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"Kindness This morning I went to put petrol in my car (something I actually dislike doing). As I reached for the pump the man at the pump behind me approached and reached for the nozzle. He said "a pretty lady shouldn't have to do that" he then proceeded to do it for me. It cost him nothing more than a couple of minutes of his time, but it made my usually cheesy grin a great big cheesy smile. I bought him a massive bar of chocolate to say thanks. What simply act of kindness could you perform today? Knitter kisses "That's a bit sexist, don't ya think? | |||
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"Kindness This morning I went to put petrol in my car (something I actually dislike doing). As I reached for the pump the man at the pump behind me approached and reached for the nozzle. He said "a pretty lady shouldn't have to do that" he then proceeded to do it for me. It cost him nothing more than a couple of minutes of his time, but it made my usually cheesy grin a great big cheesy smile. I bought him a massive bar of chocolate to say thanks. What simply act of kindness could you perform today? Knitter kisses
That's a bit sexist, don't ya think?"Is it bad I was thinking the same thing? I'm sure he was just trying to be nice but still, unless you are coming over to reach high things off a shelf I'm sure I can do things myself  | |||
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"Kindness This morning I went to put petrol in my car (something I actually dislike doing). As I reached for the pump the man at the pump behind me approached and reached for the nozzle. He said "a pretty lady shouldn't have to do that" he then proceeded to do it for me. It cost him nothing more than a couple of minutes of his time, but it made my usually cheesy grin a great big cheesy smile. I bought him a massive bar of chocolate to say thanks. What simply act of kindness could you perform today? Knitter kisses "He wasn't looking for a chocolate bar. He wanted a fuck. 
Sorry knitter but it's the truth
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"Kindness This morning I went to put petrol in my car (something I actually dislike doing). As I reached for the pump the man at the pump behind me approached and reached for the nozzle. He said "a pretty lady shouldn't have to do that" he then proceeded to do it for me. It cost him nothing more than a couple of minutes of his time, but it made my usually cheesy grin a great big cheesy smile. I bought him a massive bar of chocolate to say thanks. What simply act of kindness could you perform today? Knitter kisses "That's nice  I'd love for a lady to approach me from behind, reach for my nozzle and then proceed to do it for me. I'm sure that would put a big smile on my face too | |||
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"Kindness This morning I went to put petrol in my car (something I actually dislike doing). As I reached for the pump the man at the pump behind me approached and reached for the nozzle. He said "a pretty lady shouldn't have to do that" he then proceeded to do it for me. It cost him nothing more than a couple of minutes of his time, but it made my usually cheesy grin a great big cheesy smile. I bought him a massive bar of chocolate to say thanks. What simply act of kindness could you perform today? Knitter kisses
That's a bit sexist, don't ya think?
Is it bad I was thinking the same thing?
I'm sure he was just trying to be nice but still, unless you are coming over to reach high things off a shelf I'm sure I can do things myself "I was thinking that too. A little chauvinistic and probably trying to get into the op's knickers. But I guess he struck lucky in that the op dislikes putting fuel in her car - I know many women who would have given him short shrift and told him to fuck off and mind his own business
At least he got a big choccie bar though, so I might give that a go - I don't mind putting fuel in a car, it's having to pay for it I dislike.
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" He wasn't looking for a chocolate bar. He wanted a fuck.
Sorry knitter but it's the truth
MrsSB "Are you saying even vanilla guys have an alteriour motive? | |||
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"I'm not talking to you today, Miss Knitter
You were mean to me in my dream last night "WHAT  no way | |||
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" He wasn't looking for a chocolate bar. He wanted a fuck.
Sorry knitter but it's the truth
MrsSB
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"Kindness This morning I went to put petrol in my car (something I actually dislike doing). As I reached for the pump the man at the pump behind me approached and reached for the nozzle. He said "a pretty lady shouldn't have to do that" he then proceeded to do it for me. It cost him nothing more than a couple of minutes of his time, but it made my usually cheesy grin a great big cheesy smile. I bought him a massive bar of chocolate to say thanks. What simply act of kindness could you perform today? Knitter kisses
That's a bit sexist, don't ya think?"Nope I thought it sweet | |||
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" He wasn't looking for a chocolate bar. He wanted a fuck.
Sorry knitter but it's the truth
MrsSB
Are you saying even vanilla guys have an alteriour motive?
Bugger! Rumbled!! "I always thought they just wanted to be my friend  | |||
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"Kindness This morning I went to put petrol in my car (something I actually dislike doing). As I reached for the pump the man at the pump behind me approached and reached for the nozzle. He said "a pretty lady shouldn't have to do that" he then proceeded to do it for me. It cost him nothing more than a couple of minutes of his time, but it made my usually cheesy grin a great big cheesy smile. I bought him a massive bar of chocolate to say thanks. What simply act of kindness could you perform today? Knitter kisses
That's a bit sexist, don't ya think?
Is it bad I was thinking the same thing?
I'm sure he was just trying to be nice but still, unless you are coming over to reach high things off a shelf I'm sure I can do things myself
I was thinking that too.
A little chauvinistic and probably trying to get into the op's knickers.
But I guess he struck lucky in that the op dislikes putting fuel in her car - I know many women who would have given him short shrift and told him to fuck off and mind his own business
At least he got a big choccie bar though, so I might give that a go - I don't mind putting fuel in a car, it's having to pay for it I dislike.
