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Would you tell your family/friends you are a Swinger?
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Everyone in our town knows what we get up to due to kind newspapers but as bad as it was at the time it was the best thing to happen, it feels like weight's been lifted & no skeletons in the cupboard anymore as nobody had a bad word to say & nobody criticised our lifestyle. |
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I've told two people.
One was in a pool of tears by the end of the evening.
The other thought it hilarious and inaugurated a 3 day bender that only ended when I brought some random back to his house to fuck.
Need to work on my delivery.
Ho hum. |
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over a year ago
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A few of my "less vanilla" friends know, none were surprised or shocked!
Family? No way. They don't know about my "vanilla" sex life, am I bollocks going to mention this side.  |
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over a year ago
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no i wouldnt tell anybody
everybody i know thinks i haven't had a shag since i split with my ex 9 year ago and id prefer it to stay that way
im a very private person in my personal life
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Wouldn't particularly hide it but don't see why people would offer it up to family. When I was single I wouldn't go home and tell my mum that I pumped some burd last night so dont see the need to discuss my sex life now.
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over a year ago
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I've told one friend. There are a few I might tell if it ever feels pertinent. But most no, I wouldn't. I certainly won't tell family. There are two reasons - (1) a general stigma against married couples having extra-marital sex and (2) I don't see any reason why my family needs or wants to know anything about my sex life, and the same goes for many of my friends. |
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My best friend knows as we go to Desire and I had to have someone who knows where we really are in case something goes wrong. I did however, stupidly send him a text saying I need to speak to him alone quite urgently.
He thought I had cancer or something of that ilk, so when I told him about this he was immensely relieved. He found it quite comical in the end and said if anyone was going to do it it would be us. |
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"My best friend knows as we go to Desire and I had to have someone who knows where we really are in case something goes wrong. I did however, stupidly send him a text saying I need to speak to him alone quite urgently.
He thought I had cancer or something of that ilk, so when I told him about this he was immensely relieved. He found it quite comical in the end and said if anyone was going to do it it would be us."
I remember you telling me this!  |
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"My best friend knows as we go to Desire and I had to have someone who knows where we really are in case something goes wrong. I did however, stupidly send him a text saying I need to speak to him alone quite urgently.
He thought I had cancer or something of that ilk, so when I told him about this he was immensely relieved. He found it quite comical in the end and said if anyone was going to do it it would be us.
I remember you telling me this! "
We now have more friend in the lifestyle than outside of it.  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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No I bloomin' wouldn't. They think I'm in need of therapy for being 41, unmarried and childless. They'd have me sectioned and sent to a nunnery if they had even half an inkling!! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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We wish we could tell them, but they wouldn't understand.
Going out with friends & all they can say is , "Who've you two been fucking", " Hey up, here come the swingers".
No.
We'd rather keep it between us two until the world as grown up.Xxxx |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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God no family don't know.
One of hubbys friends know but he is kinky as hell anyway and we are quite open with him.
Hubby told my mates husband  but she wasn't really that shocked - she told me some naughty stuff lol
And another mate knows cos he's on here although wife knows nothing about it. |
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By *ea_CoffeeCouple
over a year ago
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We wouldn't volunteer the information but if yjey asked we wouldn't lie.
The thing is why would they ask unless they allready knew?
We wouldn't go into details and volunteer stuff but wouldn't deny it. |
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"My best friend knows as we go to Desire and I had to have someone who knows where we really are in case something goes wrong. I did however, stupidly send him a text saying I need to speak to him alone quite urgently.
He thought I had cancer or something of that ilk, so when I told him about this he was immensely relieved. He found it quite comical in the end and said if anyone was going to do it it would be us.
I remember you telling me this!
We now have more friend in the lifestyle than outside of it. "
We are the same lol, 90% of our friends are swinging & industry friends |
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