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Find it dissapointing that some profilers still don,t seem to get what swinginging is....
We are not here to date nor find a long term partner.
We all have buisy lives, but wish to gratify ones needs with like minded folk. Of which understand the mutual benefits of experimenting and playing outside of usual parimeters.
Feel that to many fabbers expectations are to high and are to easily threatened within there own relationship.
Its not rocket science if you want romance, connection, wining and dining and a potential sole mate use a dating site.
If you simply require and need the extra buzz of physicality without additional bullshit this is the place.
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People use the site and define swinging for what suits them. I don't think many people like to be dictated to as to how they should use the site or that they are doing it all wrong .... good luck with your search. |
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By *igeiaWoman
over a year ago
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Or how about everyone agrees that people are individuals, use the site in a way that suits them, meets those who suit them and their wants and needs and chooses to live and let live when it comes to those outside their parameters? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Everyone is here for their own reasons as we don't have any rights to judge those, even if that frustrates you.
Some will be looking for a long term partner, one that is probably as open minded as themselves, some will be looking for casual hook ups, some will want something in between.
Don't let it annoy you, and don't feel that anyone needs your guidance on what they should be doing on here, just enjoy it yourself and look for what floats your boat. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I'd just concern yourself with what you want out of the site and not worry what others are looking for. If people started telling you what you could or couldn't do on here how would you react? Good luck with whatever it is you are after.  |
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By *ENDAROOSCouple
over a year ago
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"People use the site and define swinging for what suits them. I don't think many people like to be dictated to as to how they should use the site or that they are doing it all wrong .... good luck with your search."
Exactly this 
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Find it dissapointing that some profilers still don,t seem to get what swinginging is....
We are not here to date nor find a long term partner.
We all have buisy lives, but wish to gratify ones needs with like minded folk. Of which understand the mutual benefits of experimenting and playing outside of usual parimeters.
Feel that to many fabbers expectations are to high and are to easily threatened within there own relationship.
Its not rocket science if you want romance, connection, wining and dining and a potential sole mate use a dating site.
If you simply require and need the extra buzz of physicality without additional bullshit this is the place.
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Different people want different things. Focus on those that match you rather than accuse people that have different expectations of not 'getting' what swinging actually is |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Find it dissapointing that some profilers still don,t seem to get what swinginging is....
We are not here to date nor find a long term partner.
We all have buisy lives, but wish to gratify ones needs with like minded folk. Of which understand the mutual benefits of experimenting and playing outside of usual parimeters.
Feel that to many fabbers expectations are to high and are to easily threatened within there own relationship.
Its not rocket science if you want romance, connection, wining and dining and a potential sole mate use a dating site.
If you simply require and need the extra buzz of physicality without additional bullshit this is the place.
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Spot on and couldn't agree more. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Or how about everyone agrees that people are individuals, use the site in a way that suits them, meets those who suit them and their wants and needs and chooses to live and let live when it comes to those outside their parameters?"
More and more people are using dating sites to find sex. People use fab to find dates. Others use each site however they wish. Who cares? As long as they are honest about it who really gives a shit? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Or how about everyone agrees that people are individuals, use the site in a way that suits them, meets those who suit them and their wants and needs and chooses to live and let live when it comes to those outside their parameters?
More and more people are using dating sites to find sex. People use fab to find dates. Others use each site however they wish. Who cares? As long as they are honest about it who really gives a shit? "
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Finding romance/love on fab, isn't impossible or perhaps even improbable people have done, so I'm not cynical about it
But I'd have to agree with the OP, its when others actively look for it, setting it as a criteria, on a site like this, I've always found that odd..why here of all places |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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OP, there are lots of fabbers out there who want exactly what you do but there are also those who don't & want a lot more.
I can imagine it is a wee bit frustrating if you're proposing NSA sex & she's looking up bridal wear.
Good luck in your search |
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"Find it dissapointing that some profilers still don,t seem to get what swinginging is....
We are not here to date nor find a long term partner.
We all have buisy lives, but wish to gratify ones needs with like minded folk. Of which understand the mutual benefits of experimenting and playing outside of usual parimeters.
Feel that to many fabbers expectations are to high and are to easily threatened within there own relationship.
Its not rocket science if you want romance, connection, wining and dining and a potential sole mate use a dating site.
If you simply require and need the extra buzz of physicality without additional bullshit this is the place.
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Here's a radical idea...you use the site how you want, and allow others to use it how they want.
I know...but I did say radical!   |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Find it dissapointing that some profilers still don,t seem to get what swinginging is....
We are not here to date nor find a long term partner.
We all have buisy lives, but wish to gratify ones needs with like minded folk. Of which understand the mutual benefits of experimenting and playing outside of usual parimeters.
Feel that to many fabbers expectations are to high and are to easily threatened within there own relationship.
Its not rocket science if you want romance, connection, wining and dining and a potential sole mate use a dating site.
If you simply require and need the extra buzz of physicality without additional bullshit this is the place.
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Please do not lump everyone in with your understanding of fab..
We are each here for our own reasons..
If you don't like what you read on a profile just move on to one you do like the look of ...
Simples
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By *eeeee7Woman
over a year ago
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"Find it dissapointing that some profilers still don,t seem to get what swinginging is....
We are not here to date nor find a long term partner.
We all have buisy lives, but wish to gratify ones needs with like minded folk. Of which understand the mutual benefits of experimenting and playing outside of usual parimeters.
Feel that to many fabbers expectations are to high and are to easily threatened within there own relationship.
Its not rocket science if you want romance, connection, wining and dining and a potential sole mate use a dating site.
If you simply require and need the extra buzz of physicality without additional bullshit this is the place.
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why don't you mind your own business an leave everyone else to do the same |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Finding romance/love on fab, isn't impossible or perhaps even improbable people have done, so I'm not cynical about it
But I'd have to agree with the OP, its when others actively look for it, setting it as a criteria, on a site like this, I've always found that odd..why here of all places "
Why not?! |
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"Find it dissapointing that some profilers still don,t seem to get what swinginging is....
We are not here to date nor find a long term partner.
We all have buisy lives, but wish to gratify ones needs with like minded folk. Of which understand the mutual benefits of experimenting and playing outside of usual parimeters.
Feel that to many fabbers expectations are to high and are to easily threatened within there own relationship.
Its not rocket science if you want romance, connection, wining and dining and a potential sole mate use a dating site.
