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Do men prefer slim toned women?

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

I'm not one.

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By *igeiaWoman over a year ago

Bristol

Me either. So I can't answer your question since the guys that like me don't fall within the scope of the question. Hopefully some guys who may will be along soon. In the meantime I would hazard a guess that some do, some don't and some don't have a specific preference.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Noooooooooooooo I like curves.

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By *parkly MittensWoman over a year ago

My own little world

Not necessarily.

I'm not everyone's cup of tea that's for sure

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I should, as most celebs I

like have that look. But I've said in the past, the woman's eyes and smile are on her face, and that's where I watch when I talk to her. And that's when you attracted to them sexually.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

nice bit of fishing there on a Monday morning Scarlet

I like my women to be big in many aspects : eg smile, personality, sense of humour.

And good looking. A lady that can combine these, and more, will be preference whether they're size zero or plus plus size.

Do I win £5?

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By *randMrs Spanish BrunetteCouple over a year ago

home sweet home

I'm not one myself.

I'm attracted to all types of women.

MrsSB

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

If that's true I really don't know how I manage to meet at all.

So...I'm going to guess that some men are attracted to a woman no matter whether she has a fat arse or a slim, toned one. Hallelujah

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By *LCCCouple over a year ago

Cambridge

Some do some dont.

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By *parkly MittensWoman over a year ago

My own little world

"I'm not one myself.

I'm attracted to all types of women.

MrsSB

Are you after a fuck Mrs SB?

Most appreciation threads are for curvy woman anyway

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By *randMrs Spanish BrunetteCouple over a year ago

home sweet home

"I'm not one myself.

I'm attracted to all types of women.

MrsSB

Are you after a fuck Mrs SB?

Most appreciation threads are for curvy woman anyway

You now me so well. I took all my strength to not ask for a fuck.

Fancy a fuck?

I feel better

MrsSB

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Its a smile , a sense of humour, sparkling eyes .

That's what attracts me and makes me tingle

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I love women

Yes, I am more attracted to a specific body type over others, but personality often trumps that factor

It's like saying a woman is only attracted to a guy's cock, there's a lot more to the person than a lump of meat

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By *abes in the woodWoman over a year ago

wales

I think everyone wants different if slim

.curvy doesn't matter

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By *ivemeyoursoulWoman over a year ago

Easter just around the corner!

"Some do some dont. "

I'll go with that reply as well if you don't mind me pinching it

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I love women

Yes, I am more attracted to a specific body type over others, but personality often trumps that factor

It's like saying a woman is only attracted to a guy's cock, there's a lot more to the person than a lump of meat

Jolly well said

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By *iss_tressWoman over a year ago

London

"Some do some dont. "

As in all things!

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

My partner does

But I am not as slim and toned as I used to be so I am in the process of trying to lose weight now after a long term foot fracture kept me immobilised. However I do like my curves which I never had so much of before so they may go when I get back dowm

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By *ivemeyoursoulWoman over a year ago

Easter just around the corner!

"I'm not one myself.

I'm attracted to all types of women.

MrsSB

Are you after a fuck Mrs SB?

Most appreciation threads are for curvy woman anyway

Oh well

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By *LCCCouple over a year ago

Cambridge

"Some do some dont.

I'll go with that reply as well if you don't mind me pinching it

Go for it. Am I allowed to pinch something back?

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By *ark jamiesonMan over a year ago

twickenham

"I'm not one. "
I don't I like all sorts shapes and sizes but very skinny not for me

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Personally, I like women of most shapes and sizes, but I'm not too fond of the aesthetic of women who are:

Under a size 10

Over a size 20

Over 5'10"

I am drawn to women with slight flaws too, there's a woman who works in the local shop that has a tiny little scar on her lip, and I just want to kiss it, strangely, slightly uneven teeth set me off too, and there's nothing in this world more sexy than a little bit of a mummy tummy.

But it doesn't matterr what I think, and beauty is more than what dsomeone looks like, you could be a Victoria secret model and still be ugly to me, ugly of character, ugly of deed, and ugly of attitude, you can't cover that kind of ugly with any amount of make-up

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By *erdita Von TeaseWoman over a year ago

nottingham

How long before the 'bag of bones' comment comes out me wonders

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"How long before the 'bag of bones' comment comes out me wonders

Noit from me, body shaming is wrong, end of

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By *ivemeyoursoulWoman over a year ago

Easter just around the corner!

"Some do some dont.

I'll go with that reply as well if you don't mind me pinching it

Go for it. Am I allowed to pinch something back?

Of course

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By *LCCCouple over a year ago

Cambridge

"Some do some dont.

I'll go with that reply as well if you don't mind me pinching it

Go for it. Am I allowed to pinch something back?

Of course

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I'm not one. "

In a nutshell not all of the time.........

