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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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right well, i got together with this american lass who was living here, we were together for 2 years but then she had to move back to america.
i love her but im not going to see her except maybe once a year, untill im able to move over there.
what i want to know is what people think about me being on a site like this, she doesnt know about it and i doubt she will be doing anything like this over there. i have had a couple of meets, i tend to feel quite guilty after them.
do you think i should just stop and wait for her or do you think its ok as shes over there?
any help would be appreiciated thank you.
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Not my place to say mate only u know how u feel. If ur feelin guilty then come off here but if u can live wiv ur self then stay
it's a long distance relatiosip very long dist wil she stay faithful? |
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By *iewMan
over a year ago
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"Ultimately your choice.
My opinion, give it up and be true to her.
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but if you stay, be honest on your profile so as to allow informed choices to be made by all parties.
good luck |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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haha aye she has nice teeth. shes honestly got nice everything, shes well more than i thought i would ever get.
yeah im probs just gonna quit this.
might stay on just to keep in touch with a few folk but no meets for me now lol |
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You'll carry on doing this regardless and notwithstanding what any one else says, if you really thought this was wrong you wouldn't even consider doing it in the first place.Just a quick question, how would you feel if you founs out she was shagging all and sundry? You know what you'll end up doing so whatever is said here is moot  Z |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"haha aye she has nice teeth. shes honestly got nice everything, shes well more than i thought i would ever get.
yeah im probs just gonna quit this.
might stay on just to keep in touch with a few folk but no meets for me now lol"
you must do whats wright for you ......... and be true to youself . |
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I've just had a quick peep at your profile, thought you must be a little older if you were seeing her for 2 years and she's gone back to the US - bit gobsmacked now as you just seem too young to be having these kinds of dilemas - imoo imust add! Z |
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"You're 19, been with your girl for two years but you've already been on site a year and meeting?
When did she return to the States exactly?  "
I'm glad we're on the same wavelength, made me wonder too, Z |
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"she moved back last february"
Like in February 2010?
I can't help you with advice on what you should do, only you can decide what to do.
I can say that had I stayed on the path I was on at 19 I'd have been married and divorced with a couple of kids in tow now no doubt. You're young enough to do whatever the hell you like and not have too many worries about it really. You should probably be having this conversation with your chick though. What does she want? |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"i tend to feel quite guilty after them".
And there's your answer. My two penn'orth as an old fart and for what it's worth is that the guilt will eventually destroy whatever relationship you have. As other posters have said be true to yourself and do the right thing by your girlfreind whatever you decide that might be. No easy answers I'm afraid |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"haha aye she has nice teeth. shes honestly got nice everything, shes well more than i thought i would ever get.
yeah im probs just gonna quit this.
might stay on just to keep in touch with a few folk but no meets for me now lol"
you could have quite easily asked her to leave her teeth behind. you could have looked at them every night when you where on fab perving then |
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