"I'm a bit of a grumpy bitch so I think I would have told him to do one too. Although I drive a big dirty truck with a yappy dog in the front seat so people assume I'm a farmer which generally doesn't incite groinial stirrings!!! | |||
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"What a guy. A small good deed goes a long way. I stopped 2 lanes of traffic yesterday to allow a mother duck and her three tiny chicks to cross the road to get to a pond, at first people were beeping at me but as soon as they all saw the ducks I got a round of applause and a hundred thumbs up as I drove off. "Thank you see just lovely peeps | |||
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" He wasn't looking for a chocolate bar. He wanted a fuck.
Sorry knitter but it's the truth
MrsSB
Are you saying even vanilla guys have an alteriour motive?
Bugger! Rumbled!!
I always thought they just wanted to be my friend "Oh but I do  *whistles innocently* | |||
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I'd of said it's ok thank you I can do it for myself but them I'm not that attractive or girlie  | |||
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"Kindness This morning I went to put petrol in my car (something I actually dislike doing). As I reached for the pump the man at the pump behind me approached and reached for the nozzle. He said "a pretty lady shouldn't have to do that" he then proceeded to do it for me. It cost him nothing more than a couple of minutes of his time, but it made my usually cheesy grin a great big cheesy smile. I bought him a massive bar of chocolate to say thanks. What simply act of kindness could you perform today? Knitter kisses
He wasn't looking for a chocolate bar. He wanted a fuck.
Sorry knitter but it's the truth
MrsSB "Now come on, a man can do a good deed without wanting sex or something else in return. I stopped one night in the heaviest rain ever to change an old lady's wheel for her, I certainly didn't want to fuck the old dear, sometimes opportunities arise and we just do the decent thing. We are not all sex crazed lunatics you know. | |||
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"I'm not talking to you today, Miss Knitter
You were mean to me in my dream last night
WHAT no way"I'm afraid so. You said some nasty things to me though I can't remember what  | |||
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"I'm not talking to you today, Miss Knitter
You were mean to me in my dream last night
WHAT no way
I'm afraid so. You said some nasty things to me though I can't remember what "But I would never do that | |||
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"Kindness This morning I went to put petrol in my car (something I actually dislike doing). As I reached for the pump the man at the pump behind me approached and reached for the nozzle. He said "a pretty lady shouldn't have to do that" he then proceeded to do it for me. It cost him nothing more than a couple of minutes of his time, but it made my usually cheesy grin a great big cheesy smile. I bought him a massive bar of chocolate to say thanks. What simply act of kindness could you perform today? Knitter kisses
He wasn't looking for a chocolate bar. He wanted a fuck.
Sorry knitter but it's the truth
MrsSB
Now come on, a man can do a good deed without wanting sex or something else in return. I stopped one night in the heaviest rain ever to change an old lady's wheel for her, I certainly didn't want to fuck the old dear, sometimes opportunities arise and we just do the decent thing. We are not all sex crazed lunatics you know. "This | |||
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" He wasn't looking for a chocolate bar. He wanted a fuck.
Sorry knitter but it's the truth
MrsSB
Are you saying even vanilla guys have an alteriour motive?
Bugger! Rumbled!!
I always thought they just wanted to be my friend
Oh but I do *whistles innocently*"That's ok then. You're different | |||
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"Kindness This morning I went to put petrol in my car (something I actually dislike doing). As I reached for the pump the man at the pump behind me approached and reached for the nozzle. He said "a pretty lady shouldn't have to do that" he then proceeded to do it for me. It cost him nothing more than a couple of minutes of his time, but it made my usually cheesy grin a great big cheesy smile. I bought him a massive bar of chocolate to say thanks. What simply act of kindness could you perform today? Knitter kisses
He wasn't looking for a chocolate bar. He wanted a fuck.
Sorry knitter but it's the truth
MrsSB
Now come on, a man can do a good deed without wanting sex or something else in return. I stopped one night in the heaviest rain ever to change an old lady's wheel for her, I certainly didn't want to fuck the old dear, sometimes opportunities arise and we just do the decent thing. We are not all sex crazed lunatics you know. "Changing a ladies tyre in the rain really is an act if both kindness and chivalry, pumping a bit of fuel is just a bit schhmooozzyy | |||
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"Some women would find that patronising me thinks" Why? | |||
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" He wasn't looking for a chocolate bar. He wanted a fuck.
Sorry knitter but it's the truth
MrsSB
Are you saying even vanilla guys have an alteriour motive?
Bugger! Rumbled!!
I always thought they just wanted to be my friend
Oh but I do *whistles innocently*
That's ok then. You're different "Yep! Absolutely... and my halo is not held up by horns... at all.... Promise  | |||
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"Kindness This morning I went to put petrol in my car (something I actually dislike doing). As I reached for the pump the man at the pump behind me approached and reached for the nozzle. He said "a pretty lady shouldn't have to do that" he then proceeded to do it for me. It cost him nothing more than a couple of minutes of his time, but it made my usually cheesy grin a great big cheesy smile. I bought him a massive bar of chocolate to say thanks. What simply act of kindness could you perform today? Knitter kisses
He wasn't looking for a chocolate bar. He wanted a fuck.
