a lie?
I'm not slim and neither am I large so I would describe myself as average
Come on guys get real"
Such a ridiculous statement.
Does the term athletic mean you need to look like Anthony Joshua? |
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over a year ago
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"Shit I've put athletic too, should I change it?if so what too? I'm paranoid now
You better ask op shes the expert on mens body types
I never claimed to be an expert ffs! Wow have I touched a sensitive nerve
Nah i just dislike ppl trying to dictate how they use fab
I ain't dictating about nothing. I made an observation about something and was interested to see the feedback. You seem to think it's a personal attack on you so you obviously have issues or you're just here to caus drama.
Where do i say a personal attack on me?
I simply said what harm does it do to you if a guy on here that your never gonna meet says hes athletic when hes not?
no issues here maybe with ppl that have issues with other ppls bodies yes
Well you seem to be taking it personal or are you always this argumentative
Being called a bitch is personal. Maybe thats why
I'm sure you've been called alot worse
Not in public no. It says more about you then me tbh
I know exactly what I'm about and for an individual to take all this so seriously is just hilarious tbh
The forums are meant to be fun and just because someone disagrees with you dont make them a bitch
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I used the the words Uptight bitch in a lose term and you are hanging on every word I've said and making a bloody mountain out of molehill
Do you actually know the meaning of the word fun?! |
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over a year ago
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"Jeezzuss!!... Count me confused now.
I got classed as athletic when assessed. So did another fella that trained on muscle building rather than cardio' (basically bigger than me). I took that as meaning we were both fit in regard to our physical and cardio states and relating to our body shape. Am I wrong then?
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You're absolutely perfect as you are |
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over a year ago
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"Shit I've put athletic too, should I change it?if so what too? I'm paranoid now
You better ask op shes the expert on mens body types
I never claimed to be an expert ffs! Wow have I touched a sensitive nerve
Nah i just dislike ppl trying to dictate how they use fab
I ain't dictating about nothing. I made an observation about something and was interested to see the feedback. You seem to think it's a personal attack on you so you obviously have issues or you're just here to caus drama.
Where do i say a personal attack on me?
I simply said what harm does it do to you if a guy on here that your never gonna meet says hes athletic when hes not?
no issues here maybe with ppl that have issues with other ppls bodies yes
Well you seem to be taking it personal or are you always this argumentative
Being called a bitch is personal. Maybe thats why
I'm sure you've been called alot worse
Not in public no. It says more about you then me tbh
I know exactly what I'm about and for an individual to take all this so seriously is just hilarious tbh
The forums are meant to be fun and just because someone disagrees with you dont make them a bitch
I used the the words Uptight bitch in a lose term and you are hanging on every word I've said and making a bloody mountain out of molehill
Do you actually know the meaning of the word fun?!"
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over a year ago
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"Why do some men state that they are athletic when they're clearly not? In fact I've seen more meat on a butcher's apron??
I'm not knocking men that don't have the athletic look but surely we will see in your pics that that's a lie?
I'm not slim and neither am I large so I would describe myself as average
Come on guys get real
Such a ridiculous statement.
Does the term athletic mean you need to look like Anthony Joshua? "
Wow another one has jumped on the bandwagon pmsl |
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over a year ago
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I ignore how someone judges themselves, I look at their photos & judge for myself.
I consider myself as average, as even though I have hips, a stomach and an arse, I'm missing the boob factor so I don't class myself as "curvy" |
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over a year ago
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I've put myself as average.
To me athletic means slim and toned. Whilst I'm by no means skinny im not over weight either but toned? Nope. flat stomach? Nope.
Needs lots of naughty sex to get in shape |
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over a year ago
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I am me.
Yes I've put curvy though some of you may think .... nope she's eaten too much chocolate!
Well I don't care, I'm happy and that's all there is to it. |
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over a year ago
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"Shit I've put athletic too, should I change it?if so what too? I'm paranoid now
Yep, you're athletic too
YAY "
i think on here athletic means gym bummy so your fine, when in actual fact most real athletic people are not pumped up muscle men |
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over a year ago
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Would now be a good time to bring up the misleading usernames and profile pics?
"Tomhardylookalikeandmassivecockandsix" pack... Then a body pick resembling Troy and you find out they're actually nothing like the pic!!
Oh and I'm down as average....
They don't have short and squat but does ok in heels option |
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"Would now be a good time to bring up the misleading usernames and profile pics?
"Tomhardylookalikeandmassivecockandsix" pack... Then a body pick resembling Troy and you find out they're actually nothing like the pic!!
Oh and I'm down as average....
They don't have short and squat but does ok in heels option"
You are stunning young lady! |
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over a year ago
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"I am me.
Yes I've put curvy though some of you may think .... nope she's eaten too much chocolate!
Well I don't care, I'm happy and that's all there is to it. "
I don't care you are fucking beautiful babe |
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over a year ago
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"Would now be a good time to bring up the misleading usernames and profile pics?
"Tomhardylookalikeandmassivecockandsix" pack... Then a body pick resembling Troy and you find out they're actually nothing like the pic!!
Oh and I'm down as average....
They don't have short and squat but does ok in heels option
You are stunning young lady!"
You only see me at my best.
I have no issues saying I pick my best pics. |
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over a year ago
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"Shit I've put athletic too, should I change it?if so what too? I'm paranoid now
You better ask op shes the expert on mens body types
I never claimed to be an expert ffs! Wow have I touched a sensitive nerve
Nah i just dislike ppl trying to dictate how they use fab "
Not quite sure what the OP has done wrong. She put a question to the forum as to why men describe themselves as athletic when they are not. It's a fair question, and its obviously something that was of interest to the OP, and others are also clearly interested enough otherwise they wouldn't contribute to her thread. But her question was responded to that how people describe their body shape was not doing her any harm. I'm sure she didn't for one minute think that it was doing her any harm. We all have idle curiosities, about things that are not important, but it's fun to chat about them. Nobody is forced to join in a thread that they regard as a pointless question. I also see no evidence that the OP is dictating how others use this website, and she certainly didn't claim on this thread that she is an expert on this subject. |
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over a year ago
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"I put myself as Athletic...because for 49 I think I am
I'm not putting you down or anything at all like that. Your body is great. However, I am wondering what age has to do with it? Surely anyone at any age can be athletic....long as they work out.
I mean that compared to most 49 year olds I am athletic but compared to a lot of the chaps on here I'm probably not. According to you I'm not athletic then as I've never worked out in my life...I bet there are plenty of gym regulars who are anything but athletic...but good for them for having a go."
LOL another sensitive soul on here. I didn't say anything about going to the gym to work out. Working out to keep a trim body can be done anywhere. Even working within a vigorous manual type job, brisk walking or working out at home etc etc. Most 49 years old actually do still look great and in shape. Hunny,you aren't unique. |
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over a year ago
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"Why do some men state that they are athletic when they're clearly not? In fact I've seen more meat on a butcher's apron??
I'm not knocking men that don't have the athletic look but surely we will see in your pics that that's a lie?
I'm not slim and neither am I large so I would describe myself as average
Come on guys get real
Such a ridiculous statement.
Does the term athletic mean you need to look like Anthony Joshua?
Wow another one has jumped on the bandwagon pmsl"
It's ok I'm jumping back off now. Ive got a lunch time sparring session |
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"Would now be a good time to bring up the misleading usernames and profile pics?
"Tomhardylookalikeandmassivecockandsix" pack... Then a body pick resembling Troy and you find out they're actually nothing like the pic!!
Oh and I'm down as average....
They don't have short and squat but does ok in heels option
You are stunning young lady!
You only see me at my best.