If you simply require and need the extra buzz of physicality without additional bullshit this is the place.
why don't you mind your own business an leave everyone else to do the same"
Another complaining thread because a single male cant get what he wants |
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By *ames6ft5Man
over a year ago
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"OP, there are lots of fabbers out there who want exactly what you do but there are also those who don't & want a lot more.
I can imagine it is a wee bit frustrating if you're proposing NSA sex & she's looking up bridal wear.
Good luck in your search "
Bridal wear... kinky! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Finding romance/love on fab, isn't impossible or perhaps even improbable people have done, so I'm not cynical about it
But I'd have to agree with the OP, its when others actively look for it, setting it as a criteria, on a site like this, I've always found that odd..why here of all places
Why not?!"
Because it is basically a swinging /fuck site, I am sure people have fallen in love on here but realistically, when you consider other options it's not the best place to look |
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By *anky_PankyWoman
over a year ago
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"I'd just concern yourself with what you want out of the site and not worry what others are looking for. If people started telling you what you could or couldn't do on here how would you react? Good luck with whatever it is you are after. "
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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i was here for sex, had that and not finding it fulfilling any more.
im versatile, allowed to change my mind on what i want too.
i am sure i won't find the relationship i want from here because i'm finding most mens ideas of a relationship on here is nothing but sex and that is not my idea of one, but i can still look if i want. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Finding romance/love on fab, isn't impossible or perhaps even improbable people have done, so I'm not cynical about it
But I'd have to agree with the OP, its when others actively look for it, setting it as a criteria, on a site like this, I've always found that odd..why here of all places
Why not?!
Because it is basically a swinging /fuck site, I am sure people have fallen in love on here but realistically, when you consider other options it's not the best place to look "
dating sites are pretty much the same as fab now, although i'm finding less sex chat on them with the occasional guy who has social skills. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Until dating sites allow guys to display a public penis picture I'll have to keep using this place. Also on a dating site if you ask a guy to send you a picture of his dick then straight away he puts you in the 'just after a fuck' category. On here I can say that I want more than just a fuck and guys respond more positively. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"First of all, swinging is wife swapping, singles just shag around lol. and love haribos lol"
That is right, the cola bottles are my favourites, whats yours?  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Find it dissapointing that some profilers still don,t seem to get what swinginging is....
We are not here to date nor find a long term partner.
We all have buisy lives, but wish to gratify ones needs with like minded folk. Of which understand the mutual benefits of experimenting and playing outside of usual parimeters.
Feel that to many fabbers expectations are to high and are to easily threatened within there own relationship.
Its not rocket science if you want romance, connection, wining and dining and a potential sole mate use a dating site.
If you simply require and need the extra buzz of physicality without additional bullshit this is the place.
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What a load of condescending piffle.
How about you mind your own beeswax.
Don't tell other people what to do.
Another member who thinks everyone on Fab should be fucking their arses off morning noon and night 24/7 with anyone who asks, or they "don't get swinging"
Sod off with your twaddle.
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"Finding romance/love on fab, isn't impossible or perhaps even improbable people have done, so I'm not cynical about it
But I'd have to agree with the OP, its when others actively look for it, setting it as a criteria, on a site like this, I've always found that odd..why here of all places
Why not?!
Because it is basically a swinging /fuck site, I am sure people have fallen in love on here but realistically, when you consider other options it's not the best place to look "
It's totally the best place to fall in love because you will fine someone who has a similar attitude to sex on here, someone who is honest and upfront about their sexuality and doesn't need to pretend. Neither of us was looking for a relationship here, when we met up, but both were on and disillusioned with dating sites. None of the men I had met on dating sites were what I was looking for, on the sexual or any other level ... the site is what you make it. |
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"Finding romance/love on fab, isn't impossible or perhaps even improbable people have done, so I'm not cynical about it
But I'd have to agree with the OP, its when others actively look for it, setting it as a criteria, on a site like this, I've always found that odd..why here of all places
Why not?!
Because it is basically a swinging /fuck site, I am sure people have fallen in love on here but realistically, when you consider other options it's not the best place to look
dating sites are pretty much the same as fab now, although i'm finding less sex chat on them with the occasional guy who has social skills."
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I only get annoyed when sent a message from someone asking for something that my profile makes clear I'm not up for - but that is more down to the fact that they have either read my profile and don't care or they haven't even bothered to read it in the first place.
People should be able to look for what they want on here - that's the openminded, tolerant lifestyle that we all ascribe to, right? (Ooops...did I just speak for everyone too?  ) |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Finding romance/love on fab, isn't impossible or perhaps even improbable people have done, so I'm not cynical about it
But I'd have to agree with the OP, its when others actively look for it, setting it as a criteria, on a site like this, I've always found that odd..why here of all places
Why not?!"
Long term fun & friendships.. that I get, though if that happens its a bonus
But looking for long term relationships, making that a main goal and agenda, is overly optimistic, here more than any other site
Even though you may find it or it may find you, inspite of fabs obvious premise |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Finding romance/love on fab, isn't impossible or perhaps even improbable people have done, so I'm not cynical about it
But I'd have to agree with the OP, its when others actively look for it, setting it as a criteria, on a site like this, I've always found that odd..why here of all places
Why not?!
Because it is basically a swinging /fuck site, I am sure people have fallen in love on here but realistically, when you consider other options it's not the best place to look
It's totally the best place to fall in love because you will fine someone who has a similar attitude to sex on here, someone who is honest and upfront about their sexuality and doesn't need to pretend. Neither of us was looking for a relationship here, when we met up, but both were on and disillusioned with dating sites. None of the men I had met on dating sites were what I was looking for, on the sexual or any other level ... the site is what you make it."
I did say that 'some' people have found love on here, |
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"Finding romance/love on fab, isn't impossible or perhaps even improbable people have done, so I'm not cynical about it
But I'd have to agree with the OP, its when others actively look for it, setting it as a criteria, on a site like this, I've always found that odd..why here of all places
Why not?!
Because it is basically a swinging /fuck site, I am sure people have fallen in love on here but realistically, when you consider other options it's not the best place to look
It's totally the best place to fall in love because you will fine someone who has a similar attitude to sex on here, someone who is honest and upfront about their sexuality and doesn't need to pretend. Neither of us was looking for a relationship here, when we met up, but both were on and disillusioned with dating sites. None of the men I had met on dating sites were what I was looking for, on the sexual or any other level ... the site is what you make it.