Sorry knitter but it's the truth
MrsSB
Now come on, a man can do a good deed without wanting sex or something else in return. I stopped one night in the heaviest rain ever to change an old lady's wheel for her, I certainly didn't want to fuck the old dear, sometimes opportunities arise and we just do the decent thing. We are not all sex crazed lunatics you know. "Changing an old lady's tyre in the pouring rain isn't the same really. I say if knitter appreciated it and it made her feel good it can only be a good thing . It's all a bit Terry Thomas for me but a hardened old harridan  | |||
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"Some women would find that patronising me thinks Why?" I know he was just being nice but did he think you couldnt do it? | |||
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"Kindness This morning I went to put petrol in my car (something I actually dislike doing). As I reached for the pump the man at the pump behind me approached and reached for the nozzle. He said "a pretty lady shouldn't have to do that" he then proceeded to do it for me. It cost him nothing more than a couple of minutes of his time, but it made my usually cheesy grin a great big cheesy smile. I bought him a massive bar of chocolate to say thanks. What simply act of kindness could you perform today? Knitter kisses "You should at least have offered him a blowjob for doing that | |||
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"Some women would find that patronising me thinks Why? I know he was just being nice but did he think you couldnt do it?" I would feel incredibly patronised like the time Mr N and I test drove a fairly powerful car. When we returned to the garage the salesman expressed surprise that I'd actually driven it then said "well done" he didn't say the same to Mr N and just accepted that he was capable. What made it worse was that I used a walking stick at the time. We bought the same model car...elsewhere. Moral of the story is some women like this kind of thing some don't. | |||
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"Some women would find that patronising me thinks Why? I know he was just being nice but did he think you couldnt do it?" Do you mean he looked at me and thought I needed special help cause I look a bit daft? | |||
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"Funny but this post actually saddened me instead of making me smile. It's such a shame that we now live in a world where most women now feel (often to prove a point) that they have to do everything on their own, and as a result certainly by the comments that a guy will always have an altering motive behind just trying to be a gentleman. Maybe it's the company we keep but it seems sad. I'm now left wondering whether I should open the door, move the chair, lift a heavy bag into the car, stop to change the flat tyre, fix the blocked sink, cut the hedge, pay for those few extra items of shopping that had to be removed as she hadn'tenough cash.......All of which I've done a few times. I guess fuck it.....If she then thinks I've an altering motive that's her loss as to knowing someone actually genuinely cares and respects. I'll not change though." Good for you you can open doors for me anytime | |||
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"Today as a simple act of kindness I am willing to give free breast and butt examinations to all the ladies "Thats the spirit | |||
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"Kindness This morning I went to put petrol in my car (something I actually dislike doing). As I reached for the pump the man at the pump behind me approached and reached for the nozzle. He said "a pretty lady shouldn't have to do that" he then proceeded to do it for me. It cost him nothing more than a couple of minutes of his time, but it made my usually cheesy grin a great big cheesy smile. I bought him a massive bar of chocolate to say thanks. What simply act of kindness could you perform today? Knitter kisses "I would have found it patronising. | |||
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"Today as a simple act of kindness I am willing to give free breast and butt examinations to all the ladies ". OK - how long will it take you to get here? | |||
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"Some women would find that patronising me thinks Why? I know he was just being nice but did he think you couldnt do it? Do you mean he looked at me and thought I needed special help cause I look a bit daft? "Your a hot woman,im thinking thats why | |||
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"Today as a simple act of kindness I am willing to give free breast and butt examinations to all the ladies .
OK - how long will it take you to get here? "Look behind you | |||
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"Funny but this post actually saddened me instead of making me smile. It's such a shame that we now live in a world where most women now feel (often to prove a point) that they have to do everything on their own, and as a result certainly by the comments that a guy will always have an altering motive behind just trying to be a gentleman. Maybe it's the company we keep but it seems sad. I'm now left wondering whether I should open the door, move the chair, lift a heavy bag into the car, stop to change the flat tyre, fix the blocked sink, cut the hedge, pay for those few extra items of shopping that had to be removed as she hadn'tenough cash.......All of which I've done a few times. I guess fuck it.....If she then thinks I've an altering motive that's her loss as to knowing someone actually genuinely cares and respects. I'll not change though." I have watched people allow me to struggle with things regularly. At work I have to lift heavy mattresses and furniture and very rarely does anyone offer to help. Or when I have my two young children with me and I am doing a lot of things at once. In this society you have to learn to do things for yourself as its not often that anyone will actually help you. So when it does happen I then feel extremely shocked and wonder what's in it for them | |||
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"Funny but this post actually saddened me instead of making me smile. It's such a shame that we now live in a world where most women now feel (often to prove a point) that they have to do everything on their own, and as a result certainly by the comments that a guy will always have an altering motive behind just trying to be a gentleman. Maybe it's the company we keep but it seems sad. I'm now left wondering whether I should open the door, move the chair, lift a heavy bag into the car, stop to change the flat tyre, fix the blocked sink, cut the hedge, pay for those few extra items of shopping that had to be removed as she hadn'tenough cash.......All of which I've done a few times. I guess fuck it.....If she then thinks I've an altering motive that's her loss as to knowing someone actually genuinely cares and respects. I'll not change though." There's a huge difference between all of those things and sticking a nozzle in a ladies tube and giving it a good pumping
I gladly and often help people out regardless of age or gender, if it appears they are struggling with something.