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"How long before the 'bag of bones' comment comes out me wonders

I have bones, it's just that the bag covering them is well padded

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

If I was to base my answer on something like Hot Pics then I would say yes they do or at least their preference is to see photos of them.

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By *entle giraffeMan over a year ago

Minehead

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I don't think there is any point in men or women posting do women/men like a specific thing. Truth is some people will, some win't. It's down to personal taste. However, I like athletic, or a girl with some shape.

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By *iss AdventureWoman over a year ago

Wonderland

Women are beautiful in all shapes and sizes ..... men too for that matter (especially dad bods

)

But I can find the most aesthetically pleasing person can ugly if they're bad on the inside.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

If I've found anything out on fab is guys will fuck women of all shapes and sizes but always seem to date thinner girls. I've met loads of BBW lovers over the years and when u bump into them in public or u see them on facebook or other sites they are always with thinner girls.

As I was once told fatties are a lot like mopeds. Fun to ride but u wouldnt want ur mates to see u with one.

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By *i fem huntersCouple over a year ago

london

Curvy each and every time!

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By *verysmileMan over a year ago

Canterbury

A lady without curves is like a road without bends......

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By *appyjack890Man over a year ago

North loncolnshire

"I'm not one. "

I love women of all shapes and sizes. I get just as turned on with women who have curves as i do women who are tonned. Sometimes i can find women to be a bit too skinny.

After all why demand perfection when im not perfect myself

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By *ark jamiesonMan over a year ago

twickenham

personality rules everytime ,sexy is the mind but our eyes connect to our brain and tell us 'oh no' so we don't go there

this place isn't about inner beauty its about lust

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"If I've found anything out on fab is guys will fuck women of all shapes and sizes but always seem to date thinner girls. I've met loads of BBW lovers over the years and when u bump into them in public or u see them on facebook or other sites they are always with thinner girls.

As I was once told fatties are a lot like mopeds. Fun to ride but u wouldnt want ur mates to see u with one.

Unfortunately you're right, I've just joined a new dating site. Only had one message and that was from a cougar seeker. I've been honest I'm not slim and it seems guys don't want to date plus size 16s. Yet here, I can be over run with messages. So on that basis your thought process is right.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Women are beautiful in all shapes and sizes ..... men too for that matter (especially dad bods

)

But I can find the most aesthetically pleasing person can ugly if they're bad on the inside."

I'm with this. My ex wife was a toned, athletic, size 8 blonde. At first I was intoxicated by her. She wasn't my "type" either. But she was a self centred

Nobhead!? Over time she got uglier and uglier. In the end my dick went up into my stomach whenever I saw her naked.

Which is why I never judge someone totally on aesthetics alone. If there's an initial attraction, it's their character that seals the deal.

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By *etter the devil you knowWoman over a year ago

Lyndhurst

i think most men prefer them but some men arent that fussy when they want sex especialy if its any type of sex.

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By *erdita Von TeaseWoman over a year ago

nottingham

"How long before the 'bag of bones' comment comes out me wonders

I have bones, it's just that the bag covering them is well padded

Ok that made me giggle

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By *iss AdventureWoman over a year ago

Wonderland

My body isn't a temple, it's definitely a bouncy castle, which is fine by me, who doesn't enjoy playing on a bouncy castle

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By *ark jamiesonMan over a year ago

twickenham

"My body isn't a temple, it's definitely a bouncy castle, which is fine by me, who doesn't enjoy playing on a bouncy castle

"
you can really hurt yourself on a bouncy castle

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I prefer slimmer women, Boom I said it.

If any average or curvy women takes that as a slight I'm not sorry.

I still like average or curvy just prefer slim. That being said there are some average or curvy women that I find more attractive than some of the slim women. Its not all black and white

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By *GHertsCouple over a year ago

North Herts

It's not the shape and size of the gift box that matters but what's inside it.

Without personality it really doesn't matter if you're toned or whatever.

Mr G

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Some men like anything with a pulse ha ha

whoops did I say that out loud

I better retract my claws

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Some men like anything with a pulse ha ha

whoops did I say that out loud

I better retract my claws

A pulse isn't always necessary.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I prefer slimmer women, Boom I said it.

If any average or curvy women takes that as a slight I'm not sorry.

I still like average or curvy just prefer slim. That being said there are some average or curvy women that I find more attractive than some of the slim women. Its not all black and white

(That's why I posted what I did.)

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I'm a sufferer of the Goldilocks effect. Most men are. For their personal preference some men/women will be too tall, too short, too slim, too curvy and some are just right

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Some men like anything with a pulse ha ha

whoops did I say that out loud

I better retract my claws

A pulse isn't always necessary.

Ha ha very true

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Yes

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I prefer slimmer women, Boom I said it.

If any average or curvy women takes that as a slight I'm not sorry.

I still like average or curvy just prefer slim. That being said there are some average or curvy women that I find more attractive than some of the slim women. Its not all black and white

(That's why I posted what I did.)