I did say that 'some' people have found love on here, "
Was responding to your 'not the best place to look comment' and putting across my POV that I think its quite the opposite ... |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Finding romance/love on fab, isn't impossible or perhaps even improbable people have done, so I'm not cynical about it
But I'd have to agree with the OP, its when others actively look for it, setting it as a criteria, on a site like this, I've always found that odd..why here of all places
Why not?!
Long term fun & friendships.. that I get, though if that happens its a bonus
But looking for long term relationships, making that a main goal and agenda, is overly optimistic, here more than any other site
Even though you may find it or it may find you, inspite of fabs obvious premise "
Well said, the primary reason the 'majority' of guys join fab is to find sex, this is probably different for the 'majority' of women though |
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"Finding romance/love on fab, isn't impossible or perhaps even improbable people have done, so I'm not cynical about it
But I'd have to agree with the OP, its when others actively look for it, setting it as a criteria, on a site like this, I've always found that odd..why here of all places
Why not?!
Because it is basically a swinging /fuck site, I am sure people have fallen in love on here but realistically, when you consider other options it's not the best place to look "
Yes well if all the people looking for sex would bugger off from the dating sites it would be easier to find what you're looking for! |
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"Finding romance/love on fab, isn't impossible or perhaps even improbable people have done, so I'm not cynical about it
But I'd have to agree with the OP, its when others actively look for it, setting it as a criteria, on a site like this, I've always found that odd..why here of all places
Why not?!
Because it is basically a swinging /fuck site, I am sure people have fallen in love on here but realistically, when you consider other options it's not the best place to look
It's totally the best place to fall in love because you will fine someone who has a similar attitude to sex on here, someone who is honest and upfront about their sexuality and doesn't need to pretend. Neither of us was looking for a relationship here, when we met up, but both were on and disillusioned with dating sites. None of the men I had met on dating sites were what I was looking for, on the sexual or any other level ... the site is what you make it.
I did say that 'some' people have found love on here,
Was responding to your 'not the best place to look comment' and putting across my POV that I think its quite the opposite ..."
From your POV it is, from mine it isn't . |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Find it dissapointing that some profilers still don,t seem to get what swinginging is....
We are not here to date nor find a long term partner.
We all have buisy lives, but wish to gratify ones needs with like minded folk. Of which understand the mutual benefits of experimenting and playing outside of usual parimeters.
Feel that to many fabbers expectations are to high and are to easily threatened within there own relationship.
Its not rocket science if you want romance, connection, wining and dining and a potential sole mate use a dating site.
If you simply require and need the extra buzz of physicality without additional bullshit this is the place.
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Thank you for your definition of swinging, OP.
But please do not try to define what other people here are doing. It belittles you and your definition. |
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Why cant people use the site however they want?.As long as people are upfront i dont see the problem.finding partners can happen here as much as anywhere.
Lots still just want nsa fun so pass the others by.
Miss. |
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"Find it dissapointing that some profilers still don,t seem to get what swinginging is....
We are not here to date nor find a long term partner.
We all have buisy lives, but wish to gratify ones needs with like minded folk. Of which understand the mutual benefits of experimenting and playing outside of usual parimeters.
Feel that to many fabbers expectations are to high and are to easily threatened within there own relationship.
Its not rocket science if you want romance, connection, wining and dining and a potential sole mate use a dating site.
If you simply require and need the extra buzz of physicality without additional bullshit this is the place.
Thank you for your definition of swinging, OP.
But please do not try to define what other people here are doing. It belittles you and your definition."
What is your definition of swinging? Just out of interest? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Why cant people use the site however they want?.As long as people are upfront i dont see the problem.finding partners can happen here as much as anywhere.
Lots still just want nsa fun so pass the others by.
Miss."
They can, and thankfully they do, but some people aren't as upfront about their motives for being on here as others |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Find it dissapointing that some profilers still don,t seem to get what swinginging is....
We are not here to date nor find a long term partner.
We all have buisy lives, but wish to gratify ones needs with like minded folk. Of which understand the mutual benefits of experimenting and playing outside of usual parimeters.
Feel that to many fabbers expectations are to high and are to easily threatened within there own relationship.
Its not rocket science if you want romance, connection, wining and dining and a potential sole mate use a dating site.
If you simply require and need the extra buzz of physicality without additional bullshit this is the place.
Thank you for your definition of swinging, OP.
But please do not try to define what other people here are doing. It belittles you and your definition.
What is your definition of swinging? Just out of interest? "
I don't see the need to have one, to be honest. |
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"Why cant people use the site however they want?.As long as people are upfront i dont see the problem.finding partners can happen here as much as anywhere.
Lots still just want nsa fun so pass the others by.
Miss.
They can, and thankfully they do, but some people aren't as upfront about their motives for being on here as others "
Yep people will lie on any internet site though sadly, |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Find it dissapointing that some profilers still don,t seem to get what swinginging is....
We are not here to date nor find a long term partner.
We all have buisy lives, but wish to gratify ones needs with like minded folk. Of which understand the mutual benefits of experimenting and playing outside of usual parimeters.
Feel that to many fabbers expectations are to high and are to easily threatened within there own relationship.
Its not rocket science if you want romance, connection, wining and dining and a potential sole mate use a dating site.
If you simply require and need the extra buzz of physicality without additional bullshit this is the place.
Thank you for your definition of swinging, OP.
But please do not try to define what other people here are doing. It belittles you and your definition.
What is your definition of swinging? Just out of interest?
I don't see the need to have one, to be honest."
So, for arguments sake, is the OP entitled to have his definitions and opinions on how to use the site ? |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Finding romance/love on fab, isn't impossible or perhaps even improbable people have done, so I'm not cynical about it
But I'd have to agree with the OP, its when others actively look for it, setting it as a criteria, on a site like this, I've always found that odd..why here of all places
Why not?!
Long term fun & friendships.. that I get, though if that happens its a bonus
But looking for long term relationships, making that a main goal and agenda, is overly optimistic, here more than any other site
Even though you may find it or it may find you, inspite of fabs obvious premise "
it makes no difference where you look these days...
in my opinion, looking for someone who is more than a FB or a FWB on a swingers site is perfectly acceptable as we are all of the same mindset to begin with...
it is not our fault that certain individuals feel we are narrowing their options by stating what we actually want on our profiles, rather than what they want |
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"Finding romance/love on fab, isn't impossible or perhaps even improbable people have done, so I'm not cynical about it
But I'd have to agree with the OP, its when others actively look for it, setting it as a criteria, on a site like this, I've always found that odd..why here of all places
Why not?!