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"Funny but this post actually saddened me instead of making me smile. It's such a shame that we now live in a world where most women now feel (often to prove a point) that they have to do everything on their own, and as a result certainly by the comments that a guy will always have an altering motive behind just trying to be a gentleman. Maybe it's the company we keep but it seems sad. I'm now left wondering whether I should open the door, move the chair, lift a heavy bag into the car, stop to change the flat tyre, fix the blocked sink, cut the hedge, pay for those few extra items of shopping that had to be removed as she hadn'tenough cash.......All of which I've done a few times. I guess fuck it.....If she then thinks I've an altering motive that's her loss as to knowing someone actually genuinely cares and respects. I'll not change though." All those examples you've given are lovely and thoughtful and I've done them all myself. The scenario Knitter gave is entirely different. This wasn't an act of kindness to some, it was a creepy way of interfering with something that bought attention to himself. Like I said, if he wanted to connect with me, a smile and a hello would have done. If I was struggling in any way, I would relish the help (I played the dumb Brit in Ontario once as all the pumps were the same and I didn't have a clue) but interfering in something like that would have me creeped. I also drive hire cars with various fuel rules and I don't want to trust someone else to fill up the way I want to. | |||
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"A pretty lady shouldn't have to do that????? WTF" Exactly! Mingers and men fill your own car up | |||
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"Funny but this post actually saddened me instead of making me smile. It's such a shame that we now live in a world where most women now feel (often to prove a point) that they have to do everything on their own, and as a result certainly by the comments that a guy will always have an altering motive behind just trying to be a gentleman. Maybe it's the company we keep but it seems sad. I'm now left wondering whether I should open the door, move the chair, lift a heavy bag into the car, stop to change the flat tyre, fix the blocked sink, cut the hedge, pay for those few extra items of shopping that had to be removed as she hadn'tenough cash.......All of which I've done a few times. I guess fuck it.....If she then thinks I've an altering motive that's her loss as to knowing someone actually genuinely cares and respects. I'll not change though." If you would like to come and help me pick up the last 70 bales of hay off the field and stack them with me I wouldn't care if you had an altering motive!!! | |||
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"Kindness This morning I went to put petrol in my car (something I actually dislike doing). As I reached for the pump the man at the pump behind me approached and reached for the nozzle. He said "a pretty lady shouldn't have to do that" he then proceeded to do it for me. It cost him nothing more than a couple of minutes of his time, but it made my usually cheesy grin a great big cheesy smile. I bought him a massive bar of chocolate to say thanks. What simply act of kindness could you perform today? Knitter kisses
That's a bit sexist, don't ya think?
Is it bad I was thinking the same thing?
I'm sure he was just trying to be nice but still, unless you are coming over to reach high things off a shelf I'm sure I can do things myself " | |||
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"Funny but this post actually saddened me instead of making me smile. It's such a shame that we now live in a world where most women now feel (often to prove a point) that they have to do everything on their own, and as a result certainly by the comments that a guy will always have an altering motive behind just trying to be a gentleman. Maybe it's the company we keep but it seems sad. I'm now left wondering whether I should open the door, move the chair, lift a heavy bag into the car, stop to change the flat tyre, fix the blocked sink, cut the hedge, pay for those few extra items of shopping that had to be removed as she hadn'tenough cash.......All of which I've done a few times. I guess fuck it.....If she then thinks I've an altering motive that's her loss as to knowing someone actually genuinely cares and respects. I'll not change though." Twice men have insisted on taking over the changing of my flat tyre and I am quite sure there was no alterior motive......well, one off them did run off with my wheel locking nut which cost me £30 to replace but apart from that..... | |||
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"Some women would find that patronising me thinks Why?" Because I'm big and daft enough to refuel my own car | |||
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"Funny but this post actually saddened me instead of making me smile. It's such a shame that we now live in a world where most women now feel (often to prove a point) that they have to do everything on their own, and as a result certainly by the comments that a guy will always have an altering motive behind just trying to be a gentleman. Maybe it's the company we keep but it seems sad. I'm now left wondering whether I should open the door, move the chair, lift a heavy bag into the car, stop to change the flat tyre, fix the blocked sink, cut the hedge, pay for those few extra items of shopping that had to be removed as she hadn'tenough cash.......All of which I've done a few times. I guess fuck it.....If she then thinks I've an altering motive that's her loss as to knowing someone actually genuinely cares and respects. I'll not change though. Twice men have insisted on taking over the changing of my flat tyre and I am quite sure there was no alterior motive......well, one off them did run off with my wheel locking nut which cost me £30 to replace but apart from that..... "Some might say if you'dgiven him ur number he might have found a reason to return it.. oh I've been on here too long now ...lmao | |||
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"A pretty lady shouldn't have to do that????? WTF Exactly! Mingers and men fill your own car up " ....I can honestly say no one has ever offered to stick the nozzle in for me...I have to be a minger !!!
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" Twice men have insisted on taking over the changing of my flat tyre and I am quite sure there was no alterior motive......well, one off them did run off with my wheel locking nut which cost me £30 to replace but apart from that..... "I would usually stop for a woman or old person, but not for a healthy male. Might sound sexist, but my rationale is that even if the woman knew how to change a wheel safely, they are often not strong enough to take the nuts/bolts off and re-tighten them - same for an old person. I always ask if they want any help first - never been refused, but if they did, I'd probably say "are you sure?" and if not needed would drive on. | |||
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"A dog appears to have been does on the beach last night. A lovely, gentle old thing but lame in one leg, arthritis! A few of us are looking after it until we can find a new home" That's a genuine act of humanity | |||
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"I actually believe he was just being sweet. Of course I can fill my own bloody car up. Well except that time I put petrol in by mistake. Well twice actually
This thread has now just made me feel a little bit sad "Don't feel sad, it made you feel good...you. It might not be the same for some of us but you are entitled to feel any way you want. | |||
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" He wasn't looking for a chocolate bar. He wanted a fuck.
Sorry knitter but it's the truth
MrsSB
Are you saying even vanilla guys have an alteriour motive? "Everyone vanilla or not. Man,women,tv/ts. Everyone want to fuck. I just don't pretend like the rest of you
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"I actually believe he was just being sweet. Of course I can fill my own bloody car up. Well except that time I put petrol in by mistake. Well twice actually
This thread has now just made me feel a little bit sad "You can't expect everyone to agree to things being fluffy and sweet | |||
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" Twice men have insisted on taking over the changing of my flat tyre and I am quite sure there was no alterior motive......well, one off them did run off with my wheel locking nut which cost me £30 to replace but apart from that.....
