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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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We've been here a while and it takes time to get into this whole swinging thingy...
We are nervous, we are picky, we are busy, we are in and out of it...
But does that give the right to somebody who has 1000s meets and verifications and fucks left and right to abuse us? Like "You've been here an year and no meets and no verifications you are so fake fuck u ignore!"
Am I just being oversensitive over a troll or this couple are being just outright jerks and toxic towards people? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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As said just block them, whatever you choose to do will be at your own pace! I tried to jump in at the deep end and that didn't go to plan so you're doing the right thing |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Block them. At least your photo verified, a lot of people on fab have been on over a year and not even a site supporter or photo verified. Move on and ignore them  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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What's wrong with 1000 verifications and fucking left,right and centre? They judge,you judge back. Don't worry about it,do your own thing.
Remember to report abusive messages. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Am I just being oversensitive over a troll or this couple are being just outright jerks and toxic towards people? "
Is it really one or the other? I'm going to go with 'both' please Chris. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"In all walks of life you find people that will judge. Who are they to judge others ??
seems plenty on here love doing just that"
You would think swingers would be more open minded but afraid not the case. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Am I just being oversensitive over a troll or this couple are being just outright jerks and toxic towards people?
Is it really one or the other? I'm going to go with 'both' please Chris."
I'd agree.... move on and block... we are all different which makes us special.... |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"We've been here a while and it takes time to get into this whole swinging thingy...
We are nervous, we are picky, we are busy, we are in and out of it...
But does that give the right to somebody who has 1000s meets and verifications and fucks left and right to abuse us? Like "You've been here an year and no meets and no verifications you are so fake fuck u ignore!"
Am I just being oversensitive over a troll or this couple are being just outright jerks and toxic towards people? "
Youve been here a year never met and your profile text says youre new to swinging.
Sorry but spidy sense says at best you're just a fantasist worst a fake.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"We've been here a while and it takes time to get into this whole swinging thingy...
We are nervous, we are picky, we are busy, we are in and out of it...
But does that give the right to somebody who has 1000s meets and verifications and fucks left and right to abuse us? Like "You've been here an year and no meets and no verifications you are so fake fuck u ignore!"
Am I just being oversensitive over a troll or this couple are being just outright jerks and toxic towards people?
Youve been here a year never met and your profile text says youre new to swinging.
Sorry but spidy sense says at best you're just a fantasist worst a fake.
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You know what's coming next don't you!? |
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By *HaRiFMan
over a year ago
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"We've been here a while and it takes time to get into this whole swinging thingy...
We are nervous, we are picky, we are busy, we are in and out of it...
But does that give the right to somebody who has 1000s meets and verifications and fucks left and right to abuse us? Like "You've been here an year and no meets and no verifications you are so fake fuck u ignore!"
Am I just being oversensitive over a troll or this couple are being just outright jerks and toxic towards people? "
Not really this is not an Olympic sport, there's no gold medals handed out at the end of it. You go at the pace that suit's you, if other people cant handle that then that's their problem. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Youve been here a year never met and your profile text says youre new to swinging.
Sorry but spidy sense says at best you're just a fantasist worst a fake.
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While I get your point, it truly is a matter of life getting in the way... combined with our insecurity...
Anyway, thanks for the replays.
I guess I'll take a note and we can update our profile a bit... new pics and whatnot... but the text is still true... we are new to it all! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Youve been here a year never met and your profile text says youre new to swinging.
Sorry but spidy sense says at best you're just a fantasist worst a fake.
While I get your point, it truly is a matter of life getting in the way... combined with our insecurity...
Anyway, thanks for the replays.
I guess I'll take a note and we can update our profile a bit... new pics and whatnot... but the text is still true... we are new to it all! "
Why not visit a club? There's no obligation to do anything or play with anyone. Just go, watch and see if it's for you. Much less pressure than meeting 2 on 2 here. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Eh, your profile seems fake. Would I message you just to tell you that? No.
If it's a real profile then you should probably just get used to being judged in similar ways. Most people looking to meet won't consider a profile that's been active for ages without a verification. Such is life. Just look elsewhere. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Eh, your profile seems fake. Would I message you just to tell you that? No.
If it's a real profile then you should probably just get used to being judged in similar ways. Most people looking to meet won't consider a profile that's been active for ages without a verification. Such is life. Just look elsewhere. "
Im guessing it was a reply rather than an unsolicited message |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Eh, your profile seems fake. Would I message you just to tell you that? No.
If it's a real profile then you should probably just get used to being judged in similar ways. Most people looking to meet won't consider a profile that's been active for ages without a verification. Such is life. Just look elsewhere.
Im guessing it was a reply rather than an unsolicited message "
Yeah, I get that. I still wouldn't message that, even as a reply. |
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