Because it is basically a swinging /fuck site, I am sure people have fallen in love on here but realistically, when you consider other options it's not the best place to look
It's totally the best place to fall in love because you will fine someone who has a similar attitude to sex on here, someone who is honest and upfront about their sexuality and doesn't need to pretend. Neither of us was looking for a relationship here, when we met up, but both were on and disillusioned with dating sites. None of the men I had met on dating sites were what I was looking for, on the sexual or any other level ... the site is what you make it.
I did say that 'some' people have found love on here,
Was responding to your 'not the best place to look comment' and putting across my POV that I think its quite the opposite ...
From your POV it is, from mine it isn't . "
Is it worth arguing about ....??? You stated your opinion and I stated my experience ... now I remember why I have been giving the forums a wide berth for the past few weeks |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Or how about everyone agrees that people are individuals, use the site in a way that suits them, meets those who suit them and their wants and needs and chooses to live and let live when it comes to those outside their parameters?"
Thank you for putting my own thoughts so eloquently into words
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By *oddyWoman
over a year ago
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"First of all, swinging is wife swapping, singles just shag around lol. and love haribos lolThat is right, the cola bottles are my favourites, whats yours? "
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Finding romance/love on fab, isn't impossible or perhaps even improbable people have done, so I'm not cynical about it
But I'd have to agree with the OP, its when others actively look for it, setting it as a criteria, on a site like this, I've always found that odd..why here of all places
Why not?!
Because it is basically a swinging /fuck site, I am sure people have fallen in love on here but realistically, when you consider other options it's not the best place to look
It's totally the best place to fall in love because you will fine someone who has a similar attitude to sex on here, someone who is honest and upfront about their sexuality and doesn't need to pretend. Neither of us was looking for a relationship here, when we met up, but both were on and disillusioned with dating sites. None of the men I had met on dating sites were what I was looking for, on the sexual or any other level ... the site is what you make it.
I did say that 'some' people have found love on here,
Was responding to your 'not the best place to look comment' and putting across my POV that I think its quite the opposite ...
From your POV it is, from mine it isn't .
Is it worth arguing about ....??? You stated your opinion and I stated my experience ... now I remember why I have been giving the forums a wide berth for the past few weeks"
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Hhhhmm...??
Responces are why i doubt i,ll use the forum again.
Missinterpritation of my statement that predictabley get nasty...
Condicending????? Not sure i,m even capable of this. Thought provoking maybe, and i fully understand everyone,s angle and respect it.
And yes i am single, and yes i,m ok with that.Yes i would like more intimacy, but does,nt everyone...???
I,m not out hook a girlfriend nor steal a fellas girl ( yeah right if that was going to happen)
I just enjoy the female form..... If i were an artist this would be acceptable yet as i,m not that makes me odd and desperate???
Hhhmm ......oh dear.
If have offended i aplogise.
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"Find it dissapointing that some profilers still don,t seem to get what swinginging is....
We are not here to date nor find a long term partner.
We all have buisy lives, but wish to gratify ones needs with like minded folk. Of which understand the mutual benefits of experimenting and playing outside of usual parimeters.
Feel that to many fabbers expectations are to high and are to easily threatened within there own relationship.
Its not rocket science if you want romance, connection, wining and dining and a potential sole mate use a dating site.
If you simply require and need the extra buzz of physicality without additional bullshit this is the place.
Thank you for your definition of swinging, OP.
But please do not try to define what other people here are doing. It belittles you and your definition.
What is your definition of swinging? Just out of interest?
I don't see the need to have one, to be honest.
So, for arguments sake, is the OP entitled to have his definitions and opinions on how to use the site ? "
that's the thing about opinions though, they are not facts, and everyone has their own opinion.
they pretty much mean nothing. |
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"Find it dissapointing that some profilers still don,t seem to get what swinginging is....
We are not here to date nor find a long term partner.
We all have buisy lives, but wish to gratify ones needs with like minded folk. Of which understand the mutual benefits of experimenting and playing outside of usual parimeters.
Feel that to many fabbers expectations are to high and are to easily threatened within there own relationship.
Its not rocket science if you want romance, connection, wining and dining and a potential sole mate use a dating site.
If you simply require and need the extra buzz of physicality without additional bullshit this is the place.
Thank you for your definition of swinging, OP.
But please do not try to define what other people here are doing. It belittles you and your definition.
What is your definition of swinging? Just out of interest?
I don't see the need to have one, to be honest.
So, for arguments sake, is the OP entitled to have his definitions and opinions on how to use the site ?
that's the thing about opinions though, they are not facts, and everyone has their own opinion.
they pretty much mean nothing."
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"Hhhhmm...??
Responces are why i doubt i,ll use the forum again.
Missinterpritation of my statement that predictabley get nasty...
Condicending????? Not sure i,m even capable of this. Thought provoking maybe, and i fully understand everyone,s angle and respect it.
And yes i am single, and yes i,m ok with that.Yes i would like more intimacy, but does,nt everyone...???
I,m not out hook a girlfriend nor steal a fellas girl ( yeah right if that was going to happen)
I just enjoy the female form..... If i were an artist this would be acceptable yet as i,m not that makes me odd and desperate???
Hhhmm ......oh dear.
If have offended i aplogise.
"
I think, Op, your tone came across not how you intended .... |
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over a year ago
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"Find it dissapointing that some profilers still don,t seem to get what swinginging is....
We are not here to date nor find a long term partner.
We all have buisy lives, but wish to gratify ones needs with like minded folk. Of which understand the mutual benefits of experimenting and playing outside of usual parimeters.
Feel that to many fabbers expectations are to high and are to easily threatened within there own relationship.
Its not rocket science if you want romance, connection, wining and dining and a potential sole mate use a dating site.
If you simply require and need the extra buzz of physicality without additional bullshit this is the place.
Thank you for your definition of swinging, OP.
But please do not try to define what other people here are doing. It belittles you and your definition.
What is your definition of swinging? Just out of interest?
I don't see the need to have one, to be honest.
So, for arguments sake, is the OP entitled to have his definitions and opinions on how to use the site ? "
He is welcome to his opinions.
What he is looking for is quite simply that.
What he should not do is to try to impose his wants and needs on others. That is narrow-minded. |
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"Find it dissapointing that some profilers still don,t seem to get what swinginging is....
We are not here to date nor find a long term partner.
We all have buisy lives, but wish to gratify ones needs with like minded folk. Of which understand the mutual benefits of experimenting and playing outside of usual parimeters.
Feel that to many fabbers expectations are to high and are to easily threatened within there own relationship.