I would usually stop for a woman or old person, but not for a healthy male. Might sound sexist, but my rationale is that even if the woman knew how to change a wheel safely, they are often not strong enough to take the nuts/bolts off and re-tighten them - same for an old person.
I always ask if they want any help first - never been refused, but if they did, I'd probably say "are you sure?" and if not needed would drive on."It wouldn't matter if it was male or female...I'd stop as I know I could help... I know a lot of guys have no idea how to cage a tyre let alone safely. I've seen some dodgy jacks in my time. | |||
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" He wasn't looking for a chocolate bar. He wanted a fuck.
Sorry knitter but it's the truth
MrsSB
Are you saying even vanilla guys have an alteriour motive?
Everyone vanilla or not. Man,women,tv/ts. Everyone want to fuck. I just don't pretend like the rest of you
Fancy a fuck? MrsSB "Nope
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"It's actually a very hard thing to do....accept someone else's help. We don't like it, we want to feel that we are doing good......though by doing so you actually have done two things. You have returned a blessing to him/her and encouraged them and secondly you liberated yourself...freed to recieve. It's a great feeling. I find a lot femininity has disappeared with the hardnes of ' I can do everything myself' approach. It's not endearing IMO. " You find a lot of femininity has disappeared just because a woman can do thing's for herself? Do you find those women make you feel less masculine? | |||
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"A pretty lady shouldn't have to do that????? WTF Exactly! Mingers and men fill your own car up
....I can honestly say no one has ever offered to stick the nozzle in for me...I have to be a minger !!!
To clarify though, there is no way I am a feminist in any shape or form, but I would have told the sexist git to do one"Then they say chivalry is dead and complain... | |||
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"I actually believe he was just being sweet. Of course I can fill my own bloody car up. Well except that time I put petrol in by mistake. Well twice actually
This thread has now just made me feel a little bit sad
You can't expect everyone to agree to things being fluffy and sweet"I don't expect anything. The actual question in my OP was about what you could do to be kind to someone else. Not a assessment of my experience. People are free to comment as they choose and I 100% respect everyones point of view. That being said I equally think its okay to express how that makes me feel which in this case happens to be a little sad. | |||
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....I can honestly say no one has ever offered to stick the nozzle in for me...I have to be a minger !!!
To clarify though, there is no way I am a feminist in any shape or form, but I would have told the sexist git to do one
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" Twice men have insisted on taking over the changing of my flat tyre and I am quite sure there was no alterior motive......well, one off them did run off with my wheel locking nut which cost me £30 to replace but apart from that.....
I would usually stop for a woman or old person, but not for a healthy male. Might sound sexist, but my rationale is that even if the woman knew how to change a wheel safely, they are often not strong enough to take the nuts/bolts off and re-tighten them -
"That would not normally be true but once in a country lane I got a flat and neither me nor a trucker (who's access I blocked!) could shift it with the standard spanner, he had to jump on a yard long extension he had on the lorry to crack it!! God knows who tightened those ones! | |||
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"I actually believe he was just being sweet. Of course I can fill my own bloody car up. Well except that time I put petrol in by mistake. Well twice actually
This thread has now just made me feel a little bit sad
You can't expect everyone to agree to things being fluffy and sweet
I don't expect anything. The actual question in my OP was about what you could do to be kind to someone else. Not a assessment of my experience. People are free to comment as they choose and I 100% respect everyones point of view.
That being said I equally think its okay to express how that makes me feel which in this case happens to be a little sad.
We could go on all day saying A is allowed their view while B is allowed their view, so why I just accept that is the case and never say otherwise."I commented on the tone of the thread. You were the one that pointed out that peoples opinion will differ. Either way it really doesn't matter
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"I actually believe he was just being sweet. Of course I can fill my own bloody car up. Well except that time I put petrol in by mistake. Well twice actually
This thread has now just made me feel a little bit sad
You can't expect everyone to agree to things being fluffy and sweet
I don't expect anything. The actual question in my OP was about what you could do to be kind to someone else. Not a assessment of my experience. People are free to comment as they choose and I 100% respect everyones point of view.
That being said I equally think its okay to express how that makes me feel which in this case happens to be a little sad.
"We could go on all day saying A is allowed their view while B is allowed their view, so why I just accept that is the case and never say otherwise. If you want people to ask a specific question then maybe just asking what act of kindness have you done today then people won't comment on the rest of your post. | |||
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"I actually believe he was just being sweet. Of course I can fill my own bloody car up. Well except that time I put petrol in by mistake. Well twice actually
This thread has now just made me feel a little bit sad
You can't expect everyone to agree to things being fluffy and sweet
I don't expect anything. The actual question in my OP was about what you could do to be kind to someone else. Not a assessment of my experience. People are free to comment as they choose and I 100% respect everyones point of view.
That being said I equally think its okay to express how that makes me feel which in this case happens to be a little sad.
We could go on all day saying A is allowed their view while B is allowed their view, so why I just accept that is the case and never say otherwise.
If you want people to ask a specific question then maybe just asking what act of kindness have you done today then people won't comment on the rest of your post. "Thanks will do | |||
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"I actually believe he was just being sweet. Of course I can fill my own bloody car up. Well except that time I put petrol in by mistake. Well twice actually
This thread has now just made me feel a little bit sad
You can't expect everyone to agree to things being fluffy and sweet
I don't expect anything. The actual question in my OP was about what you could do to be kind to someone else. Not a assessment of my experience. People are free to comment as they choose and I 100% respect everyones point of view.
That being said I equally think its okay to express how that makes me feel which in this case happens to be a little sad.