I don't think I would ever base something on hot pics

. There were some things there you cannot unsee...

I personally think the hot pics are very much rigged, because there are some damn right stunning ladies whom I've never seen on page 1 even though they very much deserved it in my opinion

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I prefer slimmer women, Boom I said it.

If any average or curvy women takes that as a slight I'm not sorry.

I still like average or curvy just prefer slim. That being said there are some average or curvy women that I find more attractive than some of the slim women. Its not all black and white

(That's why I posted what I did.)

I don't think I would ever base something on hot pics

. There were some things there you cannot unsee...

I personally think the hot pics are very much rigged, because there are some damn right stunning ladies whom I've never seen on page 1 even though they very much deserved it in my opinion "

A few people always get lots of fabs which pushes them higher so they get more fabs. How most of these kind of polls work

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Attraction is a funny thing. Personally I'm more attracted to personality than looks. I've turned down dates with some classically stunning women as their personality has turned me off. Likewise I've fallen head over heels for some women who may not be considered classically attractive.

A wise person once said beauty is in the eye of the beholder. I totally believe that's true as everyone has something about them that is beautiful even if they try to hide it.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Mr A adores my body....but it's when I make him cry with laughter or when I'm being cheeky and I'm sharp as a tac that he is attracted to....think the fact he likes my body is an added bonus x

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I prefer slimmer women, Boom I said it.

If any average or curvy women takes that as a slight I'm not sorry.

I still like average or curvy just prefer slim. That being said there are some average or curvy women that I find more attractive than some of the slim women. Its not all black and white

(That's why I posted what I did.)

I don't think I would ever base something on hot pics

. There were some things there you cannot unsee...

I personally think the hot pics are very much rigged, because there are some damn right stunning ladies whom I've never seen on page 1 even though they very much deserved it in my opinion "

I was thinking more along the lines that the women tend to be on the slimmer side, similar to what you see on the media.

Once you hit page 1 you're also seen by all the non site supporters so appeal to a larger audience.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I prefer slimmer women, Boom I said it.

If any average or curvy women takes that as a slight I'm not sorry.

I still like average or curvy just prefer slim. That being said there are some average or curvy women that I find more attractive than some of the slim women. Its not all black and white

I feel the same. I've had my head turned many I time and find my self thinking the old Ali G ' yeh, I definitely would!'

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By *odareyouMan over a year ago

not far from iceland,,,,,, tescos is nearer though :-) (near leeds)

"Some do some dont. "

I think this sums it up..

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

We are all somebody ,and all here for a reason ,does the size of a person really matter ? Its almost like thin women are from earth,and fat women landed from mars,who says we have all got to be a size ten,is there a rule book?whatever size and who ever we are ,we are all beautiful people in our own way.If i was a size ten and took a size eight shoe it would be like i was wearing flippers,if i was a size 22 and took a size three shoe then i would fall over.

as it is everything goes with my body ,the size if my feet and boobs etc

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

It is all down to the face to me, slim or voluptuous... if your face makes me want to make love to you, you're on !

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I like curvy and chubby

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Slim, toned, but with Mack off tits please

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I prefer slimmer women, Boom I said it.

If any average or curvy women takes that as a slight I'm not sorry.

I still like average or curvy just prefer slim. That being said there are some average or curvy women that I find more attractive than some of the slim women. Its not all black and white

(That's why I posted what I did.)

I don't think I would ever base something on hot pics

. There were some things there you cannot unsee...

I personally think the hot pics are very much rigged, because there are some damn right stunning ladies whom I've never seen on page 1 even though they very much deserved it in my opinion "

I'm on hot pics, I'm not slim and currently have no visible muscle definition anywhere on my body!

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"It's not the shape and size of the gift box that matters but what's inside it.

Without personality it really doesn't matter if you're toned or whatever.

Mr G"

Well said x

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By *ENDAROOSCouple over a year ago

South West London / Surrey

Like anything, so do, some don't and some are indifferent.

There are enough people on here to suit most tastes. I'm never going to be slim/athletic, so I concentrate my attentions on those who like my shape/size.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I prefer men.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I prefer slimmer women, Boom I said it.

If any average or curvy women takes that as a slight I'm not sorry.

I still like average or curvy just prefer slim. That being said there are some average or curvy women that I find more attractive than some of the slim women. Its not all black and white

(That's why I posted what I did.)

I don't think I would ever base something on hot pics

. There were some things there you cannot unsee...

I personally think the hot pics are very much rigged, because there are some damn right stunning ladies whom I've never seen on page 1 even though they very much deserved it in my opinion

I'm on hot pics, I'm not slim and currently have no visible muscle definition anywhere on my body!"

I know. Actually muscular women are unattractive to me, toned is fine but I don't want to see muscles popping out. And I've been on hot pics too, just on second page...

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I prefer men."