Its not rocket science if you want romance, connection, wining and dining and a potential sole mate use a dating site.
If you simply require and need the extra buzz of physicality without additional bullshit this is the place.
Thank you for your definition of swinging, OP.
But please do not try to define what other people here are doing. It belittles you and your definition.
What is your definition of swinging? Just out of interest?
I don't see the need to have one, to be honest.
So, for arguments sake, is the OP entitled to have his definitions and opinions on how to use the site ?
that's the thing about opinions though, they are not facts, and everyone has their own opinion.
they pretty much mean nothing.
Then these forums are pointless "
well yeah of course they are in a sense that if people are giving their opinion and expecting that to become law/rules.
for just general chit chat and sharing of information it is quite useful. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Find it dissapointing that some profilers still don,t seem to get what swinginging is....
We are not here to date nor find a long term partner.
We all have buisy lives, but wish to gratify ones needs with like minded folk. Of which understand the mutual benefits of experimenting and playing outside of usual parimeters.
Feel that to many fabbers expectations are to high and are to easily threatened within there own relationship.
Its not rocket science if you want romance, connection, wining and dining and a potential sole mate use a dating site.
If you simply require and need the extra buzz of physicality without additional bullshit this is the place.
Thank you for your definition of swinging, OP.
But please do not try to define what other people here are doing. It belittles you and your definition.
What is your definition of swinging? Just out of interest?
I don't see the need to have one, to be honest.
So, for arguments sake, is the OP entitled to have his definitions and opinions on how to use the site ?
that's the thing about opinions though, they are not facts, and everyone has their own opinion.
they pretty much mean nothing.
Then these forums are pointless "
Pretty much. They are just somewhere to express an opinion, get something off your chest or to while away a little time in between other more important things in your life.
It's the wrong place to change the world from.
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Find it dissapointing that some profilers still don,t seem to get what swinginging is....
We are not here to date nor find a long term partner.
We all have buisy lives, but wish to gratify ones needs with like minded folk. Of which understand the mutual benefits of experimenting and playing outside of usual parimeters.
Feel that to many fabbers expectations are to high and are to easily threatened within there own relationship.
Its not rocket science if you want romance, connection, wining and dining and a potential sole mate use a dating site.
If you simply require and need the extra buzz of physicality without additional bullshit this is the place.
Thank you for your definition of swinging, OP.
But please do not try to define what other people here are doing. It belittles you and your definition.
What is your definition of swinging? Just out of interest?
I don't see the need to have one, to be honest.
So, for arguments sake, is the OP entitled to have his definitions and opinions on how to use the site ?
He is welcome to his opinions.
What he is looking for is quite simply that.
What he should not do is to try to impose his wants and needs on others. That is narrow-minded."
Has he done that? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Find it dissapointing that some profilers still don,t seem to get what swinginging is....
We are not here to date nor find a long term partner.
We all have buisy lives, but wish to gratify ones needs with like minded folk. Of which understand the mutual benefits of experimenting and playing outside of usual parimeters.
Feel that to many fabbers expectations are to high and are to easily threatened within there own relationship.
Its not rocket science if you want romance, connection, wining and dining and a potential sole mate use a dating site.
If you simply require and need the extra buzz of physicality without additional bullshit this is the place.
Thank you for your definition of swinging, OP.
But please do not try to define what other people here are doing. It belittles you and your definition.
What is your definition of swinging? Just out of interest?
I don't see the need to have one, to be honest.
So, for arguments sake, is the OP entitled to have his definitions and opinions on how to use the site ?
that's the thing about opinions though, they are not facts, and everyone has their own opinion.
they pretty much mean nothing.
Then these forums are pointless
Pretty much. They are just somewhere to express an opinion, get something off your chest or to while away a little time in between other more important things in your life.
It's the wrong place to change the world from.
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"Find it dissapointing that some profilers still don,t seem to get what swinginging is....
We are not here to date nor find a long term partner.
We all have buisy lives, but wish to gratify ones needs with like minded folk. Of which understand the mutual benefits of experimenting and playing outside of usual parimeters.
Feel that to many fabbers expectations are to high and are to easily threatened within there own relationship.
Its not rocket science if you want romance, connection, wining and dining and a potential sole mate use a dating site.
If you simply require and need the extra buzz of physicality without additional bullshit this is the place.
Thank you for your definition of swinging, OP.
But please do not try to define what other people here are doing. It belittles you and your definition.
What is your definition of swinging? Just out of interest?
I don't see the need to have one, to be honest.
So, for arguments sake, is the OP entitled to have his definitions and opinions on how to use the site ?
He is welcome to his opinions.
What he is looking for is quite simply that.
What he should not do is to try to impose his wants and needs on others. That is narrow-minded.
Has he done that? "
Yes. |
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over a year ago
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"Find it dissapointing that some profilers still don,t seem to get what swinginging is....
We are not here to date nor find a long term partner.
We all have buisy lives, but wish to gratify ones needs with like minded folk. Of which understand the mutual benefits of experimenting and playing outside of usual parimeters.
Feel that to many fabbers expectations are to high and are to easily threatened within there own relationship.
Its not rocket science if you want romance, connection, wining and dining and a potential sole mate use a dating site.
If you simply require and need the extra buzz of physicality without additional bullshit this is the place.
Thank you for your definition of swinging, OP.
But please do not try to define what other people here are doing. It belittles you and your definition.
What is your definition of swinging? Just out of interest?
I don't see the need to have one, to be honest.
So, for arguments sake, is the OP entitled to have his definitions and opinions on how to use the site ?
He is welcome to his opinions.
What he is looking for is quite simply that.
What he should not do is to try to impose his wants and needs on others. That is narrow-minded.
Has he done that?
Yes."
That is your opinion, not mine so who is correct?We are going round in circles here , feir was spot on with her discription of the forums |
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over a year ago
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"I wish there was a dating site for men with large penis' these a dating subsection on LPSG but it's mainly an American site. "
I call bull on that plus the site ur on about if you knew anything is primarily a forum that offers support and isn't used for dating as 99.9% of guys on there have wives/gf's/bf's also try googling big dick dating sites |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Find it dissapointing that some profilers still don,t seem to get what swinginging is....
We are not here to date nor find a long term partner.
We all have buisy lives, but wish to gratify ones needs with like minded folk. Of which understand the mutual benefits of experimenting and playing outside of usual parimeters.
Feel that to many fabbers expectations are to high and are to easily threatened within there own relationship.