We could go on all day saying A is allowed their view while B is allowed their view, so why I just accept that is the case and never say otherwise.
I commented on the tone of the thread. You were the one that pointed out that peoples opinion will differ.
Either way it really doesn't matter
I thought it would be a fluffy thread it didn't turn out that way. "They never do Knitter | |||
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" He wasn't looking for a chocolate bar. He wanted a fuck.
Sorry knitter but it's the truth
MrsSB
Are you saying even vanilla guys have an alteriour motive?
Everyone vanilla or not. Man,women,tv/ts. Everyone want to fuck. I just don't pretend like the rest of you
Fancy a fuck? MrsSB Nope
There's a time and place...and nows neither the time nor place...you're too far away to start with... "Who was in Liverpool last weekend?  MrsSB | |||
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"I'd say he was a chancer, dont be overly impressed ! "to this and all the other negatives I blow a soggy raspberry. Random acts of kindness should be encouraged no viewed as sexism or stalker behaviour. I love doing random acts of kindness it makes me feel good all day, and usually puts a smile on the face of the recipient even if they are bemused at first | |||
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"I'd say he was a chancer, dont be overly impressed !
to this and all the other negatives I blow a soggy raspberry.
Random acts of kindness should be encouraged no viewed as sexism or stalker behaviour.
I love doing random acts of kindness it makes me feel good all day, and usually puts a smile on the face of the recipient even if they are bemused at first"so would your act of kindness include saying a pretty lady shouldnt do that? | |||
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"There is always an alternative....he might of thought, oh there's the woman who keeps putting the wrong fuel in. Don't want to be stuck behind her at the pumps.... "Hey its only happened twice lol | |||
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Exactly what I meant on my first comment, you expect things to stay fluffy. Yes, it is how you like to see things, but it doesn't always happen. "I totally agree its doesn't always happen | |||
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"I'd say he was a chancer, dont be overly impressed !
to this and all the other negatives I blow a soggy raspberry.
Random acts of kindness should be encouraged no viewed as sexism or stalker behaviour.
I love doing random acts of kindness it makes me feel good all day, and usually puts a smile on the face of the recipient even if they are bemused at first
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"I'd say he was a chancer, dont be overly impressed !
to this and all the other negatives I blow a soggy raspberry.
Random acts of kindness should be encouraged no viewed as sexism or stalker behaviour.
I love doing random acts of kindness it makes me feel good all day, and usually puts a smile on the face of the recipient even if they are bemused at first
so would your act of kindness include saying a pretty lady shouldnt do that?"Probably wouldn't be quite so clumsy with my wording, but I have bought flowers and given them to the first woman I saw in a skirt before, never told her why, and she happened to be elderly but it was a sexist act in intent. Still got 2 smiles out of it though | |||
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"As a regular bus passenger I do kind deeds most week days. Giving up my seat; helping people on and off buses with buggies/shopping trolleys; chatting to the people at the bus stop or on the bus who want someone to talk to. At a petrol station I did have a man shout over that I had picked up the wrong nozzle. I'd just realised myself I was about to put diesel in instead of petrol. I helped an elderly lady manoeuvre her trolley around a difficult corner. I help shorter people get things off top shelves. I don't discriminate against ugly people. "I can never reach the high stuff and that's were they put all the good stuff | |||
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"I'm Taking jo (the girl I sit next to all day) for lunch in the castle grounds. And as normal when I saw the homeless girl who sits near my office I gave her a up of tea and a sandwich from Gregs this morning " Well its better then a few quid so they can just put it to there next fix i guess | |||
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"My simply act of kindness wont be today' it will be saturday at xtasia when im in the glory hole hehe x" How very kind you are | |||
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"So, to summarise, a man can't do right for doing wrong. The man who offers assistance to a lady is a chauvinistic pig but the man who drives on by will look in his rear view mirror to see the same lady raise her middle finger whilst shouting "you ignorant selfish bastard". "I don't think any woman goes to fill up her car expecting a man to do it for her. We drive the things,we fill them up. | |||
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"My simply act of kindness wont be today' it will be saturday at xtasia when im in the glory hole hehe x" And sure you will make a few guys very happy | |||
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"I'm Taking jo (the girl I sit next to all day) for lunch in the castle grounds. And as normal when I saw the homeless girl who sits near my office I gave her a up of tea and a sandwich from Gregs this morning When you do that does it cross your mind that they won't like tea or the sandwich filling you bought? I've often wondered if one should ask what they prefer." It did the first time yes. She has tea with one sugar, and likes tuna sandwiches but doesn't like cheese. (I asked her) | |||
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"I'm Taking jo (the girl I sit next to all day) for lunch in the castle grounds. And as normal when I saw the homeless girl who sits near my office I gave her a up of tea and a sandwich from Gregs this morning Well its better then a few quid so they can just put it to there next fix i guess "Merry its a sweet thing to do
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"I can never reach the high stuff and that's were they put all the good stuff
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"I'm Taking jo (the girl I sit next to all day) for lunch in the castle grounds. And as normal when I saw the homeless girl who sits near my office I gave her a up of tea and a sandwich from Gregs this morning When you do that does it cross your mind that they won't like tea or the sandwich filling you bought? I've often wondered if one should ask what they prefer. If there really hungry i doubt they would care "I thought that but what if they really can't eat cheese,or are intolerant of white bread? A few seconds to say which sandwich filling and drink would you like sounds ok,but then what if they say they would rather have the money? I'm over complicating this. | |||
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"So, to summarise, a man can't do right for doing wrong. The man who offers assistance to a lady is a chauvinistic pig but the man who drives on by will look in his rear view mirror to see the same lady raise her middle finger whilst shouting "you ignorant selfish bastard".