Hi I'm a man

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I prefer men.

Hi I'm a man

Its says so on your profile and Everything!

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I prefer slimmer women, Boom I said it.

If any average or curvy women takes that as a slight I'm not sorry.

I still like average or curvy just prefer slim. That being said there are some average or curvy women that I find more attractive than some of the slim women. Its not all black and white

(That's why I posted what I did.)

I don't think I would ever base something on hot pics

. There were some things there you cannot unsee...

I personally think the hot pics are very much rigged, because there are some damn right stunning ladies whom I've never seen on page 1 even though they very much deserved it in my opinion

I'm on hot pics, I'm not slim and currently have no visible muscle definition anywhere on my body!"

You look inproportion to me & toned

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By *eavenscentitCouple over a year ago

barnstaple

I love a nice big wobbly bottom on a lady.

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By *umpPumpyMan over a year ago

London

I can appreciate and am attracted to lots of different body types. There are some women that look ridiculously Sexy with a bit more weight and some that are lovely when slim.

No set formula for me. I'm all encompassing.

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By *he-Hosiery-GentMan over a year ago

Older Hot Bearded Guy

It's all subjective.

I seem to be attracted to slimish women with curves - hip to waist ratio being vital.

It seems a fine line between being too slim or carrying too much weight, to being toned, but, not too toned, and the overall body shape.

It's very difficult to describe, but, I definitely do lean towards a more womanly figure with curves, without too much wobble.

I'm on holiday at the moment, and I was 'lady watching' and for every two or three that walk past as I'm on my sun lounger that font do it for me, there's another two or three, that I'm very drawn towards.

Beautiful...

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I think a lot of men like all different types of women ...

Apart from those that say they are specifically looking for a certain body type, most won't just in case they think they might miss out on a meet

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"i think most men prefer them but some men arent that fussy when they want sex especialy if its any type of sex."

Well said!

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Some men on fab will shag Henry Hoover

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Some men on fab will shag Henry Hoover"

More of a Hettie man myself

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"i think most men prefer them but some men arent that fussy when they want sex especialy if its any type of sex.

Well said!"

Is it not ' some men have different tastes'?

Not that fussy...sounds like a thirsty man drinking puddle water out of desperation.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Some men on fab will shag Henry Hoover"

He's a good looking hoover though

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By *ENDAROOSCouple over a year ago

South West London / Surrey

"Some men on fab will shag Henry Hoover

He's a good looking hoover though

Hetty is far better!

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

For me it's about whether I find the lady sexy physically AND personality wise.

If I don't find feel that there's that all important spark there, then I am afraid it ain't gonna happen regardless of looks. (Fussy fecker, I know)

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By *ak57Man over a year ago

Cirencester

I don't !! I love someone with curves .. Want something to get hold of and also there is more to lick, suck and squeeze.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

any shape any size it doesn't matter ... personality is key

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Some men on fab will shag Henry Hoover

He's a good looking hoover though

Hetty is far better!

Oops..quote forgot about pink Hettie!

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I like all sorts of women

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I'm not one. "

A nice smile is all it takes for me (unless your 20 stone)

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"i think most men prefer them but some men arent that fussy when they want sex especialy if its any type of sex.

Well said!

Is it not ' some men have different tastes'?

Not that fussy...sounds like a thirsty man drinking puddle water out of desperation.

Some guys just want quick and easy

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"It's not the shape and size of the gift box that matters but what's inside it.

Without personality it really doesn't matter if you're toned or whatever.

Mr G

Well said x"

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Nothing wrong with curves - cuddling a stick doesn't do it for me!

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I love women

Yes, I am more attracted to a specific body type over others, but personality often trumps that factor

It's like saying a woman is only attracted to a guy's cock, there's a lot more to the person than a lump of meat

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By *he-Hosiery-GentMan over a year ago

Older Hot Bearded Guy

I think it goes without saying that personality is vital.

I think the OP was referring to which do you find physically attractive.

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By *ivemeyoursoulWoman over a year ago

Easter just around the corner!

"Nothing wrong with curves - cuddling a stick doesn't do it for me! "

Oh dear...

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I think it goes without saying that personality is vital.

I think the OP was referring to which do you find physically attractive. "

I think the OP was mischief making with the antithesis to the 'do women prefer muscular ripped men' thread to be honest, but what do I know

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I think it's an individual preference like many things , I think the men who care more about their own looks and are obsessed by body image tend to go for the finely tuned and perfectly toned body , but that's a huge turn off for me

Personality and a sexy mind are a winner for me ....that being said grossly over weight and unclean bodies are a no no

but don't we all love handles to hold on to and a sexy mind

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I like women of all shapes and sizes but I've got to admit a woman with curves is a real turn on

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"any shape any size it doesn't matter ... personality is key"

Yes, you´re right but, look is the first thing that you are attracted.