Its not rocket science if you want romance, connection, wining and dining and a potential sole mate use a dating site.
If you simply require and need the extra buzz of physicality without additional bullshit this is the place.
Thank you for your definition of swinging, OP.
But please do not try to define what other people here are doing. It belittles you and your definition.
What is your definition of swinging? Just out of interest?
I don't see the need to have one, to be honest.
So, for arguments sake, is the OP entitled to have his definitions and opinions on how to use the site ?
He is welcome to his opinions.
What he is looking for is quite simply that.
What he should not do is to try to impose his wants and needs on others. That is narrow-minded.
Has he done that?
Yes.
That is your opinion, not mine so who is correct?We are going round in circles here , feir was spot on with her discription of the forums "
Well, we will have to agree to disagree.
However, with a first sentence which includes a jibe against "people who don't know what swinging is," I will stick with my interpretation.
Narrow-minded and trying to impose his own desires on others.
You stick with your interpretation.
I am open-minded like that. |
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"Find it dissapointing that some profilers still don,t seem to get what swinginging is....
We are not here to date nor find a long term partner.
We all have buisy lives, but wish to gratify ones needs with like minded folk. Of which understand the mutual benefits of experimenting and playing outside of usual parimeters.
Feel that to many fabbers expectations are to high and are to easily threatened within there own relationship.
Its not rocket science if you want romance, connection, wining and dining and a potential sole mate use a dating site.
If you simply require and need the extra buzz of physicality without additional bullshit this is the place.
Thank you for your definition of swinging, OP.
But please do not try to define what other people here are doing. It belittles you and your definition.
What is your definition of swinging? Just out of interest?
I don't see the need to have one, to be honest.
So, for arguments sake, is the OP entitled to have his definitions and opinions on how to use the site ?
He is welcome to his opinions.
What he is looking for is quite simply that.
What he should not do is to try to impose his wants and needs on others. That is narrow-minded.
Has he done that?
Yes.
That is your opinion, not mine so who is correct?We are going round in circles here , feir was spot on with her discription of the forums
Well, we will have to agree to disagree.
However, with a first sentence which includes a jibe against "people who don't know what swinging is," I will stick with my interpretation.
Narrow-minded and trying to impose his own desires on others.
You stick with your interpretation.
I am open-minded like that."
Excellent, so I am right, and you are wrong, in my opinion , |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Hhhhmm...??
Responces are why i doubt i,ll use the forum again.
Missinterpritation of my statement that predictabley get nasty...
Condicending????? Not sure i,m even capable of this. Thought provoking maybe, and i fully understand everyone,s angle and respect it.
And yes i am single, and yes i,m ok with that.Yes i would like more intimacy, but does,nt everyone...???
I,m not out hook a girlfriend nor steal a fellas girl ( yeah right if that was going to happen)
I just enjoy the female form..... If i were an artist this would be acceptable yet as i,m not that makes me odd and desperate???
Hhhmm ......oh dear.
If have offended i aplogise.
"
Your original post clearly TELLS people to use another site for stuff other than what you consider swinging.
If you post a thread like it expect to get slated. If you can't take the replies don't post stuff like it in first place.
So
Hmmmmmmm to you too.
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Find it dissapointing that some profilers still don,t seem to get what swinginging is....
We are not here to date nor find a long term partner.
We all have buisy lives, but wish to gratify ones needs with like minded folk. Of which understand the mutual benefits of experimenting and playing outside of usual parimeters.
Feel that to many fabbers expectations are to high and are to easily threatened within there own relationship.
Its not rocket science if you want romance, connection, wining and dining and a potential sole mate use a dating site.
If you simply require and need the extra buzz of physicality without additional bullshit this is the place.
Thank you for your definition of swinging, OP.
But please do not try to define what other people here are doing. It belittles you and your definition.
What is your definition of swinging? Just out of interest?
I don't see the need to have one, to be honest.
So, for arguments sake, is the OP entitled to have his definitions and opinions on how to use the site ?
He is welcome to his opinions.
What he is looking for is quite simply that.
What he should not do is to try to impose his wants and needs on others. That is narrow-minded.
Has he done that?
Yes.
That is your opinion, not mine so who is correct?We are going round in circles here , feir was spot on with her discription of the forums
Well, we will have to agree to disagree.
However, with a first sentence which includes a jibe against "people who don't know what swinging is," I will stick with my interpretation.
Narrow-minded and trying to impose his own desires on others.
You stick with your interpretation.
I am open-minded like that.
Excellent, so I am right, and you are wrong, in my opinion , "
Yes. If that is what you choose to believe.
It was text on a screen. People have the right to interpret it differently. |
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"I like "swinginging" in the OP.
May I propose that we adopt it to distinguish swinging in the traditional sense as described in the OP?
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Nah Nik cos..... People who like swinging are swingers so people who like swinginging would be swingingingers...... No way am I being a Swinging Ginger! |
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"I wish there was a dating site for men with large penis' these a dating subsection on LPSG but it's mainly an American site.
I call bull on that plus the site ur on about if you knew anything is primarily a forum that offers support and isn't used for dating as 99.9% of guys on there have wives/gf's/bf's also try googling big dick dating sites "
Call bull on what, me wishing there was a big penis dating site!? Oh and I'm a moderator on large penis support group and have been for many years, do you have any idea how much spam a site like that attracts. |
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"Find it dissapointing that some profilers still don,t seem to get what swinginging is....
We are not here to date nor find a long term partner.
We all have buisy lives, but wish to gratify ones needs with like minded folk. Of which understand the mutual benefits of experimenting and playing outside of usual parimeters.
Feel that to many fabbers expectations are to high and are to easily threatened within there own relationship.
Its not rocket science if you want romance, connection, wining and dining and a potential sole mate use a dating site.
If you simply require and need the extra buzz of physicality without additional bullshit this is the place.
"
Everyone is using this site for their own interpretation of swinging. If yours matches others then great if it doesn't, move along the next. |
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"Find it dissapointing that some profilers still don,t seem to get what swinginging is....
We are not here to date nor find a long term partner.
We all have buisy lives, but wish to gratify ones needs with like minded folk. Of which understand the mutual benefits of experimenting and playing outside of usual parimeters.
Feel that to many fabbers expectations are to high and are to easily threatened within there own relationship.
Its not rocket science if you want romance, connection, wining and dining and a potential sole mate use a dating site.
If you simply require and need the extra buzz of physicality without additional bullshit this is the place.