I don't think any woman goes to fill up her car expecting a man to do it for her. We drive the things,we fill them up."I didn't expect it but I still thought it was nice | |||
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"I'm Taking jo (the girl I sit next to all day) for lunch in the castle grounds. And as normal when I saw the homeless girl who sits near my office I gave her a up of tea and a sandwich from Gregs this morning When you do that does it cross your mind that they won't like tea or the sandwich filling you bought? I've often wondered if one should ask what they prefer. It did the first time yes. She has tea with one sugar, and likes tuna sandwiches but doesn't like cheese. (I asked her) " | |||
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"I'm Taking jo (the girl I sit next to all day) for lunch in the castle grounds. And as normal when I saw the homeless girl who sits near my office I gave her a up of tea and a sandwich from Gregs this morning Well its better then a few quid so they can just put it to there next fix i guess
Merry its a sweet thing to do
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"I'm Taking jo (the girl I sit next to all day) for lunch in the castle grounds. And as normal when I saw the homeless girl who sits near my office I gave her a up of tea and a sandwich from Gregs this morning When you do that does it cross your mind that they won't like tea or the sandwich filling you bought? I've often wondered if one should ask what they prefer. It did the first time yes. She has tea with one sugar, and likes tuna sandwiches but doesn't like cheese. (I asked her) " Oh god. | |||
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"My simply act of kindness wont be today' it will be saturday at xtasia when im in the glory hole hehe x How very kind you are "get ur arse down there ur see how kind i am hehe | |||
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"So, to summarise, a man can't do right for doing wrong. The man who offers assistance to a lady is a chauvinistic pig but the man who drives on by will look in his rear view mirror to see the same lady raise her middle finger whilst shouting "you ignorant selfish bastard".
I don't think any woman goes to fill up her car expecting a man to do it for her. We drive the things,we fill them up."Perfectly fine, most women are able to work out the physics and mechanical mechanisms to open doors for themselves to, but it's still polite to open and hold a door, only concession I make to the 21st century is I also hold doors for men. | |||
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"So, to summarise, a man can't do right for doing wrong. The man who offers assistance to a lady is a chauvinistic pig but the man who drives on by will look in his rear view mirror to see the same lady raise her middle finger whilst shouting "you ignorant selfish bastard".
I don't think any woman goes to fill up her car expecting a man to do it for her. We drive the things,we fill them up.
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Merry its a sweet thing to do
Clit not all homeless people take drugs. A little empathy goes a long way. Homelessness easier to fall into than some really appreciate.
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"Kindness This morning I went to put petrol in my car (something I actually dislike doing). As I reached for the pump the man at the pump behind me approached and reached for the nozzle. He said "a pretty lady shouldn't have to do that" he then proceeded to do it for me. It cost him nothing more than a couple of minutes of his time, but it made my usually cheesy grin a great big cheesy smile. I bought him a massive bar of chocolate to say thanks. What simply act of kindness could you perform today? Knitter kisses
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"So, to summarise, a man can't do right for doing wrong. The man who offers assistance to a lady is a chauvinistic pig but the man who drives on by will look in his rear view mirror to see the same lady raise her middle finger whilst shouting "you ignorant selfish bastard".
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"I honestly can't see how offering to put fuel in a car is kind. It's hardly a difficult task is it? Would you feel the same if someone offered to tie your shoelaces for you or hold your hand whilst you crossed the road? He sounds like a bit of a cock to me. and that's the thing it may be a kind act,but when it's something so simple I think it would make me feel like a complete twit in not doing it myself and have people look at me thinking oh lord a woman who can't fill up her own car. Anyway I digress,it's great to help people who genuinely need the help." Meh I always look like a twit
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"Kindness This morning I went to put petrol in my car (something I actually dislike doing). As I reached for the pump the man at the pump behind me approached and reached for the nozzle. He said "a pretty lady shouldn't have to do that" he then proceeded to do it for me. It cost him nothing more than a couple of minutes of his time, but it made my usually cheesy grin a great big cheesy smile. I bought him a massive bar of chocolate to say thanks. What simply act of kindness could you perform today? Knitter kisses
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"So, to summarise, a man can't do right for doing wrong. The man who offers assistance to a lady is a chauvinistic pig but the man who drives on by will look in his rear view mirror to see the same lady raise her middle finger whilst shouting "you ignorant selfish bastard".
Not really.
It goes a bit like this: if someone (male or female) appears to need help, by all means offer yours. If they don't, then consider them an adult who is capable of performing the task on their own.
Happy to help.
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"People are quite cynical now a days. A simple act of kindness is often looked at and dissected.We seem to have forgotten simple acts of kindness used to be the norm usually manners and being helpful. We are always going on about being labelled on here but we do it day to day in real life.He she is being sexist, condescending or wants something back.Yes some people may have ulterior motives but majority do it as it's who they are thoughtful people. Sometimes people may say the wrong thing but their intentions were for the good.A smile and thankyou to either refuse or accept is all that is needed in response.
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Clit not all homeless people take drugs. A little empathy goes a long way. Homelessness easier to fall into than some really appreciate.
But some do
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"People are quite cynical now a days. A simple act of kindness is often looked at and dissected.We seem to have forgotten simple acts of kindness used to be the norm usually manners and being helpful. We are always going on about being labelled on here but we do it day to day in real life.He she is being sexist, condescending or wants something back.Yes some people may have ulterior motives but majority do it as it's who they are thoughtful people. Sometimes people may say the wrong thing but their intentions were for the good.A smile and thankyou to either refuse or accept is all that is needed in response.