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By *alldarkhandsomedaveMan over a year ago

Derby

If two women were equally matched in personality, attitudes, open mindedness then I would rather meet with the slim, toned lady.

Having said that, I can equally find a curvy woman attractive, and depending upon my 'mood', that is what I will search for....

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Is sex on fab as much about motive and opportunity as it is about personal preferences?

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"If two women were equally matched in personality, attitudes, open mindedness then I would rather meet with the slim, toned lady.

Having said that, I can equally find a curvy woman attractive, and depending upon my 'mood', that is what I will search for...."

Ooooh now that's a tricky choice!

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I love women of all shapes and sizes, but my attraction to people is from their personality. Looks are one thing, but personality is something else.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Personally, I like women of most shapes and sizes, but I'm not too fond of the aesthetic of women who are:

Under a size 10

Over a size 20

Over 5'10"

That's very true - no point in being beautiful and slim and being a total bitch in personality

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I'm a firm believer that they do

I'm also a firm believer that guys only mail me because the type of women they really want are few and far between so they settle of secomd best

Sorry

I honestly do not believe anybody would meet me through choice if a size 8 woman was stood next to me willing to meet them

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"i think most men prefer them but some men arent that fussy when they want sex

Is it not ' some men have different tastes'?

Not that fussy...sounds like a thirsty man drinking puddle water out of desperation.

Some guys just want quick and easy

Some maybe, want quick and easy sex. But those probably do still have a type.

As I said, my type is slim. But other shapes and sizes have attracted me, I can assure you, it's not just for sex. I can assist myself with that.

I've mailed some women on here of different sizes and it's because of text and they look gorgeous. Not because they are slim. Certainly not because

I'm lowering my standards. (I also feel for the women that comment was aimed at)

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

It depends a lot on the person, and the connotation. To say i like to look at slim girls is true, but does not mean i dont like looking at larger girls. I really do not have an exclusive to all others preference.

One of the things i like about swinging is the opportunity on visual and tactile levels is to experience something to different to what i have.

As swingers/kinksters overall are more self confident than their vanilla counterparts, then that for me is the most attractive thing of all regardless of body type.

If you have the body of a supermodel and the personality of a radish then i really would not be interested.

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By *hyllyphyllyMan over a year ago

Bradford

I like my women to have a pulse, and that's optional

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I'm a firm believer that they do

I'm also a firm believer that guys only mail me because the type of women they really want are few and far between so they settle of secomd best

Sorry

I honestly do not believe anybody would meet me through choice if a size 8 woman was stood next to me willing to meet them "

I don't think so. I think if given a choice between a size 8 with not much boob/bum or a size 20 with plenty of boob/bum that most men would go for the latter. I think the key for most men is the boobs and bum, not the 8 or 20. I think its mostly women who think of the 8 and 20.

But then, I really think it's all subjective and different guys will have different desires.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I'm a firm believer that they do

I'm also a firm believer that guys only mail me because the type of women they really want are few and far between so they settle of secomd best

Sorry

I honestly do not believe anybody would meet me through choice if a size 8 woman was stood next to me willing to meet them

But then, I really think it's all subjective and different guys will have different desires."

Gerraway

I bet a pound to a penny you get far more offers than me and I've got far more bum and boob than you

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I'm a firm believer that they do

I'm also a firm believer that guys only mail me because the type of women they really want are few and far between so they settle of secomd best

Sorry

I honestly do not believe anybody would meet me through choice if a size 8 woman was stood next to me willing to meet them

But then, I really think it's all subjective and different guys will have different desires.

Gerraway

I bet a pound to a penny you get far more offers than me and I've got far more bum and boob than you

I would take that bet because I think you're wrong

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I'm a firm believer that they do

I'm also a firm believer that guys only mail me because the type of women they really want are few and far between so they settle of secomd best

Sorry

I honestly do not believe anybody would meet me through choice if a size 8 woman was stood next to me willing to meet them

But then, I really think it's all subjective and different guys will have different desires.

Gerraway

I bet a pound to a penny you get far more offers than me and I've got far more bum and boob than you

You're both great. Small boobs large boobs are all good too.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

obviously I can't speak for the whole male population but for me, dress size has little to do with attraction.

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By *exysuzi and Mr.SCouple over a year ago

CONISTON .Stoke Suburbia. Staffs. BARMOUTH. The Lakes (Monthly)

I am slim, but then I am also tiny. I have mummy tummy/post massive tumour tummy too. I could do without that and the scar, but I am here to continue my life and have fun. My scar says, yessss I am still alive. So who cares. Xxxxxx

Suzi

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Toned bodies are ok but I prefer curves

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Surely some genuine men genuinely love us genuinely fat women

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"obviously I can't speak for the whole male population but for me, dress size has little to do with attraction. "

IQ?

Bra cup size?

Ability to suck like a Dyson?