"
How boring. Is there no third way? |
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"Find it dissapointing that some profilers still don,t seem to get what swinginging is....
We are not here to date nor find a long term partner.
We all have buisy lives, but wish to gratify ones needs with like minded folk. Of which understand the mutual benefits of experimenting and playing outside of usual parimeters.
Feel that to many fabbers expectations are to high and are to easily threatened within there own relationship.
Its not rocket science if you want romance, connection, wining and dining and a potential sole mate use a dating site.
If you simply require and need the extra buzz of physicality without additional bullshit this is the place.
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Speak for yourself. Who made you Lord of everyone on here? |
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"I like "swinginging" in the OP.
May I propose that we adopt it to distinguish swinging in the traditional sense as described in the OP?
Nah Nik cos..... People who like swinging are swingers so people who like swinginging would be swingingingers...... No way am I being a Swinging Ginger!"
Add whingers to that and we'd have a right old tongue twister |
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"People use the site and define swinging for what suits them. I don't think many people like to be dictated to as to how they should use the site or that they are doing it all wrong .... good luck with your search."
so true' we all have our own kinks different reasons why we are on fab'
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"Hhhhmm...??
Responces are why i doubt i,ll use the forum again.
Missinterpritation of my statement that predictabley get nasty...
Condicending????? Not sure i,m even capable of this. Thought provoking maybe, and i fully understand everyone,s angle and respect it.
And yes i am single, and yes i,m ok with that.Yes i would like more intimacy, but does,nt everyone...???
I,m not out hook a girlfriend nor steal a fellas girl ( yeah right if that was going to happen)
I just enjoy the female form..... If i were an artist this would be acceptable yet as i,m not that makes me odd and desperate???
Hhhmm ......oh dear.
If have offended i aplogise.
"
Some people also like the female contents. Having a friendship is not forbidden, is it? Or maybe is wanting to be treated with respect illegal? You like the form but do not care about the person. Some are happy with that, others prefer being treated a certain way. Are you saying we should all juat meet a stranger out of the blue, jump on him /her, show as little emotion as possible and then chuck them out with the words "off you go"?
How many women have you mET through this site? I think it is safe to assume that they did not share your outlook and that in your books giving someone a hand out of the car or buying them a drink or lunch is the same as an exclusive relationship. |
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"I wish there was a dating site for men with large penis' these a dating subsection on LPSG but it's mainly an American site.
I call bull on that plus the site ur on about if you knew anything is primarily a forum that offers support and isn't used for dating as 99.9% of guys on there have wives/gf's/bf's also try googling big dick dating sites
Call bull on what, me wishing there was a big penis dating site!? Oh and I'm a moderator on large penis support group and have been for many years, do you have any idea how much spam a site like that attracts. "
If u r infact a mod on lpsg u would be on the staff members list of which there are only 5 3 guys 2 females. One of which is an American and the other a German plus there is no new mods |
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"I wish there was a dating site for men with large penis' these a dating subsection on LPSG but it's mainly an American site.
I call bull on that plus the site ur on about if you knew anything is primarily a forum that offers support and isn't used for dating as 99.9% of guys on there have wives/gf's/bf's also try googling big dick dating sites
Call bull on what, me wishing there was a big penis dating site!? Oh and I'm a moderator on large penis support group and have been for many years, do you have any idea how much spam a site like that attracts.
If u r infact a mod on lpsg u would be on the staff members list of which there are only 5 3 guys 2 females. One of which is an American and the other a German plus there is no new mods"
I'm not a new mod and they don't list moderators. Founders and admin yes but not mods. What the fuck has this got to do with anything anyway you weirdo, you've just decided to pick apart my throwaway meaningless comment earlier and deliberately try starting an argument. Go and finger yourself, let off some steam. |
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"I wish there was a dating site for men with large penis' these a dating subsection on LPSG but it's mainly an American site.
I call bull on that plus the site ur on about if you knew anything is primarily a forum that offers support and isn't used for dating as 99.9% of guys on there have wives/gf's/bf's also try googling big dick dating sites
Call bull on what, me wishing there was a big penis dating site!? Oh and I'm a moderator on large penis support group and have been for many years, do you have any idea how much spam a site like that attracts.
If u r infact a mod on lpsg u would be on the staff members list of which there are only 5 3 guys 2 females. One of which is an American and the other a German plus there is no new mods
I'm not a new mod and they don't list moderators. Founders and admin yes but not mods. What the fuck has this got to do with anything anyway you weirdo, you've just decided to pick apart my throwaway meaningless comment earlier and deliberately try starting an argument. Go and finger yourself, let off some steam. "
I was pointing out the fact they do not have a dating section on that site actually ur the one who started the fight i also told u HOW to find big dick dating sites also i do knw how that site works and the owner of said site is the only admin the rest are mods. if u dont believe i suggest u go to the members section and scroll down |
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"I wish there was a dating site for men with large penis' these a dating subsection on LPSG but it's mainly an American site.
I call bull on that plus the site ur on about if you knew anything is primarily a forum that offers support and isn't used for dating as 99.9% of guys on there have wives/gf's/bf's also try googling big dick dating sites
Call bull on what, me wishing there was a big penis dating site!? Oh and I'm a moderator on large penis support group and have been for many years, do you have any idea how much spam a site like that attracts.
If u r infact a mod on lpsg u would be on the staff members list of which there are only 5 3 guys 2 females. One of which is an American and the other a German plus there is no new mods
I'm not a new mod and they don't list moderators. Founders and admin yes but not mods. What the fuck has this got to do with anything anyway you weirdo, you've just decided to pick apart my throwaway meaningless comment earlier and deliberately try starting an argument. Go and finger yourself, let off some steam. "
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"I wish there was a dating site for men with large penis' these a dating subsection on LPSG but it's mainly an American site.
I call bull on that plus the site ur on about if you knew anything is primarily a forum that offers support and isn't used for dating as 99.9% of guys on there have wives/gf's/bf's also try googling big dick dating sites
Call bull on what, me wishing there was a big penis dating site!? Oh and I'm a moderator on large penis support group and have been for many years, do you have any idea how much spam a site like that attracts.
If u r infact a mod on lpsg u would be on the staff members list of which there are only 5 3 guys 2 females. One of which is an American and the other a German plus there is no new mods
I'm not a new mod and they don't list moderators. Founders and admin yes but not mods. What the fuck has this got to do with anything anyway you weirdo, you've just decided to pick apart my throwaway meaningless comment earlier and deliberately try starting an argument. Go and finger yourself, let off some steam.