I have no issues saying I pick my best pics. "
Im happy to chance you at your worst too |
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over a year ago
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I've put myself down as curvy but I'm prob more large/ample. But I don't feel like I'm deciving anyone as I've plenty of pics to show my body and I'm very comfortable with my figure. Xxx |
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over a year ago
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"Shit I've put athletic too, should I change it?if so what too? I'm paranoid now
You better ask op shes the expert on mens body types
I never claimed to be an expert ffs! Wow have I touched a sensitive nerve
Nah i just dislike ppl trying to dictate how they use fab
Not quite sure what the OP has done wrong. She put a question to the forum as to why men describe themselves as athletic when they are not. It's a fair question, and its obviously something that was of interest to the OP, and others are also clearly interested enough otherwise they wouldn't contribute to her thread. But her question was responded to that how people describe their body shape was not doing her any harm. I'm sure she didn't for one minute think that it was doing her any harm. We all have idle curiosities, about things that are not important, but it's fun to chat about them. Nobody is forced to join in a thread that they regard as a pointless question. I also see no evidence that the OP is dictating how others use this website, and she certainly didn't claim on this thread that she is an expert on this subject."
Thank you classy swingers for your feedback and you're right I wasn't trying to offend anyone but as someone else pointed out there's some sensitive souls on here that seem to take certain threads as a personal attack on them |
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over a year ago
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Ive just changed mine to average, although the average dude I see walking down the street is a fucking mess but I'll let people judge by my pics rather than a box that I tick |
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over a year ago
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"Shit I've put athletic too, should I change it?if so what too? I'm paranoid now
You better ask op shes the expert on mens body types
I never claimed to be an expert ffs! Wow have I touched a sensitive nerve
Nah i just dislike ppl trying to dictate how they use fab
Not quite sure what the OP has done wrong. She put a question to the forum as to why men describe themselves as athletic when they are not. It's a fair question, and its obviously something that was of interest to the OP, and others are also clearly interested enough otherwise they wouldn't contribute to her thread. But her question was responded to that how people describe their body shape was not doing her any harm. I'm sure she didn't for one minute think that it was doing her any harm. We all have idle curiosities, about things that are not important, but it's fun to chat about them. Nobody is forced to join in a thread that they regard as a pointless question. I also see no evidence that the OP is dictating how others use this website, and she certainly didn't claim on this thread that she is an expert on this subject.
Thank you classy swingers for your feedback and you're right I wasn't trying to offend anyone but as someone else pointed out there's some sensitive souls on here that seem to take certain threads as a personal attack on them "
So if someone makes a comment aimed directly at you then you shouldn't reply as that makes you a 'sensitive soul'...oh I forgot the rules for a second. |
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"Shit I've put athletic too, should I change it?if so what too? I'm paranoid now
You better ask op shes the expert on mens body types
I never claimed to be an expert ffs! Wow have I touched a sensitive nerve
Nah i just dislike ppl trying to dictate how they use fab
Not quite sure what the OP has done wrong. She put a question to the forum as to why men describe themselves as athletic when they are not. It's a fair question, and its obviously something that was of interest to the OP, and others are also clearly interested enough otherwise they wouldn't contribute to her thread. But her question was responded to that how people describe their body shape was not doing her any harm. I'm sure she didn't for one minute think that it was doing her any harm. We all have idle curiosities, about things that are not important, but it's fun to chat about them. Nobody is forced to join in a thread that they regard as a pointless question. I also see no evidence that the OP is dictating how others use this website, and she certainly didn't claim on this thread that she is an expert on this subject.
Thank you classy swingers for your feedback and you're right I wasn't trying to offend anyone but as someone else pointed out there's some sensitive souls on here that seem to take certain threads as a personal attack on them
So if someone makes a comment aimed directly at you then you shouldn't reply as that makes you a 'sensitive soul'...oh I forgot the rules for a second."
Of course not, people have every right to defend themselves when something has be said about them that is not nice or not true. |
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"Shit I've put athletic too, should I change it?if so what too? I'm paranoid now
You better ask op shes the expert on mens body types
I never claimed to be an expert ffs! Wow have I touched a sensitive nerve
Nah i just dislike ppl trying to dictate how they use fab
Not quite sure what the OP has done wrong. She put a question to the forum as to why men describe themselves as athletic when they are not. It's a fair question, and its obviously something that was of interest to the OP, and others are also clearly interested enough otherwise they wouldn't contribute to her thread. But her question was responded to that how people describe their body shape was not doing her any harm. I'm sure she didn't for one minute think that it was doing her any harm. We all have idle curiosities, about things that are not important, but it's fun to chat about them. Nobody is forced to join in a thread that they regard as a pointless question. I also see no evidence that the OP is dictating how others use this website, and she certainly didn't claim on this thread that she is an expert on this subject.
Thank you classy swingers for your feedback and you're right I wasn't trying to offend anyone but as someone else pointed out there's some sensitive souls on here that seem to take certain threads as a personal attack on them
So if someone makes a comment aimed directly at you then you shouldn't reply as that makes you a 'sensitive soul'...oh I forgot the rules for a second.
Of course not, people have every right to defend themselves when something has be said about them that is not nice or not true."
Not so thou. Being called a bitch is ok |
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"Shit I've put athletic too, should I change it?if so what too? I'm paranoid now
You better ask op shes the expert on mens body types
I never claimed to be an expert ffs! Wow have I touched a sensitive nerve
Nah i just dislike ppl trying to dictate how they use fab
Not quite sure what the OP has done wrong. She put a question to the forum as to why men describe themselves as athletic when they are not. It's a fair question, and its obviously something that was of interest to the OP, and others are also clearly interested enough otherwise they wouldn't contribute to her thread. But her question was responded to that how people describe their body shape was not doing her any harm. I'm sure she didn't for one minute think that it was doing her any harm. We all have idle curiosities, about things that are not important, but it's fun to chat about them. Nobody is forced to join in a thread that they regard as a pointless question. I also see no evidence that the OP is dictating how others use this website, and she certainly didn't claim on this thread that she is an expert on this subject.
Thank you classy swingers for your feedback and you're right I wasn't trying to offend anyone but as someone else pointed out there's some sensitive souls on here that seem to take certain threads as a personal attack on them
So if someone makes a comment aimed directly at you then you shouldn't reply as that makes you a 'sensitive soul'...oh I forgot the rules for a second."
Only men shouldnt reply. |
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over a year ago
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"Shit I've put athletic too, should I change it?if so what too? I'm paranoid now
You better ask op shes the expert on mens body types
I never claimed to be an expert ffs! Wow have I touched a sensitive nerve
Nah i just dislike ppl trying to dictate how they use fab
Not quite sure what the OP has done wrong. She put a question to the forum as to why men describe themselves as athletic when they are not. It's a fair question, and its obviously something that was of interest to the OP, and others are also clearly interested enough otherwise they wouldn't contribute to her thread. But her question was responded to that how people describe their body shape was not doing her any harm. I'm sure she didn't for one minute think that it was doing her any harm. We all have idle curiosities, about things that are not important, but it's fun to chat about them. Nobody is forced to join in a thread that they regard as a pointless question. I also see no evidence that the OP is dictating how others use this website, and she certainly didn't claim on this thread that she is an expert on this subject.
Thank you classy swingers for your feedback and you're right I wasn't trying to offend anyone but as someone else pointed out there's some sensitive souls on here that seem to take certain threads as a personal attack on them
So if someone makes a comment aimed directly at you then you shouldn't reply as that makes you a 'sensitive soul'...oh I forgot the rules for a second.
Only men shouldnt reply. "
Oh get a grip |
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"Ive just changed mine to average, although the average dude I see walking down the street is a fucking mess but I'll let people judge by my pics rather than a box that I tick "
I'd go with average too |
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"It seems as though a lot of men think skinny is athletic, they really should put in a muscular option aswell for guys, just so the skinny people can't choose it
Muscular people aren't necessarily athletic. Athletic has more to do with ability rather than looks so in reality the term can be used widely.
What's the point of being 20st of muscle when you can't even do 10 pull ups or run a mile without having a heart attack. "
Any professional athlete with the exception of maybe marathon runners are usually muscular therefore athletic is muscular, I'm not necessarily talking about bodybuilder muscular here
Remember everyone a skinny guy with abs is like a fat chick with big tits, it doesn't really count |
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"Ive just changed mine to average, although the average dude I see walking down the street is a fucking mess but I'll let people judge by my pics rather than a box that I tick
I'd go with average too "
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If people aren't aware that certain adjectives used commonly on this site are open to interpretation then that must be considered a little naive.