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

nice bit of fishing there on a Monday morning Scarlet

I like my women to be big in many aspects : eg smile, personality, sense of humour.

And good looking. A lady that can combine these, and more, will be preference whether they're size zero or plus plus size.

Do I win £5? "

What about arse ?

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By *ustin666666Man over a year ago

Nottingham

nice bit of fishing there on a Monday morning Scarlet

I like my women to be big in many aspects : eg smile, personality, sense of humour.

And good looking. A lady that can combine these, and more, will be preference whether they're size zero or plus plus size.

Do I win £5?

What about arse ?"

Definitely one that deserves a good slap

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By *andy6677Man over a year ago

crewe

I like all shapes and sizes bbw to slim all women are gorgeous to me end of xxx

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By *ust RachelTV/TS over a year ago

Horsham

Personally I prefer someone's personality, the rest is just a bonus.

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By *etter the devil you knowWoman over a year ago

Lyndhurst

"i think most men prefer them but some men arent that fussy when they want sex especialy if its any type of sex.

Well said!

Is it not ' some men have different tastes'?

Not that fussy...sounds like a thirsty man drinking puddle water out of desperation.

People can get desperate women too.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

My preference would be for my lady's to be size16+

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I find slim not to be all that attractive really. Gym figures on women do nowt for me...give me a big bum and some tummy any day

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Not a fan of the slimmer figure, I prefer the curvier sort.

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By *eeeee7Woman over a year ago

over yonder

"How long before the 'bag of bones' comment comes out me wonders

I have bones, it's just that the bag covering them is well padded

"
lo like a jiffy envelope, same here with added bubble wrap

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Some do and some don't.

Some will never compromise that view and some change it over time. I wonder if it depends on past life/sexual experience too. If you've had a great experience with a larger lady you think you'd like it again.

Mr really likes a bjt of a wobbly tum. He's not the norm but he does.

Sarah

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Its one thing to have sex with a big girl its another to be seen in public with one or embarrassed to what their friends may think. If I cant have one with a guy he don't get the other x

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Nope..i prefer curves and BBW's

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Some do and some don't.

Mr really likes a bjt of a wobbly tum. He's not the norm but he does.

Sarah "

Tumms are lovely

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By *arehamMan over a year ago

handforth

Yes.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Myself, im relatively flexible on the issue. I can usually find something to like in most body types.

Visually I prefer girls in the size 10-14 range, preferably with good curves, and I mean actual curves not just being podgy. I also prefer girls under 5'5. In a visual sense for me the shorter the better in fact, one of the prettiest I ever dated was 4'9 but I quickly realised that girls that short aren't very compatible in bed with a guy of 6'2. Nothing lines up.

Below a size 10 visually I'm not massively into it, but physically I enjoy the ability to throw them around at will, to pick them up and engage in acrobatic positions. Combined with a short height they are light enough to have some serious fun with.

Once a girl goes above a size 16 I'm not usually tremendously interested. Don't get me wrong I've played with them, often, but usually it's because their personalities made up for their other shortcomings.

For L, skinny girls are very much out, 10-14 ideal. With good feminine curves. She likes her girls to be girls, not into the tomboy thing, stick insects or BBWs.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I like an ass that was built by squats ^_^

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By *exysuzi and Mr.SCouple over a year ago

CONISTON .Stoke Suburbia. Staffs. BARMOUTH. The Lakes (Monthly)

"Myself, im relatively flexible on the issue. I can usually find something to like in most body types.

For L, skinny girls are very much out, 10-14 ideal. With good feminine curves. She likes her girls to be girls, not into the tomboy thing, stick insects or BBWs. "

I feel so sorry for Will, he either has guns fired at him or women.

Suzi xxxx

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By *B9 QueenWoman over a year ago

Over the rainbow, under the bridge

I don't think it really matters if some men prefer slender toned women. People have different tastes - men and women alike.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I'm not slim but I am relatively toned...the men I meet seem to prefer curves

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

" Once a girl goes above a size 16 I'm not usually tremendously interested. Don't get me wrong I've played with them, often, but usually it's because their personalities made up for their other shortcomings. "

This

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I feel so sorry for Will, he either has guns fired at him or women.

Suzi xxxx"

:-S

Did you quote the wrong post? Who is Will? Haha

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By *oharleyMan over a year ago

Hexham

Sexiness comes from attitude and personality as much as anything else. So not necessarily.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Horses for courses! I may find a slim toned woman as much as a curvy big boobed lady. Its more about personality and face for me.

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By *andybeachWoman over a year ago

In the middle

I think most men would prefer a slim lady, I'm sure they enjoy our company but most would want to fuck the slim hottie in the room rather than the pleasantly plump lady no matter how great her personality was

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By *ivemeyoursoulWoman over a year ago

Easter just around the corner!

"I think most men would prefer a slim lady, I'm sure they enjoy our company but most would want to fuck the slim hottie in the room rather than the pleasantly plump lady no matter how great her personality was

Not according to this thread...