I was pointing out the fact they do not have a dating section on that site actually ur the one who started the fight i also told u HOW to find big dick dating sites also i do knw how that site works and the owner of said site is the only admin the rest are mods. if u dont believe i suggest u go to the members section and scroll down"
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Let me see.
Single met someone at a club got into a relationship = check
Subscription Dating site, got constant offers of fuck buddies = check
Seems that people all over just don't understand YOUR definition for what's correct where.
Or maybe you just let us all enjoy any site how we like
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Let me see.
Single met someone at a club got into a relationship = check
Subscription Dating site, got constant offers of fuck buddies = check
Seems that people all over just don't understand YOUR definition for what's correct where.
Or maybe you just let us all enjoy any site how we like
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"Finding romance/love on fab, isn't impossible or perhaps even improbable people have done, so I'm not cynical about it
But I'd have to agree with the OP, its when others actively look for it, setting it as a criteria, on a site like this, I've always found that odd..why here of all places "
I found my Ex on here, I was his first meet, we fell in love and were together 2 Years. We split last year and I'm back to have fun, it was never my intention to fund a relationship it just kinda happened. You can't stop romance if it happens xxx |
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"I wish there was a dating site for men with large penis' these a dating subsection on LPSG but it's mainly an American site.
I call bull on that plus the site ur on about if you knew anything is primarily a forum that offers support and isn't used for dating as 99.9% of guys on there have wives/gf's/bf's also try googling big dick dating sites
Call bull on what, me wishing there was a big penis dating site!? Oh and I'm a moderator on large penis support group and have been for many years, do you have any idea how much spam a site like that attracts.
If u r infact a mod on lpsg u would be on the staff members list of which there are only 5 3 guys 2 females. One of which is an American and the other a German plus there is no new mods
I'm not a new mod and they don't list moderators. Founders and admin yes but not mods. What the fuck has this got to do with anything anyway you weirdo, you've just decided to pick apart my throwaway meaningless comment earlier and deliberately try starting an argument. Go and finger yourself, let off some steam.
I was pointing out the fact they do not have a dating section on that site actually ur the one who started the fight i also told u HOW to find big dick dating sites also i do knw how that site works and the owner of said site is the only admin the rest are mods. if u dont believe i suggest u go to the members section and scroll down"
Right so they don't have threads where dating takes place, and most of these threads that arrange the date nights are in America are they not? Also there are 6 members of staff listed, founders and admin. A list of mods are not made public a bit like here. Believe me don't believe I really don't give a fuck, all I know is that for the last 7 or so years when I actually do go on there, I remove any spam, penis pumps, lotions, potions, promoting chalis or any other types of spam. Again why you felt like you needed to jump on something so small and irrelevant is fucking beyond me like. |
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"Find it dissapointing that some profilers still don,t seem to get what swinginging is....
We are not here to date nor find a long term partner.
We all have buisy lives, but wish to gratify ones needs with like minded folk. Of which understand the mutual benefits of experimenting and playing outside of usual parimeters.
Feel that to many fabbers expectations are to high and are to easily threatened within there own relationship.
Its not rocket science if you want romance, connection, wining and dining and a potential sole mate use a dating site.
If you simply require and need the extra buzz of physicality without additional bullshit this is the place.
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Why is it some people choose to pontificate to others about what is and isn't swinging, and then designate, legislate and regulate what the rest of the world does, measured and based on their own parameters.
If you don't like what other people do, ignore them and concentrate on what you like and find people who like the same.
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It's totally the best place to fall in love because you will fine someone who has a similar attitude to sex on here, someone who is honest and upfront about their sexuality and doesn't need to pretend. Neither of us was looking for a relationship here, when we met up, but both were on and disillusioned with dating sites. None of the men I had met on dating sites were what I was looking for, on the sexual or any other level ... the site is what you make it."
Wouldn't dispute that fabs, a good place to find love, for all the reasons you've mentioned...you and your partner came to fab without expectations of finding a relationship, and BAM...it landed in your laps, so to speak
THAT, I understand... but yep, fabs a broad church, use it however
...but I still maintain LOOKING for love on here is weird  |
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It's totally the best place to fall in love because you will fine someone who has a similar attitude to sex on here, someone who is honest and upfront about their sexuality and doesn't need to pretend. Neither of us was looking for a relationship here, when we met up, but both were on and disillusioned with dating sites. None of the men I had met on dating sites were what I was looking for, on the sexual or any other level ... the site is what you make it.
Wouldn't dispute that fabs, a good place to find love, for all the reasons you've mentioned...you and your partner came to fab without expectations of finding a relationship, and BAM...it landed in your laps, so to speak
THAT, I understand... but yep, fabs a broad church, use it however
...but I still maintain LOOKING for love on here is weird "
It's not a good place to look for it, but it's a good place to find it ... does that make sense? |
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It's totally the best place to fall in love because you will fine someone who has a similar attitude to sex on here, someone who is honest and upfront about their sexuality and doesn't need to pretend. Neither of us was looking for a relationship here, when we met up, but both were on and disillusioned with dating sites. None of the men I had met on dating sites were what I was looking for, on the sexual or any other level ... the site is what you make it.
Wouldn't dispute that fabs, a good place to find love, for all the reasons you've mentioned...you and your partner came to fab without expectations of finding a relationship, and BAM...it landed in your laps, so to speak
THAT, I understand... but yep, fabs a broad church, use it however
...but I still maintain LOOKING for love on here is weird "
I don't think people are specifically looking for  on here...they are looking for something a little more than just a FB or a FWB and that is entirely up to them....
I say the same on my profile and I can assure you it's not just women who are looking for something more, judging by the amount of mail I get from men in a similar position |
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It's totally the best place to fall in love because you will fine someone who has a similar attitude to sex on here, someone who is honest and upfront about their sexuality and doesn't need to pretend. Neither of us was looking for a relationship here, when we met up, but both were on and disillusioned with dating sites. None of the men I had met on dating sites were what I was looking for, on the sexual or any other level ... the site is what you make it.
Wouldn't dispute that fabs, a good place to find love, for all the reasons you've mentioned...you and your partner came to fab without expectations of finding a relationship, and BAM...it landed in your laps, so to speak
THAT, I understand... but yep, fabs a broad church, use it however
...but I still maintain LOOKING for love on here is weird
It's not a good place to look for it, but it's a good place to find it ... does that make sense?"
Yes..serendipity, I think the word is...unexpected good fortune
On fab I can understand how that could happen |
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