The word athletic in a man's profile can mean anything from a marathon runner's physique right up to your hairy arsed shot putter. Just depends on the sport really doesn't it?
The word curvy on a woman's profile can also vary from slender hour glass figure right up to morbidly obese.
So we can either check their pics out and see for ourselves or just avoid anyone with these obscure words in their profile altogether. Simples |
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"Shit I've put athletic too, should I change it?if so what too? I'm paranoid now
You better ask op shes the expert on mens body types
I never claimed to be an expert ffs! Wow have I touched a sensitive nerve
Nah i just dislike ppl trying to dictate how they use fab
Not quite sure what the OP has done wrong. She put a question to the forum as to why men describe themselves as athletic when they are not. It's a fair question, and its obviously something that was of interest to the OP, and others are also clearly interested enough otherwise they wouldn't contribute to her thread. But her question was responded to that how people describe their body shape was not doing her any harm. I'm sure she didn't for one minute think that it was doing her any harm. We all have idle curiosities, about things that are not important, but it's fun to chat about them. Nobody is forced to join in a thread that they regard as a pointless question. I also see no evidence that the OP is dictating how others use this website, and she certainly didn't claim on this thread that she is an expert on this subject.
Thank you classy swingers for your feedback and you're right I wasn't trying to offend anyone but as someone else pointed out there's some sensitive souls on here that seem to take certain threads as a personal attack on them
So if someone makes a comment aimed directly at you then you shouldn't reply as that makes you a 'sensitive soul'...oh I forgot the rules for a second.
Of course not, people have every right to defend themselves when something has be said about them that is not nice or not true.
Not so thou. Being called a bitch is ok "
Yes she shouldn't have retaliated in that manner to the poster who seemed to put her down at the beginning of the thread. It would have been better for her defend her position. But the OP certainly never claimed to be an expert, nor was she dictating how Fab should be used. |
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"Why do some men state that they are athletic when they're clearly not? In fact I've seen more meat on a butcher's apron??
I'm not knocking men that don't have the athletic look but surely we will see in your pics that that's a lie?
I'm not slim and neither am I large so I would describe myself as average
Come on guys get real"
Average is skewed more towards large than slim, so your photos show you to be a lot fitter than average |
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"Why do some men state that they are athletic when they're clearly not? In fact I've seen more meat on a butcher's apron??
I'm not knocking men that don't have the athletic look but surely we will see in your pics that that's a lie?
I'm not slim and neither am I large so I would describe myself as average
Come on guys get real"
Fabulous is used incorrectly too |
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In future I shall choose my words more carefully before posting as I never came on here to upset or offend anyone or make personal attacks!
Will also add that if anyone has took my thread personally then that's your problem not mine |
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"Shit I've put athletic too, should I change it?if so what too? I'm paranoid now
You better ask op shes the expert on mens body types
I never claimed to be an expert ffs! Wow have I touched a sensitive nerve
Nah i just dislike ppl trying to dictate how they use fab
Not quite sure what the OP has done wrong. She put a question to the forum as to why men describe themselves as athletic when they are not. It's a fair question, and its obviously something that was of interest to the OP, and others are also clearly interested enough otherwise they wouldn't contribute to her thread. But her question was responded to that how people describe their body shape was not doing her any harm. I'm sure she didn't for one minute think that it was doing her any harm. We all have idle curiosities, about things that are not important, but it's fun to chat about them. Nobody is forced to join in a thread that they regard as a pointless question. I also see no evidence that the OP is dictating how others use this website, and she certainly didn't claim on this thread that she is an expert on this subject.
Thank you classy swingers for your feedback and you're right I wasn't trying to offend anyone but as someone else pointed out there's some sensitive souls on here that seem to take certain threads as a personal attack on them
So if someone makes a comment aimed directly at you then you shouldn't reply as that makes you a 'sensitive soul'...oh I forgot the rules for a second.
Of course not, people have every right to defend themselves when something has be said about them that is not nice or not true.
Not so thou. Being called a bitch is ok
Yes she shouldn't have retaliated in that manner to the poster who seemed to put her down at the beginning of the thread. It would have been better for her defend her position. But the OP certainly never claimed to be an expert, nor was she dictating how Fab should be used."
Asking how it harms her is putting her down? And it was aimed at me. Right you are. The double standards on here is shocking at times |
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"In future I shall choose my words more carefully before posting as I never came on here to upset or offend anyone or make personal attacks!
Will also add that if anyone has took my thread personally then that's your problem not mine "
Great pics miss lolly |
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"Should have dress sizes and breast/cup sizing for women x
For men waist size and chest size aswell x"
How many do you think would fill that in honestly
If I had to put my dress size in public I'd leave the site |
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"Shit I've put athletic too, should I change it?if so what too? I'm paranoid now
You better ask op shes the expert on mens body types
I never claimed to be an expert ffs! Wow have I touched a sensitive nerve
Nah i just dislike ppl trying to dictate how they use fab
Not quite sure what the OP has done wrong. She put a question to the forum as to why men describe themselves as athletic when they are not. It's a fair question, and its obviously something that was of interest to the OP, and others are also clearly interested enough otherwise they wouldn't contribute to her thread. But her question was responded to that how people describe their body shape was not doing her any harm. I'm sure she didn't for one minute think that it was doing her any harm. We all have idle curiosities, about things that are not important, but it's fun to chat about them. Nobody is forced to join in a thread that they regard as a pointless question. I also see no evidence that the OP is dictating how others use this website, and she certainly didn't claim on this thread that she is an expert on this subject.
Thank you classy swingers for your feedback and you're right I wasn't trying to offend anyone but as someone else pointed out there's some sensitive souls on here that seem to take certain threads as a personal attack on them
So if someone makes a comment aimed directly at you then you shouldn't reply as that makes you a 'sensitive soul'...oh I forgot the rules for a second.
Of course not, people have every right to defend themselves when something has be said about them that is not nice or not true.
Not so thou. Being called a bitch is ok
Yes she shouldn't have retaliated in that manner to the poster who seemed to put her down at the beginning of the thread. It would have been better for her defend her position. But the OP certainly never claimed to be an expert, nor was she dictating how Fab should be used.
Asking how it harms her is putting her down? And it was aimed at me. Right you are. The double standards on here is shocking at times "
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"Should have dress sizes and breast/cup sizing for women x
For men waist size and chest size aswell x
How many do you think would fill that in honestly
If I had to put my dress size in public I'd leave the site "
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"In future I shall choose my words more carefully before posting as I never came on here to upset or offend anyone or make personal attacks!
Will also add that if anyone has took my thread personally then that's your problem not mine
Great pics miss lolly"
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"Why do some men state that they are athletic when they're clearly not? In fact I've seen more meat on a butcher's apron??
I'm not knocking men that don't have the athletic look but surely we will see in your pics that that's a lie?
I'm not slim and neither am I large so I would describe myself as average
Come on guys get real"
Average all over...parts of me are athletic.. |
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"Why do some men state that they are athletic when they're clearly not? In fact I've seen more meat on a butcher's apron??
I'm not knocking men that don't have the athletic look but surely we will see in your pics that that's a lie?
I'm not slim and neither am I large so I would describe myself as average
Come on guys get real
Average all over...parts of me are athletic.."
I've noticed the 'parts' lol |
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over a year ago
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I'm an over all fat bastard but I cycle around 30 mile a day so have really muscular/toned legs and calf's, go figure out that one
Is there just an athletic legs option |
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I don't normally look at the body description as it's too vague. I just go by photos usually. It shouldn't be a massive issue. It wouldn't put me off meeting someone. |
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"Shit I've put athletic too, should I change it?if so what too? I'm paranoid now
You better ask op shes the expert on mens body types
I never claimed to be an expert ffs! Wow have I touched a sensitive nerve
Nah i just dislike ppl trying to dictate how they use fab
Not quite sure what the OP has done wrong. She put a question to the forum as to why men describe themselves as athletic when they are not. It's a fair question, and its obviously something that was of interest to the OP, and others are also clearly interested enough otherwise they wouldn't contribute to her thread. But her question was responded to that how people describe their body shape was not doing her any harm. I'm sure she didn't for one minute think that it was doing her any harm. We all have idle curiosities, about things that are not important, but it's fun to chat about them. Nobody is forced to join in a thread that they regard as a pointless question. I also see no evidence that the OP is dictating how others use this website, and she certainly didn't claim on this thread that she is an expert on this subject.