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

All the guys saying they don't care and that personalities are more important yet have cut off points of size 20 or 20 stone? What if someone's over 20 stone with a shit hot personality?

I know there's bigger birds on here than that who still get guys burping their worm over them so my conclusion is, a guy will say anything if he thinks he'll get his dick wet.

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By *imiUKMan over a year ago

Hereford

I don't think that attraction for me is a product of size. I like some curvy women, I like some thin women and I've fancied those inbetween.

Swingers like variety, no?

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

No reason for white knighting here, but it does seem to be the women that are essentially calling the consensus of men in this thread liars.

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By *imiUKMan over a year ago

Hereford

"All the guys saying they don't care and that personalities are more important yet have cut off points of size 20 or 20 stone? What if someone's over 20 stone with a shit hot personality?

I know there's bigger birds on here than that who still get guys burping their worm over them so my conclusion is, a guy will say anything if he thinks he'll get his dick wet. "

That's not the case with me. I have to find a woman attractive or I find that I don't want to have sex with them....

It's just that different things attract me to different people.

To turn it on it's head - I've fancied more than a few people until they have started talking...

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"All the guys saying they don't care and that personalities are more important yet have cut off points of size 20 or 20 stone? What if someone's over 20 stone with a shit hot personality?

I know there's bigger birds on here than that who still get guys burping their worm over them so my conclusion is, a guy will say anything if he thinks he'll get his dick wet. "

You have to patent "burping their worm"

It's bloody brilliant

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By *eeeee7Woman over a year ago

over yonder

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mines wouldn't

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By *ENDAROOSCouple over a year ago

South West London / Surrey

"All the guys saying they don't care and that personalities are more important yet have cut off points of size 20 or 20 stone? What if someone's over 20 stone with a shit hot personality?

I know there's bigger birds on here than that who still get guys burping their worm over them so my conclusion is, a guy will say anything if he thinks he'll get his dick wet. "

Burping their work over them

I've never heard that phrase before.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Speaking personally, as a VERY short curvy lady, I get lots of msgs from people saying they like curves, but everything is subjective, I like someone who is intelligent and articulate rather than a male model with a 6 pack, I have all sorts of weird crushes for all sorts of different reasons, not all physical, and yes, I DEFINITELY like my sexy hot bod wrestling types, but they have to be NICE people for me to want to meet them, not just pushy 'come and fuk me noww' people who used their schoolbooks as loo roll! Some people's quirks can be their sexiest assets! xxx

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By *eeeee7Woman over a year ago

over yonder

"All the guys saying they don't care and that personalities are more important yet have cut off points of size 20 or 20 stone? What if someone's over 20 stone with a shit hot personality?

I know there's bigger birds on here than that who still get guys burping their worm over them so my conclusion is, a guy will say anything if he thinks he'll get his dick wet.

That's not the case with me. I have to find a woman attractive or I find that I don't want to have sex with them....

It's just that different things attract me to different people.

To turn it on it's head - I've fancied more than a few people until they have started talking...

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"No reason for white knighting here, but it does seem to be the women that are essentially calling the consensus of men in this thread liars. "

Tbf it's no different to guys calling women liars when they say dick size doesn't matter. Probably about as accurate too.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"No reason for white knighting here, but it does seem to be the women that are essentially calling the consensus of men in this thread liars. "

My verifications and pictures draw a good enough picture of my tastes.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I do ok. In real life too. I do have quite a specific look.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"All the guys saying they don't care and that personalities are more important yet have cut off points of size 20 or 20 stone? What if someone's over 20 stone with a shit hot personality?

I know there's bigger birds on here than that who still get guys burping their worm over them so my conclusion is, a guy will say anything if he thinks he'll get his dick wet. "

Very much so!! Although personality and face do it for me all the time! The body cant be a train wreck though, never seen a days exercise and looks 40 years older than stated date! As long as an average body, I will pick a pretty face & a smashing personality any day! That connection goes along way! Ive fucked pretties abd its been dull and terrible! Every lady is different and sometimes you cant explain why you like them. At school I had a very hot gf who everyone fancied, but I fancied the big thigh horse rider with acne and flat chest more! I never ever admitted it!! God I bashed it out over her for years lol!

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

It really depends on what I'm looking for at the moment.

If I'm looking for a long term relationship . I'm would be looking for a slim/petite/athletic female.

But if I'm looking for a fuck buddy or casual hook up. My standards become lax...

Add alcohol and throw all standards out the window....

