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How much do you enjoy spanking others
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By *uzy444Woman
over a year ago
in the suffolk countryside |
"Ok serious for a moment.
What do women get out of the pain?
For me pain and pleasure dont go in the same sentence?"
ok actually its not about pain for me its a sensation ( dont like really heavy spanking/ caning etc) but the sensation does cause an endorphin response, weirdly enough it does take me to a more receptive and dreamy state...it kinda asks me to let go..your mind doesnt compute, it switches off as it gets distracted and therefore you body starts to relax and wellbeing happens and for me so does sexual arousal..it can take me to sub state..and it gives me permission to go there...that's my take and experience of it and im not into the bruises welts etc that some are..i never thought id like impact play but i really do...especially big thick heavy thuddy floggers..x |
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By *uzy444Woman
over a year ago
in the suffolk countryside |
"Ok that kind of makes sense.
Just being the kids do of guy I am I don't like Inflicting pain on women  "
i get you, if you learnt more about it youd see what it does, its safe ( i have a safe word) i personally only ever do it with someone who is experienced and knows me and it is consensual...my dom wouldnt dream of going over my limits ever..hes not there to hurt me hes there to give me a safe ride into subspace which i can only describe as liberating and destressing..i can promise you proper Doms care about their subs wellbeing x |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Ok serious for a moment.
What do women get out of the pain?
For me pain and pleasure dont go in the same sentence?"
I enjoy getting whipped but don't find it painful as such....it's more goes warm and when the heat intensifies the more you want it. That combined with you don't know when it's coming next is quite something x |
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By *GHertsCouple
over a year ago
North Herts |
Another member of the "prefer to be spanked" club here (and before I get in trouble this IS the male half!! ), have been the spanker in the past but just don't get anything from it really. What the draw is I'm not totally sure, although can relate to a lot of what Suzy says above. There's nothing quite like allowing control to be taken, and feeling those first few slaps of a well administered spanking, along with the slow and gradual raising of a wonderfully warm and glowing heated feeling. Biggest turn on for me though has to be seeing reddened cheeks after one.
Like Suzy not really into the heavy bruising, although it can and does happen, nor the role play angles of being punished for invented misdemeanours.
Mr G |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Ok that kind of makes sense.
Just being the kids do of guy I am I don't like Inflicting pain on women "
I used to be quite shy of inflicting pain on women...
Then i met some very interesting women |
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By *GHertsCouple
over a year ago
North Herts |
"Do you never have to be asked very much if you'd like to spank someone?
I've seen a lot of very spankable arses out and about lately.
Oh yes, and the rest."
Damn....was last month I was in Leicester!!
Mr G |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I very much enjoy administering a good spanking, particularly as part of role play. I have been extremely lucky in finding complementary partners who love it too 
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By *ENDAROOSCouple
over a year ago
South West London / Surrey |
"No one admitting to liking to spank? Or be spanked even?
Too much smarting, on a hot day?"
Spanking others, no not my thing.
However, I'm rather partial to getting the occasional spank. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"No one admitting to liking to spank? Or be spanked even?
Too much smarting, on a hot day?
Spanking others, no not my thing.
However, I'm rather partial to getting the occasional spank. "
I knew D loves that  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Don't like it myself
If a guy slaps my arse I go nuts
DON'T FOOKING HIT ME 
I know it's not ment in an aggressive way but my head just can't get past the fact I've met a guy and he wants to hit me 
DON'T hit me |
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By *ENDAROOSCouple
over a year ago
South West London / Surrey |
"No one admitting to liking to spank? Or be spanked even?
Too much smarting, on a hot day?
Spanking others, no not my thing.
However, I'm rather partial to getting the occasional spank.
I knew D loves that "
He'd run a frigging mile. Last time a women asked him, his face was a picture.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Giving no
Receiving? Oh hell yes
Opposite for me 
I meant I enjoy giving yet no receiving, just in case it wasn't clear 
Too late
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Can someone help us to settle that down haha
I said the opposite of what she said, so what the opposite would be ? |
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"Giving no
Receiving? Oh hell yes
Opposite for me
I meant I enjoy giving yet no receiving, just in case it wasn't clear
Too late
Can someone help us to settle that down haha
I said the opposite of what she said, so what the opposite would be ? "
Ok ok I was wrong
*goes off to the naughty step* |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Giving no
Receiving? Oh hell yes
Opposite for me
I meant I enjoy giving yet no receiving, just in case it wasn't clear
Too late
Can someone help us to settle that down haha
I said the opposite of what she said, so what the opposite would be ?
Ok ok I was wrong
*goes off to the naughty step*"
no longer than 2mins43 ? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I've also started exploring being spanked but have sone deeprouted pyschological issues around receiving pain so get massive sub drop so taking it very slowly |
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By *uzy444Woman
over a year ago
in the suffolk countryside |
"Giving no
Receiving? Oh hell yes
Opposite for me
I meant I enjoy giving yet no receiving, just in case it wasn't clear
Too late
Can someone help us to settle that down haha
I said the opposite of what she said, so what the opposite would be ?
Ok ok I was wrong
*goes off to the naughty step*"
love to put you on or over the naughty step xx |
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By *uzy444Woman
over a year ago
in the suffolk countryside |
"I've also started exploring being spanked but have sone deeprouted pyschological issues around receiving pain so get massive sub drop so taking it very slowly "
 so make sure you have got someone who provides you with plenty of after care, immediately and several days later xx look after you x |
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