Thank you classy swingers for your feedback and you're right I wasn't trying to offend anyone but as someone else pointed out there's some sensitive souls on here that seem to take certain threads as a personal attack on them
So if someone makes a comment aimed directly at you then you shouldn't reply as that makes you a 'sensitive soul'...oh I forgot the rules for a second.
Of course not, people have every right to defend themselves when something has be said about them that is not nice or not true.
Not so thou. Being called a bitch is ok
Yes she shouldn't have retaliated in that manner to the poster who seemed to put her down at the beginning of the thread. It would have been better for her defend her position. But the OP certainly never claimed to be an expert, nor was she dictating how Fab should be used.
Asking how it harms her is putting her down? And it was aimed at me. Right you are. The double standards on here is shocking at times "
No double standards as far as I'm concerned. I did say people shouldn't retaliate in that manner. How was your first post a put down? Maybe it wasn't intended that way, but what you said jarred with me, and it wasn't even said to me. I personally would be quite upset if I put an innocent question to the forum and somebody says something like 'it doesn't do you any harm', or 'it doesn't matter' or 'it doesn't effect you'. I see people respond to forum questions like that a lot, and it usually causes a reaction from whoever the OP is. When people respond to an forum question like that it comes across to me as dismissive and as though the OP shouldn't be asking the question. |
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I suppose it depends on what athletic is, I know plenty of muscular guys who can't run 500m, last 90 mins on a football field, swim 10 lengths.
I consider myself somewhat athletic as I play several sports, try to keep in shape, and go to the gym regularly.
Probably would describe my body as average though in all fairness |
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"Shit I've put athletic too, should I change it?if so what too? I'm paranoid now
You better ask op shes the expert on mens body types
I never claimed to be an expert ffs! Wow have I touched a sensitive nerve
Nah i just dislike ppl trying to dictate how they use fab
Not quite sure what the OP has done wrong. She put a question to the forum as to why men describe themselves as athletic when they are not. It's a fair question, and its obviously something that was of interest to the OP, and others are also clearly interested enough otherwise they wouldn't contribute to her thread. But her question was responded to that how people describe their body shape was not doing her any harm. I'm sure she didn't for one minute think that it was doing her any harm. We all have idle curiosities, about things that are not important, but it's fun to chat about them. Nobody is forced to join in a thread that they regard as a pointless question. I also see no evidence that the OP is dictating how others use this website, and she certainly didn't claim on this thread that she is an expert on this subject.
Thank you classy swingers for your feedback and you're right I wasn't trying to offend anyone but as someone else pointed out there's some sensitive souls on here that seem to take certain threads as a personal attack on them
So if someone makes a comment aimed directly at you then you shouldn't reply as that makes you a 'sensitive soul'...oh I forgot the rules for a second.
Of course not, people have every right to defend themselves when something has be said about them that is not nice or not true.
Not so thou. Being called a bitch is ok
Yes she shouldn't have retaliated in that manner to the poster who seemed to put her down at the beginning of the thread. It would have been better for her defend her position. But the OP certainly never claimed to be an expert, nor was she dictating how Fab should be used.
Asking how it harms her is putting her down? And it was aimed at me. Right you are. The double standards on here is shocking at times
No double standards as far as I'm concerned. I did say people shouldn't retaliate in that manner. How was your first post a put down? Maybe it wasn't intended that way, but what you said jarred with me, and it wasn't even said to me. I personally would be quite upset if I put an innocent question to the forum and somebody says something like 'it doesn't do you any harm', or 'it doesn't matter' or 'it doesn't effect you'. I see people respond to forum questions like that a lot, and it usually causes a reaction from whoever the OP is. When people respond to an forum question like that it comes across to me as dismissive and as though the OP shouldn't be asking the question."
Well as its only words on a screen no one ever knows what context its meant in and shows how easy ppl can take comments the wrong way. As for double standards. If a guy was an op and posted why do women on fab use slim/curvy etc when there not it would course outrage. Ive noticed the women on fab all stick together so you jumping to the op defence dont surprise me one bit.
Its called white knighting in male terms |
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I met someone that put athletic and was overweight plus his pics were 10 years out of date.....i did say to him about it and he's changed his status but not his pics lol
I put curvy as i thought this was sexy for a woman and i go in and out of the right places lol plus it says on my profile that I'm a 10-12....but have now changed it to fabulous |
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"Shit I've put athletic too, should I change it?if so what too? I'm paranoid now
You better ask op shes the expert on mens body types
I never claimed to be an expert ffs! Wow have I touched a sensitive nerve
Nah i just dislike ppl trying to dictate how they use fab
Not quite sure what the OP has done wrong. She put a question to the forum as to why men describe themselves as athletic when they are not. It's a fair question, and its obviously something that was of interest to the OP, and others are also clearly interested enough otherwise they wouldn't contribute to her thread. But her question was responded to that how people describe their body shape was not doing her any harm. I'm sure she didn't for one minute think that it was doing her any harm. We all have idle curiosities, about things that are not important, but it's fun to chat about them. Nobody is forced to join in a thread that they regard as a pointless question. I also see no evidence that the OP is dictating how others use this website, and she certainly didn't claim on this thread that she is an expert on this subject.
Thank you classy swingers for your feedback and you're right I wasn't trying to offend anyone but as someone else pointed out there's some sensitive souls on here that seem to take certain threads as a personal attack on them
So if someone makes a comment aimed directly at you then you shouldn't reply as that makes you a 'sensitive soul'...oh I forgot the rules for a second.
Of course not, people have every right to defend themselves when something has be said about them that is not nice or not true.
Not so thou. Being called a bitch is ok
Yes she shouldn't have retaliated in that manner to the poster who seemed to put her down at the beginning of the thread. It would have been better for her defend her position. But the OP certainly never claimed to be an expert, nor was she dictating how Fab should be used.
Asking how it harms her is putting her down? And it was aimed at me. Right you are. The double standards on here is shocking at times
No double standards as far as I'm concerned. I did say people shouldn't retaliate in that manner. How was your first post a put down? Maybe it wasn't intended that way, but what you said jarred with me, and it wasn't even said to me. I personally would be quite upset if I put an innocent question to the forum and somebody says something like 'it doesn't do you any harm', or 'it doesn't matter' or 'it doesn't effect you'. I see people respond to forum questions like that a lot, and it usually causes a reaction from whoever the OP is. When people respond to an forum question like that it comes across to me as dismissive and as though the OP shouldn't be asking the question.
Well as its only words on a screen no one ever knows what context its meant in and shows how easy ppl can take comments the wrong way. As for double standards. If a guy was an op and posted why do women on fab use slim/curvy etc when there not it would course outrage. Ive noticed the women on fab all stick together so you jumping to the op defence dont surprise me one bit.
Its called white knighting in male terms "
Indeed! With the written word people have to be so careful how something may be read by others. And you are very right. I have seen a similar thread where a male OP was asking why women choose to categorise their body types in certain ways and he was practically crucified by a number of female posters. I felt very sorry for him because I didn't think he was offensive. |
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"I suppose it depends on what athletic is, I know plenty of muscular guys who can't run 500m, last 90 mins on a football field, swim 10 lengths.
I consider myself somewhat athletic as I play several sports, try to keep in shape, and go to the gym regularly.
Probably would describe my body as average though in all fairness "
I would offer an opinion, but your thumbnail pic is too small and the other one looks like a ghost picture! |
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"I suppose it depends on what athletic is, I know plenty of muscular guys who can't run 500m, last 90 mins on a football field, swim 10 lengths.
I consider myself somewhat athletic as I play several sports, try to keep in shape, and go to the gym regularly.