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Yeah we can wish

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Personality does go a long way. I've had the pleasure of meeting some fucking beautiful looking men but sometimes the chat is shit.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

For me its all about the person, ive had partners who have been size 6 and partners who have been size 18 and lots in between, and I have thoroughly enjoyed myself whatever size, because I really got on with them,

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"I'm a firm believer that they do

I'm also a firm believer that guys only mail me because the type of women they really want are few and far between so they settle of secomd best

Sorry

I honestly do not believe anybody would meet me through choice if a size 8 woman was stood next to me willing to meet them

No NN... Some would choose the size 8 lady, but some really would choose -and prefer- you.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"No reason for white knighting here, but it does seem to be the women that are essentially calling the consensus of men in this thread liars.

Tbf it's no different to guys calling women liars when they say dick size doesn't matter. Probably about as accurate too."

Dick size does matter to *some* women. Hand on my heart I've had conversations with my girl friends in real life and we're all a bunch of lunatics but we speak freely and truthfully amongst ourselves. Out of a pack of 9 women it's me and my other friend that like the massive dicks though my other friend will compromise. I won't ever compromise on dick size. So that's 7.5 women out of 9 that genuinely believe dick size doesn't matter.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"No reason for white knighting here, but it does seem to be the women that are essentially calling the consensus of men in this thread liars.

Tbf it's no different to guys calling women liars when they say dick size doesn't matter. Probably about as accurate too.

Which might well be the figures for men who wouldn't like larger ladies.

Trouble with both is that neither side can ever really know, and I suspect that's what leads to such polarised opinions

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By *andare63Man over a year ago

oldham

Personally I prefer a woman that's of a size 10-12 in stature ... I've noticed there are very few on here .. However it wouldn't do for us all to be the same ...and have the same requirements..... I've not seen or read many female profiles on here asking for men with big beer guts.. What I have seen is countless female profiles asking for fit good looking male counterparts ,,, yet offering in return ,,,,,the total opposite ????

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"No reason for white knighting here, but it does seem to be the women that are essentially calling the consensus of men in this thread liars. "

It's a shame.

I'm happy (maybe a bit surprised) how the thread has turned out. Reasonable debate/ opinions.

I like many different types of people. I know some people are the same and like many types, and some people have a definite specific type.

It's a shame women can't believe that someone will find them attractive. Sure some men will white knight and talk shit to get their dick wet. Just suss them out and meet the ones that do fancy you.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Short answer to a long thread, everyone likes different things

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By *ain4uWoman over a year ago

dublin

"For me its all about the person, ive had partners who have been size 6 and partners who have been size 18 and lots in between, and I have thoroughly enjoyed myself whatever size, because I really got on with them,

Great attitude

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By *ee VianteWoman over a year ago

Somewhere in North Norfolk

"Personally I prefer a woman that's of a size 10-12 in stature ... I've noticed there are very few on here .. However it wouldn't do for us all to be the same ...and have the same requirements..... I've not seen or read many female profiles on here asking for men with big beer guts.. What I have seen is countless female profiles asking for fit good looking male counterparts ,,, yet offering in return ,,,,,the total opposite ????"

And?

You're looking for 28 year old women! I could ask what it is you, physically, offer a 28 year old, slim woman.

And perhaps what those larger ladies offer in return is intellect. Maybe they know what stature means.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Well they do day opposites attract

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By *oinMan over a year ago

wolverhampton

Think it's a case of different strokes for different folks

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Think it's a case of different strokes for different folks "

Exactly..don't know why stuff like this always turns into someone hating on someone else's opinion

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Haven't read all the replies but attractive ti on is always part of the appeal however. Size isn't important to me if you are nice you are nice and that's it?

It's who the person is not what they look like.

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman over a year ago

little house on the praire

In the real world body type has no baring on relationships. Different shapes and sizes are all in relationships and all types arnt in relationships. Same as on here i dont think any one struggles for meets based soley on their body type other facters always come into play. I always think it sad when peole think its because of the way they look

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Haven't read all the replies but attractive ti on is always part of the appeal however. Size isn't important to me if you are nice you are nice and that's it?

It's who the person is not what they look like."

So why won't people meet without pics?

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"Think it's a case of different strokes for different folks

Exactly..don't know why stuff like this always turns into someone hating on someone else's opinion"

Indeed.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Each to their own isn't it.

I WILL respond to a non pic message (if I ever get any lol) but would like to see at least a face pic of who I'm talking to before meeting

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By *andare63Man over a year ago

oldham

And?

You're looking for 28 year old women! I could ask what it is you, physically, offer a 28 year old, slim woman.

And perhaps what those larger ladies offer in return is intellect. Maybe they know what stature means."

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By *andy6677Man over a year ago

crewe

my current gf is slim and 25 but ive met all ages and figures over the years men women and transexual xxx

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By *andare63Man over a year ago

oldham

We all know that age is also a preference . You quote my lower parameter , yet not the upper !! Go figure ? So what would I have to offer the younger woman ?? Valid point ,,, but then you answered that yourself ......intellect ??????

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By *ee VianteWoman over a year ago

Somewhere in North Norfolk

Intellect. Hmmmm. Ok.

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