"If it was a simple act of kindness he would have just said "here let me help you with that". I have never witnessed a straight man approach another straight man and taking the petrol pump from his hands say "I can't see a good looking guy struggle with that" | |||
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"So, to summarise, a man can't do right for doing wrong. The man who offers assistance to a lady is a chauvinistic pig but the man who drives on by will look in his rear view mirror to see the same lady raise her middle finger whilst shouting "you ignorant selfish bastard".
I don't think any woman goes to fill up her car expecting a man to do it for her. We drive the things,we fill them up."It's not about expecting it...its the ability to accept or decline the act of kindness... gracefully if offered. | |||
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"People are quite cynical now a days. A simple act of kindness is often looked at and dissected.We seem to have forgotten simple acts of kindness used to be the norm usually manners and being helpful. We are always going on about being labelled on here but we do it day to day in real life.He she is being sexist, condescending or wants something back.Yes some people may have ulterior motives but majority do it as it's who they are thoughtful people. Sometimes people may say the wrong thing but their intentions were for the good.A smile and thankyou to either refuse or accept is all that is needed in response.
If it was a simple act of kindness he would have just said "here let me help you with that". I have never witnessed a straight man approach another straight man and taking the petrol pump from his hands say "I can't see a good looking guy struggle with that" "I'm straight and I've helped men change a tyre or even open a door for them...whether straight or not ( didn't cross my mind to ask or even look to see) does that make me fab straight now lol Funny how these topics are injected into ant tread now a days lol. | |||
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"I try and help wherever and whenever I can. As Phil Daniels said "It gives me an enormous sense of wellbeing" " pass on the love... | |||
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"I gave someone a really nice surprise blow job this morning. I think that was really kind of me "Now thats more like a kind act | |||
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"People are quite cynical now a days. A simple act of kindness is often looked at and dissected.We seem to have forgotten simple acts of kindness used to be the norm usually manners and being helpful. We are always going on about being labelled on here but we do it day to day in real life.He she is being sexist, condescending or wants something back.Yes some people may have ulterior motives but majority do it as it's who they are thoughtful people. Sometimes people may say the wrong thing but their intentions were for the good.A smile and thankyou to either refuse or accept is all that is needed in response.
If it was a simple act of kindness he would have just said "here let me help you with that". I have never witnessed a straight man approach another straight man and taking the petrol pump from his hands say "I can't see a good looking guy struggle with that" "I agree with you. As I said some people have ulterior motives.I was talking about acts of kindness not the ops one.I would have just smiled and thanked him but filled my car up myself as I'd find the wording he used quite off putting But also I am wondering what generation was he? Older generation may felt he was being chivalrous. | |||
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"I gave someone a really nice surprise blow job this morning. I think that was really kind of me
Now thats more like a kind act "Certainly warmed my heart | |||
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"I gave someone a really nice surprise blow job this morning. I think that was really kind of me
Now thats more like a kind act
Certainly warmed my heart "I bet it warmed hes cockles | |||
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"I gave someone a really nice surprise blow job this morning. I think that was really kind of me
Now thats more like a kind act
Certainly warmed my heart
I bet it warmed hes cockles "Well he didn't grumble at being woken up | |||
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"I'd say he was a chancer, dont be overly impressed !
to this and all the other negatives I blow a soggy raspberry.
Random acts of kindness should be encouraged no viewed as sexism or stalker behaviour.
I love doing random acts of kindness it makes me feel good all day, and usually puts a smile on the face of the recipient even if they are bemused at first
so would your act of kindness include saying a pretty lady shouldnt do that?
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"I'd say he was a chancer, dont be overly impressed !
to this and all the other negatives I blow a soggy raspberry.
Random acts of kindness should be encouraged no viewed as sexism or stalker behaviour.
I love doing random acts of kindness it makes me feel good all day, and usually puts a smile on the face of the recipient even if they are bemused at first
so would your act of kindness include saying a pretty lady shouldnt do that?
Probably wouldn't be quite so clumsy with my wording, but I have bought flowers and given them to the first woman I saw in a skirt before, never told her why, and she happened to be elderly but it was a sexist act in intent. Still got 2 smiles out of it though "Now that is lovely...even with your norty thoughts | |||
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"You fell for the old petrol pump routine? Oh you sucker! " | |||
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"So what if he was pushing his luck. Its was a nice friendly act. Even worth a fuck for effort. " Lol certainly a chocolate bar | |||
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"People are quite cynical now a days. A simple act of kindness is often looked at and dissected.We seem to have forgotten simple acts of kindness used to be the norm usually manners and being helpful. We are always going on about being labelled on here but we do it day to day in real life.He she is being sexist, condescending or wants something back.Yes some people may have ulterior motives but majority do it as it's who they are thoughtful people. Sometimes people may say the wrong thing but their intentions were for the good.A smile and thankyou to either refuse or accept is all that is needed in response.
If it was a simple act of kindness he would have just said "here let me help you with that". I have never witnessed a straight man approach another straight man and taking the petrol pump from his hands say "I can't see a good looking guy struggle with that" "Thats funny!!! | |||
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"Blimey you're a cynical bunch! She got fuel and he got chocolate, everyone is happy! That's a win in my world! "Still a bit sexist | |||
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"Blimey you're a cynical bunch! She got fuel and he got chocolate, everyone is happy! That's a win in my world!
Still a bit sexist "Where's my free fuel & choccies, eh? | |||
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"Soooooo... anyone else got any simple acts of kindness?... . . ...anyone?... I almost heard an echo there... Oooh a tumble! "I just bought my friend coffee. She can afford her own but I thought it was nice | |||
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