Probably would describe my body as average though in all fairness
I would offer an opinion, but your thumbnail pic is too small and the other one looks like a ghost picture! "
I'll add some more just for you guys |
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"Shit I've put athletic too, should I change it?if so what too? I'm paranoid now
You better ask op shes the expert on mens body types
I never claimed to be an expert ffs! Wow have I touched a sensitive nerve
Nah i just dislike ppl trying to dictate how they use fab
Not quite sure what the OP has done wrong. She put a question to the forum as to why men describe themselves as athletic when they are not. It's a fair question, and its obviously something that was of interest to the OP, and others are also clearly interested enough otherwise they wouldn't contribute to her thread. But her question was responded to that how people describe their body shape was not doing her any harm. I'm sure she didn't for one minute think that it was doing her any harm. We all have idle curiosities, about things that are not important, but it's fun to chat about them. Nobody is forced to join in a thread that they regard as a pointless question. I also see no evidence that the OP is dictating how others use this website, and she certainly didn't claim on this thread that she is an expert on this subject.
Thank you classy swingers for your feedback and you're right I wasn't trying to offend anyone but as someone else pointed out there's some sensitive souls on here that seem to take certain threads as a personal attack on them
So if someone makes a comment aimed directly at you then you shouldn't reply as that makes you a 'sensitive soul'...oh I forgot the rules for a second.
Of course not, people have every right to defend themselves when something has be said about them that is not nice or not true.
Not so thou. Being called a bitch is ok
Yes she shouldn't have retaliated in that manner to the poster who seemed to put her down at the beginning of the thread. It would have been better for her defend her position. But the OP certainly never claimed to be an expert, nor was she dictating how Fab should be used.
Asking how it harms her is putting her down? And it was aimed at me. Right you are. The double standards on here is shocking at times
No double standards as far as I'm concerned. I did say people shouldn't retaliate in that manner. How was your first post a put down? Maybe it wasn't intended that way, but what you said jarred with me, and it wasn't even said to me. I personally would be quite upset if I put an innocent question to the forum and somebody says something like 'it doesn't do you any harm', or 'it doesn't matter' or 'it doesn't effect you'. I see people respond to forum questions like that a lot, and it usually causes a reaction from whoever the OP is. When people respond to an forum question like that it comes across to me as dismissive and as though the OP shouldn't be asking the question.
Well as its only words on a screen no one ever knows what context its meant in and shows how easy ppl can take comments the wrong way. As for double standards. If a guy was an op and posted why do women on fab use slim/curvy etc when there not it would course outrage. Ive noticed the women on fab all stick together so you jumping to the op defence dont surprise me one bit.
Its called white knighting in male terms "
What ever anyone as put in response to your comments you've only had something negative to say back. Really looks like your trying to make a argument and also carry one on. A simple question was asked your response was how does it affect you. Same could be said to you how did the op question affect you unless she was talking about you in her question witch she clearly wasn't. |
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over a year ago
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I think the definition of athletic has probably changed over the years. if you look at athletes in the past they were always toned but generally slim, in more recent years athletes have become bulkier (especially sprinters) and it is probably this that fuels the expectation of what athletic is |
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"Shit I've put athletic too, should I change it?if so what too? I'm paranoid now
You better ask op shes the expert on mens body types
I never claimed to be an expert ffs! Wow have I touched a sensitive nerve
Nah i just dislike ppl trying to dictate how they use fab
Not quite sure what the OP has done wrong. She put a question to the forum as to why men describe themselves as athletic when they are not. It's a fair question, and its obviously something that was of interest to the OP, and others are also clearly interested enough otherwise they wouldn't contribute to her thread. But her question was responded to that how people describe their body shape was not doing her any harm. I'm sure she didn't for one minute think that it was doing her any harm. We all have idle curiosities, about things that are not important, but it's fun to chat about them. Nobody is forced to join in a thread that they regard as a pointless question. I also see no evidence that the OP is dictating how others use this website, and she certainly didn't claim on this thread that she is an expert on this subject.
Thank you classy swingers for your feedback and you're right I wasn't trying to offend anyone but as someone else pointed out there's some sensitive souls on here that seem to take certain threads as a personal attack on them
So if someone makes a comment aimed directly at you then you shouldn't reply as that makes you a 'sensitive soul'...oh I forgot the rules for a second.
Of course not, people have every right to defend themselves when something has be said about them that is not nice or not true.
Not so thou. Being called a bitch is ok
Yes she shouldn't have retaliated in that manner to the poster who seemed to put her down at the beginning of the thread. It would have been better for her defend her position. But the OP certainly never claimed to be an expert, nor was she dictating how Fab should be used.
Asking how it harms her is putting her down? And it was aimed at me. Right you are. The double standards on here is shocking at times
No double standards as far as I'm concerned. I did say people shouldn't retaliate in that manner. How was your first post a put down? Maybe it wasn't intended that way, but what you said jarred with me, and it wasn't even said to me. I personally would be quite upset if I put an innocent question to the forum and somebody says something like 'it doesn't do you any harm', or 'it doesn't matter' or 'it doesn't effect you'. I see people respond to forum questions like that a lot, and it usually causes a reaction from whoever the OP is. When people respond to an forum question like that it comes across to me as dismissive and as though the OP shouldn't be asking the question.
Well as its only words on a screen no one ever knows what context its meant in and shows how easy ppl can take comments the wrong way. As for double standards. If a guy was an op and posted why do women on fab use slim/curvy etc when there not it would course outrage. Ive noticed the women on fab all stick together so you jumping to the op defence dont surprise me one bit.
Its called white knighting in male terms
What ever anyone as put in response to your comments you've only had something negative to say back. Really looks like your trying to make a argument and also carry one on. A simple question was asked your response was how does it affect you. Same could be said to you how did the op question affect you unless she was talking about you in her question witch she clearly wasn't. "
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"Shit I've put athletic too, should I change it?if so what too? I'm paranoid now
You better ask op shes the expert on mens body types
I never claimed to be an expert ffs! Wow have I touched a sensitive nerve
Nah i just dislike ppl trying to dictate how they use fab
Not quite sure what the OP has done wrong. She put a question to the forum as to why men describe themselves as athletic when they are not. It's a fair question, and its obviously something that was of interest to the OP, and others are also clearly interested enough otherwise they wouldn't contribute to her thread. But her question was responded to that how people describe their body shape was not doing her any harm. I'm sure she didn't for one minute think that it was doing her any harm. We all have idle curiosities, about things that are not important, but it's fun to chat about them. Nobody is forced to join in a thread that they regard as a pointless question. I also see no evidence that the OP is dictating how others use this website, and she certainly didn't claim on this thread that she is an expert on this subject.
Thank you classy swingers for your feedback and you're right I wasn't trying to offend anyone but as someone else pointed out there's some sensitive souls on here that seem to take certain threads as a personal attack on them
So if someone makes a comment aimed directly at you then you shouldn't reply as that makes you a 'sensitive soul'...oh I forgot the rules for a second.
Of course not, people have every right to defend themselves when something has be said about them that is not nice or not true.
Not so thou. Being called a bitch is ok
Yes she shouldn't have retaliated in that manner to the poster who seemed to put her down at the beginning of the thread. It would have been better for her defend her position. But the OP certainly never claimed to be an expert, nor was she dictating how Fab should be used.
Asking how it harms her is putting her down? And it was aimed at me. Right you are. The double standards on here is shocking at times
No double standards as far as I'm concerned. I did say people shouldn't retaliate in that manner. How was your first post a put down? Maybe it wasn't intended that way, but what you said jarred with me, and it wasn't even said to me. I personally would be quite upset if I put an innocent question to the forum and somebody says something like 'it doesn't do you any harm', or 'it doesn't matter' or 'it doesn't effect you'. I see people respond to forum questions like that a lot, and it usually causes a reaction from whoever the OP is. When people respond to an forum question like that it comes across to me as dismissive and as though the OP shouldn't be asking the question.
Well as its only words on a screen no one ever knows what context its meant in and shows how easy ppl can take comments the wrong way. As for double standards. If a guy was an op and posted why do women on fab use slim/curvy etc when there not it would course outrage. Ive noticed the women on fab all stick together so you jumping to the op defence dont surprise me one bit.
Its called white knighting in male terms
Indeed! With the written word people have to be so careful how something may be read by others. And you are very right. I have seen a similar thread where a male OP was asking why women choose to categorise their body types in certain ways and he was practically crucified by a number of female posters. I felt very sorry for him because I didn't think he was offensive."
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"I suppose it depends on what athletic is, I know plenty of muscular guys who can't run 500m, last 90 mins on a football field, swim 10 lengths.
I consider myself somewhat athletic as I play several sports, try to keep in shape, and go to the gym regularly.
Probably would describe my body as average though in all fairness
I would offer an opinion, but your thumbnail pic is too small and the other one looks like a ghost picture!
I'll add some more just for you guys "
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"Shit I've put athletic too, should I change it?if so what too? I'm paranoid now
You better ask op shes the expert on mens body types
I never claimed to be an expert ffs! Wow have I touched a sensitive nerve
Nah i just dislike ppl trying to dictate how they use fab
Not quite sure what the OP has done wrong. She put a question to the forum as to why men describe themselves as athletic when they are not. It's a fair question, and its obviously something that was of interest to the OP, and others are also clearly interested enough otherwise they wouldn't contribute to her thread. But her question was responded to that how people describe their body shape was not doing her any harm. I'm sure she didn't for one minute think that it was doing her any harm. We all have idle curiosities, about things that are not important, but it's fun to chat about them. Nobody is forced to join in a thread that they regard as a pointless question. I also see no evidence that the OP is dictating how others use this website, and she certainly didn't claim on this thread that she is an expert on this subject.
Thank you classy swingers for your feedback and you're right I wasn't trying to offend anyone but as someone else pointed out there's some sensitive souls on here that seem to take certain threads as a personal attack on them
So if someone makes a comment aimed directly at you then you shouldn't reply as that makes you a 'sensitive soul'...oh I forgot the rules for a second.
Of course not, people have every right to defend themselves when something has be said about them that is not nice or not true.
Not so thou. Being called a bitch is ok
Yes she shouldn't have retaliated in that manner to the poster who seemed to put her down at the beginning of the thread. It would have been better for her defend her position. But the OP certainly never claimed to be an expert, nor was she dictating how Fab should be used.
Asking how it harms her is putting her down? And it was aimed at me. Right you are. The double standards on here is shocking at times
No double standards as far as I'm concerned. I did say people shouldn't retaliate in that manner. How was your first post a put down? Maybe it wasn't intended that way, but what you said jarred with me, and it wasn't even said to me. I personally would be quite upset if I put an innocent question to the forum and somebody says something like 'it doesn't do you any harm', or 'it doesn't matter' or 'it doesn't effect you'. I see people respond to forum questions like that a lot, and it usually causes a reaction from whoever the OP is. When people respond to an forum question like that it comes across to me as dismissive and as though the OP shouldn't be asking the question.
Well as its only words on a screen no one ever knows what context its meant in and shows how easy ppl can take comments the wrong way. As for double standards. If a guy was an op and posted why do women on fab use slim/curvy etc when there not it would course outrage. Ive noticed the women on fab all stick together so you jumping to the op defence dont surprise me one bit.
Its called white knighting in male terms
What ever anyone as put in response to your comments you've only had something negative to say back. Really looks like your trying to make a argument and also carry one on. A simple question was asked your response was how does it affect you. Same could be said to you how did the op question affect you unless she was talking about you in her question witch she clearly wasn't.
And another comes to the ladies rescue. I rest my case "
Unfortunately for you this is the male half of the couple so your case as just gone out the window lmao. |
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"I'm down as fabulous!
Why should only the big girls be described so!? "
I always thought fabulous was another way of saying you didn't fit into another category?
I'm pretty sure people can decide my body type when they look at my photos.. I'm big, fat, overweight curvy, BBW, whatever others wanna describe me as...I can't even remember what I settled on as my description.
And OP athletic can be slim like a sprinter, big like a rugby player, top heavy like a swimmer, leg heavy like a cyclist. Not all athletes look the same! |
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"Shit I've put athletic too, should I change it?if so what too? I'm paranoid now
You better ask op shes the expert on mens body types
I never claimed to be an expert ffs! Wow have I touched a sensitive nerve
Nah i just dislike ppl trying to dictate how they use fab
Not quite sure what the OP has done wrong. She put a question to the forum as to why men describe themselves as athletic when they are not. It's a fair question, and its obviously something that was of interest to the OP, and others are also clearly interested enough otherwise they wouldn't contribute to her thread. But her question was responded to that how people describe their body shape was not doing her any harm. I'm sure she didn't for one minute think that it was doing her any harm. We all have idle curiosities, about things that are not important, but it's fun to chat about them. Nobody is forced to join in a thread that they regard as a pointless question. I also see no evidence that the OP is dictating how others use this website, and she certainly didn't claim on this thread that she is an expert on this subject.
Thank you classy swingers for your feedback and you're right I wasn't trying to offend anyone but as someone else pointed out there's some sensitive souls on here that seem to take certain threads as a personal attack on them
So if someone makes a comment aimed directly at you then you shouldn't reply as that makes you a 'sensitive soul'...oh I forgot the rules for a second.
Of course not, people have every right to defend themselves when something has be said about them that is not nice or not true.
Not so thou. Being called a bitch is ok
Yes she shouldn't have retaliated in that manner to the poster who seemed to put her down at the beginning of the thread. It would have been better for her defend her position. But the OP certainly never claimed to be an expert, nor was she dictating how Fab should be used.
Asking how it harms her is putting her down? And it was aimed at me. Right you are. The double standards on here is shocking at times
No double standards as far as I'm concerned. I did say people shouldn't retaliate in that manner. How was your first post a put down? Maybe it wasn't intended that way, but what you said jarred with me, and it wasn't even said to me. I personally would be quite upset if I put an innocent question to the forum and somebody says something like 'it doesn't do you any harm', or 'it doesn't matter' or 'it doesn't effect you'. I see people respond to forum questions like that a lot, and it usually causes a reaction from whoever the OP is. When people respond to an forum question like that it comes across to me as dismissive and as though the OP shouldn't be asking the question.
Well as its only words on a screen no one ever knows what context its meant in and shows how easy ppl can take comments the wrong way. As for double standards. If a guy was an op and posted why do women on fab use slim/curvy etc when there not it would course outrage. Ive noticed the women on fab all stick together so you jumping to the op defence dont surprise me one bit.
Its called white knighting in male terms
What ever anyone as put in response to your comments you've only had something negative to say back. Really looks like your trying to make a argument and also carry one on. A simple question was asked your response was how does it affect you. Same could be said to you how did the op question affect you unless she was talking about you in her question witch she clearly wasn't.
And another comes to the ladies rescue. I rest my case
Unfortunately for you this is the male half of the couple so your case as just gone out the window lmao. "
Male or female dont really matter. Sucking up to the women of fab dont get you a fuck just makes you look like a yes man |
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"Shit I've put athletic too, should I change it?if so what too? I'm paranoid now
You better ask op shes the expert on mens body types
I never claimed to be an expert ffs! Wow have I touched a sensitive nerve
Nah i just dislike ppl trying to dictate how they use fab
Not quite sure what the OP has done wrong. She put a question to the forum as to why men describe themselves as athletic when they are not. It's a fair question, and its obviously something that was of interest to the OP, and others are also clearly interested enough otherwise they wouldn't contribute to her thread. But her question was responded to that how people describe their body shape was not doing her any harm. I'm sure she didn't for one minute think that it was doing her any harm. We all have idle curiosities, about things that are not important, but it's fun to chat about them. Nobody is forced to join in a thread that they regard as a pointless question. I also see no evidence that the OP is dictating how others use this website, and she certainly didn't claim on this thread that she is an expert on this subject.
Thank you classy swingers for your feedback and you're right I wasn't trying to offend anyone but as someone else pointed out there's some sensitive souls on here that seem to take certain threads as a personal attack on them
So if someone makes a comment aimed directly at you then you shouldn't reply as that makes you a 'sensitive soul'...oh I forgot the rules for a second.
Of course not, people have every right to defend themselves when something has be said about them that is not nice or not true.
Not so thou. Being called a bitch is ok
Yes she shouldn't have retaliated in that manner to the poster who seemed to put her down at the beginning of the thread. It would have been better for her defend her position. But the OP certainly never claimed to be an expert, nor was she dictating how Fab should be used.
Asking how it harms her is putting her down? And it was aimed at me. Right you are. The double standards on here is shocking at times
No double standards as far as I'm concerned. I did say people shouldn't retaliate in that manner. How was your first post a put down? Maybe it wasn't intended that way, but what you said jarred with me, and it wasn't even said to me. I personally would be quite upset if I put an innocent question to the forum and somebody says something like 'it doesn't do you any harm', or 'it doesn't matter' or 'it doesn't effect you'. I see people respond to forum questions like that a lot, and it usually causes a reaction from whoever the OP is. When people respond to an forum question like that it comes across to me as dismissive and as though the OP shouldn't be asking the question.
Well as its only words on a screen no one ever knows what context its meant in and shows how easy ppl can take comments the wrong way. As for double standards. If a guy was an op and posted why do women on fab use slim/curvy etc when there not it would course outrage. Ive noticed the women on fab all stick together so you jumping to the op defence dont surprise me one bit.
Its called white knighting in male terms
What ever anyone as put in response to your comments you've only had something negative to say back. Really looks like your trying to make a argument and also carry one on. A simple question was asked your response was how does it affect you. Same could be said to you how did the op question affect you unless she was talking about you in her question witch she clearly wasn't.
And another comes to the ladies rescue. I rest my case
Unfortunately for you this is the male half of the couple so your case as just gone out the window lmao.
Male or female dont really matter. Sucking up to the women of fab dont get you a fuck just makes you look like a yes man "
I don't need to suck up to get a shag. But you on the other hand 6 weeks on here not one verification no wonder your so bitter towards the female's/ on here. Maybe you should hit that delete button. |
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"Shit I've put athletic too, should I change it?if so what too? I'm paranoid now
You better ask op shes the expert on mens body types
I never claimed to be an expert ffs! Wow have I touched a sensitive nerve
Nah i just dislike ppl trying to dictate how they use fab
Not quite sure what the OP has done wrong. She put a question to the forum as to why men describe themselves as athletic when they are not. It's a fair question, and its obviously something that was of interest to the OP, and others are also clearly interested enough otherwise they wouldn't contribute to her thread. But her question was responded to that how people describe their body shape was not doing her any harm. I'm sure she didn't for one minute think that it was doing her any harm. We all have idle curiosities, about things that are not important, but it's fun to chat about them. Nobody is forced to join in a thread that they regard as a pointless question. I also see no evidence that the OP is dictating how others use this website, and she certainly didn't claim on this thread that she is an expert on this subject.
Thank you classy swingers for your feedback and you're right I wasn't trying to offend anyone but as someone else pointed out there's some sensitive souls on here that seem to take certain threads as a personal attack on them
So if someone makes a comment aimed directly at you then you shouldn't reply as that makes you a 'sensitive soul'...oh I forgot the rules for a second.
Of course not, people have every right to defend themselves when something has be said about them that is not nice or not true.
Not so thou. Being called a bitch is ok
Yes she shouldn't have retaliated in that manner to the poster who seemed to put her down at the beginning of the thread. It would have been better for her defend her position. But the OP certainly never claimed to be an expert, nor was she dictating how Fab should be used.
Asking how it harms her is putting her down? And it was aimed at me. Right you are. The double standards on here is shocking at times
No double standards as far as I'm concerned. I did say people shouldn't retaliate in that manner. How was your first post a put down? Maybe it wasn't intended that way, but what you said jarred with me, and it wasn't even said to me. I personally would be quite upset if I put an innocent question to the forum and somebody says something like 'it doesn't do you any harm', or 'it doesn't matter' or 'it doesn't effect you'. I see people respond to forum questions like that a lot, and it usually causes a reaction from whoever the OP is. When people respond to an forum question like that it comes across to me as dismissive and as though the OP shouldn't be asking the question.
Well as its only words on a screen no one ever knows what context its meant in and shows how easy ppl can take comments the wrong way. As for double standards. If a guy was an op and posted why do women on fab use slim/curvy etc when there not it would course outrage. Ive noticed the women on fab all stick together so you jumping to the op defence dont surprise me one bit.
Its called white knighting in male terms
What ever anyone as put in response to your comments you've only had something negative to say back. Really looks like your trying to make a argument and also carry one on. A simple question was asked your response was how does it affect you. Same could be said to you how did the op question affect you unless she was talking about you in her question witch she clearly wasn't.
And another comes to the ladies rescue. I rest my case
Unfortunately for you this is the male half of the couple so your case as just gone out the window lmao.
Male or female dont really matter. Sucking up to the women of fab dont get you a fuck just makes you look like a yes man
I don't need to suck up to get a shag. But you on the other hand 6 weeks on here not one verification no wonder your so bitter towards the female's/ on here. Maybe you should hit that delete button. "
ive had meets fella
But hey you was the one making a thread about your singles account and getting none from that account. Next time when your trying to be clever get your facts right. Ta ta |
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"Shit I've put athletic too, should I change it?if so what too? I'm paranoid now
You better ask op shes the expert on mens body types
I never claimed to be an expert ffs! Wow have I touched a sensitive nerve
Nah i just dislike ppl trying to dictate how they use fab
Not quite sure what the OP has done wrong. She put a question to the forum as to why men describe themselves as athletic when they are not. It's a fair question, and its obviously something that was of interest to the OP, and others are also clearly interested enough otherwise they wouldn't contribute to her thread. But her question was responded to that how people describe their body shape was not doing her any harm. I'm sure she didn't for one minute think that it was doing her any harm. We all have idle curiosities, about things that are not important, but it's fun to chat about them. Nobody is forced to join in a thread that they regard as a pointless question. I also see no evidence that the OP is dictating how others use this website, and she certainly didn't claim on this thread that she is an expert on this subject.
Thank you classy swingers for your feedback and you're right I wasn't trying to offend anyone but as someone else pointed out there's some sensitive souls on here that seem to take certain threads as a personal attack on them
So if someone makes a comment aimed directly at you then you shouldn't reply as that makes you a 'sensitive soul'...oh I forgot the rules for a second.
Of course not, people have every right to defend themselves when something has be said about them that is not nice or not true.
Not so thou. Being called a bitch is ok
Yes she shouldn't have retaliated in that manner to the poster who seemed to put her down at the beginning of the thread. It would have been better for her defend her position. But the OP certainly never claimed to be an expert, nor was she dictating how Fab should be used.
Asking how it harms her is putting her down? And it was aimed at me. Right you are. The double standards on here is shocking at times
No double standards as far as I'm concerned. I did say people shouldn't retaliate in that manner. How was your first post a put down? Maybe it wasn't intended that way, but what you said jarred with me, and it wasn't even said to me. I personally would be quite upset if I put an innocent question to the forum and somebody says something like 'it doesn't do you any harm', or 'it doesn't matter' or 'it doesn't effect you'. I see people respond to forum questions like that a lot, and it usually causes a reaction from whoever the OP is. When people respond to an forum question like that it comes across to me as dismissive and as though the OP shouldn't be asking the question.
Well as its only words on a screen no one ever knows what context its meant in and shows how easy ppl can take comments the wrong way. As for double standards. If a guy was an op and posted why do women on fab use slim/curvy etc when there not it would course outrage. Ive noticed the women on fab all stick together so you jumping to the op defence dont surprise me one bit.
Its called white knighting in male terms
What ever anyone as put in response to your comments you've only had something negative to say back. Really looks like your trying to make a argument and also carry one on. A simple question was asked your response was how does it affect you. Same could be said to you how did the op question affect you unless she was talking about you in her question witch she clearly wasn't.
And another comes to the ladies rescue. I rest my case
Unfortunately for you this is the male half of the couple so your case as just gone out the window lmao.
Male or female dont really matter. Sucking up to the women of fab dont get you a fuck just makes you look like a yes man
I don't need to suck up to get a shag. But you on the other hand 6 weeks on here not one verification no wonder your so bitter towards the female's/ on here. Maybe you should hit that delete button.
ive had meets fella
But hey you was the one making a thread about your singles account and getting none from that account. Next time when your trying to be clever get your facts right. Ta ta "
Again unable to read a thread properly it wasn't abut not getting meet's it was about getting hassle for having a single account. Lmao so who need's to get there facts right mmmm losing one argument and try to start another. Trolling springs to mind. |
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"Shit I've put athletic too, should I change it?if so what too? I'm paranoid now
You better ask op shes the expert on mens body types
I never claimed to be an expert ffs! Wow have I touched a sensitive nerve
Nah i just dislike ppl trying to dictate how they use fab
Not quite sure what the OP has done wrong. She put a question to the forum as to why men describe themselves as athletic when they are not. It's a fair question, and its obviously something that was of interest to the OP, and others are also clearly interested enough otherwise they wouldn't contribute to her thread. But her question was responded to that how people describe their body shape was not doing her any harm. I'm sure she didn't for one minute think that it was doing her any harm. We all have idle curiosities, about things that are not important, but it's fun to chat about them. Nobody is forced to join in a thread that they regard as a pointless question. I also see no evidence that the OP is dictating how others use this website, and she certainly didn't claim on this thread that she is an expert on this subject.
Thank you classy swingers for your feedback and you're right I wasn't trying to offend anyone but as someone else pointed out there's some sensitive souls on here that seem to take certain threads as a personal attack on them
So if someone makes a comment aimed directly at you then you shouldn't reply as that makes you a 'sensitive soul'...oh I forgot the rules for a second.
Of course not, people have every right to defend themselves when something has be said about them that is not nice or not true.
Not so thou. Being called a bitch is ok
Yes she shouldn't have retaliated in that manner to the poster who seemed to put her down at the beginning of the thread. It would have been better for her defend her position. But the OP certainly never claimed to be an expert, nor was she dictating how Fab should be used.
Asking how it harms her is putting her down? And it was aimed at me. Right you are. The double standards on here is shocking at times
No double standards as far as I'm concerned. I did say people shouldn't retaliate in that manner. How was your first post a put down? Maybe it wasn't intended that way, but what you said jarred with me, and it wasn't even said to me. I personally would be quite upset if I put an innocent question to the forum and somebody says something like 'it doesn't do you any harm', or 'it doesn't matter' or 'it doesn't effect you'. I see people respond to forum questions like that a lot, and it usually causes a reaction from whoever the OP is. When people respond to an forum question like that it comes across to me as dismissive and as though the OP shouldn't be asking the question.
Well as its only words on a screen no one ever knows what context its meant in and shows how easy ppl can take comments the wrong way. As for double standards. If a guy was an op and posted why do women on fab use slim/curvy etc when there not it would course outrage. Ive noticed the women on fab all stick together so you jumping to the op defence dont surprise me one bit.
Its called white knighting in male terms
What ever anyone as put in response to your comments you've only had something negative to say back. Really looks like your trying to make a argument and also carry one on. A simple question was asked your response was how does it affect you. Same could be said to you how did the op question affect you unless she was talking about you in her question witch she clearly wasn't.
And another comes to the ladies rescue. I rest my case
Unfortunately for you this is the male half of the couple so your case as just gone out the window lmao.
Male or female dont really matter. Sucking up to the women of fab dont get you a fuck just makes you look like a yes man
I don't need to suck up to get a shag. But you on the other hand 6 weeks on here not one verification no wonder your so bitter towards the female's/ on here. Maybe you should hit that delete button.
ive had meets fella
But hey you was the one making a thread about your singles account and getting none from that account. Next time when your trying to be clever get your facts right. Ta ta
Again unable to read a thread properly it wasn't abut not getting meet's it was about getting hassle for having a single account. Lmao so who need's to get there facts right mmmm losing one argument and try to start another. Trolling springs to mind. "
Well ive never in my entire 2 years in total on fab had hassle from being a single guy. So i guess that tells you a lot. Anyway schools finished now so you can go home |
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"Shit I've put athletic too, should I change it?if so what too? I'm paranoid now
You better ask op shes the expert on mens body types
I never claimed to be an expert ffs! Wow have I touched a sensitive nerve
Nah i just dislike ppl trying to dictate how they use fab
Not quite sure what the OP has done wrong. She put a question to the forum as to why men describe themselves as athletic when they are not. It's a fair question, and its obviously something that was of interest to the OP, and others are also clearly interested enough otherwise they wouldn't contribute to her thread. But her question was responded to that how people describe their body shape was not doing her any harm. I'm sure she didn't for one minute think that it was doing her any harm. We all have idle curiosities, about things that are not important, but it's fun to chat about them. Nobody is forced to join in a thread that they regard as a pointless question. I also see no evidence that the OP is dictating how others use this website, and she certainly didn't claim on this thread that she is an expert on this subject.
Thank you classy swingers for your feedback and you're right I wasn't trying to offend anyone but as someone else pointed out there's some sensitive souls on here that seem to take certain threads as a personal attack on them
So if someone makes a comment aimed directly at you then you shouldn't reply as that makes you a 'sensitive soul'...oh I forgot the rules for a second.
Of course not, people have every right to defend themselves when something has be said about them that is not nice or not true.
Not so thou. Being called a bitch is ok
Yes she shouldn't have retaliated in that manner to the poster who seemed to put her down at the beginning of the thread. It would have been better for her defend her position. But the OP certainly never claimed to be an expert, nor was she dictating how Fab should be used.
Asking how it harms her is putting her down? And it was aimed at me. Right you are. The double standards on here is shocking at times
No double standards as far as I'm concerned. I did say people shouldn't retaliate in that manner. How was your first post a put down? Maybe it wasn't intended that way, but what you said jarred with me, and it wasn't even said to me. I personally would be quite upset if I put an innocent question to the forum and somebody says something like 'it doesn't do you any harm', or 'it doesn't matter' or 'it doesn't effect you'. I see people respond to forum questions like that a lot, and it usually causes a reaction from whoever the OP is. When people respond to an forum question like that it comes across to me as dismissive and as though the OP shouldn't be asking the question.
Well as its only words on a screen no one ever knows what context its meant in and shows how easy ppl can take comments the wrong way. As for double standards. If a guy was an op and posted why do women on fab use slim/curvy etc when there not it would course outrage. Ive noticed the women on fab all stick together so you jumping to the op defence dont surprise me one bit.
Its called white knighting in male terms
What ever anyone as put in response to your comments you've only had something negative to say back. Really looks like your trying to make a argument and also carry one on. A simple question was asked your response was how does it affect you. Same could be said to you how did the op question affect you unless she was talking about you in her question witch she clearly wasn't.
And another comes to the ladies rescue. I rest my case
Unfortunately for you this is the male half of the couple so your case as just gone out the window lmao.
Male or female dont really matter. Sucking up to the women of fab dont get you a fuck just makes you look like a yes man
I don't need to suck up to get a shag. But you on the other hand 6 weeks on here not one verification no wonder your so bitter towards the female's/ on here. Maybe you should hit that delete button.
ive had meets fella
But hey you was the one making a thread about your singles account and getting none from that account. Next time when your trying to be clever get your facts right. Ta ta "
Not sure what sticking up for people has to do with getting meets or shags. If somebody says something careless, that I know would offend me had it been said to me, I will often stick up for the person on the receiving end, and hopefully the person who said what they said will realise that what they said was taken the wrong way, and therefore be more careful next time. I've Stick up for women and I've up for men too. Gender for me has nothing to do with it. If a man sticks up for a woman, he may be doing it with an ulterior motive, or he may just be being nice. Who knows. I'd prefer to think he's just being nice. |
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